Converted commitment-phobe

My BF broke up with me a while ago because he said he wasn’t ready for a GF. Well, lately, he acts like he likes me, and I still like him. Do we have a chance?

Bill: Many guys aren’t great at showing affection, expressing feelings or any of the other stuff in life that doesn’t involve sports or TV. Give him credit for leveling with you, but pay attention to his recent actions as well. Sounds like you might have a chance.

Dave: You have a fine chance. Your smart guy is self-aware enough to know he wasn’t up for a GF at that time. You’re lucky—if he had jumped into a relationship before he was ready, it would have failed miserably. Hang in there (without being clingy), and you just might be in the right place at the right time.

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