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I know this is the wrong place to leave a question-needing-advice, but I have never been on this blog b4! I am always really nervous around my boyfriend. Whenever I do ANYthing I get nervous and mess up. I don't want to make a fool of myself in front of him and I am afraid of what he thinks of me. I know it's not really him who makes me feel this way (I have low self-esteem) but I seriously need to get over this. It's holding me back from so many things in school and with my friends. I don't want to break up with him, but I want to stop being so nervous! What should I do? --Dlsnomore'
I know this is the wrong place to leave a question-needing-advice, but I have never been on this blog b4! I am always really nervous around my boyfriend. Whenever I do ANYthing I get nervous and mess up. I don't want to make a fool of myself in front of him and I am afraid of what he thinks of me. I know it's not really him who makes me feel this way (I have low self-esteem) but I seriously need to get over this. It's holding me back from so many things in school and with my friends. I don't want to break up with him, but I want to stop being so nervous! What should I do?
--Dlsnomore'
Hey Dlsnomore,
First off, I want to welcome you to our blog! We are always happy to help answer your questions and give you some advice.
Dealing with boys is always tricky. You need to relax and be yourself. That is why your guy is with you in the first place! He has seen something wonderful in you and chooses to spend his time with you. So, relax and enjoy it. If you can do this, you will start to have a better time with him and you'll naturally become more at ease with him. Having a boyfriend certainly shouldn't hold you back in any way, and certainly not with your friends and school. Are you sure you're ready for a boyfriend? If the answer is yes then I think you should be able to relax around him. Goodluck and I'm sure you'll get some more great advice from our other GL Girls!
Much Love,
Drea T.
BY ANDREA T. ON 12/7/2006 5:16:57 PM 11 COMMENTS
Try to like take lessons or something he will understand you aren't ready. Umm anyone wanna chat with me I am funny(as my name states) and a great musician dont be shy
Funny on 3/13/2008 4:25:07 PM
well...it depends...if he is as good as friend then in a way he will understand and he may like you....but if he likes someone else then just hold off for a while...when you think that it is right to tell him then go ahead...see i have a great friend and i told her who i liked and she him and guess what happened i figured out that he like me to so it was all good...but i wasnt sure if i wanted him to know or not...but the bad thing for me that it didnt last long because he cheated on my friend before i knew he like me so i always wondered if he was cheating on me or not...it didnt end up well because he found some one else which was fine for me and we are not good friends because we fight...but that may not happen to you...now i my same friend knew another guy in my class that liked me and when i told her that i like him she was sooooo happy...this was like 2 months ago...and we are still good...and for valentines day he mad me a necklace...since his mom makes jewelry..so i was very happy and i still am...but it depends on the guy...but it may turnout good so go for it
hihi on 3/8/2008 1:49:27 AM
What do I do? My crush is super-hot, and also my bff since like, well forever. We were cribmates practically. And I just recently started liking him, so should I ask him out? Would it be awkward?? I mean, he knows like, ALL my secrets. I've told him everything about me, and the same with him. I'm totally freaked out!!!
Megan on 2/2/2008 8:15:20 PM
i...dont know about this...cuz i did not read the story!p.s.im at school( 4th period)with my bffl
kelly on 12/8/2006 1:11:14 PM
Dear Dlsnomore, If you are together than you know he likes you.If you liked him and you two weren't together then you would have the right to be nervous around him. But your together so there's no reason to be nervous he likes you for who you are. So be who you are and everything will be alright.
kayla on 12/7/2006 10:40:51 PM
ya pretend like hes "one of the girls" and just be chill and itl all be cool. hope hes a hottiee
punk on 12/7/2006 8:39:11 PM
Girly all you have to do is be yourslef.He liked you for being yourself in the first place or else you two wouldn't be going out in the first place.I need you to know be yourself.He's bound to like you for you.
Lynne on 12/7/2006 7:32:02 PM
Girl just be yourself. Everyone is always acting so weird around people they like and nerver themselves. If you are tring to be who you are not it is harder for you and harder for the guy to really get to know you, but if you are yourself then it is easier for you and him. Also just try to find something that you both like to talk about so you know what to say. If you are being yourself and he doesn't like you then don't change he is not the right guy for you! Just keep it real!!!
Brownie on 12/7/2006 6:59:26 PM
u girlies said it all! Be urself!! if he cant accept u, than he doesnt deserve u
Lily on 12/7/2006 6:46:45 PM
You should be your self dance in front of him and aked like hes not there if he thinks your insane then hes not right for you but if he laughs aand goes along then hes purfect for you.
Abby on 12/7/2006 6:25:11 PM
Well first he's your boyfriend right? SO he must like you for who you are. Just be your self. If he doen't like the real you then maybe he's not right for you.
Zoey on 12/7/2006 6:20:43 PM
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