The Dirt: Are you reading too much into his signals?
I was waiting after school and this guy from my orchestra came up to me and kept saying, "Man, I need a girlfriend." Does this mean he likes me? Or is he just so desperate that he needs to complain to someone?
His Answer: “It really depends on the guy’s personality. If the boy is known as a complainer, then he’s probably just living up to his reputation. If he’s known for being more direct, then he may be coming on to you.” – John, 16
Decoded: What is this guy usually like? Because it sounds like this guy could be hinting at something else, like that you could fill the GF role, or maybe he’s just venting because he’s just a little bit desperate.
Your Move: I, personally, don’t think this guy is giving you much to go on. If he really wants to ask you out—or wants you to ask him out—he will be really obvious about it. Look to see if he is flirting and check out his body language to get a better idea of what he’s thinking.
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