CRUSHES

Dating

Is my crush using me?


I think my crush is using me to get another girl jealous, but I'm not completely sure. He only talks to me when the other girl is with me, and other then that, he ignores me. Plus, I am definitely not as pretty as her.

Hey, cutie, believe it or not, not all boys go for looks when it comes to the girls they like! But if your crush is ignoring you when you're not with the other girl, he sounds like a shallow boy who is def not worth your time. If he pays more attention to the other girl when you're with her, don't let it get you down. Move on from this crush because you deserve someone better. 

There is a chance, though, that he's just shy and might not be comfortable talking to you alone. Give it some time and look for other signs that he may like you. Does he have in-depth conversations with you, or do you usually chat about things like school or the weather? He might like you if he makes an effort to talk to you about anything and everything. If you get the feeling that he is just shy, make more of an effort to talk to him alone. Ask him for help with math, or catch him at the end of the day before he leaves his locker.

You might think that this girl is prettier than you, but don't let that bring down your confidence! Boys are drawn to girls that like themselves, so wear clothes that you feel great in and project a good vibe when you talk to him (or any other cuties you crush on). Make eye contact, speak clearly, and don't forget to smile! 

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by Rachel Nugent | 2/1/2016
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