I have a crush on an ugly and nerdy guy. I don’t want to
tell anyone, because I’m really popular and it will ruin my reputation. I don’t
even know why I like him but I’ve been watching him over the last couple of
weeks and I think he and I would be a perfect match.
First off, it’s great that you are open to dating people you
would not usually date. But, let’s be real: your popularity shouldn’t matter if
you really like this guy. As long as you’re happy, then it’s easy to tune out
pesky gossip. Besides, shouldn’t your friends be stoked you found a guy you
dig? If not, they’ll have to learn how to deal.
Talking to him is the first step to see if he’s right for
you. You might find, as you become friends with him, that he’s a considerate guy
and that’s why you like him. Enjoy spending time with him, and don’t let social
rankings define your feelings for him.