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Help! Everyone's bashing my BF


Almost everyone hates on my BF. They talk bad about him, and make up horrible rumors to make me break up with him. I don't believe them, and my parents and friends don't believe these rumors either and think he is an okay kid. What do I do?
 
That's a tough sitch. Luckily, your friends and fam don't believe the horrible rumors about your BF. If the people who trust and love you aren't concerned, then don't worry too much. It's great that you're surrounding yourself with a support network of friends and family who you can confide in and with whom you can discuss the hurtful rumors.

If you haven't talked to your BF about the rumors, you should consider bringing it up. Ask him if he's heard people saying untrue things. Assure him you don't believe they're true and let him know that it bothers you that people would tell lies about him. It's okay to ask him to confirm that the rumors aren't true too. Discussing your feelings with your BF will make you feel better.

Now all that's left to do is hold your head high and ignore those nasty comments. Take comfort in knowing that your BF, your BFFs and your fam have got your back. Best of luck!

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by Karin Elwood | 2/1/2016
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