How to land that first kiss with your shy guy
I really want to kiss my BF, but he is super shy. Should I ask him first or just kiss him?
Bill: Sure seems easy in Humphrey Bogart movies, huh? Usually someone says, “Kiss me, you fool,” then Bogey makes his move. Life is easier in black-and-white. This dilemma is like asking if you should give him a million bucks or make sure he wants it first. Either way, he’s a lucky guy. Unless he has some rare form of lip-phobia, he should be flattered. Let the mood dictate the moment.
Dave: Hmmm. Imagine yourself as him. Wait! Don’t go running out of the theatre screaming, “She tried to kiss me! Yuck!” Seriously, if he were going to kiss you, would he ask you first or would he just do it? Whatever the answer, I would approach kissing him in the same manner. If the whole thing is a disaster, you can always pull the “I just did what I thought you would do” line. Usually works for me.