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My BF doesn't pay me any attention


My BF and I have been going out for nearly four months. The thing is, I don’t really like him anymore. He never talks to me, just other girls! I’m breaking up with him, but I’m not sure when or how or what to say.   HIS ANSWER: “If he’s showing more interest in other girls, that is a clear sign that he’s not into the relationship either. The best thing to do is be honest and tell him how you feel. Maybe you two should explore other possibilities.”   DECODED: If your BF’s paying other girls more attention, it’s not the way he should be treating you, and he probably has some doubts about your relationship. Talk to him and decide whether or not you should take a break.  
YOUR MOVE: Rather than dragging this out, be upfront and don’t put it off. Let your BF know how you feel and make sure you listen to him, too. If you choose to break up, just tell him you don’t feel that this is working and you think it would be best for you to follow your own path. 
Be sure to explain that you don’t appreciate the way he only pays attention to other girls, and that you deserve better. Break ups are never easy, but if you’re honest and not mean about it, it should go smoothly. 
by Kristen Yeung | 2/1/2016
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