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Ok. I am really confused about this boy that I like.Well, today in class for no reason he says my name out loud, when I looked at him after he said my name he looks at his desk. Then later later when we were heading home on the bus he taps my shoulder, when I look to see if it was him,which it was,he just looks at me with this weird faced smile. A few days ago he was saying my name alot to other people, I couldn’t make out what he was saying though. Last week I overheard him saying that he likes this other girl. But this week he doesn’t mention her and starts saying MY name. This guy is not really my crush by the way.I am really confused!!! What do you think about this guy? Do you think he likes me or what?

- xoxo,
Jackie Loves
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Dear Jackie Loves,

Before you jump to any conclusions, you should try to find out what he’s been saying to other people when he’s mentioned you. Casually approach the people he was talking to when you overheard him saying your name and ask them what it was about. There’s definitely a reason you’re the topic of all his conversations! If it turns out he does like you, you have to decide how you feel about it. If you don’t really have a crush on him, and he doesn’t seem to be putting actions to his words, then it’s not worth the trouble. But, if he seems like someone you’d be interested in, stick with your usual get-the-guy routine and see how he responds.

- Luv,
Chelsea (GL Intern)

BY ANDREA T. ON 5/6/2007 1:01:48 AM 353 COMMENTS

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ok i've got a big problem...its like a guy/friends prob. ok so i really like this guy. and he likes me back. we've been like a couple for like 2 months now, and my friend likes him too. alot. so yeah. thas basically it. and i feel so horrible cos i mean its like how can i be going out with a guy that my close friend likes?? and i've talked to her about this, we talked 4 like an hour and we still havent come up with a solution, i mean she can't jus like stop liking him, and even if she tells ppl that she doesnt like him, i'll know that she does and i'll still feel horrible. and i really really like this guy, i don wanna break up with him either. and my friend is like so humble and so like, nice cos she says she'll be able to live with it, but how can i live with it?? please help

Posted by: ♥diane on 5/11/2007 12:20:48 PM

hey any1 here

Posted by: swt luver on 5/11/2007 11:09:55 AM

Thanks Robin!

Posted by: thebrokenclock on 5/10/2007 9:10:56 PM

MODERATOR!!!!!!!!!
I’ve liked a guy for awhile and we were real good friends before he found out i liked him. Well, we kinda flirted at first when he first found out I liked him, but then we stopped because it was tech week for our play and we had no time together. He’s really good friends with my BFF, who has to get herself involved in everything (she’s the one who accidentally told him) and has asked him out for me, jokingly. He apparantly got all red and said that he doesnt like me. Now I barely see him except in the halls, and I dont know whether to get over him or ask him if he likes me or not, without the help of my BFF. By the way, I’ve never liked anyone as much as him. He doesn't date, and he says he doesn't because only weird ugly people like him and that i'm the first pretty girl to like him. He's also going to high school next year, and I'll be in 8th grade.


I wouldn't ask him if he likes you, but you can still flirt and see how he acts. That way you're less likely to scare him off by putting him on the spot.

xoxo, Robin H.

Posted by: thebrokenclock on 5/10/2007 9:05:26 PM

ok...sounds like he really likes u!!!! and well....dont confront him yet but wait and see if he flirts and has intrest in you...then take the plunge!

Posted by: Robbie Luvr! on 5/10/2007 8:58:47 PM

Hollietree- OMG I looove Suddenly I See! I like Never again too.
Hey... who asked you out????

Posted by: janice on 5/10/2007 8:49:02 PM

Hey well i REALLY liked this guy but then he hurt me REALLY bad and i unno what to do. please help?

Posted by: Charlie(U) on 5/10/2007 8:37:33 PM

janice-i love beautiful liar too!! my other favorite songs are:All good things(come to an end)by nelly furtado,suddenly i see by kt tunstall,and Never again by Kelly clarkson
And to everybody else who read what i was talking about b4 he asked me out on monday and he walks me to my class that is close to his and he comes to my locker after school and he talks to me and he hugs me and calls me and... he is soooo nice
♥hollie

Posted by: hollietree on 5/10/2007 8:35:21 PM

roxy1995, what is ur prob, i MIGHT be able to help,

Posted by: The Pretty Committee ♥ on 5/8/2007 7:10:35 PM

Roxy1995, I'll try to help!! ♥ Smile

Posted by: janice on 5/8/2007 7:13:17 PM

The Pretty Committee- Do you like the clique books? I heart them! ♥ Smile

HEY, JANICE! We are going to do a SUMMER BOOK CLUB and thinking about using the latest CLIQUE book. What do you (and all my G-Blog babes) think???? xojb

Posted by: janice on 5/8/2007 8:18:45 PM

omg definitely cool! Smile

Posted by: janice on 5/8/2007 9:12:04 PM

moderator!

robin H! thanx for the advice, now i know wht 2 do! THANKS!

Posted by: confused with love on 5/11/2007 7:08:20 PM

hey any1 here?

Posted by: swt luver on 5/11/2007 10:35:15 PM

please reply to my problem its the one posted above!!!

Posted by: ♥diane on 5/12/2007 4:03:54 AM

hey any1 here???

Posted by: swt luver on 5/12/2007 10:41:36 AM

Diane:
If oyu really like this guy maby you should tell him the problem. My friend broke up with her bf for the same reason of not wanting to loose her friend. For a wile he told her it was a stupid idea and they fought i wuz the 1 to solve it and to find out that he was really hurt because she didn't tell him. Talk to your bf and c what he thinks it might save you alot of trouble from both frieng and bf.

Posted by: **Ari** on 5/12/2007 12:53:38 PM

i have a huge problem....I fell for this guy who just happens to be a good friend of mine. The problem is my bff and him are going out and really like each other. I'm afraid to tell her the truth and get in a fight or get them broken up. What should I do???

Posted by: IDK~!!!!!!@#$%^&*()_+wertyuiop{} on 5/12/2007 1:01:17 PM

i have a big prob too...i've been goin out with my bf who's in 9th grade (im in 8th) for nine months and we're doing good. the problem is, he has twin sisters in 7th grade who are friends with this girl in my grade (but goes to a different school) who likes my bf a lot and asked him out once, but he said no. it's sooooo annoying and i get really jealous whenever she's over...and now my bf's sisters invited her over for his birthday party! UUUGHHH! its almost like his sisters are trying to hook up their friend and him, because she's over literally EVERY weekend! what do i do, this drives me CRAZY!!!!!

Posted by: hockeygirl_16 on 5/12/2007 1:03:41 PM

hey IDK- you should probably try to move on to another nice guy. you want your good guy friend and your BFF to be happy, right?

Posted by: ~lacrosse rocks~ on 5/12/2007 1:05:43 PM

~~~moderators!!!~~~~

ok so this guy i like said he liked me, so he broke up with his gf, after he thought about going out with me and thought that he was being a real jerk, so now he does not want to go out with me for awile, i just asked him today if he still liked, liked me and he said kinda, wht is tht saposto mean? should i still flirt with him? or should i give him some space and let him come back 2 me?? Help!

I would give him a little space, but still flirt with him when you see him. That'll remind him of how cool you are. Just don't pester him by asking him if he still likes you all the time.

xoxo, Robin H.

Posted by: confused with love on 5/10/2007 7:41:29 PM

he might like u he might not my best guy friend does the same thing all the time

Posted by: ~*nicci*~ on 5/10/2007 6:52:48 PM

hi sry i hvnt been on much yesterday -OOOh-1st comment!

Jackie Loves-hmmmmm...tht seems like a toughie-but I agree with Chelsea's advice. sry but I can never give good advice 4 life. sry

Mods-I hav a question-ok-so wen u hav a crush-do u get this tingly gut feeling tht u hate but u kinda like it wen u think of him-and do u get nervous when u look at him-because i've been having tht feeling lately. and also..i hav had 1 crush b4 and i finally got over him after 3 years! YAY! but now my new crush is so cute and sweet and funny. but im so nervous around him and real shy. I am afraid tht it will get out tht i like him. But I trust my friend-i hav never told any1 about mi 1st crush because he was a few months older-and a grade-plus he's prob. interested in other girls-but his bro (my age) said tht he (1st crush) liked me. So im confused a bit about tht little 4 letter word called LOVE. Any Idea on anything to help my cunfuzzilation prob. on LOVE??

thnx so much...xoxox

Posted by: TaterTot on 5/6/2007 1:34:25 AM

HIHIHI IM SO PEPPY OMG 1ST COMMENT IM PROUD HIHII BIBIBI

Posted by: HIHIHI on 5/6/2007 1:35:53 AM

hi i love this boy like a lot-ok oohlalala 1st comment beat tht!!! LOL HEHEHE JKJK

Posted by: meinwuv on 5/6/2007 1:36:45 AM

LIVE~LAUGH~LOVE, I know how that feels!!

Posted by: janice on 5/9/2007 10:36:35 PM

ILOVEAUSSIEHAIRPRODUCTS

Posted by: alizamyrin on 5/6/2007 2:26:33 AM

hey i need help- well its a good sign. keep flirting and maybe get a freind to get some info thats what i do.

the pretty committee me 2. i my phone taken away and i am really mad at my parents

Posted by: LIVE~LAUGH~LOVE on 5/9/2007 9:53:50 PM

ugh, i am sooooo ticked off! my rents are being jerks!


sorry, just had to vent

Posted by: The Pretty Committee ♥ on 5/9/2007 9:43:52 PM

MCH, my fave is #5, cuz that is when derrington gets to be a main character

Posted by: The Pretty Committee ♥ on 5/9/2007 9:38:54 PM

JCL, y?

Posted by: The Pretty Committee ♥ on 5/9/2007 9:40:48 PM

I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY AND HE LOOKS AT ME AND SMILES AT ME DOES HE LIKE ME 2

Posted by: Hey I Need Help on 5/9/2007 9:41:10 PM

hey chelsea
i think that if u dont like him then u shouldnt worry too much
but maybe u could ask some of his friends some sneaky questions to find out or get one of ur friends too

Posted by: **-aussie-girl-** on 5/6/2007 3:21:00 AM

I am so mad. U don't wanna know why!

Posted by: John Cena Luvr on 5/9/2007 9:11:03 PM

Ok well i dont want to lose the weoght just for him i want to lose it because i just want to be healthier and i think that if i put it off any longer than its never gonna happen so what kinda of cardio do i do? also, this might help im about 5'6'', 150 nd muscular with a 38 b cup. just so you know what i look like so you can find out the best way. THANKS!

Posted by: Charlie(L) on 5/9/2007 9:06:03 PM

HI MCH, I know you were asking The Pretty Committee, but I'm gonna answer: My fav is the first one, definitely! I also like Revenge of the Wannabes.

Posted by: janice on 5/9/2007 8:41:53 PM

Who's moderating??????

Posted by: I♥Jonas Brothers aka Ballet Dancer on 5/6/2007 6:30:50 AM

I am bored.

Posted by: I♥Jonas Brothers aka Ballet Dancer on 5/6/2007 6:37:48 AM

That picture up there looks funny. Like, laughing funny, not scary funny.

Posted by: I♥Jonas Brothers aka Ballet Dancer on 5/6/2007 6:38:47 AM

hm...............

Posted by: Lollipop on 5/6/2007 6:55:27 AM

JACKIE LOVES....

Chelsea gives great advice! No doubt about it! However, didn't you say that your crush likes you back and that you were going to ask him out? No need to date BOTH guys! I would say that if it happens to be that he DOES like you, tell him that you would just like to be friends. Perhaps you could find one of your friends to go out with him so you + your crush and your friend + this boy = DOUBLE DATE! :mrgreen: There's a carnival coming up, right??? :wink:

Posted by: Poet Maniac on 5/6/2007 7:01:25 AM

Hey this sorta reminds me of the poem for this week: Boy it's You.

Posted by: Poet Maniac on 5/6/2007 7:02:09 AM

******************MOD*******************
For the YouWroteIt thing, who do I send the email to? Also, if I sent one a while ago, can it still be posted or do I have to keep trying each week?

Posted by: Poet Maniac on 5/6/2007 7:04:49 AM

Chelsea is totallu right!
P.S. First comment? or second, third, fourth, etc.,

Posted by: Inspi(Red)♥ on 5/6/2007 7:34:11 AM

First comment? Doubt it!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME! I'm 14 today!!! :mrgreen:

Posted by: *MCH* on 5/6/2007 7:39:40 AM

soccer chick-
I am really sorry about how rude I was to you before.I also DONT like Sanjaya anymore!-LOL.Sorry for all the rude comments I said to you.NOW I also agree with you that Sanjaya is ugly and I was Crazy that I liked him before.Do you forgive me?Sorry.
xoxo,
Jackie Loves

Posted by: ♥Jackie Loves♥ on 5/6/2007 9:50:54 AM

1ST COMMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: ☼ Sunkissed Blonde ☼ on 5/6/2007 8:00:57 AM

i definetly think he likes you.

Posted by: showstopper on 5/6/2007 8:07:42 AM

i thought u liked sanjaya.

way 2 b loyal 2 him!

Posted by: ♥soccer♥chick♥ on 5/6/2007 8:09:30 AM

I finally figured out what that tingly feeling is, its *MAGIC*

so now that I know what it is-I like it even more

Posted by: TaterTot on 5/6/2007 8:35:51 AM


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