There’s this boy I like, and he doesn’t plan on going
to any dances. I haven’t gone to any either, but, it’s because of not
being able to be picked up. He is a really sweet boy, and I really like
him! I don’t know what else to turn to. I don’t think he has an email
address, and I’m not allowed to get boys’ phone numbers yet. He is a
real fun-loving boy, and how am I supposed to ask him?
This isn’t really related to the subject, but, every time something
unexpected is said by the teachers, or an announcement that sounds
kinda weird is said, we always (no exceptions)look straight at each
other, as if we’re waiting for each others reaction. Does this mean he
likes me back, or, I don’t know! Even during class, he will just look
at me, or what I’m doing.
At a concert our chorus was doing for the parents not too long
ago, we were all told to head straight for Chorus room upon our
arrival. I was one of the last to arrive, and I put on concert attire,
as told. I finish, and we’re rehearsing the final song before we get to
talk some more. The song ends, and I’m standing behind the back row, in
the row he’s sitting in. He looks my way, leaning out, trying to get a
good view of something. Not wanting to get in his way, I take a step
forward, he leans even more. There was nothing in the halls, all the
band kids had gone to the stage. I give him a look, he must’ve been
staring at something, and it wasn’t the hallway. Does this mean he
likes me, because he’s sending mixed signals?
My best advice is to casually chat him up and take it slow. He
seems to be a bit shy, which isn't a bad thing if you know the right
way to handle it. Since your cutie won't be attending any dances try
asking him for his phone number,e-mail or screen name. Most guys want
to approach girls but they're just waiting for a sign and it seems to
me that your dude is dying to make a move. So, what're you waiting for?
If you get your guy on the line keep the conversation fun and ask him
about his interests. That way, when it's time to take the next step
(asking him out) you'll have a good idea of what to suggest. If he
talks about his favorite movies, suggest a movie night. Does he like
being outdoors? Suggest a fun outdoor activity like going for a bike
ride. You get the idea. Good luck and keep us updated. I hope you get
some other good advice too!
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