Have to pick between BF and BFFs? Here's how to fix that sitch...
I never have as much fun with my boyfriend as I do with my girls. My boyfriend doesn't want to hang with my friends, and get really upset about it, because I always have to choose between my friends or my boyfriend! HELP please!!!
Hey girl! All relationships go through dull patches—it sounds like you’re getting bored or you’re just changing. If you begin to dread hanging out with him, it may be time to rethink your relationship. But it is totally normal because a relationship is something that is constantly changing and needs work to maintain.
Figure out why you guys started dating in the first place. Maybe it’s that he always listens to your problems or you both really love soccer. If you can figure out why you guys really click and can reconnect on something as simple as that, then everything should get back on track. Also, try going on some fun dates instead of doing what you normally do. It can spice up a routine date to make to more exciting.
As for hanging with your BF and your friends, make sure you’re open with him and tell him how you’re feeling. Tell him that you don’t like having to choose, and that you’d love it if you could all just hang out, even just once. If you let him know you’re down because he doesn’t wanna hang out with your friends, he may surprise you and come around. Sometimes you have to compromise, and the best relationships are those where one person does something for the other to make that person happy.