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GIRL TALK: Mixed Signals

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My crush and I are kinda friends, but I like him as more than a friend. Yesterday we were talking on MSN messenger, and out of nowhere he asked if I had a crush on him. I suck at lying so I told the truth, and after I told him he said he had to get offline without saying anything about me liking him. Here are my questions:

1) Do you have any ideas about why he asked me about it in the first place?
2) What if it gets awkward to talk to him and it ruins our friendship?

-Halli'

Sounds like this guy had an inkling that you might like him and wanted to find out for himself. If he wasn’t interested in you as well, he probably wouldn’t have taken the time to ask. He most likely didn’t think his plan through and didn’t know what to say back once you fessed up to your crush, explaining the quick sign off. The ball is in his court now – he has the info, so he needs to decide what to do with it. Don’t push him for more deets. If he is crushin’ back, he’ll probably let you know soon. Meanwhile, just keep on being friends and act like you normally do with him. Things should either smooth over or evolve into a better friendship/relationship.

- Alli

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Hannah. You're problem's a tough one. If the guy you like is so close, it would seem tempting to talk to him. It would be easier for you to hang out if you became a couple, etc. However, if he show's absolutley no interest in you whatsoever, and you're like me not wanting to have a SUPER good chance of being rejected, lay low. Based on that, make a decision. Is he shy, but into you. GO for it. If not, that's a toughie.

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by RockinRobin on 7/30/2007 11:41:35 AM

 
 

My bgf sends mixed signals too. He told practically everyone but me (and they kept their secrets's way to well btw!!!!!!!) and eventually my BFF told me. I kind of like him too, except, I don't know what to do about it. It's so obvious he likes me bc guys at my school always do what he's doing when they like a girl. Avoid her. I know he likes me, but, he told his best friend that he didn't like me. I think it's bc he doesn't know i knowand thinks his friend would tell, but his friend always says that he hates me and thinks i'm a freak. Advice?

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by RockinRobin on 7/30/2007 11:38:24 AM

 
 

ok problem. this guy i kinda like moved. up the street from me. mayb four houses up? wat do i do? nothing?

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by Hannah on 7/30/2007 10:07:48 AM

 
 

who are thep eople in the bold print(robin, jiae, cassie)?

We're the moderators. We're the girls who read all the comments before they're posted to make sure they comply with our guidelines. We also answer questions, if necessary (which is when you see the bold answers).
-andie

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by anonymous on 7/28/2007 4:29:27 PM

 
 

Halli I used to Like my guy friend but just start to like someone else or get with someone that will help you to get over him it helped me

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by susan on 7/28/2007 10:45:45 AM

 
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