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Hey people. I'm in desperate need of advice right now. Ok, here's my problem:I've had a crush on this boy (I'll call him Cam) for about a year and a half. He's really nice and cute and the best thing I liked about him is that he isn't obsessed about being popular or cool like most of the other boys are. Cam is in my circle of friends, and he sits with us at lunch and hangs out with us almost every day. He's one of my best guy friends. But on the bus today (he rides my bus), this popular girl said "You're not even popular, Cam" and he said "You know what? I'm going to sit with you guys at lunch tomorrow. I'm sick of sitting with these...people" and I could tell he was going to say something else but wouldn't since I was right there. I feel betrayed and hurt. Cam is acting like a hypocrite. Usually he avoids the popular crowd whenever he can because he hates how they act so arrogant all the time, but now he'll probably become one of them. I feel like I'm losing him, and it's even worse because I have a crush on him. I don't even know why he would do this. I know for a fact Cam likes hanging out with me and the rest of the people at our table. Sometimes kids make fun of him for sitting with us because the majority of our crowd is girls, so maybe that's why? I need help. What do I do now? Give him the silent treatment? Talk to him? Fight with him? I don't want him to think I'm controlling his life, but it's just that he's never acted like this before. Should I get over him? If so, HOW? I've fallen pretty hard for this guy. Please help soon! -YOUR MOTHER'
Hey people. I'm in desperate need of advice right now. Ok, here's my problem:I've had a crush on this boy (I'll call him Cam) for about a year and a half. He's really nice and cute and the best thing I liked about him is that he isn't obsessed about being popular or cool like most of the other boys are. Cam is in my circle of friends, and he sits with us at lunch and hangs out with us almost every day. He's one of my best guy friends. But on the bus today (he rides my bus), this popular girl said "You're not even popular, Cam" and he said "You know what? I'm going to sit with you guys at lunch tomorrow. I'm sick of sitting with these...people" and I could tell he was going to say something else but wouldn't since I was right there.
I feel betrayed and hurt. Cam is acting like a hypocrite. Usually he avoids the popular crowd whenever he can because he hates how they act so arrogant all the time, but now he'll probably become one of them. I feel like I'm losing him, and it's even worse because I have a crush on him. I don't even know why he would do this. I know for a fact Cam likes hanging out with me and the rest of the people at our table. Sometimes kids make fun of him for sitting with us because the majority of our crowd is girls, so maybe that's why? I need help. What do I do now? Give him the silent treatment? Talk to him? Fight with him? I don't want him to think I'm controlling his life, but it's just that he's never acted like this before. Should I get over him? If so, HOW? I've fallen pretty hard for this guy. Please help soon!
-YOUR MOTHER'
Hi hun, I know this is a tough sitch. It always is when you're on the outside looking in...but what you probably realize is that being on the outside is better. Cam maybe does too, but you're going to have to explain your feelings to him. The good news is that he realizes how arrogant that crowd is. Give him examples of how he is acting just the same, but in a nice way. You don't want to hurt him as he hurt you. You should give that as one of the examples by the way. If he is a true friend (and hopefully maybe more) he will take note of the fact that he has hurt someone who he cares about. Some people jump, no matter how high, at the opportunity to be popular. I hope that Cam realizes through your talk with him and examples that he should stay true to himself. If things don't work out, I wouldn't start a fight with him, that will only make it worse. And, if he does decide that being in the "In Crowd" isn't for him, it will make things uncomfortable between you two, when he realizes that hanging with his real friends is where he belongs.
Much Love, Drea
POSTED ON 1/25/2007 2:15:29 PM
what kind of websit is this? i hate boys
by dd on 3/17/2007 8:29:51 PM
is anyone on
by FARMGAL on 3/3/2007 5:09:35 PM
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by DAYSHA on 2/10/2007 11:45:05 PM
oops meant :-(;-(;-:-D (i'm just expirimenting w/ all the different faces to see what i can figure out)
by guitargirl on 2/3/2007 4:30:28 PM
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by guitargirl on 2/3/2007 4:25:10 PM
The Step-By-Step Guide For Getting That Guy!! 1. start by just saying hi, asking about what sport he likes or whatever. maybe you two can gripe about mrs so and so together, or how insane your school's new rules are getting. basically just short little bits of small talk. after you both become more comfortable doing this, its time to go to step two. 2. start integrating your two groups of friends. its easy, talk to him with a few of your friends, and if possible a few of his friends there too. this is a great time to make long lasting inside jokes!! keep this up, and you two can now exchange numbers. time for step 3. 3. start to hang out with him in a group out side of school. this means that you have an excuse to call him. and who says you can only talk about what everyone's doing this friday?? step 4 comin up! 4. alright, you'v gotten to know eachother pretty well, and you feel totally comfortable around him, and your friends get along with his and vice versa, so its time to let him know. this step consists of one thing alone. SUBTLE flirting. remember catching a guy is no 50 meter dash; its more like a 3K run. you have to pace yourself. you dont start out at full speed right? i mean, if you did, you'd be out way before your even close to the end. so take it slow. start flirting, but dont change yourself inthe process. remember this guy has gotten to know the real you, and a sudden change might scare him! 5. more obvious flirting. kick it up a notch, but not too much. this is when he might start to catch on. observe his reactions, but dont go to in depth. hopefully, he'll start flirting with you, and you can proceed to step 6. 6. ASK HIM!!!! remember this isnt intended to last a week. its more like a month long process.you've got to be super patient, and super calm. its worth it in the long run, especially if you arent very well acquainted with the guy. Good luck!
by TotallyGorgeousandLovely on 2/2/2007 7:35:49 PM
Hye this is for the moderators. My two friends have boyfriends and I don't. The wierd thing is today one of my friends got in an arguement with her boyfriend. It was something about how he betted her in a poker game(my other friends boyfriend did the same) and she totally over reacted. But then they made up at the end of the day! My friend threatened to dump him and that wasn't cool. She also says how the coach at our school is hot right in front of her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is kinda my friend now and I'm kinda the one he comes 2 once in a while and asks me to talk to my friend for him. Why am I telling you this...because I might like my friends bf. I don't know if i do or not. I mean, he is 4'10' and I am 5'3' plus he is not super cute but he is so nice. What should I do?
by Shy Girl on 1/30/2007 10:32:54 PM
I hav a problem. U Know when u really like this guy but he hates u or thinks your stupid. I've tried not likeing him, but it's not working. HELP!!!!!!!!!!
by Anna on 1/30/2007 6:15:33 PM
How come moderaters never answer me....? *** I'm sorry, hun. What can I help you with? <3 Jessie M. ***
by Sweet_Heart on 1/29/2007 11:11:39 PM
To Blakliker: I think wre in the same time zone!! do you live in Wisconsin?
by Kimberly on 1/29/2007 5:55:34 PM
To Blakliker: What time is it wher you r?
by Kimberly on 1/29/2007 5:54:28 PM
To Blakliker: What time is it wher you are?
by Kimberly on 1/29/2007 5:53:46 PM
i would say ok..and tell her she can if she wants..i mean it is her desion kinda...but i would say if she wants to and it's kool with your mom then have her go for it!!!! hope that helps
by swimchick on 1/29/2007 1:56:34 PM
how should i start out just like i needed to tell u something or how
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:24:23 PM
ok thanx i just hope it works out and it not weird between us..and ps i just started swimming here like 2 months ago and already 1 guys has told me he likes me and this guy jack now i like crazzzzzy stuff but i love it
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:20:01 PM
Totally don't do something ur not ready to do and i'm 14 never had a BF kiss help hands or anything so don't rush and tell him to stop touching and just kiss for at the time unless u want him to touch and stuff...
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:18:26 PM
ok so it won't sound crazzzzzzzzzzy to him..ok thanks so much u have been alot of help..and i pray he ok with it anf thinks the same thing. No prob, babe! Let me know how it goes! xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:14:34 PM
ok i will totally..well i will see him tomorrow night.. should i do it in the ppol when he comes in to the wall or after practic and just say can we walk down here and talk or get his # from my friend i think he has a cell Just pull him aside when you see him tomorrow night. Doing it in person will be so much better than on the phone. Good luck! xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:07:53 PM
should i tell him on IM or in person...and should i just say hey can we talk I vote for in person. A "hey, can we talk" sounds perfect! Good luck. You'll have to let me know how it goes! xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:05:05 PM
ok thanks...becuase she thinks that he may like me.. so u think he does liek me and is getting mad becuase now people are asking him about it....YAY!!!!!!!!!!!
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:04:10 PM
SO HURRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 11:00:45 PM
ok well then bye..i 'm not leaving for a few..so robin now what
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:56:37 PM
wow i know she good she won't tell anything...but i'm dieing here.becuase i want to know what he thinks..and when we were IMING.he never said yes or no to if he liked... and i have to see him tomorrow night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and my one friend wants us to get together so should i tell him myself i like him or not say anything You should totally tell him! If he is acting strange when your friend asks, it's probably a sign that she's onto something. So yeah, I vote tell him, LoL. xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:54:11 PM
so Robin to see u the prob
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:50:37 PM
ok well i did above..tell me if u need to know more
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:47:38 PM
and she said he normally won't get mad but he did when she asked about and asked if he liked me..
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:44:28 PM
ok well i listed it..and i really want him to like me.he['s super kool and i am here can u help... DDRqueen
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:41:36 PM
and the guy i am talking bout (call him jack) jack and my friend were talking and he said something good bout me to her but she won't tell me cuz he told her not to tell so then she said that he was geting mad when she asked him if he likes me..and then we were talking and he never really said if he liked me or not. Help Oh man, the suspense must be killing you! The good thing is that you know your crush said something good about you! And even though it might not seem like it, you should be so happy that your friend won't tell you what Jack said. That means that she's not spilling your secrets to him (or anyone else), either. Pestering her will probably just annoy her, so (as bad as it sounds) I think you might just have to accept the fact that you don't know about this thing. Instead, maybe we can talk about getting you to talk to Jack yourself. I hope this helped! xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:40:25 PM
so i will be here for like 20 more min HELP
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:37:52 PM
ROBIN plz help or jessica.ore any1 from GL What's up, swimchick? I'd love to help, just let me know what the prob is. xoxo, Robin H.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:34:56 PM
so PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M IN THAT IT'S GOING ON WITH ME AND I'M GONAN SEE THE GUY TOMORROW NIGHT..SO OMG HELP
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:32:05 PM
1) is it better for u or ur friend or friends to ask a guy if he likes U.or for u 2!?!?!?!? 2)if ur friend does ask him if he likes u and normally does not get mad at someone for asking who he likes but when ur friend asked if he liked u he started getting mad for her asking him if he like there friend!!is that bad or good.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 10:29:52 PM
hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hi
by hello on 1/28/2007 10:18:50 PM
how old do u haved to be to work at GL When you're in high school you can start interning. Check out the deets here. xoxo, Robin H.
by Reagan on 1/28/2007 10:03:04 PM
WELL I'LL TALK TO Y'ALL TOMORROW!! TALK TO ME TOMORROW BLAKE LIKER! BYE FOR TONIGHT
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 9:13:35 PM
HELLO!HELLO!HELLO!HELLO!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 9:10:16 PM
r u on Blakeliker? If you r what time is it where u r?
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 9:04:37 PM
Dear Jealous it is kind of hard to give you advice. Because I'm not as popular as you. I am l;ittle popular.
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 9:03:48 PM
What time is it right now where you r
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:55:24 PM
Dear Blakeliker. Can you talk again tomorrow at 4:30? Plaese reply
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:52:04 PM
Are you there Robin? Seem that noone else is on!! I'm here! There are def girls on, sometimes I'm just a little slower approving things. Sorry about that! xoxo, Robin H.
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:46:27 PM
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:45:39 PM
ANYBODY THERE IF SO ANSWER MY QUESTION BLAKELIKER
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:43:00 PM
Dear Blakeliker are you going to talk tomorrow after school? log on at 4:30 so we can talk again!! Write back and tell me if that is ok
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:29:31 PM
Dear MgoBlue I always want to talk. Whats on your mind.
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:27:54 PM
IS THERE ANYBODY THERE??? ARE YOU THERE BLAKLIKER? IF YOU R PLESE ANSWER MY PROBLEM!!!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:19:18 PM
Well I really like this guy but he is popular. I'm afraid that if I ask him out the whole school will laugh at you!!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:09:32 PM
You rule Robin!! I'm so happy that I can talk to you and get advice from u!! Once again, U RULE ROBIN!!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 8:08:10 PM
Are you still on Blakeliker If you are I need your advice!!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 7:53:39 PM
Are you still on Blakeliker? If you are I need your advice!!
by Shortie on 1/28/2007 7:52:27 PM
You should try to talk to him.Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels.If he likes you or is evn truly your friend, he'll realize how much he has hurt you and forget the popular crowd.If bot,then find another dude to like. There are plenty of them,maybe not quite like him,but you will get over him eventually.
by Jessica on 1/28/2007 7:38:41 PM
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by catwoman on 1/28/2007 6:49:52 PM
Who is the moderator rite now?
Hey, Kimberly! It's Robin. What's up, babe?
xoxo, Robin H.
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 6:49:02 PM
Tell him that you can't find it. If he really likes you he won't mind!!
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 6:44:22 PM
WHAT DO I DO??????????????
by catwoman on 1/28/2007 6:38:16 PM
hey me and my boyfriend just got back together but I cant find the ring he gave me?? I NEED HELP!!!
by catwoman on 1/28/2007 6:35:56 PM
talk to him!
by lew66 on 1/28/2007 5:55:00 PM
Whats up Jessie? Hey, Kimberly! It's actually Robin right now. What's up, babe? xoxo, Robin H.
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 5:43:26 PM
Jessie i NEED edvice and i need i now(not 2 be rude)
by Reagan on 1/28/2007 5:06:57 PM
can anyone help me with my problem? *** Hi Emily, what do you need help with? <3 Jessie ***
by emily on 1/28/2007 4:44:20 PM
all i can say is follow your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by emily on 1/28/2007 4:42:59 PM
thanks, this is a tough decision but i think i'll stick w. my bf
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 3:31:21 PM
thanks jessie! one more question, there's this guy that i used to like, he is now one of my best friends. the only thing is when i liked him, he didnt like me, but now that i have a bf, he's begun to like me. what should i do *** Well, if you're really sure that he likes you, and you like him more than you like your bf, maybe you should end it with your bf. You shouldn't lead your bf on... But make sure it's the right decision. You don't want to break up with your bf for another guy, and then realize he was really the one you wanted. Take some time to think about it. <3 Jessie ***
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 3:25:41 PM
Sorry I didn't respond sooner Blakeliker. I was outside playing. Are you still on?
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 3:18:38 PM
hey i have a q. its not related to a bgf question but my bf and i were makin out and then his mom came in. now its really uncomfortable whenever i'm over. what should i do? *** Ah, that is awkward. For both you and his mom. Basically she's uncomfortable because her little baby is growing up, and you're the one bringing him over to the dark side (lol). Just try to keep the public displays of affection to a minimum around her for now. Eventually it'll fade away and she'll get over it. <3 Jessie ***
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 3:02:24 PM
Friend? I don't think so. I true friend wouldn't betray you like that, even for the 'popular' crowd. You're way out of his league, girl, so say "Adios". You say he's nice. Well, he might of been, a long time ago. Things change, and so should the fact that he's your friend. Best of luck!
by Kaye on 1/28/2007 2:54:12 PM
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by blondenotdumb on 1/28/2007 2:48:57 PM
hey guys is any1 on?
by blondenotdumb on 1/28/2007 2:37:35 PM
Hey Blakeliker! Do you remember me from last night?
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 2:04:01 PM
I need some advice!! *** Ask away, babe! <3 Jessie ***
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 1:54:05 PM
Jessie r u there *** I'm here Kimberly :O) <3 Jessie ***
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 1:36:14 PM
jessica plz help or someone on the prob with that hot guy i have to see him tomorrow NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *** Hi Swimchick. It's Jessie here today (not the amazing Jess B., she's off until tomorrow). I can't really tell you if it's a joke or not, but maybe he does like you, and is just too shy to talk to you about it. It's also sometimes awkward to talk about something like that in front of people, so maybe you should just flirt a little bit with him, and find a time to talk to him about it alone, just the two of you. Good luck! <3 Jessie ***
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 12:47:55 PM
allyxoxo.. where for one u should not be making out if u are somewhere where a parent could either see or walk in... 2..i would just not really be makingout anymore around his mom and just keep it cool around her for a little..like nt makingout,stuff like that.
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 12:44:39 PM
I need help... i just found out that this really nice hot guy may like me.. at this swim meet yesterday.me and a few girl and these guys were kinda fighting over this thing for my friends pocketbook.becuae the boys were taking it from her.so my friend(the hot guy) hit me in my leg.and then i told him well we need to talk so then i told him sit down and his goggles were around his neck so i pulled them back and they slinged in to his neck.lol..so then about an hout l8t i asked my friend my would he do that to me.and she sadi something and i said i didn't hear u want did u say she said he loves u.i was like WHAT..love me..she said yeah everyi=one knows that.he told me wed night when u weren't at practic..so i was like OMG... so then i said i don't believe u so she said when then let's see.so she called him down on the deck and wanted us to talk.so he was like no way.i'm not talking to her about me and her..but i g2g so i can't anyway.so i'm still freaking out wondering does this guy really like me or was it some joke.... HELP what should i do...i really want it to be true tho.......lol.... HELP HELP AND HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~swimchick~
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 12:41:56 PM
ok here is a good laugh for all of u.. The other day at swim practic i was late so i was just trowing mty stuff in a locker and threw my suit on and ruched out to the pool when i was out there my friend KT just came in to the wall so she said "OMG UR UNDERWEAR ARE STILL ON" AND ASLL THE BOYS were still swimming thank GOD. and if she didn't say anything then i would have jumped rite in the pool in the lane that had 2 hot guys...and my 2 best friends.so glad she did..getting back i ran into the locker room when there was my sister's friend and then she told my sister after practic but i wasn't there when she did and my sister and her friends fel to the floor in laughter.so that was really bad.....and as i was coming out the 2 hot boys just got in the water and started swimming.. and i just found out that MAYBE ONE OF THE HOT GUYS MAY LIKE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY! SO I LEARNED ALWAY LOOK AT URSELF B4 COMING ON THE POOL DECK.. ~swimchick~
by swimchick on 1/28/2007 12:23:59 PM
Jessie i dont get how 2 do the smilies *** No worries! There is a how-to guide on the fun stuff page: http://girlslife.com/g-blog/?cat=5 . Just type what you see without any spaces! :O) <3 Jessie ***
by Reagan on 1/28/2007 11:55:22 AM
let him know how it is, and how you feel
by amanda on 1/28/2007 11:55:03 AM
Hun, i've been there too. What i did was my "guy friend"--matt, was acting almost exactly like cam. But matt tryed to act like normal at the same time. Finally i got fed up with him, when he sat next to me on the bus and tried to talk to me i moved. when it got to school, he followed me and tryed to get me to slow down and talk to him but i wouldn't stop grabbed me by the arm when i was halfway down the hall, i just plain stopped with tears running down my face and told him "Is this what you wanted? Do you like to see me like this? This is how i feel when you just push me aside and act like your surpierior. I used to like you more than a friend but that was before you changed." I started to walk away again and he grabbed my wrist and pulled me close to him and told me that i was the most important thing in the world to him and that he was sorry that he had hurt me so much. If you tell him how it is, hes most likely to listen and understand you. But you need to tell him how you feel, he'll listen. I hoped my personal story helped.
by amanda on 1/28/2007 11:53:38 AM
Jessie u there? *** I'm here :O) <3 Jessie ***
by Reagan on 1/28/2007 11:52:25 AM
anyone therE??????:think:
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 11:17:09 AM
:smile:
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 11:13:03 AM
hye i have a q this doesn't have anything to do w/ bgf bonds but i need help me and my bf were makin out and his mom came in and saw us! she seemed really uncomfortable around me after that...wat should i do
by allyxoxo on 1/28/2007 11:11:44 AM
Are you there CC
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 11:03:58 AM
Are you there Jessie *** I'm here until 5 p.m. (east coast time). What's up? :O) <3 Jessie ***
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 10:46:33 AM
Hi, wow this is a hard one...as everyone has been saying you need to talk to him...but before you do i want you to realize that your already popular...the popular ones are the people who have the friends to back them up...i personally have never seen the preps or jocks as popular, because they're mean...if that's how they have to be to get friends, then are they really friends? The "rich" ones who get "everything" just think they can get away with that kind of things and think that they are the only one that matters, but they can't break a nail so they have to come in packs...or cliques, so tell Cam that too, and tell him that the only one that can let the insults effect him is him...and hey if he goes out with you he'll have a reason to sit at your table...hope this helped
by CC on 1/28/2007 10:43:01 AM
Are you there Jessie? *** I'm here for another 15 minutes, and then it's bed time for me :O) What's up, darlin'? <3 Jessie ***
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 12:42:08 AM
right now it is 11:38 and I am bored!! I can't believe you guy s aren't on right now!! Make sur you talk to me in the morning becuase I need some advice. It really isn't tha important but, who cares!!:bored
by Kimberly on 1/28/2007 12:40:58 AM
:smile:=
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 11:29:05 PM
Go to Gl.com at 9 in the morn. so we can talk more talk to ya later
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 11:21:27 PM
You live in WI right?
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 11:19:12 PM
Right now me and my best friend are having a sleepover,. Her name is Kaitlyn, she says hi too *** NO personal info past your first name, last initial and state! This is for your own safety in case there are any perves out there! Just wanna keep ya safe, hun. <3 Jessie ***
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 11:06:05 PM
What are you doing?
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 11:02:45 PM
aNSWER ME please
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:57:08 PM
aRE YOU THERE
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:53:43 PM
WHATZ UP? BLAKELIKER
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:53:09 PM
WOULD SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER ME!
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:35:23 PM
IS ANYONE HERE?
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:33:35 PM
I want to know how u get smileys too!!!!!!!!!
by Cheerleader15 on 1/27/2007 10:04:10 PM
how do u get the smilies???
by Girly Girl on 1/27/2007 9:45:25 PM
Hello i'm in need for some seriuos comfort!!!!This boy named D.J.Ok on December 21, 2006 he asked me out!!!i of course said yes!I loved him so much...We went places together.Well one night i was on the phone and we were geting ready to get off the phone and he said i love you!i was so shocked!!!All i said was bye and after he said that i thought we were together forever!well on january 25,2007 we were on the phone and he was asking weird Q's and then all the sudden he dumped me on the phone and i could not stop crying so i was in the book store looking at GL magazine and it had tips in it about a break up and i took them and now i am getting back out there and forgetting it!!but the sad sad sad thing is he told me he loved me so it hert me even more I feel like a lousy GF help?
by jenna on 1/27/2007 5:58:34 PM
I think that people should like you for who you are not your popularity and you should just chill and not get all worked up about it!!!!!! Everything will fall in it's place!! Lots of Love Jenna
by jenna on 1/27/2007 5:46:15 PM
i have a problem.. this guy i like asked me out and i said i would have to check with my mom, but i don't like talking to either of my parents about anything cuz they get all weird and yah.. plz help!
by Kasey on 1/27/2007 5:25:29 PM
Sidvball-- haha do you like volleyball? i just broke my thumb setting in a game... anyway just casually flirt and if he starts flirtling back then talk to him about how me asked you out. ask if he still likes you then slip it in CASUALLY saying maybe we could make that happen? Good Luck!
by Caroline on 1/27/2007 5:18:29 PM
I have the EXACT SAME sitch w/ my former BGF who I had a crush on and really miss terribly. We used to go to a tiny school and hang out 6 hours a day, and sometimes outside of skool, but he made lots of new friends and got popular really fast since we started h.s. and only have one class together. If I were you I would still definitely commuincate with him because I made the mistake of telling my guy friend I was tired of him being rude to me and then completely losing touch with him. Tell him you miss talking to him like it was back then, and to not let popularity ruin your friendship, and if he wants to be rude to you that you won't tolerate it anymore. just KEEP TALKING TO HIM so you stay friends.
by anonymous on 1/27/2007 3:56:41 PM
okay i have a problem. It's my BF, see we got together at this camp.Well when it was time to leave the camp i was really sad!I really didn't want to leave beacause of him.So i thought that if i wrote a letter to him telling him i missed him, i could give it to my brother beacause he knows him.Then my brother could give it to him, and then he would write me back! There's a problem he didn't write me back! what do i do! oliviar R.(aka brocken hearted) Before you get too sad, double check with your bro to make sure he actually delivered the letter. (Brothers have that annoying habit of forgetting to do what you asked them to.) If he didn't, maybe you can mail it yourself. If he did get the letter, he might just be busy or even feel awkward using your brother as a middle man for your convos. Don't give up on him just because of one mistake. Have you thought about using IM or phone convos to keep in touch with your bf? Also, if he lives close enough for your bro to deliver a letter, maybe the two of you could arrange to see a movie together once in a while or go to each other's houses. Just becuase you're not at camp anymore doesn't mean you can't ever see him. I hope this helps! xoxo, Robin H.
by olivia on 1/27/2007 3:21:37 PM
hey robin that was some really good advice you gave madly! Thanks, sweetie! If you ever need advice, you know I'm here for you, too! xoxo, Robin H. P.S. FYI, I deleted your last name. We don't let them on the G-Blog just so we can keep you girls safe and having fun.
by olivia on 1/27/2007 3:06:26 PM
He sounds like a jerk. Although, talk to him and you might have a better understanding of what to do .
by Kelsey on 1/27/2007 2:29:02 PM
a lot of times people will say stuff to become popular even if it isnt true, so talk to him and let him no that if he really meeant that, then he cant sit with u anymore. thing is, he'll miss u guys and beg to sit with u again.(i hope)
by blondenotdumb on 1/27/2007 11:03:54 AM
I have too agree wit that one!!
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 10:19:02 AM
I think you should tell him how you feel too!!
by Kimberly on 1/27/2007 9:06:33 AM
Ah the word "popularity"...I HATE it! It causes confusing,rage and tears for so many teens! So to help get rid of popularity in your school start by trying not to gossip and then not referring to people as "geeks" or "cool"Then so many other things will solve! In the mean time with your friend. Understand he is going through the same thing many people go through. Try to invite hime to hang out at a movie, go bowling,ice skating,or swimming.Keep hanging with him and have your whole normal gang hangout.Then maybe he'll learn he likes friends more than "popularity".
by Bethany on 1/26/2007 11:35:11 PM
Drea I need your help see theres this guy that i like he is awesome and cute! But my friend already asked him out for me and he said maby than no. I think he kinda likes me but i dont know WHAT SHOULD I DO??????? HELP
by Girly Girl on 1/26/2007 11:34:39 PM
tough... try talking to him.
by shelly on 1/26/2007 11:08:51 PM
And by the was whoever is moderating right now next time u see Robin H. tell her That i said I hope U had at good First day moderating!
by Girly Girl on 1/26/2007 11:04:39 PM
Hey Robbin nope im good but i just wanted to say hi to Drea or who ever was moderating
by Girly Girl on 1/26/2007 10:54:49 PM
Dear,Jessie101 1 day i did wish him a happy b-day and guess what he did he said i dont care and he totally blocked me out of the world and i got sooo mad at him but thats over so what do i do now?? Jessie101 plz help me
by Reagan on 1/26/2007 10:10:34 PM
Hey Jessie whats up
by Kimberly on 1/26/2007 9:42:54 PM
he is being shallow but hey, he's your bgf so just hang on to him and tell him how you feel about the sitch and then tell him how you feel about him.
by jessie on 1/26/2007 9:25:22 PM
I would try talking to him or sitting with him and the populars. At least try, don't give up!!
by Kimberly on 1/26/2007 8:32:33 PM
i know it's hard to just " get over it" but talk to him. tell him why did he ditch u for the populars and why does he all of a sudden care.maybe he will go back maybe he won't. if he doesn't understand you'll have to move on. and if u're lucky he'll come back
by megan on 1/26/2007 8:28:39 PM
If you really like this guy, talk to him. Tell him how you fell about him and the populars. Maby he will listen to you if he is agood friend.If not i just want to let you know that boys can be funny samart, mostly cute, but they are still a COMPLEATLY differrent species. If you want ask him to be you boy friend. If he says yes you will fell great, if not at least you know that you and him wouldn't make it. It fells way great to get that out, and hey know you can find another cute boys. TRust me the world is full of them. P.S. Try sitting with him and the populars, see how it goes. Maby you will make some new friends( not all populars are mean, evil, and bad. Some of them don't have much money and live in a trailer park, who knows.)
by aly on 1/26/2007 7:35:51 PM
hey I had the same exact problem I have a guy friend he asks all popular and cool around me and ignores me when hes with his "cool" friends,well one day I told him how i felt and he said I am Sorry if I am making you feel that way you are my friend no matter what I guess I like to impress me friends hope this helps!
by Maddie on 1/26/2007 7:21:31 PM
Hi ya! i had that same prob with a friend before. she really wnated to be popular and she ditched us and said she had to sit with the popular kids. that really ticked me off and we got into this whole fight. we're friends again but every once in a while she starts acting like she wants to be popular again...anyway tell him u like him and that being popular doesn't really matter. hanging with people who care about u matters. even though me and my friends aren't popular, i would never give them up for popularity...
by missa on 1/26/2007 7:06:10 PM
A guy did that to me! After I told him how we felt he came up to me and huged me. Just tell him how you feel. Hope it wokes!
by Madi on 1/26/2007 5:48:37 PM
Just be yourself and see how it goes for maybe 1 more month. If he is trating you like that still ask if he could over sometime and then talk and ask him questions like do you still like me. That is what you have to do.
by Marissa on 1/26/2007 5:47:04 PM
say something along the lines of, i'm sorry i sed no last year but i just wawsn't ready, now, i've found that i like you, and u like me, mabe we can go out,
by allyxoxo on 1/26/2007 4:23:40 PM
I don't know any of the moderators so can whoever's on now help me with my prob?
by Jessie101 on 1/26/2007 3:41:15 PM
I've got a big prob!! My crush is my friend. We can talk. Last year he asked me to be his girlfriend but i said no. Now I really do want to bew his girlfriend. I don't know how to tell him. Someone told me that he already knew that I liked him. I denied it. I used saying no last year as an alibi. He hasn't mentioned it yet. Now I'm not sure if he still likes me. I want to ask him about it but i'm not sure how to do it. I don't know what he'd say. I'm afraid he wont say what i want him to say. Please help me. I don't know what to do. :-(
by Jessie101 on 1/26/2007 3:38:14 PM
Wow Reagan. Sounds like he might be having problems that aren't just his grades. Leave him alone. If he doesn't want to be cheered up, then don't try. He obviously just wants to be left alone. Try talking to him when he's not in a bad mood. Like wish him a happy birthday on his birthday. If he's on a team, congradulate him when they win a game. Or when he get's a good grade. Try saying hi or what's up in the hall. You guys might slowly become friends again. Good Luck!!
by Jessie101 on 1/26/2007 3:30:51 PM
I had alot of good freinds but when i tried to make freinds with a nother girl she stared to drag me away from them.they still like me and ubderstand me but she dosnt.a few weeks later she goes over to the populer gilrs and makes fun of me! when were doing a test she starts to take my paper away and copies. I tell the teacher buthe say shes to much of an angel.what can i do to get ride of her with out hering her feelings?
by jocelyne on 1/26/2007 3:27:32 PM
Dear, Robin H. theres this boy (lets call him Dom)and hes really smart and cute.and then theres my bets friend(lets call her Shannon) and thy go on the same bus . and they are like friends like me and him are and him and his best friend is my friendand me and Dom used 2 be freinds when we helped our art teacher but now since he got fired. But when he gets a bad grade my and Shannon try 2 cheer him up but for some reason he gets mad at me, i need edvice and i need it now plz can someone help me and i dnt kno what 2 do either not talk 2 him or get mad at him for not noticing me and i kno that ,that is a stupid reason 2 get mad at him s so can someone help me ppplllllzzzz!!!!?????
by Reagan on 1/26/2007 3:08:59 PM
theres this boy (lets call him Dom)and hes really smart and cute.and then theres my bets friend(lets call her Shannon) and thy go on the same bus . and they are like friends like me and him are and him and his best friend is my friendand me and Dom used 2 be freinds when we helped our art teacher but now since he got fired. But when he gets a bad grade my and Shannon try 2 cheer him up but for some reason he gets mad at me, i need edvice and i need it now plz can someone help me and i dnt kno what 2 do either not talk 2 him or get mad at him for not noticing me and i kno that ,that is a stupid reason 2 get mad at him s so can someone help me ppplllllzzzz!!!!?????
by Reagan on 1/26/2007 3:06:56 PM
Oh, and YourMother, dont be mean to him!!!! you shouldnt stoop to that level!!!
by TotallyGorgeousandLovely on 1/26/2007 2:26:30 PM
Ok. Your Mother, Give him some time. If he truly truly feels the way you say he does, he wont stay with the populars. Tell him ONCE how you feel, but dont pester him. He needs to learn how to overcome peer pressure, and maybe thats about to happen. Branch out and start getting to know more people, maybe if there are more guys at your table, he'll be more willing to sit there. I hope things get better!
by TotallyGorgeousandLovely on 1/26/2007 2:25:44 PM
So wat if he doesn't want 2 hang out with u? Do a lot of fun things with your BFFs, but make sure he notices, and he'll probaly get bored with the popular, and come back 2 u! =)
by frenchtoast on 1/25/2007 11:05:15 PM
Thank you so much clemsonfan2011! I'll try that.I'll try talking to him about soccer because he is on a soccer team. Also I'll get my friends and ask him to bring his friends along to hang somewhere like the mall. Do you think it would be awkward for him, if we do hang out with a lot of people, if my bff(his sis)comes?
by Shy Girl on 1/25/2007 9:44:27 PM
I also need some guy advice. I have liked my bff's big brother(who is a year older)for a really long time and last summer I wrote a note telling him I had a crush on him. He hasn't said anything about it! We may comments to each other once in a while when I come over, but only if my friend is around. I don't know what to do now. All my friends know I like him including my parents and his parents. My parents think he is a nice guy so the only think stopping me from asking him out is that I'm scared to talk to him. Please help me!
by Shy Girl on 1/25/2007 9:24:52 PM
Paper Heart, Maybe you could write in ur story About how Karrie and Jim start talking to each other more,being more flirty and Lindsay is a little protective of her sis. Like, if ur little sis liked ur guy friend and he liked her wouldn't you be protective of ur little sis? I know I would be even if it was my guy friend. So just try going from there I guess. I hope that helps you. Good luck with ur story!
by Shy Girl on 1/25/2007 9:19:29 PM
MCM~ Say, "I had a dream you and I were dating," sometime when you're alone together. If he blushes or acts nervous, he might like you. Feeling brave? Suggest to him you try it out. But if John acts like it's funny, or says it sounds weird, let it go. But are you sure this dude is right for you? I can't tell for sure, but it sounds like he doesn't really care about dumping girls or if he has short term relationships. Do you want to get dumped after two weeks of going out and have him hate you? If you're sure this is right and John wants to date you, confide your concerns about the friendship being comprimised for a short romance. Good luck, whatever happens!
by jbird on 1/25/2007 9:10:02 PM
I think you should have a talk with him, either just between you two or you and some of his other close friends in your group. In this case, it's good to have atleast 1 or 2 of his other friends so that when you explain how you feel about his behavior, he won't accuse you of just being paranoid. Then, talk to him. Give clear examples of what he's doing, but don't attack him. Also, stay with the topic. Would it be possible to be friends with you AND the popular group? If it doesn't work out and he just ditches you/your group for the popular crowd, he is so not worth your time or your thoughts. Try to forget about him and keep yourself busy for the following days. It may be tough, but you have your friends for support. Wish you the best of luck!
by andreana on 1/25/2007 9:05:36 PM
is Drea there right now? Nope, this is Robin. I'm new to this moderating thing (tonight's my first night!), but I've been working with GL for a while. Is there something I can do to help you out? xoxo, Robin H.
by Girly Girl on 1/25/2007 8:47:50 PM
Go with the flow for a little while, don't let things go too far down the "wrong" path though. Make sure you tell Cam how you feel, (about hanging with the A listers). If all goes well, you can tell him that you like him, and if he starts to act arrogant like the popular crowd, point it out to him, even say that you liked (liked liked) him before he started to act different. Hope all goes well for you and Cam!!!!!
by maddie on 1/25/2007 8:30:57 PM
MCM: I had a similar situation with one of my past crushes (who was and is still one of my best guy friends). I didn't tell him for a long time, but then I didn't want to hide it anymore so I asked my best friend to tell him for me. She agreed to it and told him the next morning on her bus. He kind of avoided me the rest of the day but then at lunch the following day he was like "Yeah well...I know." I nodded and that was it. We didn't bring it up again. He didn't like me back but he didn't tease me about it either. I eventually got over him and moved on to the next boy (Cam). So I recommend having one of your friends tell him, as long as he is a good enough friend who won't make you feel bad about it. Or, if you feel more comfortable doing so, tell him yourself. Good luck to you!
by YourMother on 1/25/2007 8:06:38 PM
Hey Jessica or Drea, if you subscibe to GL will they send you spam in e-mail? Miss Goodie! I hope you dont mind me, Brooke, answering your question! Signing up for the newsletter definately shouldnt give you any spam because we DO NOT give your address to anyone! Its for GL use only so no worries about spam! Thanks girlie! ♥ Brooke
by GoOd GiRl on 1/25/2007 7:39:11 PM
ok lest see i have posted this so many times but no one had helped me ok lets see i have not had a crush on this guy(lets call him john)but i have know john for so long, he is my BGF (best guy friend) and can have so much fun with when we are together. We have been up to 11:00 talking on the phone once. We have so much fun together and are even in the same sport which is karate, so you could say that we can throw a punch or two at on another and not get mad. lol i really like him, but i don't want to ruin are friendship, what can i do??? pleas help me PS he has had like 20 girl friend and is only 13 and talks about them 24/7 I know that sounds really wrong, but he is so nice.
by MCM on 1/25/2007 7:37:48 PM
to your mother, wow that really sucks i have to say have you tried tell him how you feel (not that you like him) about him sitting with them? if he is a true friends he will listen to what you have to say and will take your feelings in to consideration. trie that, and if that dosn't work then get over him, he is not worth your time is he dosen't care what you think.
by MCM on 1/25/2007 7:35:40 PM
Thank you all so much for all of the advice! I read all of your comments and they all sound great. I'll definately talk to him about it the next chance I get. (By the way, he said that on Tuesday, but he ended up not sitting with the populars the next day because he had school store duty so he wasn't even in the cafeteria. And today he had a student council meeting at lunch time so I guess I'll have to wait and see tomorrow how he acts. :razz And if he still acts like a weirdo, I'll get over him. I might've found a new crush-worthy boy already...I'll be sure to keep you updated. Heehee. Thanks again!
by YourMother on 1/25/2007 7:30:04 PM
that must suck. my school isnt really into "popularity" or stuff like that(thankgoodness) there are ppl more popular than others but it doesnt matter(until elections!)
by puppyiiiz on 1/25/2007 7:12:08 PM
oh my, yomama (lol). i think that u need to straight out TALK to this guy. dont give the silent treatment to him or fight - that will only make it worse. u need to let ur crush kno that u feel weird about him - ah - "ditching" u & ur crew. soooooooooo best of wishes hope it works out. xoxo DQ
by dRaMaQuEeN on 1/25/2007 7:05:34 PM
me and my bff are like fighting over my other bff and my bff dont like my other bff and they r only trying to b bff to make me jealous wat should i do????
by Sommer on 1/25/2007 6:55:39 PM
sorry, i meant DONT tick him off by nagging lol
by LittlePrincess on 1/25/2007 6:41:14 PM
he's being shallow, but let's admit, we probably all have been at one time or another. the popular girl probably put Cam under pressure, and on the spur of the moment, he said what he thought would please her. you DID say that he didn't hesitated to diss you and called your group "people" instead. That tell's you that he probably doesn't really hold bad feeling against you guys. He was nervous. Give him the benefit of the doubt, he didn't mean what he said. He might hang out with the popular "in" group for a while, but even he said it himself, he finds the popular group fake. I can almost guarantee it, he will soon realize what is REAL you, his friend for now, i'd say you just give him some personal space to think about his actions. If a week goes by (i know, it seems long!) and he isn't realizing his mistake, i think you should talk to him. Try to focus on telling him what he could be missing out on DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE GO ON AND ON ABOUT WHAT HE DID WRONG OR HOW MUCH HE HURT YOU. of course bring it up, but tick him off by nagging. and last of all, invite him and your circle of friends to a fun event where he can relax and not worry about what to say like he's probably doing w/i the pplr group. he will hopefuly and most likely wake up and smell the coffee of the REAL WORLD!! hope this helps
by LittlePrincess on 1/25/2007 6:39:57 PM
i think that you should talk to cam and tell him that you were hurt. you guys are friends, so he should like sitting at your table! what he said was totally rude, no matter what he left out. the popular girl sounds rude too, don't know why he would want to sit with her instead! good luck!
by catherine on 1/25/2007 6:25:20 PM
To Reagan: Just be yourself and don't be afraid to talk to the guy!
by Sharada on 1/25/2007 5:39:00 PM
Continue treating this guy normaly, and see what develops. Most likely he'll stick with his friends.
by Sharada on 1/25/2007 5:36:24 PM
Yea talk to him about it and see what the deal is, and if he has no good answer then i would ditch him. He is being hypocritic and you don't want him to judge you if you are bf and gf do you? Much luv ♥
by sk8ergurl on 1/25/2007 5:29:09 PM
Hi, I'm new here. Hey, Nikki! Welcome to G-Blog, and have fun! xoxo, Robin H.
by Nikki on 1/25/2007 5:28:06 PM
Yeah that's probably all you can do. Talk to him! good luck!
by tahitisweetie on 1/25/2007 5:22:47 PM
Wow no comments?? Hey ur in a tough sitch! well mabe u should talk to him about what u think like hey cam why are u suddenly hangin out with all the popular kids i thought u didn't like them? or where u @ lunch i missed u. stuff like that And definetly dont act like u are trying to control his life b/c he will definetly hate u. If he still keeps acting like a jerk and a hypocrite i say get over him and find someone new. I kno its gonna be hard to get over him (if u even have to) just listen to A LOT of slow songs like too little too late jojo or say goodbye cris brown and single by natasha bedingfield. U never kno whats gonna happen and i hope it works out for u. if it doesn't dont worry ur too good for him anyway. much ♥ ♥ ♥ 4eva munchy
by munchy on 1/25/2007 5:13:07 PM
somtimes boys are......well just boys!most of them dont like to be teased by pple about hanging around girls.Just try to start a conversation with him and tell him that you wonder why he hasnt been at the lunch table. hope this helped xoxoKELLYxoxo
by KELLY on 1/25/2007 5:08:33 PM
ok this is the scoop theres this boy(lets call him Dom)and hes really smart and cute and he gets straight "A"s every semester and hes like my i dont kno what u would call it best or just friends but he goes on my Best freinds bus (lets call her Shannon) .So one day we were playing this game where we had to hold handsand get this Shannon and Dom were holding hands and im like best friends with his best friend . So i need edvice and i need it now what do i do 2 get him 2 notice me??
by Reagan on 1/25/2007 5:06:30 PM
omg i have first comment! Anyway ask Cam why he has suddenly betrayed you like this. He sounds like a jerk to me. I would stip being friends with him since he pretty much insulted you. If he wants to sit with the popular people then let him, but if he tries to crawl back to you, don't let him, although i know it may be hard, and i know how it feels. Find a new crush, keep all your other friends close, and good luck
by heather on 1/25/2007 4:57:04 PM
I think you should ask him why he said that because it hurt your feelings still even though he didn't say anything bad it was just plain mean. Good luck! Sarah
by Sarah on 1/25/2007 4:55:07 PM
hi everyone!
by Sarah on 1/25/2007 4:50:08 PM
Am I the only one on? I'm bored. I guess I will go. Goodbye......
by limitedEdition on 1/25/2007 4:43:51 PM
cam's being really mean, but he's probably just tired of people making fun of him
by puppyiiiz on 1/25/2007 4:37:08 PM
PS I like your name. (your mother) It is funny.
by limitedEdition on 1/25/2007 4:31:15 PM
hey gurl shake it off, if he can't see that you want him than forget him. hes got all he needs in front of him and dosent get it!! FORGET HIM
by laci on 1/25/2007 4:24:52 PM
You have to realize that maybe its hard for him to get picked on because hes not popular. Try to talk with him and see how he feels and express how you feel.
by showstopper on 1/25/2007 4:16:33 PM
I was in a similar situation, and what I did made it worse, so, if it helps, here's what NOT to do. ~Don't pretend like nothing happened, b/c he'll take it personally and he'll think that you don't care about his feelings. ~Don't be over sympathetic. I mean, c'mon, I did that and the guy said he hated me and that I was acting like "his Mother". ~Most importantO NOT, repeat, DO NOT give up within a week or two. If you give up, even if you do care, he'll think you don't, and you'll both be miserable. Hope this helps.
by kitkat on 1/25/2007 4:08:05 PM
Someone needs to tell Cam that being popular is NOT important. It is actually pretty stupid to long to be "popular". Instead, why not long to be smart, confident, or anything but popular. Trust me. I know you might not believe me, but BEING POPULAR IS NOT IMPORTANT AT ALL. Someday, you will look back on this experience and wonder why you liked such a shallow guy. ;)
by limitedEdition on 1/25/2007 4:03:05 PM
I'm so sorry, let me think, and I'll come up w/ something for you to do
by kitkat on 1/25/2007 4:01:50 PM
Ditch him! If he is that shallow, he is not worth your time.
by limitedEdition on 1/25/2007 3:59:32 PM
your mother, he might be acting like this beacause he had feelings for her. If you think he is being really snobby and rude, talk to him and tell him that he isnt the same anymore. good luck girl!
by pphchick247 on 1/25/2007 3:47:15 PM
Oi. That's a hard one...
by Bridget on 1/25/2007 3:35:37 PM
Truth or Dare?