The guy I like is my friend, and he is
always telling me that no guy is good enough for me. Should I be reading
something into that?"
His Answer: “If the relationship is like brother-sister, he is just being
protective. But if it is a normal friendship, then the girl should be like who
is good enough for me/ what qualities should he have. Let your true
feelings show, and he'll get the hint.” – Yohnny R., 17
Decoded: It all depends on your relationship. He could just think you are one
awesome chick that deserves the best, kind of like how an older brother might
react to you having a BF. Or maybe he thinks that the “best” could be him. Is
he your BGF that you’ve known forever, or just one of your normal guy friends?
Your Move: Next time he says something like that, test the waters, ask him what
kind of guy is good enough for you. When he starts to describe the perfect guy
for you, ask him if he is talking about someone like him. There isn’t a better
way to find out what he truly thinks than having him tell you himself. Get up
the courage to reveal how you feel about him, and he will too.