The Scoop: Is your flirty crush into you or just playin'?
My crush knows I like him, but he hasn't asked me out, even though he totally flirts with me. Why?
His Answer: “It’s most likely a confidence issue, if he’s obviously flirting back. Stick it out and he’ll come around,” says Corey S., 15. “But there is the small chance he could just be playing you.”
Decoded: Good news! More often than not, when a guy flirts he means it. It sounds like they wouldn’t take the time to do it if they weren’t interested. He’s only wary because of his lack of confidence. Guys want to make sure you like them, too! But, there is some bad news. Some guys are just plain old players. They flirt just for the game. Not cool!
Your move: Keep flirting! Give him some sure signals you’re into him. That means toning down the eye batting with the other cutie at the weekend bash. This assures him you both feel the same way and should give him the confidence he needs to act on his feelings. If these tricks don’t seem to work and he talks with every girl in the hallway, he might be a player. Shrug it off! Even if it didn’t work out-a little flirting practice can’t do any harm. Simply catch the eye of a new guy.
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