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Oct. 11 is National Coming Out Day—and it may be the day your bestie comes out to you. Coming out can be hard, especially if not everyone in their life accepts them for who they are. So now is the time to show your BFF some extra love. We've rounded up four ways that you can support your very best babe on this very special day.

@jessiepaege

Respect their boundaries

Just because your bestie opened up to you doesn't mean they want everyone to know. *Never* out your friend to someone unless they've told you it's okay. Unfortunately, not everyone is affirming of LGBTQ+ individuals, so it's important not to cross your BFF's boundaries when it comes to sharing the news. If you're not sure who they want to know, just ask! They'll appreciate you wanting to know what they're comfortable with.

@heartstoppertv

Learn about the queer community

Another fab way to show you care is to educate yourself on LGBTQ+ issues and history. Follow queer creators on TikTok, check out a book on the Stonewall Riots or listen to the Making Gay History podcast. Learning more can help you better know how to support your BFF through this time in their life.

@hayleykiyoko

Remember they are more

It's amazing that your bestie has discovered something about themself, but keep in mind there are still a million other great things about them, too! It's important to remember that your BFF is more than just their sexuality or gender. They are still a student, friend, athlete or artist. Don't forget to love and appreciate your bestie for *all* their qualities.

@girlinred

Celebrate!

The most fun way to support your BFF? Party! Go out for ice cream or have a movie night (Heartstopper marathon, anyone?) Buy them a bouquet of flowers or a pin that says their pronouns. Do what you can to make them feel loved and appreciated. This may be a tough time for your bestie, but you can make sure it's a happy time, too. 

Looking for more ways to show your bestie some love? Check out these GL web posts:
💗 Here's how to be a better friend
💗 Consider this your sign to go make dinner with your BFF
💗 21 ways to make your besties smile

Tag us in all your photos with your BFF on Insta @girlslifemag!

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by Aubrey Rhoadarmer | 10/11/2022