coverSUBSCRIBE
Close

LIFE

Dear Carol

I love my BFF, but she never wants to do anything!

 
Whenever my best friend comes over, she doesn’t like doing anything. I like her, but I’m always bored.

Dear Bored Bud,

Make a list of stuff you like to do—alone and with other friends. Get creative, adding everything from playing Scrabble by the fireplace to making peanut butter brownies. Instead of asking, “What do you want to do?” and getting a shoulder shrug, throw out some suggestions. Or list your top-three faves and pick together.

Maybe she just hates making decisions or being put on the spot. If you make it easy for her, she might jump right in. If she isn’t the least bit interested in your ideas and doesn’t offer her own, it doesn’t mean she’s a bad friend. But, you also don’t have to invite a wet blanket over when you’re looking for some fun over winter break. Maybe she’s a good lunch buddy or phone pal. Surely, you have other friends who’d love to come over and hang out.
For serious issues, visit our HELP! page now.
For more on Carol Weston, visit her website, like her on Facebook, and check out her advice vids on YouTube.
To order Carol's books, Ava and Pip, Girltalk, and the Melanie Martin series, visit your indie bookstore or click here.

We want to hear from you! Go here to submit questions to Carol about every sticky sitch life throws at you.

POSTED IN ,

by Dear Carol | 2/1/2016
share

POLL

There's a maaajor thunderstorm outside, but you can be found:

  •  
heart

LOVE THIS

📚🌸Fill your shelves with these spectacular spring reads 🌸📚

Your perfect picnic plus-one? A radiant read, ofc. Enter to win them all here! 

FREE STUFF

Win! Barbie-inspired Azazie prom dress

Bring Barbie's iconic fashion sense into the real world—with an Azazie prom dress from their limited-edition collection (up to $400 in value!). Step one: Score your dream fit. Step two: Turn heads allll night long. Enter to win here!