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I go to a small private school, and there is always a bunch of drama. I try not to get involved, but I somehow always do.

Some people like drama because it can be exciting and routine-breaking. When you’re wrapped up in the drama, though, things can get complicated. Anyone who’s been entangled in a BFF conflict realizes a little bit of boring isn’t always so bad. The next time someone at school gossips, asks you to take sides or otherwise pulls you into the soap-opera scene, remove yourself from the situation. You can say you need to review for a test and retreat to the library, or simply say, “You know, I’d prefer to stay out of it.” If you need a drama-fix, turn on Gossip Girl.

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BY ANDREA T. ON 3/18/2008 1:41:00 PM 274 COMMENTS

274 READER COMMENTS

I have the same prob.

Posted by: funkymonkey on 3/19/2008 8:52:20 AM

ugh tht happens 2 me 2!

Posted by: ♥♥♥samantha♥l.m.s basketball #20♥go derring rams state champs♥blondes have more funn♥♥♥ on 3/19/2008 11:20:23 AM

me 2 once a new rumor has started... everyone finds out wether they like it or not... ppl at my school try to keep things on the down low but that never stays for more then at least 2 days

Posted by: shabam girl on 3/19/2008 12:19:58 PM

mod,
y did they get a new website? is there still gonna b the g-blog?

Posted by: softballchick<3's u! on 3/19/2008 12:39:25 PM

me too except i normally stay out of it

Posted by: basketballfreak on 3/19/2008 12:50:50 PM

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i <3 the now girlslife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: hollyberrie on 3/19/2008 1:20:06 PM

i go 2 an all girls skool 2 and i totally no how u feel. what i do iz if ppl come up 2 me and start gossiping like 'omg *name* was being so mean im so gonna get back at her' just say 'well i like her and she is my friend so stop' or 'dont talk 2 me about it, talk 2 her!!' all im saying iz be nice to both pplz and ull be fine

Posted by: beach*babe on 3/19/2008 1:24:36 PM

lol i am a chocohalic I LOVE SPORTS AND CHOCOLATE EQUILY!

Posted by: Sportz Luver on 3/19/2008 7:53:08 PM

i've been in SO much drama before it's not even fun anymore. :)

Posted by: swedlhal on 3/19/2008 10:57:49 PM

I've had that happen before.Try asking the guy out for once.

Posted by: Wish I had something to say on 3/19/2008 11:33:19 PM

any pplp wanna chat with moi????

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/20/2008 7:05:31 PM

i <3 t.j. he is 2 cute!!!!!he is mine!

Posted by: xoxo711 on 3/20/2008 7:20:28 PM

omg i go to a school tht's like pre-k to 8th grade and but like things get around soo fast in the middle school grades. Once there was this thing in my grade (my grade is like the worst, no joke we have the most drama) and by the end of homeroom the day we found out about it (the homerooms are mixed this yr...6,7, and 8th in the same homeroom) every single person knew about it and everybody in all 3 grades were talking about it. so yea, in a matter of like 2 hrs the whole middle school knew about our drama.

Posted by: ♥$LaGuNaGiRl$♥ on 3/20/2008 7:23:37 PM

***mod***
i want to go to this concert, tokio hotel. but when i asked my BFF if she wanted to with me she said she doesn't even know who they are. i wanna ask my other friends but im scared they'll all say no. i reeeally wanna go, but not alone! what do i do?

just keep asking until you find someone who wants to go. if none of your friends want to go, maybe you can take a family member or neighbor . ~L'Oreal

Posted by: MunkQoo on 3/20/2008 7:27:35 PM

****mod****
I really like this guy that is in my homeoroom and math class. He is supper cute. He lloks at me alot and kind of smiles. I want to ask him out but I don't know if he likes me. How can i tell if he likes me or not??? And if he does, how should i ask him out????Please help!!!

if he smiles at you a lot, hangs around you a lot, talks to you a lot, etc. he may like you. if he does, you could ask him to a school dance, to the movies, to grab lunch sometime, etc. just relax & have fun! ~L'Oreal

Posted by: kendallxkane18 on 3/20/2008 7:42:54 PM

hello

Posted by: i-am-starange on 3/19/2008 1:43:43 PM

everything will work out for the better in the end!

Posted by: adorable511 on 3/19/2008 1:48:31 PM

Well.. mine is the opposite. My bff is a guy and he is so nice! But everyone thinks that we like eachother but we dont! We are just really good friends! What should I do? I dont think that I should be mean about it, but how else am I going to get my point across that I don't like him like that?

Posted by: Lexinator315 on 3/19/2008 2:22:25 PM

Hey

Posted by: skinnyjeans on 3/19/2008 2:24:20 PM

hey anyone want to chat with me? who's modding?

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/19/2008 2:32:21 PM

hey

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/19/2008 2:35:05 PM

gossip isnt the worst prob unless it gets too ridiculous and its not that important sometimes i get tired of it id tell them just to get over it some things people gossip about are too silly and its not worth ruining things for

Posted by: nanna149 on 3/19/2008 2:42:17 PM

mod!!!!
i was just wondering about what happend with the thing where we were asked to send a email about the best cheer camp we/ve ever been too cuz i entered and was curious if it talks about it in the new magazing?
thank

Posted by: tinkgirly on 3/19/2008 2:56:21 PM

***MOD***
i think i lost my glasses and my mom is super pissed @ me. they r less than a month old & i have no idea were they r!!! :( any idea were they might be? I lose everything!!! 70$ calculator, vera bradleys, glasses (ive lost a pair before this), ect... how do i stop losing stuff??? please help me!!!!!!!!!!! :*(
thnx
SweetNSalty

Posted by: paigeno on 3/20/2008 9:10:33 AM

omg girlfriend- i feel ur pain! you'll get through this believe me

Posted by: alexfreeman on 3/20/2008 9:34:09 AM

ye drama fills the halls at my school sometimes and its annoying b/c eventually eveyone is somehow involved and it s crazy!!!

Posted by: iluvbradyquinn on 3/20/2008 10:58:04 AM

y isn't my comment coming up?

Posted by: iluvbradyquinn on 3/20/2008 10:58:33 AM

************MOD**********
Ok so this isn't completly guy related but sort of. I'm 14 and ok I can read minds but only some times,it's like email messages sent to me. I can't control them I've tried it out lots of times and yeah I always get it right. Is this invading people's privacy?????
I feel really bad bout it but what can I do, I can't control the toughts I get!!
Ok and they guy part, I know what my crush is thinking!!!! He thinks to himself how much he likes me and like obsesess over me in his mind, but he acts all tough and manly. We talk alot to each other and we are really great friend, but I would really like more... ya know.
So does he like me like THAT?????

well, if you're convinced he likes you, then try talking to him and see what he says. if he does like you, then go ahead and ask him out. ~L'Oreal

Posted by: cross-country chick on 3/20/2008 8:09:52 PM

Drama can be so thrilling sometimes and it can also get in u in a lot of trouble. Your feeling a feeling called temptation which is something I have a lloott of trouble dealing with!!!Just ask your friends not to talk about it or simply walk away!!! I have had to do that alot!!! Don't be afraid to say "no I don't want to be involved". If you can't ever be able to trust yourself to say no to your friends then how can you say no when someone asks you to try alcahol!!!

Posted by: $cc$ on 3/20/2008 8:55:44 PM

Yes I i have been in as much drama as i can rememeber since i went to this new school but when i went to my old school. i didn't get into any mess or etc whats the promblem cuz its not me

Posted by: true2yourself1216 on 3/19/2008 3:15:46 PM

hey! wassup ppl!

Posted by: inthehoop15 on 3/19/2008 3:34:21 PM

i know at my school we always have some kind of drama going on and me and my friends are always the ones involved and i am soooo sick of it cuz we like never get to have any fun anymore when we go out or something! =[

Posted by: cheerxlover on 3/19/2008 3:53:02 PM

wat does mod mean?

Posted by: NautyLivvy on 3/19/2008 3:56:14 PM

omigosh. i have so much drama at my school too!!! and it is beyond annoying. and it often involves me too....

Posted by: i<3choco on 3/19/2008 4:06:31 PM

I go to private school to and I can relate to that you can't believe it. Theres one thing after another and sometimes people tell me things i don't even want to know. Someday I want to know but if
I get stuck in the middle its not my problem.

Posted by: kristin on 3/19/2008 4:23:24 PM

I get into a lot of drama.I try 2 stay out but itdon't work.

Posted by: mizdiva360 on 3/20/2008 2:14:50 PM

don don don...

Posted by: caL♥ on 3/20/2008 2:32:07 PM

I always hate drama. I have the same excat promblem. Y can't I see my comments. I've about 10 and I don't see them

Posted by: Basketballover15 on 3/20/2008 2:59:30 PM

even thought i don't go to private skool, my skool still has lots of drama. totally crazy and can sometimes really get out of hand!

Posted by: bonnie<3 on 3/20/2008 3:25:44 PM

blonds are awesome!!

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 3:55:34 PM

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 3:56:44 PM

I lose stuff to all you have to do is put them in a special place or write your selve a note were they are!!

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 3:58:43 PM

hey dose anyone want 2 chat???????????

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 4:01:03 PM

i think all schools have DRAMA!!!!!!!

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 4:02:33 PM

i think all schools have DRAMA!!!!!!!

Posted by: CrAZy on 3/20/2008 4:03:09 PM

what does mod mean?

Posted by: kerplunkk on 3/21/2008 11:02:10 AM

Even though people say drama is bsd I don't think so,I think drama is very ecxiting(in our school atleast)because people like to see what someone would do to prove their point.theres drsma excpecialy if someone starts going out!They ask are you going to kiss or what?And they bug you to sit next to each other twenty-four seven(I know because I've been there) It gets on your nerves really quick!

Posted by: soccerchick18 on 3/21/2008 11:20:25 AM

i feel your pain i go to a small school to and i try to be a good friend to those in drama but if they try to drag you into it tell them that you are there for them but you really dont want to get involved

Posted by: countrygirl_07 on 3/21/2008 11:34:46 AM

hello ne 1 there

Posted by: countrygirl_07 on 3/21/2008 11:35:22 AM

Zara-Okay, how old r u guys? not old enough to know what love is!! and im not saying i do, but you should really put this guy's feelingsinto consideration. tell him that u need 2 take it slow and that being friendsis the way to go right now.
luv, Evan

Posted by: evan on 3/21/2008 11:44:36 AM

I keep trying to impress this insanely hot guy. I always end up embarrasing myself though. I want him to be my BF but i don't know how to act. Help Me!!!

Posted by: daddys girl on 3/19/2008 6:05:55 PM

hey NautyLivvy, mod is short for moderator and its the person that reviews all our posts befor putting them in the blog. if you put mod at the top of your post then the mod will know its for her and you can ask a question and she'll respond!

Posted by: LuvRgirl on 3/19/2008 6:40:18 PM

i go to a private school too. here's how to deal. the gossip might seem juicy at first, but in the end it winds up hurting someone(ive been a victim)
so dont giv in. when sumone tries to giv u gossip politely refuse. if they r a true frend, theyll understand.
-valpal :-)

Posted by: valpalrox on 3/19/2008 7:35:08 PM

Posted by: valpalrox on 3/19/2008 7:36:04 PM

need guy help ASAP. thanks!! :)

Posted by: :P on 3/20/2008 4:58:17 PM

if i were you, i would try to confront her. Maybe something is going on in her family life and she is taking it out on her surroundings at school.

Hope i helped!

Luv,
Kitkat1047

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:25:55 AM

Any people wanna chat with moi???

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:26:52 AM

Well.. pop princess2, you should pull her aside and ask why she is acting so weird, also you could make some new friends and give her some time to think things over. Of course, there is always the hard way.. act like her to give her a taste of her own medicine.. (I suggest you don't do that)
-Hope this Helps!
<3 SilyGirl@ILuvFun <3

Posted by: SillyGirl@ILuvFun on 3/21/2008 8:30:57 AM

My BFF has been acting like a snob too! Let's be BFFs pop princess2

Posted by: raycool on 3/21/2008 8:36:11 AM

i think you shouhld confront her. She probably has some family buisness goin on and she takes it out on people at skool. At least that is what happened to me BFF

Hope i can help!!!!!!!!
Luv,
Kitkat!!!!!!!!

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:44:32 AM

just a lil curious, what MOD is on???

If there is any on "Hey!! Whats goin on!!!!"

Luv,
Kitkat!!!!!!!!

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:46:20 AM

does anyone see ANY of my comments??????????????

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:48:01 AM

ahhh!!!!!!!! They still are not showing!

Boo HOo!!!!

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/21/2008 8:48:33 AM

OMG! I totally know what you guys all mean! Going to a small private school is hard! There is wayyy too much drama! My boyfriend and I broke up because of it...talk about unfair! :(

Posted by: !Bre@nn@! on 3/21/2008 9:11:46 AM

thai boy is my best friend his name is dylan wold and i really like him but i don't now if he like's me back
hey
girl

Posted by: shaynaenae on 3/21/2008 2:18:45 PM

*mod*
wen i try to enter for the giveaway 4 today it sends me 2 a page with yesterdays giveaway giveaway

Hey girl,

Hmmm..Sorries I'm not in the office so IDK :(

~*Cait

Posted by: TerryWorm on 3/21/2008 3:20:21 PM

i like this guy, but someone told me he just thought of us as friends. i went to the movies with him and talk to him all the time, now i'm so confused!

Posted by: luv4coco on 3/21/2008 3:24:52 PM

*mod*
how do you become a mod?

Hey girl,

You work for GL

~*Cait

Posted by: irishgurl on 3/21/2008 3:47:00 PM

~MOD~
my bff(jenn) had a birthday party that she invited a boy from her old school(matt) to. a few days after the party. i found out that matt had asked my other bff(roxy)out twice! the worst part is that my bgf(gary) has a major crush on roxy and she knows! roxy turned matt down both times and then later i found out that matt had gone to jenn to ask if he should move on and she said yes. now gary AND roxy AND kat AND possibly meg AND maybe even tiff AND (although very unlikely)jenn all hate matt! and what else makes it worse? he's really sweet (matt, i mean) and i don't have a good reason to hate him. i really like him (just as a friend). how should i feel about this situation? i don't want roxy and gary to feel like i don't care about them, but i don't hate matt! i don't know what to do! HELP! it's all they talk about most of the time! and my birthday party is coming up and i don't want them to be talking about it there!

Hey girl,

If you still value Matt as a bud then stay buds with him regardless. This is a really dramatic sitch. What do you girlies think?

~*Cait

Posted by: ~*future-superstar*~ on 3/21/2008 3:49:20 PM

Thanx.

Posted by: ~*future-superstar*~ on 3/21/2008 4:14:58 PM

~mod~
there is this girl she is in this movie and she brags all the time and she is some times anoying.
the teacher stands up for her when she is the one braging and i am fedd up. and oh yeah she used to be my friend. plez help me. what should i do?

Hey girl,

Hmm I would IGNORE her bragging and focus on your real friends.

~*Cait

Posted by: ALY&aJaReAwEsOmE on 3/21/2008 4:29:00 PM

this happens alot to all girls! if your friends start to talk about gossip "walk away"! that helps me. if it still happens tell the counsler or the teacher you herd it but didnt spread it. that will help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:37:38 PM

why wont they all not show up??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? HELP???!?!?!!?!?

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:39:17 PM

WHAT IS mod??????
!mod!

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:40:04 PM

Both my sisters are type 1 diabetics. anna's a year younger then me and one is in 4th grade. Hanna eats way more then me and a lot too but shes small. The only reason shes that size is cuz she always has a high blood suger (which means she is peeing fat all the time but she dosent know that she is peeing out fat cuz her doc doesnt want her to know.) She is always saying how fat I am, I cant even eat in frount of her and my mom just goes along with it. One day i heard them talking about my size and how fat i am. im not skinny but i know im not that fat. i cant talk to them about it they will just make it really bad. now i dont even want 2 eat in frount of my mom I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO! i cant talk to enyone about it!

Posted by: Haleigh on 3/21/2008 7:41:48 PM

kerplunkk- I ahve no idea, i want 2 know, 2!

Posted by: evan on 3/21/2008 11:45:20 AM

im bored lets chat someone

Posted by: pearlgirl11 on 3/21/2008 12:11:33 PM

Posted by: pearlgirl11 on 3/21/2008 12:11:43 PM

mod or a girlslife user-
i dont have boobs at all. im geting taller, but they still arent growing, plus, i've been having discharge in my underwear, and i dont have a yeast infection. isnt ur body suppost to age at the same rate? im growing, but my boobs arent! wats wrong with me?!
xoxo
lovelylady

Hey! Discharge is totally normal. Yeast infection discharge is a little different-- usually it will be a darker color (beige or even slightly green) and smell a bit. I know it sounds gross! Sorry! Also, you'll experience itch and uncomfort down there. Don't worry about the boobs--they'll come! And if not.. think of it like this... smaller boobs are totally fashionable right now. I mean, look at all the models and uber-celebs. Paris Hilton even spoke out about how she loves her smaller boobs.

<3 Laura

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/21/2008 12:11:56 PM

*mod*
my parents dont want me to have a bf, even
though im in seventh grade and a lot of my
friends have already had lots of bf's. they
are also really protective and they freak
out wenever i wanna hang out at the mall
with friends (including guys) and wenever
i text my guy friends. anyone hav any
help???

Hey! First, get your parents adjusted to the fact that you hang out with guys as friends. Make sure you let them know if your going out that there will be guys there so they know that you have nothing to hide and are being totally truthful with them. Once they get used to hanging out with guys in a group, they'll be more apt to go for the whole bf thing.

<3 Laura

Posted by: i<3shoes on 3/21/2008 12:25:20 PM

I go to the same type of school! I just got there this year,though, so I haven't been involved in that much drama.

Posted by: coolgirlTT on 3/21/2008 12:31:16 PM

i used 2 like drama but now i HATE IT!!!! it piles up really fast and soon u gt like buried in it!!! i no this... ive experinced it...

Posted by: chorusgeek on 3/21/2008 4:53:33 PM

thx mod

Posted by: ALY&aJaReAwEsOmE on 3/21/2008 4:59:56 PM

hey pop princess2,
you should let her calm down then if she still is you should talk to her and tell how you feel. that happend to me once so i have experinces.

Posted by: ALY&aJaReAwEsOmE on 3/21/2008 5:08:39 PM

Theres always gonna be drama soo just try ur best to keep away...

Posted by: mina on 3/21/2008 11:34:19 PM

i been in the same situation at my school. when people are asking which side they are on am the first person they ask

Posted by: lol1235 on 3/22/2008 8:01:05 AM

MOD!!!!!!!! ********** Laura F, right?
Well anyways, I seriously think that GL should have a comments box on ur site, bcuz i kno that a ton of girls have comments about this new site. I HATE how the comments take 4evr 2 get posted. It's annoying, bcuz no1 evr posts anything bad.

The site is new so we are having glitches your reports have been accounted for. Thanks for your input! This is kinda like our comment box so I have your input, thans girl!
Toodles,
Lissy

Posted by: Fieldhockeychick11 on 3/22/2008 8:06:41 AM

It never hurts for YOU to be the one to ask the guy out instead of waiting for him to come to you!

Posted by: ash_bash08 on 3/22/2008 8:26:55 AM

ok thankyou very much mod L'Oreal! =)i apprecaite your help.

no prob hon! ~L'Oreal

Posted by: MunkQoo on 3/20/2008 9:22:21 PM

When this happens, the best thing to do is try not to get involved. Don't give comments, don't share gossip, and don't spread rumors. This usually backfires on you and drags you into a bigger mess. Trust me, STAY OUT OF IT and it'll be okay.

Posted by: suzizzle on 3/20/2008 9:22:57 PM

Lucky,
I have a boyfriend but I don't like him and the only reason I said yes to him was cause i wanted him to be happy.
Now enever he says i love u i feel weird in my stomach but i cant reply.
What do i do? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Posted by: Zara on 3/21/2008 12:57:26 AM

My bff is ignoring me and acting like a snob. should I be friends with her. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: pop princess2 on 3/21/2008 4:55:02 AM

Zara, dump him!!

Posted by: Basketballover15 on 3/22/2008 10:23:33 AM

****MOD**** i have to big of boobs. How do I make them small?

Hey girl, unfortunately there's nothing you can do to make them smaller unless you get surgery. Instead of doing something that drastic you should just wear clothing that doesn't show anything off. Besides, as you get older you're going to be happy that you have them and everyone will be very jealous of you. So just wait a little while and you'll be thankful for them! ~Kristin

Posted by: Basketballover15 on 3/22/2008 10:25:59 AM

how do you tolerate going to an all girls school!? I would never be able to stand that. some of my close friends are guys, and sometimes they are more interseting than my girl friends. (no offense to all the AMAZING girls out there)

Posted by: musik21292 on 3/22/2008 11:34:08 AM

I totally have a huge problem with that because i have more guy friends then girl friends and that why i dont get a date

Posted by: hot stuff on 3/22/2008 11:39:49 AM

hey, about the drama thing, every school will have drama of some kind. just remember to be the MATURE person in the situation and not contribute. the older you get, the sillier drama seems. there will be less of it when you get to those higher grades in school (aka 10th, 11th, 12th grade.) most freshmen think they're so cool cuz they're in high school, and theres always drama. (so, like i said, be the mature one and don't contribute. besides, getting a big head isn't cool)
P.S. i feel kinda stupid 4 asking, but wat does MOD mean?

Posted by: musik21292 on 3/22/2008 11:43:55 AM

Hey
I LOVED the Get Crafty: Tee it up blog, but now I can't c it cuz it was on the old site! PLEASE could u guys put it on the new site? I would be really exteremly happy! THX!
P.S. I understand if you don't! You guys r busy! P.S.S. The new site is GREAT!

Posted by: dELiA's Girl on 3/23/2008 6:45:35 AM

I hate it when my comments never come up what is the problem and if there is one plzzzzz fix it cause when I tell my friends i posted a comment they dont beleive me cause they cant see it it gets fustrating after a while so plz post this comment! love ya bffkimmy

We are doing the bets we can, if we knew what te problem was we would. Please be patient, the glitches are seriously out of our control

Posted by: bffkimmy on 3/23/2008 8:07:45 AM

I go to middle school and im only in the fifth grade i love it but there is so much drama like one girl got kicked out of school!! I try to stay out of the drama but i always get pulled in plz some one any advice!!!

Posted by: bffkimmy on 3/23/2008 8:11:11 AM

MOD********************
i have this friend i would say we are best friends and she would say the same. weve been friends for 3 years. the things is shes very pesimistic. she always puts a downer on stuff. she always looks for the negative stuff in a situation. and the thing is.....for my "New years resolution" i said i was going to be more opptimistic and shes like "no be like me..pesimistic." you know how after you hang out with someone for a while...some of their bad habits rub off on you,,,well im afraid that im becoming like her which i dont want to happen. im not just gonna ditch her and i dont anyone here to say find some new friends cause its not that easy. HELP ME!!!!!!

Hey girl, that's tough! Talk to her about how she brings your mood down sometimes. Show her the upsides of being optimistic!! <3 Jaime

Posted by: corkyrenee on 3/22/2008 3:28:01 PM

mod*****
um i have a sorta bad prob. but idk if it really is bad. i am fighting w/ my b(?)ff and we r dissagreeing b/c i dont like wat she does. i am trying to just b around her less, but still be frends. she is getting a bit mad about this, i can tell, but i am trying as best as i can. i tryed to have a chat w/ her and she wouldn't let me she just says that it is ok that i want other frends. so i am letting her believe that i want other frends, instead of the real problem, which is that i dont like her as much. but that isnt even the prob! i think that i am taking care of that pretty well by just spending less and less time w/ her. my bro is broke (he in his 20s) and needs a job-badly. u no this b(?)ff? lets call her sara. so anyway, sara's dad offerd my bro an intern ship at his office! i think that if i mess things up w/ sara, she will tell her dad not to let my bro be his intern or to pay him less. sara's dad thinks of her as his little girl and will do watever she asks. i think that i am just paranoid. wat do u think?

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/23/2008 3:35:18 PM

My school is divided into parts, so only like 150 in the same grade have classes together. The drama is huge and pretty annoying, but still you need a bit of climax in your life otherwise its boring. What if you came to school everyday and all you did was LEARN? That would bore me to death. My advice is, sorry GF but its life. :-D

Posted by: emmaboo on 3/23/2008 4:03:19 PM

*********hi mod!!!!! can u please help me?**********

please help! a really cute, funny, smart, athletic and really sweet boy likes me. he gave me really nice flowers for vday,we dance together at all the school dances, and he emails me a lot. the problem is, we are both so shy! especially him lol. so we never talk in person!! we both go to the same really small school, but we never talk and its really akward. i want 2 maybe date him in highschool, but first we have to get passed the akwardness and say something to each other!! do u have any ideas on how to start up a convo in person??? xooxox

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:40:05 PM

ya drama is pretty intense at my school 2, its such a rich kid drama private school!! lol tho all the drama queens are going away next year for high school so my friends and i cant wait!!! :) hope it gets better, just try to stay out of it and not pass on the rumors!!

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:40:57 PM

pop princess-
u just need to talk to her!! if u dont talk to her, then u wont know what her prob is. maybe someone spread a rumor about u to her and she believes it! call her and give her a talk. if she is still snobby, maybe its time to find some new friends for now and put her on hold! xxoo

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:42:04 PM

Posted by: Haleigh on 3/21/2008 7:42:25 PM

you should ask him your self to see how he feels about you what if that girl likes him and she dosent want him to like u? smart huuuuuu????!!!!!!!!

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:46:08 PM

never mind i got it?

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:46:31 PM

never mind i got it i think im blond!!!!?!?!?!

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:48:12 PM

why cant you talk bout it there family?

Posted by: bubbles on 3/21/2008 7:49:06 PM

If she does that, I would assume that she's not a true friend to you, and move on and start a new relationship with a different friend.

Posted by: ash_bash08 on 3/21/2008 7:49:16 PM

Dear ALY&aJaReAwEsOmE...
I would focus on ignoring that girl. The only thing she wants is attention, and you don't want to give that to her. If you stop giving her attention, then hopefully she'll stop bragging.

Posted by: ash_bash08 on 3/21/2008 7:51:03 PM

MOD**** I need your help ok i have a bf but he does not talk to me that much is that a sign that he does not like me or something and what can i do to make him talk to me more PLEASE HELP QUICK!!!

Hey girl, I already answered this, but I'm sure it just means he's nervous about you. You should call him up and ask him about it to see for sure! ~Kristin

Posted by: tye-dye_2013 on 3/22/2008 12:50:17 PM

Mod, My friends have all had their first kiss and guys compliment them alot. Whenever i'm around guys im one of the guys. But when it's time to dance, im shunted to the side. How can i change this??

Hey girl, there's nothing wrong with being one of the guys. Give it a little bit of time and all the guys are going to turn to you for girlfriend material because you're so easy to talk to and such things. You'll get your first kiss soon I promise!~Kristin

Posted by: grinningskullz on 3/22/2008 12:59:19 PM

Hey if anyones on can somene answer a question???????????????????????????

Posted by: hannahgirl on 3/22/2008 1:21:16 PM

pop princess2
that has happened to me with my bff before .. i would give her time and try to talk it out with her if that doesnt work then i would try just giving her some space and maybe waiting for things to work themselves out

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/22/2008 1:47:36 PM

Hey, I am friends with this guy and everyone keeps saying we should go out! Its getting really annoying! I don't wanna be mean, but i wanna get my point across! Wut should i do?

Posted by: auburngirl5632 on 3/22/2008 1:59:26 PM

well...does the guy like you?

Posted by: cams8808 on 3/23/2008 10:23:49 AM

I am having a birthday party with 4 of my bffs. One of them helped me plan it( we are having a sleepover and going to the mall. The minute she left my house she called all my other friends and told them it was going to be lame and boring. She is still going and so are my other friends but how can i prove her wrong and have the best party ever!! HELP PLEASE

Posted by: MADDSOXXO on 3/23/2008 11:00:01 AM

omg i kno how u feel... only i go to a big school w/ a lot of ppl and all ne1 talks about is whos dating who, who likes who... and its so frustrating that you dont have time to be yourself

Posted by: alwayshavinfun324 on 3/21/2008 6:10:33 PM

hey!!! any1 want 2 chat?

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:14:26 AM

*MOD* *MOD* *MOD*
how do u make a profile? in the new mag i thot i read tht u could make ur own profeli?

You can it's just not up yet, keep your eyes peeled for the next couple weeks and it will get up.
Lissy

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:16:54 AM

*MOD* *MOD* *MOD*
Im so confused about how the new comments work, it takes forever to find my comment...i just dont get it?

Hey girl, every comment I see of yours I put through so chill and bear with us while we have are having the glitches thanks girl!
Lissy

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:19:14 AM

ya, i agree w/ ash_bash08, i asked out my current bf, and it didn't hurt at all! just remember: girls can do anything boys can do!!!

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:21:31 AM

um... where are my comments????????

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:23:30 AM

nvm, i found them

Posted by: Smart'n'Sassy on 3/22/2008 9:24:31 AM

********MOD*************** Hiya!! I have a question and need advice: OK so there is this girl in my class that no one really likes, including me. Well she tries to hang out with me and my BFF. We both do mot like her at all, but she always says we are tottaly BFFs!!!!!!!! I hate this and need help!!!! Luv, Kitkat!!

Hey girl, you should sit down and talk to this girl and let her know in a nice way that you need some space. Hopefully she gets the idea and leaves you guys alone. You could even try to introduce her to knew people so that she has some other friends! ~Kristin

Posted by: kitkat1047 on 3/22/2008 9:38:24 AM

MOD i need help My bff sience 4ever is kinda discusting. She eats and gets food everywhere she is always wearing something that looks like she got it when she was5 and her breath always stinks. I know that as a friend i am supposed to look past this but most of the time i just want to tell her that she is not 5. Pleese help me!

You should just sit down and have a little chit-chat with her and let her know all of this. Maybe subtley give her gum when you can and you could try taking her shopping and picking out some fun clothes for her. She'll get the hint eventually. ~Kristin

Posted by: puppy2700 on 3/22/2008 9:57:13 AM

why do comments take so long?

Posted by: puppy2700 on 3/22/2008 10:00:40 AM

MOD,
How do you look at other peoples accounts?
Can you or can you not?

Posted by: Jaymee96 on 3/22/2008 5:57:00 PM

thanx laura! that helps a lot! wow, who would think that paris hilton would say that she LOVES her small boobs?! thats a first! lol!

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/22/2008 5:59:24 PM

I have drama at my school also. It's so cligue-ey. It can be fun but alot of times, the drama gets to be too much. My advice, if you hate drama, and people try to pull you in just think to yourself, this is so stupid. I'm not going to be part of it. You're better than that!!

Posted by: pizzagirl_dancer15 on 3/23/2008 12:28:10 PM

Tell your BFF to let his buds know thats your avalible.

Posted by: iChristy on 3/23/2008 12:39:46 PM

yeah GOSSIP GIRL love that show! i will marry dan...cutest guy ever

Posted by: CountryLvr38 on 3/23/2008 7:12:59 PM

surfergirl77
ask him wats up to start w/. if he's doing hw wen u talk to him, talk to him about that subject (oops...i didn't do the science yet. is it hard? are you ready 4 the test? omg i'm not!). this usually works well. if he's giving u flowers, say 'o, how sweet! i love roses! they r so beautiful!" talk about the subject at hand. hope i helpd!

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/24/2008 7:09:51 AM

L'Oreal
i loved ur arcticle in GL! i just got serticied to b a babysitter and needed some tips. even though my sis doesn't read GL (she only reads sports mags) she is 13 and looking 4 babysitting jobs. this really helped! thanks!

thank you so much!!! ~L'Oreal

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/24/2008 7:11:44 AM

heres a (not personality) quiz about music
1. do u no who axl rose is? (uh, omg yeah!)
2. how can michael do this to himself; does he deserve it or does he need help? 9he needs help; he is so talented!)
3. Does ne-Yo deserve 2b in the song 'hate that i love u' w/ rihanna? (uh, maybe...i only really like her and dont no too much about him...)

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/24/2008 7:15:44 AM

MoD: :P
howdy i gots a problem i really like to ride horses like ALOT its like my life right now and i told my mom i wanted to start taking ridding lessons and she said okay( just a lil. info before i move on i had a horse about 2 1/2 years ago for about 2 years) and i have been taking them for about 1 1/2 years and well my mom told me 9 monthes to a year and well my trainer said six more lessons and i would be good enough to get one with NO trainers there and he said i could get one now and i could still have training for a month and a half so well we dont have the money for boarding a horse tack grooming everything and well my dad never helps do you have a way for me & my mom to talk to him about maybe getting my: saddle, reins, briddle, headstall, horse boots, and saddle pad, and grooming stuff and we will pay for the horse, my trainers, boarding , hay , feed, and all that stuff how can me and my mom talk to my dad about buying tack and grooming??? ( they are devorced )?????????????? please help me it is all i think about it is like a part of me and i really want this i have put alot into it?????????????????????????????????????????

Posted by: horse ridding babe on 3/24/2008 7:30:34 AM

mod,
My bgf has been trying to hook me up with guys. Now there's this one guy who has asked me out. I'm really nervous, i've never had a bf before. WHAT SHOULD I DO, I'M FREAKING OUT!!!!

Hey! Do you like him? Maybe you should get to know him some more?

<3 Laura

Posted by: grinningskullz on 3/24/2008 11:39:08 AM

mod will you help me with this one

There is this girl in my school who thinks I'm her best friend and I am not even her friend at all. She is kind of clingy and has no friends because she lies about everything. She started to sit at our table at lunch and at first it was ok but then she started becoming a drama queen as usual and my friends and I cannot put up with her anymore. She even got a hold of my cell phone number and I never gave it to her! She calls me NON-STOP! PLEASE help me, I don't want to sound mean but I cannot handle this girl anymore!

Posted by: abcdefgqwerty on 3/24/2008 5:39:54 PM

Mod,
How come it doesn't have any of the old Ask Lucky's or whatever? There is also i problem on the Girl Talk page, no matter what u click it goes to the same page. And a lot of the things u cant comment on, cuz it says comments closed. which is annoying cuz i saw someones comment of someone who MIGHT know my crush, but i wont be able to find out.

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/24/2008 6:11:01 PM

musik-
mod means moderator!! :)

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:42:34 PM

mod~can u please answer the question i just posted?? here it is again-

please help! a really cute, funny, smart, athletic and really sweet boy likes me. he gave me really nice flowers for vday,we dance together at all the school dances, and he emails me a lot. the problem is, we are both so shy! especially him lol. so we never talk in person!! we both go to the same really small school, but we never talk and its really akward. i want 2 maybe date him in highschool, but first we have to get passed the akwardness and say something to each other!! do u have any ideas on how to start up a convo in person??? xooxox
girls do u have ne advice??

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:43:58 PM

hey mod-ur great! thanks for posting all my comments super quick, no one else does it. btw who is modding??? xxxxooooo

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:44:46 PM

zara-
tell him how u feel (that u dont really like him!) if u keep going on like this, you are just hurting him more. he needs to find someone else who actually likes him. and next time, dont say yes!! u need to be true to u and not lie to guys. imagine how much this would suck if u asked out someone and they said yes just to be nice. call him now!!! xooxooxox it will get better :)

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:46:43 PM

kristen-
thanks for posting my comments but ur not answering my question!! please help!!

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:47:10 PM

jaime? kristen?? please answer my comment i need help asap!!

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:48:18 PM

okay all my comments are going through but no one is helping me!!!! please help! here is my question:
*********hi mod!!!!! can u please help me?**********

please help! a really cute, funny, smart, athletic and really sweet boy likes me. he gave me really nice flowers for vday,we dance together at all the school dances, and he emails me a lot. the problem is, we are both so shy! especially him lol. so we never talk in person!! we both go to the same really small school, but we never talk and its really akward. i want 2 maybe date him in highschool, but first we have to get passed the akwardness and say something to each other!! do u have any ideas on how to start up a convo in person??? xooxox

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:53:55 PM

okay. i think i am probably being super annoying to all the mods lol! i wonder if ne one is even modding right now. is there a mod right now???? xxxxooooo

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:54:40 PM

girls!! help meeeeeeeee

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:54:59 PM

MOD-
i need help!

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:55:50 PM

bubbles-
mod is moderator :)

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:56:12 PM

HELP

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:56:29 PM

k i think im going to another blog now since no one can help me here :( tear tear

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:56:52 PM

mod,
there's this girl that used to be my friend that likes to make fun of me now. she always talks to me behind my back and everyone loves her because she's little miss popular. but my BFF and i are just about done with her getting everything that she wants and everyone loving her. she's just plain mean and i want people to start seeing that about her. what should i do to get everyone to start noticing it???

You shouldn't get people to start noticing that she's mean. They will notice on their own. You and your bff can start ignoring her on your own and stop being friends with her.

Posted by: volleyballrox12 on 3/23/2008 6:39:56 PM

hey kristin,
i go 2 a private school 2, same thing happens !!!!

Posted by: rockerchic on 3/23/2008 11:02:24 AM

hola peps. wat up. some1 talk 2 me plz. im sooo bored. happy easter. my cuz. is here visiting. i luv easter. plz. talk 2 me.=)

Posted by: lilangel114 on 3/23/2008 11:06:50 AM

Posted by: MADDSOXXO on 3/23/2008 11:07:26 AM

well to prove her wrong... make sure that u have a lot of stuff planned... if u had other parties w/ her there then ask her wat she liked about those parties an dthen try to make your sleepover into a mega sleepover-party w/ only four ppl

Posted by: alwayshavinfun324 on 3/23/2008 11:36:08 AM

Mod~ i was wondering~ i am really underweight and asked a mod why. she said that i might just have a high metabolizom (i dont really no how 2 spell it, sorry). what is a metabolism?

Hey girl, metabolism is the stuff in your body that helps break down your food. If you have a fast metabolism then you can eat a lot and it gets broken down really quickly so it isn't stored in your body as fat. Basically it means that you can eat a lot of food without gaining weight and you're just always going to be naturally skinny.
~Kristin

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/23/2008 11:57:33 AM

MOD do u no wen the profiles of mods will b up? also, when will we b able to make r own profiles?? and why aren't my comments showing up??? PLZ HELP‼‼‼‼‼‼‼

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, pleasse come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Posted by: ♥Megan♥ on 3/25/2008 2:08:51 PM

********MOD****** i need help! i kno this is gunna sound weird but...im waaaaaaay too obsessed with these guys!and i kno i will NEVER be with them or even meet them! i cant stop thinking about them! please help me...anyone else got any advice?

Posted by: soccerlvr12 on 3/25/2008 4:24:34 PM

Me and my bff have been friends for like ever. But last year on the bus she told me that my boyfriend was gonna break up with me. So the next day i wrote a note and ended it. he seemed surprised that i did that and acted like we shouldn't have broken up. Right after that i found out that my friend liked my boyfriend. we're still great friends but i have a part of me that says she broke us up so she could get him. every night now i wish i shouldn't have broken up with him. But i don't know if i should trust my friend or not anymore.

-Leah

Posted by: hottgal56 on 3/25/2008 9:48:58 AM

thats such a good one
larissa xoxlove yeah jordan

Posted by: larissa on 3/25/2008 10:12:23 AM

i think evey one deserves a second chance even though that was a mean thing to do but i mean tell her what u think about it if she doesn't under stand then shes not the girl you thought she was

Posted by: ahtnamas on 3/25/2008 3:09:43 PM

i need help theres this guy i know really well and he might ask me to grad but i think if i say yes it might be like really akward between us wat should i do ????

Posted by: ahtnamas on 3/25/2008 3:11:32 PM

hey girl
i know how u fell this happens all the time in school. just ingnore them!

Posted by: girl girl on 3/25/2008 4:01:29 PM

does any one have this problem ????
i have all the same name brands as my friends like hollister and stuff but they always seem to look way better in them is it me ??? or wat ...

Posted by: ahtnamas on 3/25/2008 4:03:32 PM

mod-- i joined the track team cuz i like to run but they put me as a thrower instead. im not good at throwing but they make me do it anyway. i dont like to quit things, but i really dont like it. what should i do?

Posted by: hehehe122333 on 3/25/2008 7:28:21 PM

surfergirl77- just because u are the girl doesnt mean u cant make the first move. try to make small talk,and maybe it will reasure him that u are intersted. this might make this a little less awkward for him.

Posted by: hehehe122333 on 3/25/2008 7:35:25 PM

Mod
what time do u start modding? and when do u quit?? ijltn

Posted by: ♥Megan♥ on 3/26/2008 5:36:40 AM

mod
what is a "stock" message??

Posted by: ♥Megan♥ on 3/26/2008 5:38:14 AM

yea what is a stock message??

Posted by: hehehe122333 on 3/26/2008 8:11:43 AM

mod last time i asked this u were busy so...
i joined the track team cuz i like to run but they put me as a thrower instead. im not good at throwing but they make me do it anyway. i dont like to quit things, but i really dont like track. what should i do?

Why don't ya chat it up with your coach and let him or her know how you feel? I'm sure if you tell them how you feel, they'll be willing to make some comprimises. -Blog Patrol

Posted by: hehehe122333 on 3/26/2008 8:25:42 AM

i like this guy at my school we have been friends forever and now he hangs out with all of his guy friends and i hang out with my girl friends and we act like we don't exist in each others world but i really like him alot i mean alot alot HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: backwoodsgirl on 3/24/2008 2:47:24 PM

I HATE BOARDING SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM AT IT RIGHT ...NOW!!

Posted by: dietpepsi10 on 3/24/2008 2:56:55 PM

TRUST ME
not 2 say look @ me but i was always poor in neworleans and after huriace katrina i moved 2 al w/ my rich grandparents and they put me in a private skool every one was rich and STUCK UP!! friend fights were all over the place...2 get out of drama make a really good friend that u guys can stick up 4 each other but dont use the person

parker

Posted by: loverinstyle12 on 3/24/2008 3:20:17 PM

mod,
my bff has been so concieted lately and has been trying to hook me up with the meanest boys in my school!i dont like any of them and they make me really uncomfortable. they curse and one of them even smokes! my friend invites herself and the guys over to my house and it bothers me alot! what should i do?!?!

Posted by: funkilicious00 on 3/24/2008 3:32:45 PM

me to i have the same prob its like a curse or somethen

Posted by: cute girl on 3/24/2008 4:26:11 PM

i go to a huge local school and i have the exact thing happen to me all the time i think it is because i have so many friends and they get mad at each other and i dont want them to get mad at me so i tell them secrets that the other person said but a few months ago i told them i dont want to get in the middle of it and they said that its ok and they understand if your friends get mad at you for telling them how you fell then you should try to find some new friends thats what i did and im happy i did

Posted by: **hannah** on 3/26/2008 11:44:30 AM

If you have already bloomed upstairs then shouldn't you have bloomed downstairs too?

Posted by: aniela on 3/26/2008 1:12:22 PM

Hey girls what's your favorite smelling cologne on a guy??? I know that's a stupid question but I'm just wondering....one of my best friends neighbors wears abercrombie and fitch fierce and it is BY FAR the best thing I have ever smelled.

Posted by: talktome418 on 3/26/2008 1:47:06 PM

~MOD~ I'm so confused! Is modding back because when I asked a question I was told something like mods no longer answer personal questions! But I see questions from today being answered? I just was curious and confused.

I'm not sure what that's about, but when it's really busy, we sometimes don't have time to answer personal questions, so maybe she was just really busy... or maybe it's a new rule that no one has told me about yet, lol...

<3 Jessie M.

Posted by: ?!emmy!? on 3/26/2008 7:26:15 PM

--MOD--
{thanks a lot if you get a chance to answer}
Ok, so me and a group of friends are going to Ultrazone [laser-tag] this friday. these guys that me and my friend like are coming too. i'm excited and nervous. do you have any advice? like what to wear what to say to him...those kind of things. like we've been e-mailing and chatting and things, so idk if he likes me, but i think he does. so yeah...
thanks so much

Well, for the purpose of laser tag, wear all dark clothes! But just go and have fun and let things happen naturally. You don't have to plan it out.

<3 Jessie M.

Posted by: sports1 on 3/26/2008 8:19:04 PM

***mod*** I have a guy that sits next to me in class. He is really cute and I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me alot but he never even looks at me when he is with his friends. when he is with his friends he talks to a bunch of other girls. It doesnt look like he acts any different to other girls than to me but I sometimes feel like he likes me and sometimes I feel like he doesnt care for me. I'm not sure.

Posted by: abby_pickle on 3/25/2008 5:33:42 PM

I seriously think I am addicted to drama. Like 4 days ago I said I was going to be a new me, no, it didn't work! BLAH!

Posted by: livelaughlove987 on 3/26/2008 6:31:56 PM

Mod, My friend got one of her friends to ask me out. It's kind of a blind date and i have no idea what to do. Should i accept. If so, I still have no idea what to actually do.

Are you looking for a boyfriend? Are you interested in meeting someone new? If so, go for it! Just go and have fun. If it goes well, great. If not, oh well. Tell your friend to break the news so you don't have to. That's the good thing about blind dates -- you don't know them, so if things don't go well, you don't have to worry about things being awkward.

<3 Jessie M.

Posted by: grinningskullz on 3/26/2008 6:40:13 PM

Hey girlie! Sorry about the confusion...b/c the site is new, there are going to be a few bumps we run into, but the girlslife staff is working very busily to make the site simple and fun for you to use!...Renee:)

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/27/2008 9:03:06 AM

I am home today and omg i am so bored.

Posted by: Krazy_redhead_07 on 3/27/2008 9:27:20 AM

i need help because i have a friend and we like the same guy and im with him and she used to

Posted by: mintymadison on 3/27/2008 10:01:43 AM

help!

Posted by: mintymadison on 3/27/2008 10:02:16 AM

mintymadison~
wait his ur bf and ur friend likes him 2? is that what ur saying? if u r saying that then i have no clue what u can do. Sorry!! :(

Posted by: dramadork on 3/27/2008 11:16:35 AM

anyone on 2 chat???...:(

Posted by: :P on 3/27/2008 5:06:07 PM

~MOD~ Ok I'm going to try to ask this question again because the first one was said that no personal questions were answered by Mods and the other no one answered. My bff's are bff's with eachother and I know they are closer with eachother than with me even though I've known one I've been friends with longer. I have them over a lot and they rarely invite me to do stuff but yet they do stuff together all the time! I really don't know what to do!! Please help!!

Oh the friendship triangle...threes are never good and almost always someone gets left out. Tell them how your feeling and explain to them that it hurts your feelings when you get left out so much.

♥ Alli

Posted by: ?!emmy!? on 3/27/2008 5:11:02 PM

i totally know what you mean. i don't go to a private school, but i go to a rich kid public school. there will always be drama, but try your best to be nice to every one. if your nice to people , they will usually leave you out of the fights and what not.

Posted by: LauraGee415 on 3/28/2008 10:06:33 AM

Mod

I like this guy, and most of my friends think that he likes me too. Except I can't tell if they are kidding or not! I ask them what makes them think that he likes me, and they say stuff like "Oh, just the way he looks into your eyes," or "He always talks to you most out of anyone in our group." Why can they seet things that I can't? I can't tell if he really likes me or not. He looks at me a lot in History(thats the only class that i have with him), but just smiles and looks away. There are other times where it seems like he likes this other girl, and totally flirts with her, but them comes over and flirts with me. He flirst with almost everyone though. How can I tell if he really likes me or not?

Posted by: Ellie on 3/28/2008 12:27:07 PM

will my commments ever get posted? i posted them yesterday!!!

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/28/2008 7:00:22 PM

Webkinz r kool! PLEEZ ADD ME 2 UR BFFS LIST!!!!
My user name is Tama47!!

PLEEZ ADD ME 2 UR BFFS LIST!!!!

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/29/2008 2:20:05 PM

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/29/2008 2:20:25 PM

OMG!! I am watching spongebob and this is da 1 where his cuz stanley comes 2 visit!!! LOL!

[Stanley ruins everything he tuchs!! LOL!!]

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/29/2008 2:22:23 PM

If u want 2 tell a guy u like him do this:

- Pretend u hate him, critisize him and stuff like that

- Make him ur only topic of convo, if ur BFFS r like that they will tell him the min they feel like u like him!

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/29/2008 2:24:42 PM

OMG!! itz spring brak!!

WOO HOO!!!!!

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/29/2008 2:25:24 PM

I have this "friend" and she and some of my real friends will spred rumors about me like I'm goin out with my BGF and now my BF just brok-up with me because my "friend" is lyin bout me. And i hate it. But my real friends i can trust with some of my secerts But nt "her".(I still hav feelin's 4 him!! Boy do I hate her!!!!!!!!) And I kinda lik my BGF!!! Plus "she's" makin me chosse btween my Guy Friends & my Girl Friends. I HATE IT. And all this Drama always comes my way. How do I avoid it?

Posted by: alove2345 on 3/31/2008 4:58:50 PM

Ohh okay that makes a lot more sense.
I was wondering that too:]

Posted by: volleychica838 on 3/27/2008 7:31:06 PM

*****MOD****** i know this isnt bout the subject tht were supposed to be writing bout but i cant find any other message boards...... ok i am not really over wieght- i like my body mostly- but im still a little over wieght and alot of clothes i wear dont look good on me cuz i have big hips. it also doesnt help tht all of my BFFs are tiny and so when i hang out with them i feel like a giant. any advice about how to lose a couple of pounds without having to go on the south beach diet or anything??? thnxxxx KD

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Posted by: <3legally_blonde<3 on 3/27/2008 8:39:27 PM

HI CAN YOUZ SEE THIS!!!!!

Posted by: KatrinaMN on 3/27/2008 8:43:21 PM

CAN YOUZ SEEE THIS??????

Posted by: KatrinaMN on 3/27/2008 8:43:40 PM

SOME OF MY POST POST BUT OTHERS DON"T????????????????

Posted by: KatrinaMN on 3/27/2008 8:44:06 PM

Your posts will eventually post
If you post is directed to a Mod than it will take while.
If not then chillout becuase it should be here soon

Posted by: volleychica838 on 3/27/2008 8:53:13 PM

everyone has spring break before me. i still have another week of school until i get out.

Posted by: hershey kiss on 3/30/2008 7:19:53 PM

woah me too now a new one why does this happen huh?

Posted by: Papaya Melon on 3/31/2008 5:04:36 AM

Hi Peeps!!! This is like my 100000th comint!
OK I have this prob, my nayber and I were pretty good frindz in da beginin of da yeer,but I made a new friend and she told him not 2 be my frind. now we are not frinds. he sez he spyz on me and nos everythang about me. He also tells people lies about me and that my family is poor because we have a smaller house than he duz. [by one story, not bad huh??] Some lies he told about me are that i like this one dude in my drama class and that i wake him up at 4 in da morning sceemin even tho that is my baby sister. [and he nos it!!!] What shud I do!?!? shud i tell my rents? or just keep bein paranoid when my rents open the back windo??? HELPPPPPPPP!!

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 3/31/2008 10:46:01 AM

-MOD- PLZZZZ HELP ME! I have a bff who I have know 4ever and I still want 2 b friends with her but ok i'll say it SHE BRAGS ALL THE TIME!!! It is getting really annoying her family has good money so she has a nice house and an inground pool in her back yard but she always has 2 tell everybody like fifty times a day! Me and my friends r getting annoyed by it but I dont know what to do she also makes a big deal about everything like for intinst the other day my other bff got her hair cut sorta like my bragging friend and kept telling everybody that she copied her and when i told her to stop she said i was the one making a big deal about it made me so mad! and when sumthing good happens to her she has to tell everybody during class fifty times a day!!!

Hey girl, I think you should sit down with her and tell her what she's doing. Explain that you and everyone else is tired of her bragging all the time and that if she doesn't stop she's going to start losing friends. Say it nicely and hopefully she knocks it off. If she doesn't then maybe you should give her some space and hang out with other people for a while until she stops bragging so much.
~Kristin

Posted by: tommygirl12345 on 4/1/2008 7:11:50 PM

any1 help me please!

Posted by: abcdefgqwerty on 3/24/2008 6:30:31 PM

Mod,

Why didn't you answer my previous question? I don't want to sound mean but I would like to have my question answered por favor. Gracias!

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/24/2008 6:31:26 PM

OMGF! The same thing happens to me, too. We only have a few people in our class and you always get into the fights! So annoing!!!! =/

Posted by: Lane905 on 3/24/2008 8:02:27 PM

*mod help please*
Ok, so there is this girl at my school who bugs me waaaay to much. She thinks that just because the two of us like horses, we are 'best friends!' She always wants to talk to me, and says that we need to have a sleepover sometime. I can't stand her! Its just that she is so different and annoying to EvErYoNe. Different meaning she tattles on people just because they are doing something she doesn't like, and would rather do her homework at home, then finish it in class. Some of my real friends are starting to think she is lez. What should I do about her? Please help!

Posted by: thunderfern on 3/24/2008 8:39:21 PM

mod

this guy asked me out in january, and i said no because i didnt like him. well now that he likes another girl(my bff's other bff), and i think she likes him to, i'm really jealous and i wnat him to like me again!! i cant stand not being number one with everyhting--grades, band, and guys--and i want his romantic attention again. the girl that he likes thinks that im mad at her, but im not, i just dont really like her that much because she's stealing my best friend! So now this girl is a boy and a bff stealer. i just want her to go away and get out of my life and stop taking everything that belongs to me!! help!!!

Posted by: Poison on 3/28/2008 3:27:37 PM

omg that is so out of line tell your bff to kindly back off

Posted by: dq2be on 3/29/2008 11:48:38 AM

mod
this guy asked me out in january, and i said no because i didnt like him. well now that he likes another girl(my bff's other bff), and i think she likes him to, i'm really jealous and i wnat him to like me again!! i cant stand not being number one with everyhting--grades, band, and guys--and i want his romantic attention again. the girl that he likes thinks that im mad at her, but im not, i just dont really like her that much because she's stealing my best friend! So now this girl is a boy and a bff stealer. i just want her to go away and get out of my life and stop taking everything that belongs to me!! help!!!

Hey Girl,
Thats tough, I would suggest not trying to get the guy again because you don't necessarily like him you like him liking you. And thats not fair you can't just want guys to want you and not want them back. As for the bff thing maybe if she gets a bf you will get your bff back if the other girl is distracted with her new bf you will get your bff back.
Toodles,
Lissy

Posted by: Poison on 3/29/2008 12:50:39 PM

mod
how do you tell a guy you like him without verbally telling him or writing him a note??

Have a friend do it or flirt with him so he gets the idea.
Toodles,
Lissy

Posted by: ellie on 3/29/2008 1:29:19 PM

Mod,

My question was sent a few days ago and still no one has posted it. Since I posted it awhile ago I can't remember what I said in it, only the basic idea. I can't repost it or recreate it. I really do need help!

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/30/2008 10:08:04 AM

hey guys what do you think i should give my bf for our month-a-versary(its our first)need ideas plz

Posted by: cal!forn!a.gurl on 4/1/2008 4:47:18 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
My ex-bff is bein rely meen!!!!! after we got s-pended she has been pinin everythang on me!!!!! and latly she sez she nos everythang bout me. she nos who i like, she nos wat i say 2 the boy i used 2 like, and she nos wut i talk bout with my BFFS! get this, I HAVE NOT TOLD HER ANY OF THOSE THANGS!! Is she stalking me?? or duz she have 1 of my BFFS warin a wire??? If she is stalikn me, do i have 2 tell da p-pal or do i tell a teach or my rentz????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey hon, you should definitely talk to your friend to find out exactly what's going on and let her know you don't appreciate her behavior. if she is stalking you, then you should definitely tell your parents, teacher, or another trusted adult. ~L'Oreal

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 4/2/2008 9:14:13 AM

i like juice, i like cheese...

but i dont like Drama,

or Draftin 1

LOL!!!

Posted by: Petoria4eva on 4/2/2008 9:15:12 AM

omg i went 2 a small private school for pre-K thru 5th grade. there was like zero drama and every1 called me the "queen bee" i liked it because i was a nice one. i was friends with everyone. now in a public school 4 6th grade. EVERYTHINGS different. there r the populars and i am one of them by association. they r mean and everything they do or say leads 2 drama. its 2 much! i got counseling and lots of help and now i am seriously happy. i have a great group of friends and drama hasnt come my way in a loooonnngg time. @ 1st, in the beginning i ALWAYS ended up getting invloved in the drama too. it seemed like fun even though i knew it was wrong. my only advice would be just 2 try and ignore it. its super-hard but if someone comes up and asks u 2 take their side in a fight, or something change the subject. also when ur BFF rushes up to you, "OhMyGosh you are just like, never gonna belive this! Johnny STILL likes Amanda even though she's over him and HE'S dating someone else." just nod and go, "wow." and try to think about something. when your alone process all the news and then when ur by urself u can go, "i cant belive he STILL likes her." when ur ready u'll find out that drama is overrated.

He could be that boy...But I'm not that Girl...

Posted by: im-not-that-girl on 4/2/2008 11:22:23 AM

Drama. Blah. Blah. Blah. Blah. its a pile of poop. "omg, no WAY they broke up? how could they? but doesnt her best friend like him? but then he likes her enemy, right? now they're in a fIGHT over him, but he doesnt like any of 'em. i think they should get a life! that's mean? it's true! really? THEY'RE dating now? omg! omg! omg!!!" blah. blah. blah. DRAMA IS NOT IMPORTANT! (but it is fun 2 get in2.);)

He could be that boy....but i'm not that girl...

Posted by: im-not-that-girl on 4/2/2008 11:40:27 AM

Heyy. Wa zup?? I am in the 6th grade 12 yrs old and live in AR. Anyone want to chat??

Posted by: Clique_Poseurs on 4/4/2008 9:58:24 AM

Happy llama, sad llama, mental,silly, crazy llama, super lamma, DRAMA llama, mama llama, camel, moose. Sorry. Couldn't resist. Yeah...um...oh, Drama IS overrated and... im-not-that-girl? You got a good mindset to think so. Amen sistah!

Posted by: Miz C.B. on 4/5/2008 2:14:53 PM

Any peeps gotta a random or interesting Q to dish out? Anyone? Any...one? <:(

Pretty Pleeeze (With sugar on top?)

Posted by: Miz C.B. on 4/5/2008 2:18:44 PM

before I go, can someone please post an awesome list of music to reccomend? Thanx!

P.S. These blogs hardly ever pertain to the topic in which they're entitled. Ya heard?

Posted by: Miz C.B. on 4/5/2008 2:21:08 PM

It happens to me sometimes 2, all I do is don't side with anyone I try as hard as I can not to get involved!!! <3

Posted by: annabannana11 on 3/26/2008 3:23:08 PM

Mod, Why do comments take 4ever to get posted? Ayame

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Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/27/2008 7:20:28 PM

hey people, anyone wanna chat?

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/28/2008 5:43:25 AM

oh great now i sound like a jerk. sorry! i really don't mean to sound that way! please forgive me!

Posted by: AyameJJ912 on 3/28/2008 5:55:50 PM

my friend thats a girl told my friend thats a boy that i like him and i want to get with him but i dont but now i am starting to like him and i want to tell him but i dont know how to tell him can u please help me

Posted by: daisy on 3/29/2008 9:10:54 AM

mod and girls....

recently over this spring breakkk i got a new crush.. he is nice funny sweet and lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school. but my BFF hates him... and i dont want to give her the new now cuz her house caught on fire a week ago and she cant go back for 7 monthes.. should i tell her or just wait till things are all good????

Posted by: dannie waz here on 3/29/2008 10:19:36 AM

oh. and i waz eadin g other commentss... and if u r nervous dont worry about a guy.. i waz hanging out with my friend and i told her i likes this guy and well that guy was on his way to where we were and she lwas like i am gunna get u guys to go out.. u should just trust your friends cuz that was the besst time of the year 4 me. he did break up witih me after a while but u just gotta hope for the best.. i noe i did ☺

Posted by: dannie waz here on 3/29/2008 10:34:18 AM

Don't worry. Tel ur BFF that everybody thinks u 2 r going out. So here's what u do. Pretend like u guys r breaking up. Then u can get a real bf.

Posted by: hi! on 3/29/2008 9:30:12 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD PLEASE HELP DONT WANNA GET IN TRUBLE K SO ME and my bestie ashlin haha we flirted a little to hard and ki

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