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Dear Dave

I met this guy at my BFF’s party, and we hit it off right away. We even went to the movies the next night. We kissed, and he told me how pretty I am. It’s been a week. He hasn’t called. What should I do?

 

Dave: There must be a good reason he’s vaporized. Since you met the guy at a friend’s party, someone must have the scoop. I think we can safely eliminate shyness. Could another girl be involved? Is it normal for him to behave like this? Maybe there’s a logical explanation. Or maybe he’s just not a very nice guy.

 

Bill: Here’s a quick checklist of things you can do: 1) Wait. 2) Call him. 3) Get a voodoo doll. I think it was either Bob Dylan or Neitzche who said you can’t lose what you don’t have. A week ago, you didn’t know this guy. Now, you barely know him. Don’t dwell on stuff you can’t control. Think about the things you liked about the guy. Then look elsewhere for those things. While you’re looking, he just might call.

 

Dear Dave
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BY ANDREA T. ON 3/22/2008 10:14:00 AM 518 COMMENTS

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518 READER COMMENTS

10 bucks says he was cheating on his girlfreind with you

Posted by: missyrissy on 3/22/2008 12:46:29 PM

You should totally call him!!! If you really do think you like him, go for it!!! <33333333

Posted by: KareBear on 3/22/2008 12:46:31 PM

If you just wait around for him to call, you'll feel depressed. Trust me. I waited around for this kid who said he'd call, well, to call, and when he didn't i moped around for days. My friends barely wanted to hang out because i had become moody and irretible. Don't let yourself do that kiddo. There's other fish in the sea, wait for the one who's right for you!

Posted by: gurle_4_ever on 3/22/2008 12:52:39 PM

girl forget the guy he is not worth it at all if he doesnt call in 1 week ....you deserve better

Posted by: track star! running is my game!music addicted!! on 3/22/2008 12:57:42 PM

girl he is not worth it...you deserve better
if he doesnt call after a week forget him

Posted by: track star! running is my game!music addicted!! on 3/22/2008 1:05:20 PM

hey what's up? anyone want to chat with me? anyone need advice?

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/22/2008 1:09:16 PM

ok girl. 1st of all, u do NOT want to sit by the phone. y don't u play outside with ur pets or sumthn, or go shopping, cuz btw, Rue 21 is handin out coupons for savin ALOT of money if u use them from now to March 30! neways, or u culd do what i do. have a sleepover, or just a threeway call, and act like ur friends just wanted to call him. that way it won't be weird, he won't think u r obsessed w/him, and u will have lots of laughs. and then if both of yall hav fun u can CASUALLY say, well i guess u can just call me 2mro. thats what i do.
bye!

Posted by: CutiePatutie24 on 3/22/2008 1:24:05 PM

Jesiaka S, i think u need to be a little bi nicer. it sort of hurts ion the head when a guy tells u ur pretty, kisses you, the leavse you wiating. to the girls on top though, wait a bit, a day or 2, but see if you can pay the jealousy card, or even find a different guy, purely because you like him. ok, now I'M starting to sound like jessica. no offense.

Posted by: swim queen on 3/22/2008 1:27:47 PM

***MOD*** Could you send this into Bill and Dave? My computer won't let me me get into my email at the mo. This guy and I started going out a few days ago. He and I were friends for a few months. But then, he told me yesterday that he never liked me in that way. I only sort of liked him in that way, so it wasn't a major loss. But what I don't get is why would he ask me out if he never liked me?


Hey girl, he might have been pressured to do it by his friends or maybe he thought that you really liked him. Either way it doesn't really matter since you guys arent' together anymore and you're not hurt so I'd say just move on and find a new boy!
~Kristin

Posted by: princesscarpo on 3/22/2008 1:27:57 PM

princesscarpo ..
that same thing happened to me last year .. my bgf asked me out and then he told my bff to tell me that he was sorry and never really liked me like that and was just caught up in the moment and made the wrong decision .. but then later that year he was still flirting with me and even kissed me! ugh guys are so confusing i dont think we'll ever be able to understand them!

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/22/2008 1:44:25 PM

yah girl i wouldnt wait around for him to call .. if this guy wont call you back then hes not worth your time!

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/22/2008 1:45:24 PM

YOU SHOULD CALL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: orlandobloomlovr on 3/22/2008 10:21:28 AM

mabe hes cheating on you!?!

Posted by: orlandobloomlovr on 3/22/2008 10:22:43 AM

hi

Posted by: orlandobloomlovr on 3/22/2008 10:22:59 AM

Orlandobloomlovr, Hey

Posted by: Basketballover15 on 3/22/2008 10:31:14 AM

hey orlandobloomlovr,
whats up. im sitting at home, bored, like always, using my new laptop, about to go out side to hang out with two 12th graders, two 9th grades, one 8th grader, and one 6th grader. i am in 6th so that is awsomes! do u want to chat with me?

Posted by: outgoing n' colorful on 3/22/2008 10:34:18 AM

hey orlandobloomlovr,
whats up. im sitting at home, bored, like always, using my new laptop, about to go out side to hang out with two 12th graders, two 9th grades, one 8th grader, and one 6th grader. i am in 6th so that is awsomes! do u want to chat with me?

Posted by: outgoing n' colorful on 3/22/2008 10:34:47 AM

Yeah go for it! Call him! Any one wanna chat?

Posted by: Chick16 on 3/22/2008 10:54:32 AM

hey any1 on? i can talk

Posted by: lolo on 3/22/2008 10:56:11 AM

Omg, thats rude! i would call him!

Posted by: emily13rose on 3/22/2008 10:58:28 AM

Maybe he doesnt like you or maybe you did something wrong

Posted by: sportszgrl on 3/22/2008 11:14:08 AM

he is a big 2 timer

Posted by: hot stuff on 3/22/2008 11:22:59 AM

if he hasnt called u then call him. but if he really liked u then he wouldve called. maybe he hasnt had the time. u no been busy or hes probably not interested

Posted by: AdgADoll on 3/22/2008 11:38:32 AM

MOD, hey wazzup??

Posted by: iceskatinggirl on 3/22/2008 11:39:34 AM

then call him!

Posted by: oliviamurray on 3/22/2008 11:44:11 AM

hey ne1 wana talk?????????

Posted by: * ♥ SouthernChick on 3/22/2008 12:05:25 PM

these comments r n order lolz!

Posted by: * ♥ SouthernChick on 3/22/2008 12:06:15 PM

dose ne1 wana chat

Posted by: * ♥ SouthernChick on 3/22/2008 12:07:52 PM

**MOD** I read the latest GL mag and it said we could make our own profiles and have icons on here! When does that start, or how do I do it? **MOD** It's pretty urgent!


Hey girl, you'll be able to do that really soon no worries! ~Kristin

Posted by: semperfiamy on 3/22/2008 12:31:38 PM

Mod, is it bad that i have an online relationship with a guy? whenever i make friends with guys online my friends tell me he's probably a 40 year old guy. Not all of them can be like that can they?? I may just be hoping it's not true, but i have a feeling this guy is who he says he is. He's even sent me pics of himself. Am i doing something wrong??


Hey girl, it's probably not the safest thing just because you really have no idea how old this guy is. He could of found any pictures and sent them to you. As long as you don't meet him you should be fine and if you do want to meet him make sure you're parents go with you. In fact, you should talk to your parents about it and see what they think! ~Kristin

Posted by: grinningskullz on 3/22/2008 12:37:35 PM

Dude, don't wait around for him to call. That's possibly the silliest thing you can do. It may be easier said than done but this almost exact same thing happened to me recently and you just gotta forget about it. This is so cliche but there are more fish in the sea, sweetie. Good Luck.

Posted by: JesikaS on 3/22/2008 12:39:25 PM

one thing NOT to do: don't sit around waiting by the phone like a loser!

Posted by: refrigeratedrubberbands on 3/22/2008 10:16:01 AM

hey what's up? anyone want to chat with me? anyone need advice?

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/22/2008 10:17:32 AM

HEY ANY1 ON?

Posted by: orlandobloomlovr on 3/22/2008 10:20:25 AM

Waz up

Posted by: 22samiam on 3/22/2008 4:32:57 PM

***MOD***

hi! i want to audition for a school play ("The Sound of Music") but i am waaaaaaaaaaaaaay nervouse!(cause of the singing, im cool with regular part) is there anything i can do to calm the nerves??? :)

Posted by: bookworm14 on 3/22/2008 4:41:51 PM

dear dave,
there is this guy in my class and my best friend has a major crush on him.he is realllly cute and i don't know if i like him or not.i recently liked this other guy and i think he still likes me.what do i do???
-which guy

Posted by: broadwaygirl10 on 3/22/2008 4:45:39 PM

hey anybody want to talk to me

Posted by: cootiegirl101 on 3/22/2008 4:50:34 PM

anybody want to talk to me i am new on this website and none of my comments are showing up on this website?
Posted by:cootiegirl101 on 3/22/08 7:54:01pm

Posted by: cootiegirl101 on 3/22/2008 4:54:24 PM

i am a really nice person who is like the only one that waits for someone to tie their shoe when everyone leaves, sits by a loner at lunch, says hi to everyone, etc. But the guys are always attracted to the popular girly girls! In sex ed guys said that they don't like girls who gossip, wear tons of makeup, and care too much about fashion, but that's exactly the type of girls they date! I'm just so confused! And no matter how much i try to be nice and outgoing and making the first step to talk to guys, they're not paying any attention to me! And it's the same with my "friends" too. I feel like I'm always on the outside of their circle and they're so attached to each other it's like I'm not even there. What am I doing wrong? Help me!!!

Posted by: supergirllala on 3/22/2008 5:10:21 PM

I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

okay. so there's this guy that i like. i see him around school at least twice a week. my friend has told me that he likes me but i dont know if i believe her. but now im starting to get the idea that he does like me and that my friend was right. he always acts a little weirder than usual when im around and he has a nickname for me. what should i do????

Posted by: hockeychick8598 on 3/22/2008 5:26:46 PM

hey missy rissy, i agree! he probably cheated on his gf w/you! lol!

Posted by: Emily_Luvs_Shoes (and boys and smileys and) on 3/22/2008 5:30:29 PM

hockeychick8598
theres two ways 2 go
1) you like him
2)you just think you like him because your friend said he likes you.
-if you actually like him, flirt with him. maybe he will still act weird. later, you can ask him to a party or something, and say he can bring friends if he wants to, instead of a "date". a date would be too awkward if he actually doesn't like u.
-if u just think u like him cause ur friend pointed out he likes u, you can either just act the same, or decide if you might want to go out with him.
*hope this helped!

Posted by: Emily_Luvs_Shoes (and boys and smileys and) on 3/22/2008 5:35:30 PM

OMG!!! I CANT SEE MY EGGIE!

Posted by: Emily_Luvs_Shoes (and boys and smileys and) on 3/22/2008 5:42:26 PM

hey, the time is set like this
hour:minutes:seconds
my clock is like that so...yeah...

Posted by: Emily_Luvs_Shoes (and boys and smileys and) on 3/22/2008 5:43:31 PM

dramadork- you too!

Posted by: liagibaa on 3/22/2008 6:07:07 PM

ok totally baffled!!! *******MOD******** ok so i more-than-like-but-not-love this guy at my school. he's really nice to me, and i think he likes me back (no im not dreaming). problem is, A LOT of girls like this guy, and some of those girls happen to be my BFF's! I was wondering what to do in a situation if he asks me out. Should i immediately say yes? or should i say i hafta think about it and ask my friends? i don't wanna hurt their feelings, but i dont wanna crush mine!


Hey babes, I would wait until he actually asks you out before you start worrying about this. If he does ask you, just say I really like you but i need to sort some stuff out can I let you know by the end of the day. Then have a pow wow and explain the sitch to your bffs. If they are really upset, dont date him, its not worth the hassle. BUt your buds also have to promise that they wont date hm either. xxo JANA

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/22/2008 6:34:43 PM

i am a really nice person who is like the only one that waits for someone to tie their shoe when everyone leaves, sits by a loner at lunch, says hi to everyone, etc. But the guys are always attracted to the mean girly girls! In sex ed guys said that they don't like girls who gossip, wear tons of makeup, and care too much about fashion, but that's exactly the type of girls they date! I'm just so confused! And no matter how much i try to be nice and outgoing and making the first step to talk to guys, they're not paying any attention to me! And it's the same with my "friends" too. I feel like I'm always on the outside of their circle and they're so attached to each other it's like I'm not even there. What am I doing wrong? Help me!!!

Caan someone pleasse help? i've posted this 2 hrs ago but so far no one answered.

Posted by: supergirllala on 3/22/2008 6:51:56 PM

Do u need help supergirllala?

Posted by: smackers3343 on 3/23/2008 12:05:25 PM

HAPPY EASTER everyone! ♥

Posted by: ♥Giggly4Ever♥ on 3/23/2008 12:07:55 PM

haha same.. happy eatser!!! i hope u get ttttoooonnnnsss of candy!! haha sugar high!! soo hyper. :)

Posted by: mysoxrox on 3/23/2008 12:09:23 PM

Ok supergirllala,

Well you aren't doing anything wrong, you are being your self and that is a good thing. Well if you are what you say you are, kind and everything then there is going to be some guy out there who has noticed and likes you. These guys in your sex ed classes they are probably just rude and probably just saying this so more girls like them.... keep up the good work and be your self... and if you are absolutley desparate them try alittle make-up on your way off to skool.

Hope this helps

~Kk

Posted by: smackers3343 on 3/23/2008 12:10:36 PM

happy easter

Posted by: smackers3343 on 3/23/2008 12:11:33 PM

happy easter 4 real!! ;)

Posted by: :P on 3/23/2008 12:15:12 PM

Mod- I have liked this guy for a while, maybe 2 years. I really want to go out with him, but he's got a GF already. I went out with him for about 2 weeks, but then he cheated on my with his current GF. I was extremly mad. I am still friends with him, but I also want to go out with him. But he just doesn't feel the same way. What should i do?


Hey girl, you should get over this guy because he's obviously not good enough for you. I think it's time to find a new guy who won't cheat on you and who doesn't have a girlfriend!
~Kristin

Posted by: kittycat102 on 3/23/2008 12:21:01 PM

Yeah, Happy Easter!!! I got the Radio Disney Jams 10 cd for Easter!

Posted by: GLfan13 on 3/23/2008 12:26:49 PM

::::MOD:::: Whats a good was to get to know a guy you have never even talked to?


Hey girl, just starting a conversation with him is good or talking to him online somehow. You could also get a mutual friend to introduce you two.
~Kristin

Posted by: iChristy on 3/23/2008 12:42:02 PM

thanks!! <33

Posted by: iChristy on 3/23/2008 12:51:08 PM

************modd**********************(and girls!) my bf and i have been going out for 1 month now! but we only really hangout during school. but for some reason he hasn't asked me for my #. i think that is kinda strange. what do u think he hasn't asked yet?


Hey girl, he's probably too nervous to ask you for it. You should ask him for his and then call him!
~Kristin

Posted by: dancer4life xoxo p.s.buttchinlol! dorky <3 on 3/23/2008 12:56:56 PM

MODS!! How cani lose some tummy?? not abs tummy?

Posted by: Littlemissme! on 3/23/2008 1:05:35 PM

***************MOD********************** i think my parents might be getting a divorce. they fight 24/7 and they dont sleep together. i have 2 younger bros and i think the only reason their stayin together is because one of my bros is having some problems. do you know any signs for when they might be getting a divorce? thanks! xoxo lovelylady


Hey girl, they'll talk to you about it before they ever get a divorce. Don't worry they don't want to leave you in the dark so you'll know way before anything starts happening. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this :[.
~Kristin

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/23/2008 1:34:25 PM

thanx kristen! ummm.... do you know if like anyone would be moding at like 3:00 a.m. like central time?


Hey girl, there probably won't be a mod on. Sorry girl!
~Kristin

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/23/2008 1:39:41 PM

***MOD***

hey! i just wondered if there are still those pen-pal forms on the site?? thanks :smile:

Posted by: bookworm14 on 3/23/2008 1:53:17 PM

You know you should like just call him. Or ask your friend to talk to him. That way you'll know what's up. Plus maybe......he just needs some space. I mean all you guys did was kiss right?? So chill out!! :O
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Posted by: MonkeyluveR3000 on 3/23/2008 2:02:43 PM

HAPPY EASTER EVR1!!!!

Posted by: oliveroxz on 3/23/2008 2:08:12 PM

MOD

how come my comments aren't posting?? is it just cause the site is new or something?

Posted by: bookworm14 on 3/23/2008 2:14:42 PM

Dave! where are all the quizzes about the guys?Since you can't help everbody at once keep us occupied with quizzes!

Posted by: GL-ALchic17 on 3/23/2008 2:28:06 PM

MOD-
what should i do? this really cute, sporty, smart, and super sweet guy really likes me. :) he gave me flowers for vday, dances with me at all the school dances, and we email tons. the prob is, he is super shy!! (and so am i) we never talk in person, even though i go to a super small school. i really wanna move forward in the relationship and maybe date him in high school, but first we have to get over the akwardness and talk more often!! do u have any tips?? thanks sooo much xooxo

Posted by: vball007 on 3/23/2008 2:28:06 PM

**********MOD************
did u get my comment about the shy guy who likes me? and the akwardness??? please post it and help me!! thanks :)

Posted by: vball007 on 3/23/2008 2:42:00 PM

ok these times are wierd but watev. anyone wanna chat?

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/22/2008 3:06:25 PM

***MOD***

ok heres the deal:
sum kids in my school (sum of them are my friends) all like this guy. i absolutely more-than-like this guy...but i think he likes me back. and no, im not dreaming. but if he asks me out, should i say yes? i mean, what will my friends say? should i ask them first? HELLPPPP!!!!

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/22/2008 3:08:26 PM

sooooo boredd

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/22/2008 3:11:12 PM

Is he shy? Guys can be shy, too.

Posted by: ash_bash08 on 3/22/2008 3:20:05 PM

******MOD******
i have these little red bumps on my thighs. i dont know how to get rid of them. i tried acne creams but it didnt work. have you ever heard of this? how can i fix it?


 


Not sure, girl! Talk to a doc about the bumps, they could be more of a help! <3 Jaime

Posted by: MK132 on 3/22/2008 3:44:45 PM

hey what's up? anyone want to chat with me?

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/22/2008 3:49:32 PM

Hey girl, I would talk to a teacher, guidance counselor, or a parent about all this tough stuff. I don't want to steer you in the wrong direction and they could help you better! Good luck girl! <3 Jaime

Posted by: x0hUgSmKiSSeS0x on 3/22/2008 3:51:38 PM

Tomorrow is the last day of spring break for me. =( Oh well. If you haven't had it yet, Happy Spring Break!

Posted by: TrulyOneOfAKind on 3/22/2008 4:01:31 PM

Mod-

What time zone are you guys in? How different is that from Central time?

Posted by: TrulyOneOfAKind on 3/22/2008 4:02:40 PM

MOD
omg i like this guy and he is really sweet and he likes me too but i asked him out monday and he still hasnt given me an answer yet, i know he likes me cuz he told my BFF that he really likes me but he is afraid to go out w/ me! what should i do????


 


Let him take his time. If he does say no it's not the end of the world. Plenty more cuties out there! If he says yes.. congrats girl! <3 Jaime

Posted by: skittles on 3/22/2008 4:07:24 PM

whos modding


 


Me, Jaime until 9pm EST! <3 Jaime

Posted by: reamer10 on 3/22/2008 4:22:23 PM

Mod and Other girls!

I need help. Yesterday I went to my boyfriends, and we ended up making out in his closet. I took off his shirt and he took off mine, but now I feel a little guilty. We both have talked about not going to far, but I took advantage of the situation. is that ok?

Posted by: gatordiving23 on 3/23/2008 9:28:49 AM

happy easter girlies !

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/23/2008 9:44:07 AM

happy easter every1! any1 on?

Posted by: coloradochick14 on 3/23/2008 10:18:21 AM

n e 1 on?

Posted by: coloradochick14 on 3/23/2008 10:30:14 AM

n e 1 want to chat?

Posted by: coloradochick14 on 3/23/2008 10:41:52 AM

Mod i have this teacher and i'm soooo sure she hates mi!=( and she said that i'm not doin anything with our bride projects! i got well i just did that whole side and erin just sat there and shepanie did that side. she then goes well u didn't help w/ the drawing part! i go cuz mi group said i would mess everything up! like i'm scared she's goin fail mi cuz i know she hates mi! she tells the other gurls how they are doing good and how i'm doing it all rong!


Hey girl, you should go in before or after school and talk to your teacher about the project and find out if you're failing or something like that. Going in will show her that you care and that you're responsible!
~Kristin

Posted by: Maine Lover 4 ever on 3/23/2008 10:43:58 AM

*********MOD*********GIRLS*************
i get really bad stomach aches daily, and they only go away when i go to the bathroom for like 30 minutes. does anyone know whats wrong with me? i eat healthy when i should, exercise, watch my weight, and i dont have my period, so whats up with me?!
xoxo
lovelylady

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/23/2008 2:42:23 PM

Girl, ditch that dude! if he goes out with you and doesn't call you the day after the dat, he obviously doesn't deserve you.

Posted by: 1seg1 on 3/23/2008 2:46:21 PM

heysupergirlala-
hey!! sometimes i feel the same way. :) dont b tooo nice, because then some guys will think u r little goody 2 shoes!! and i would know because i have a twin brother who analyzes all the girls in my grade. if u r a little more unique and not willing to give up urself for someone else, guys may llike u more. maybe u should ask the guys, in a joking way, y they go out with girls they hate. they prob do it just to b cool and be talked about. after all, in the guy world its like a prize to get girls who are the popular, cliquey, cheerleadery girls with good bodies, makeup, hair etc. this time when they only care about looks will pass and then they will care about people who are genuinly nice instead of just shallow. until then, find guys who care about u or just go single!! a way to get attached is be in on the jokes, and make memories of ur own. have more time with your friends. or, just talk to them and see why they are icing u out. it will get better!! hope this helps xxoo

Posted by: vball007 on 3/23/2008 2:46:37 PM

aaaaaa some of my comments arent posting!! and they are really long too. help!!

Posted by: vball007 on 3/23/2008 2:48:44 PM

Happy Easter!Who is mod right now?

Posted by: I♥ND on 3/23/2008 2:51:39 PM

Does anyone know what "MOD" means?!
PLEASE respond!

Posted by: GL-ALchic17 on 3/23/2008 2:53:21 PM

i think u should move on hes not worth it... it was short lived.. if he calls u back great if not dont let it ruin your life

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/23/2008 3:03:27 PM

I suggest calling him yourself. That idea that boys always have to make the first move every time and call all the shots is SOOOOOOOOO old fasioned. Talk things out with him!

Posted by: RiverClanDeputy on 3/23/2008 3:03:36 PM

modd-
how do u ask a guy for his #?

Posted by: dancer4life xoxo p.s.buttchinlol! dorky <3 on 3/23/2008 3:32:48 PM

hey mod, im 13 and almost 5'10. how can i dress that will look best with my height?

Posted by: ***iLUVsoccer*** on 3/23/2008 3:39:20 PM

ok let me give u advice supergillala!!
im in 9th grade and before this first year in high school no guys ever ever ever liked me!
i thot something was seriously wrong with me...so it depends on wut grade u are in because now that im in high school the guys dont care as much for the preppy snobby girls. they're more into down to earth girls. if you dont act jealous to those other girls and just continue to be yourself but be confident about it...then things will start turning around for you...just give it some time. but some good flirting and being out going couldn't hurt either if you're shy. honestly i am very loud, & shy people intimidate me because i get the feeling if i shout too loud i will crush them. & i kno its visa versa. i like outgoing guys who seem confident, & my best guy friend gave me some tips!...
1. say whats on your mind...if your funny about something & u make them laugh than thats great...guys love a funny girl!
2. be confident in what u say...a bunch of girls in my class were fantasizing ovr hanna montana & i said how much i hated them & the guys were amazed & were saying how awesome i was! becuz i was unique
3.great hygiene (yummy scents) & girls who hold themselves up right
4. flirtatious
5. girls who arent clingy & needy are the ones who end up getting chased after...but dont play hard to get!

ok hope this helped!
~love ya! good luck

Posted by: sportygirl on 3/23/2008 3:41:35 PM

MOD
what duz that stand for?!
what is that?! i see that on all the comments...

why dont my comments show up?!

Posted by: sportygirl on 3/23/2008 3:43:46 PM

i love mexican boys...!!!!!!!!!!!
so cute!
i've liked 3 different mexican guys in the past 2 years!! hehehe

Posted by: sportygirl on 3/23/2008 3:55:35 PM

blallblab
posting comments is frustrating...
why doesnt it show up!
u cant even talk to anyone

Posted by: sportygirl on 3/23/2008 3:56:29 PM

i think there should be like little comment posting boards or something...ya kno?

Posted by: sportygirl on 3/23/2008 3:57:48 PM

MODERATOR PLEASE HELP!!!!
*********mod*************( and girls!)
please help! a really cute, funny, smart, athletic and really sweet boy likes me. he gave me really nice flowers for vday,we dance together at all the school dances, and he emails me a lot. the problem is, we are both so shy! especially him lol. so we never talk in person!! we both go to the same really small school, but we never talk and its really akward. i want 2 maybe date him in highschool, but first we have to get passed the akwardness and say something to each other!! do u have any ideas??? please help! xooxox

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:03:03 PM

anyone there??? well my advice is to call him!!! or YOU should breck up with him first, this happened to my friend, she met a guy @ a dance, and they kissed and everything. the next moring she called to talk to him, he talk for a while. then after that he never called her or talked to her, my friend got so pissed that she dumped him,

Posted by: luvyah4ever2008 on 3/23/2008 4:04:05 PM

well, hum, that hard to ansewer, well about the guys, don't rush, you have at least 10years ahead of you to date!!! with the girl problems, ask your "friends" why they always exclude you, or if you go to a big school (i go to a little catholic school with 29 kids in my whole grade, yah so fun, and ALL the guys are U-G-L-Y!!!!!!) try to make new friends, if you are so unhappy with your friends and school, try transfering, it might work, i hope this helps!!!!

Posted by: luvyah4ever2008 on 3/23/2008 4:08:25 PM

Call him and say Can We Go Out? (See a scary movie so u can cuddle up with him) Ittl be good for yur relashionship

Posted by: sabrina.mccomas98 on 3/23/2008 4:16:47 PM

Boys...Hey I'm new on here, but I was wondering if you gals could help me. There's this guy who is really cute and really nice, and I think he may like me, but I'm not sure. Like one time in chemistry class we were playing a game and we had been in groups before for the game and he hadn't been there so he had to pick a group to be in and I was just curious to see where he was going, because all the groups were even so he could go to any, and he was going to his friends table, then he looked my way and we made eye contact. He then said, "I'll got to Jim and Ben's group." The group I was in. He's not even friends with Jim or Ben it was so weird. Then in track practices one day he passed me in the hall, but he wasn't too far ahead , and at every turn he'd look back at me. He's such a confusing guy, and I like him. What should I do?

Posted by: Rowena on 3/23/2008 4:20:29 PM

yeah u should call and see wats up

Posted by: Orlandolover25 on 3/23/2008 4:39:46 PM

hi

Posted by: Orlandolover25 on 3/23/2008 4:40:26 PM

yeah well if he hasnt called you in a weeks i would call him myself and then if he dont answer then give him up he aint that important for him to cheat on you or something like that you will just get hurt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: horse ridding babe on 3/23/2008 4:50:10 PM

happy easter everyone!

Posted by: Maine Lover 4 ever on 3/23/2008 10:44:30 AM

Kristen thanks! have a great day!

Posted by: Maine Lover 4 ever on 3/23/2008 11:10:50 AM

***MOD*** how did you get your intership at girlslife? and how the heck do you work by modding? and what does MOD stand for.


Hey girl, I actually don't have an internship with Girlslife, I just work for them. The office is in Maryland and I live in Washington state so I work from home. We all work in four hour shifts and I work twice a week. Also, mod stands for moderator!
~Kristin

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:19:19 AM

poetry kid, just try to take it down a notch. ask your self these questions:
1 does he like you back?
are you old enough to be in love?(sry, butI dont know how old you r!)
2 is it good time to feel like this?
if all or these are yes, then ur good! but if theirs one no, then try ito take it down a notch.

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:21:41 AM

hey, actress in my heart, I ♥ sara barellies!

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:22:55 AM

ok, supergirl, try not to be too nice. now, when i pisture you, I think of you with a halo and angle wings! as for guys, try to be really good friends with him first, then make a move. and friends, try to speek up, and if that dosn't get attention, ask one to go shopping a movie, n-e thing!

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:25:25 AM

***MOD*** hey, whos modding on easter?


Hey girl, I'm the mod for the next couple of hours!
~Kristin

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:26:45 AM

HONEY CHICK
ok, ge to a few more people and see if he really likes you. if he does, ask him out. he may just be shy, or you could ask someone to aske him for you. it lightens the blow. good luck!

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:28:51 AM

thanks kristen!

Posted by: swim queen on 3/23/2008 11:31:32 AM

Hello?

Posted by: OMGitsmikk on 3/23/2008 11:44:09 AM

r my comments posting?

Posted by: OMGitsmikk on 3/23/2008 11:44:27 AM

Ya i dont think that guy is the best for u...

Posted by: Abby on 3/23/2008 11:58:42 AM

okk soo i got really cool stuff today!!
i <3 the easter bunneyy!!! ♥

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/23/2008 7:05:22 PM

wow no way the comments arent showing up again!
(just a little sarcastic humor dont worry im not stupid)

xoxo,
dianna

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/23/2008 7:14:06 PM

ugh ness

Posted by: xomusicxxluverxo on 3/23/2008 7:15:08 PM

MOD- i really really really really really like this boy. he likes me too! he told my best friend he does (hes good friends with my best friend and me and him are pretty good friends)and he flirts with me a lot! he also told my best friend that he wants to ask me out but he doesnt think i feel the same way. i try to flirt but i end up flirting with the wrong person by accident and not with him. or when i do flirt with him he doesnt see it. how can i flirt more or better? also hes in 7th grade and im in 8th but hes already had a few girlfriends and i've never dated before.what if..well i dont kno but do u think this could effect anything if we go out? thanks for all ur help! btw happy easter!!


 


thanks! Happy Easter to you too. I think you should just be honest and tell him you like him. He's not going to reject you because you already know that he likes you.

Posted by: ♥ he promises to protect me ♥ on 3/23/2008 7:50:28 PM

************************** MOD ******************
WHAT DO YOU THINK I SOULD DO ABOUT THIS GUY KANEN I REALLY LIKE AND HE KINDA ACTS LIKE HE LIKES ME TO ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO SNAG HIM????

Posted by: horse ridding babe on 3/23/2008 4:53:07 PM

horse riding babe-
u need to see if he likes u! email/txt/talk to him lots more, and flirt a lot. then see if he flirts back! also, u can tell by word of mouth. get a mutual friend to ask him if he likes u! if he does like u, go for it! ask him out on a group date so its not akward and u get to know him better. then u can move on if that works. hope this helps u! xooxoxoxo

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:58:39 PM

please help! here is my question:
*********hi mod!!!!! can u please help me?**********

please help! a really cute, funny, smart, athletic and really sweet boy likes me. he gave me really nice flowers for vday,we dance together at all the school dances, and he emails me a lot. the problem is, we are both so shy! especially him lol. so we never talk in person!! we both go to the same really small school, but we never talk and its really akward. i want 2 maybe date him in highschool, but first we have to get passed the akwardness and say something to each other!! do u have any ideas on how to start up a convo in person??? xooxox

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 4:58:45 PM

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/23/2008 5:03:17 PM

forget that dude!!1

Posted by: findley on 3/23/2008 5:04:18 PM

hey! whos moding? andrea and laura always seem to be moding and i want to know if its a glitch or not. soooo... WHOS MODING!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!!?

Posted by: lovelylady on 3/23/2008 5:12:57 PM

He might b a shy guy who loves chicas like u and he has the same prob.

Posted by: laidbackchica on 3/23/2008 5:16:51 PM

***MOD****MOD***MOD***MOD***

ok so one of my bffs told me that one of my bgf's likes me. she said that he told her he liked me because i was beautiful, smart and funny. how sweet! the only problem is, that i love him to death like a brother, definitely not like a bf. by what she told me and the way he acts around me i can tell that he likes me a lot and it makes me feel horrible cuz i dont wanna break his heart! he called me 3 times today and one of the times he left me a mssg saying "happy easter, i saw you in church today but i guess you didnt see me" that like broke my heart because i could tell by the way he was talking that he really likes me. he's one of the bgfs' anyone could ever have and i dont wanna loose him as a friend by telling him i dont like him like that and i feel so bad. i think he might be planning on asking me out soon but i dont know what to say if he does. i really dont wanna go out with him because i cant picture being anything more than friends with him. is there anything that i can say to him without totally breaking his heart? hes so sweet and i feel so bad. any advice ?

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/23/2008 5:18:09 PM

ok girls can you help me with my problem posted at 5:18:09 pleaseeee!

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/23/2008 5:30:58 PM

hey I need some help, and it's about a guy. Anyone out there?

Posted by: abcdefgqwerty on 3/23/2008 5:33:58 PM

MOD? can you give me some advice plz?


 


of course

Posted by: ♥ he promises to protect me ♥ on 3/23/2008 5:34:19 PM

hey, supergirllala, if you are there

I know how you feel. I am in the same position with my friends, and it can be frustrating. The guy thing, well, I can't help you there. However, I think that if you really value your friends, talk to them and explain your feelings. It worked for me!

Posted by: abcdefgqwerty on 3/23/2008 5:38:29 PM

anyone wanna chat?

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/22/2008 7:32:15 PM

i love this boy. yes love he is all i think about i am completely and utterly in love with him and I can't help but think abouth him. man am i confused.

Posted by: poetrykid8943 on 3/22/2008 7:48:44 PM

hi every1! ^_^

Posted by: Leslaira on 3/22/2008 7:54:12 PM

I luv Bill and Daves advice! lol at the checklist hehe voodoo doll lol thats funny.my advice to u is to forget him its not like u knew him for a long time to be stressing over him.

Posted by: Zee<3 on 3/22/2008 7:59:38 PM

MOD..... Im in a big fight with my ex-best friend. we used to be bffs, until she got mad cause i didnt call my other bff. So, my exbestfriend(lets call her gracie) decides that our enemy is better than us, and goes and becomes bffs with her and her crew. So, gracie gives us all these nasty looks,and now she wants to be our(me and my 2 friends)friends again, and i dont want to forgive her, cause its happened sooooo many times before. but i feel a little guilty, although i didnt do anything. What should I do???


 Hey babes, I am going to post this as a Girl Talk so you get lots of advice. xoxo JANA

Posted by: emily13rose on 3/22/2008 7:59:47 PM

n e 1 on??

Posted by: emily13rose on 3/22/2008 8:07:34 PM

You should go out with your girlfriends and forget about your worries. Have a blast so that when he calls it'll be more exciting and you'll forget about why you were mad. And if he doesn't call then his loss he's probably not the right one if he cant make a call this early in the relationship.Good luck, I hope he's smart enough to call:)

Posted by: TigerPaws on 3/22/2008 8:17:28 PM

Mod I really like this one guy, and I think he really likes me too. I've been wondering if I should just let things continue on in this comfortable speed, or should I go out of my comfort zone a lil' and tell him I like him? I've been leaning more towards letting things fall into place naturally, but I'm somehow worried that they won't.


Hey babes,, I would see how you feel. If it looks like things arent going to happen unless somene makes a move, then make one. If it looks like things will eventually get there, then I see no problem with riding it out and seeing what happens. If things are good right now, theres no need to disrupt it, maybe your guy isnt ready for that yet. xoxo JANA

Posted by: AcridOreo on 3/22/2008 9:09:07 PM

dudeee that sucks! he prolly has a girlfriend & was cheating on her or maybe he just wanted some action. guys can be total jerks.. dont waste yerr time on them unless they are really into you. seriously, dont even bother to call him. you can do better. :)

Posted by: KBBY123 on 3/22/2008 9:33:37 PM

PSSHH. WHAT A JERK. HES PROLLY CHEATING ON HIS GIRLFRIEND WITH YOU.

Posted by: KBBY123 on 3/22/2008 9:35:20 PM

my bf and i have been goin out for 3/4 weeks, and we never talk! he is super shy, but ik he really likes me. thats great, but i end up having to do all the stuff guys usually would do (aka calling, talking, etc.)!!! we're prolly gonna see a movie (first date!) this week. i KINDA wanna kiss him, but idk if i should, we dont know eachother that well yet, and i'd feel like a .... you know. anyways, im my bfs first gf, so he really has no idea wut hes doing lol. so any advice?!?!! thanks, MIL &hearts; ps how do u make the music note symbol??


Hey babes, I would wait until he is a little more comfortable, if the boy cant even start up conversation, then I dont see how he is going to be kissing you. Just be patient and watch for signs that he is becomming a litlte more relaxed around you. xoxo JANA

Posted by: musicislife on 3/22/2008 9:41:29 PM

that is so rude of a guy 2 not call. if he took u 2 the movies the next night, he probably doesn't have a girlfriend. if u have his number, call him and ask what's up. if any of ur BFFs know him, ask them if they know anything. if u can't find out anything and he still doesn't call (or won't talk 2 u when u call), just give up on him. there are lots of other great guys out there. if u find out he was cheating on u, remember it for the future so that u don't go out with him again.

dancechic846- talk 2 the guy. explain 2 him that if he really likes u he should go out with u and ignore what his friends say. normally, u should never tell someone 2 ignore friends, but he's letting his social status get in the way of his heart, which is totally NOT okay. maybe the 2 of u can decide that u could go out with him and his friends for a little so that they could all get 2 know u. if u have any classes w/ him, u could decide w/ him that u need 2 get 2gether 2 study. if he tells this 2 his friends, he could eventually tell them that he has started 2 like u and they might understand. just don't try 2 figure it out on ur own. talk it out w/ him and figure out a solution that works 4 both of u. good luck!!!

Posted by: cami-chic on 3/23/2008 8:08:43 PM

GL-ALchic17: my school is the bulldogs too!!!!

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/23/2008 8:29:37 PM

HEY GIRLS HEY MODERATOR I NEED HELP!!!!!!
okay so i've known this guy tim since the beginning of the school year, but i've never really noticed him until now. he was dating my kind-of-not-really friend erika but she just broke up with him. he seems to have moved on rather quickly and i think he might like me. in math he's always looking at me and in social studies he's always leaning back and putting his arm on my desk. we have ALOT in common it's kind of creepy. he makes me laugh and i make him laugh. i was in his media project group in english and he was always making dirty jokes to me. he lets me fix his hair when it's messed up. one day in english all my friends were standing around my desk and he pulled my chair away (with me in it) and just stood there looking at me and grinning. he's recommended books to me.
does he like me? should i ask him out?


 


Yes he definitely sounds like he likes you. If you like him you should ask him out.

Posted by: *my fingertips are holding on to the cracks in our foundation* i love kate nash on 3/23/2008 8:50:59 PM

Hey whos moddin?? :)

Posted by: CountryBabe122 on 3/23/2008 8:57:33 PM

So my boyfriend Delano is os cute,funny,smart and emotinal.Though he acts different in front of his bffs.Though when he is with me he acts os genuine.i think i love him he says he loves me to.Ehat should i do.???????????????????????????????

Posted by: Singer on 3/23/2008 9:22:02 PM

whos modding?

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:26:17 PM

MOD
is anyone still modding?
ps happy easter!!!!!!!

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:28:23 PM

twistershic-it was great...except i fell on my face snowboarding and now i got scratches. watta bout u? didya go egg hunting???

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:30:39 PM

***MOD***
can i ask u sumthing?


of course!

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:31:55 PM

anyone wanna chat??

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:33:36 PM

MOD
nvm, i g2g, but ill ask u ext time i go on.
thnx!!!
HAPY EASTER!!!!!

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/23/2008 9:35:57 PM

MOD .. please help me with my comment at 5:18

Posted by: fall back into my life ♥ on 3/23/2008 5:41:59 PM

there is this guy @ my school that is a little bit more popular than me and really likes me but is afraid his friends will think he is weird for going out with me. what should i do?

Posted by: dancechic846 on 3/23/2008 5:49:29 PM

Are any of you guys from Chicago? Chicago rocks! whoooooooooo! go white Sox, Cubs, Wolves,Sky, Bears and Bulls!Go basketball! its my favorite sport besides bowling! I am on my grade school team, its over but high school this year i am going to do bowling. that will be fun. Our team is the Bulldogs we say: B.U(DOUBLE"L")D.O.G.S LETS GO!

Posted by: GL-ALchic17 on 3/23/2008 6:07:46 PM

yoooo wuz up!?

Posted by: lovelife32 on 3/23/2008 6:15:54 PM

dont woorie his an idiot

Posted by: miss drama queen on 3/23/2008 6:24:57 PM

Kalie-
i know what u mean. my B-day is on the 24th. but the play i was in ended and i didn't want it to b/c my older BGF/BFF was in it and that was the only way i could see him a lot and he's graduating this year so i can't see him until after school for like 3 minutes. i might to be able to see him more next year if i join band though. ugh now im sad.

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 8:31:20 AM

Kalie-
whats the name of your play?!?

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 8:32:41 AM

MOD!!!
im SOOO confused about my senior BGF/BFF. We've been friends for two years and we've been in plays together and we have sooo much fun we're together. This year we hung out a lot more and had more fun and inside joke things about us liking each other but we were joking and now i think about he A LOT and i want to be around him all the time. i don't want to date him but in my head it says i do, but i really don't and he been going on dates with this girl and im kinda jealous. What the heck is wrong with me? i can even say i love him to my drama friends but i don't want to date him. WTH(heck)


Hey! Maybe you guys just have an awesome friendship. Sometimes with friendships so good, you don't think they can be with guys. But often times those are the best!


<3 Laura

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 8:49:56 AM

hello

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 8:55:47 AM

hey :)

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 8:56:51 AM

MOD!!!
i posted a question for you had it still isn't up yet did it get lost or something?

Posted by: dramadork on 3/24/2008 9:21:27 AM

hey *****mod****** when are the winners of ther freebies going to be posted.. it said by 12 but its already 12:30 :( :( and why is todays freebie expired :( i really want tht bag!!!??????


hey hon, winners should be up now! ~L'Oreal

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/24/2008 9:28:02 AM

hey call him if will not call you then you call him that is what i would do!!!!!

Posted by: sydy_kidy on 3/24/2008 9:32:51 AM

I think he likes u or maybe feels bad for how he used 2 treat u

Posted by: Kalie on 3/24/2008 9:41:56 AM

*Mod*
My bffs said this guy was staring at me but I didn't believe them cuz' they r always trying 2 set me up with him.Any who I caught him staring at me what does this mean? If he does like me how can I get him to ask me out(I don't like asking peeps out)?

Posted by: Kalie on 3/24/2008 9:45:17 AM

*Mod*
I'm going to start hanging out with these more popular girls.But 1 of the girls has an x bf who she still flirts with,I like her x bf.How do I get the guy with out ticking off my new bffs?

Posted by: Kalie on 3/24/2008 9:51:37 AM

Don't call him. Let him call you. Also some guys just do that so they can brag to their friends.

Posted by: hpcr on 3/24/2008 9:59:54 AM

CALL HIM. If you really like this guy then go ahead and make the move. It's worth it. Hey you never know, maybe he forgot your digits.
xoxo4eva
~Annie

Posted by: StarryEyedGirl on 3/24/2008 10:31:25 AM

hi supergirllala,
i think that you should just be yourself, soon a guy will like you for who you are. just don't change yourself for someone, be true to yourself.
hope that helps some

Posted by: sports1 on 3/24/2008 10:44:59 AM

MOD
when i write something, it doesnt come up :(

Posted by: sports1 on 3/24/2008 10:47:17 AM

if he doesn't call you back he prolly just nervous but he does want to call you you seam nice

Posted by: daija banks on 3/24/2008 11:04:08 AM

Has anyone even noticexd that there are no quizzes!I can't wait any longer somebody do something!!!!please

Posted by: GL-ALchic17 on 3/24/2008 11:08:29 AM

hey Laura!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey I've posted comments on other pages but now my comments aren't showing up?? :( I didn't right anything bad...just a few questions. what's going on??


 


Hey Girl! I'm not so sure! Theres still a lot of things we need to work out with the new site. Thanks for your patience!


<3 Laura

Posted by: stargirl17 on 3/24/2008 11:12:02 AM

!mod! Laura!
hey my school is really tiny and I know pretty much everyone there. all of the guys are kinda weird and stuff. but this guy a grade younger than me REALLY likes me. I'm going out with him and all but I don't REALLY like him. just a little bit. however, another guy likes me and he's in my grade. he's kinda cute but he's ALWAYS HYPER!!! should I wait it out or stop my relationship?? sorry if that makes no sense....


Hey! If you don't like your bf as much as you think you should, then maybe it's time to end it. Don't end it JUST for another guy tho. Once you break up, wait a little until you start thinking about dating someone else.


<3 Laura

Posted by: stargirl17 on 3/24/2008 11:19:39 AM

I think you should call him or go to his house

Posted by: MileyCyrus on 3/24/2008 11:53:41 AM

that has SO happened to me!!! this guy liked me and i liked him and then he asked my BFF to the dance and tells everyone they're going out! Boys just don't... think

Posted by: hot_stuff_=P on 3/24/2008 12:13:09 PM

HEY MOD THERE WAS A GIRL FROM CHINA ON THIZ WEBSITE! I WAS WONDERING HOW U ANSWER HER PROBLEMS BECAUSE HER TYPING WAZ IN CHINESE WRITING!!
JUST CURIOUS, hpcr


Hey! Well I wasn't modding that day but I'm sure the mod must have known a little Chinese? How cool!


<3 Laura

Posted by: hpcr on 3/24/2008 12:27:24 PM

ADVICE PLEASE!!

My best friend is a guy. I want him to know that he`s my best friend with out seeming too clingy or anything like that. He has a lot of `girl`friends so I don`t know where I stand to him. How do I tell him he`s my best friend and how to I figure out how he honestly feels about me?

Posted by: kcmprincess on 3/24/2008 12:27:43 PM

i like guys......lol i am in a VERY random mood!

Posted by: blondie_gurl on 3/24/2008 5:21:55 AM

wheres is mys comments

Posted by: blondie_gurl on 3/24/2008 5:40:50 AM

Hey if u wanna' be a mod(once u r old enough) do u have 2 live on the east coast?

Posted by: Kalie on 3/24/2008 6:02:12 AM

I can't wait, my b-day is April 3! I'll be 13! The play (in which I star in) is 2 days away and we SO aren't ready!I'm sad:( that the play will be over that was a good reason to talk 2 my crushes.

Posted by: Kalie on 3/24/2008 6:05:10 AM

***mod...
who is modding??

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/24/2008 6:28:09 AM

supergirllala: hey the problem is your not doing anything wrong... sometimes (its really wierd) but people dont go straight for the nice girl for some reason, they hang out with people they say they will never be or like but somehow it happens... but def dont change yourself... just make even a bigger effort to get on the inside of the group.. and slowly (hopefully!) they will see how fun you are and want to hang out... as for the guys idk .... maybe once u get more in the circle of friends then guys will come along with it... just dont change yourself for someone who is not worth it

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/24/2008 6:34:36 AM

GL-ALchic17: MOD is short for moderator... they are the people who read all of the comments before they are posted to make sure we are all safe... and when someone says ***mod (or something like that) at the top of their comment then that means they have a question for the mod...

Posted by: allmaewin on 3/24/2008 6:38:55 AM

i have a question:

in 5th grade, a boy used to make fun of me. he is a year above me.

now, i am in 7th grade and he is in 8th and says hi to me everyday.

what does this mean, mod?

Posted by: paramorefreak! on 3/24/2008 6:46:59 AM

MOD!MOD! HELP!
HEY YOU GAVE ME ADVICE ON NOT 2 BREAK UP WIT MY BF JUST 4 A LITTLE CRUSH. THNX, BUT THAT'S NOT THE ONLY PROB. I FEEL WEIRD GOIN WIT THE GUY I'M GOIN WITH. IT JUST DOESN'T FEEL LIKE ALL OF THE PEICES ARE THERE IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN. PLS HELP!! THNX


Well if that's the case, then maybe you should break up with him


<3 Laura

Posted by: hpcr on 3/24/2008 1:51:15 PM

Mod

i like my this guy in my english class named chris. i guess you could say that hes the only guy i would actually call a friend but i cant tell who he likes. he flits with everyone and doesnt seem to have any close friends, so theres no one to ask who he likes. he always comes up behind me and sings songs from dorky musicals(like annie or the sound of music...) cuz its like an inside joke thing...
how can i tell if he likes me????

♥Ellie

Posted by: Ellie on 3/24/2008 2:04:19 PM

hey is anyone on?

Posted by: im-a-dancer on 3/24/2008 2:31:31 PM

***MOD***
Everytime I try to enter a giveaway it says that the giveaway has expired! What's up with that??? :-)

Posted by: Lucky252 on 3/24/2008 2:34:59 PM

well i am a girl so i have to say this call him ask him to call you the next night and if he doesnt something is really wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: deja on 3/24/2008 2:56:08 PM

***MOD***
ok, i am REALLY REALLY crushed because this guy i thought that liked me asked my BFF to the dance and now everyone thinks there going out. the point is the didn't even hang out OR even dance 1nce in the dance. Nick (the guy) was to busy staring @ me and last dance he was coming up to me 2 ask me 2 dance like 5 times but i chickened out and ran. Do you think he still likes me and not my BFF?

Posted by: hot_stuff_=P on 3/24/2008 3:31:29 PM

just call him if you really like him all you have to loose is this chance if you don't take it!!!!!!!!BUT same thing happend to me and the hole kiss and pretty thing and all he wanted was to show me off to his friends and to kiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!1it suck big time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

Posted by: softee96 on 3/24/2008 3:31:39 PM

MOD!!!!
im emailing this guy that i really like except we are running out of stuff to say!! please help any convo ideas?? thanks xooxox

Posted by: surfergirl77 on 3/24/2008 3:43:00 PM

hey

Posted by: ♥SpongeBob-Hottie♥ on 3/24/2008 3:53:31 PM

het

Posted by: ♥SpongeBob-Hottie♥ on 3/24/2008 3:54:45 PM

hey

Posted by: ♥SpongeBob-Hottie♥ on 3/24/2008 3:55:09 PM

hey

Posted by: ♥SpongeBob-Hottie♥ on 3/24/2008 3:55:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!

Okay I really Really like my boyfriend!!! but i WORRY ALOT!!!! so yeah. and i always worry hes cheatin on me or something so can u PLEASE give me some ways to know if he is cheatin on me?

Posted by: JoKeRrOcKqUeEn! I <3 AnDrEw!!!! on 3/24/2008 4:00:08 PM

Okay do any of u girls know some signs if ur boyfriend is cheatin on u?

Posted by: JoKeRrOcKqUeEn! I <3 AnDrEw!!!! on 3/24/2008 4:04:25 PM

o.m.g dat is so dumb my friend has the same problem he might break up with her

Posted by: cute girl on 3/24/2008 4:05:05 PM

Okay? MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD AND YAL GIRLS!!!!!! wat r some signs ur boyfriend is cheating on u?

Posted by: JoKeRrOcKqUeEn! I <3 AnDrEw!!!! on 3/24/2008 4:15:45 PM

***MOD***

ok so my ex jesse still wants to be friends with me, and i RLY dont want to b friends with him!!! help!! I dont want 2 b mean but i rlllly dont want to b friends.

HEART BROKEN,
swim chick

Posted by: swim chick~horses rock my sox on 3/24/2008 4:29:32 PM

***MOD***

my ex wants to b friends and i dont want 2 b friends with him!! HELP!

Posted by: swim chick~horses rock my sox on 3/24/2008 4:33:29 PM

why wont any of my comments post?

Posted by: swim chick~horses rock my sox on 3/24/2008 4:34:23 PM

mod

none of my comments r showing up

Posted by: swim chick~horses rock my sox on 3/24/2008 4:35:15 PM

~Mod~

I like this guy, a lot. But I learned from his best friend he likes someone else! But then...I got my other good friend who's a guy, to ask him (secretly) if he liked me. He said he liked me 4 out of 10! I know, not much, but now I'm confused. He's sending mixed signals. What should I do???

Posted by: Hyce on 3/24/2008 4:39:49 PM

well I he hasn't called you yet then clearly he isn't worth it. He can't see that his life would get sooooo much better if he would actually commit. good luck with him

Posted by: tree hugger on 3/24/2008 4:43:09 PM

hey chicas
what's up?

Posted by: boardingschoolbabe(^_^) on 3/24/2008 4:44:18 PM

Hey there!

Posted by: ♥Anchors_Away♥ on 3/24/2008 5:22:47 PM

Why aren't my comments working?

Posted by: ♥Anchors_Away♥ on 3/24/2008 5:23:13 PM

-JoKeRrOcKqUeEn! I <3 AnDrEw!!!!

i have a few signs to know how to see if your boyfriend is cheating on u;
-first of all, he won't make eye contact with u or he looks away
-whenever he's around he fidgets or stares at his feet
-and he only does a few word answers and makes you feel uncomfortable

Posted by: hot_stuff_=P on 3/24/2008 5:23:31 PM

Is it just me or are any of my posts showing up

Posted by: kcmprincess on 3/24/2008 12:38:11 PM

HEY MOD I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!!!!
I STARTED GOIN OUT WIT THIZ GUY ON VALENTINE'S DAY AND WE'VE BEEN GOIN OUT EVER SINCE. BUT THE THING IS IS THAT I'VE LIKED THIZ OTHER GUY 4 QUIET AWHILE NOW. PART OF ME WANTS 2 BREAK ^ WIT MY BF BUT THEN THE OTHER PART DOESN'T. I FEEL SORTA WEIRD HAVIN THE BF I HAVE NOW BECAUSE NOT IN A MILLION YEARS WOULD I PICTURE US TOGETHER! I P.S I DON'T WANT 2 HURT MY BF'S FEELINS( I KNOW IT WOULD FOR A FACT!)


Hey! Don't break up JUST for a little crush. Weigh out the positives and the negatives first. 


<3 Laura

Posted by: hpcr on 3/24/2008 12:41:27 PM

HAPPY EASTER!

Posted by: kcmprincess on 3/24/2008 12:46:42 PM

mod okay so i have to do a scene and Romeo and Juliet and i'm already starting to get nervous and i don't have to do it until friday. Hopefully what happend in shop doesn't happen on friday cause in shop my face turned red as an apple and so did my ears.


Hey girl! Good luck! You'll do great


<3 Laura

Posted by: daughtry fan on 3/24/2008 12:58:36 PM

♥Mod Please♥
My best friend is a guy. I want him to know that he`s my best friend with out seeming too clingy or anything like that. He has a lot of `girl`friends so I don`t know where I stand to him. How do I tell him he`s my best friend and how to I figure out how he honestly feels about me?


Hey! If you don't wanna make it awkward... don't tell him... show him. Thank him for always being there for you.


<3 Laura

Posted by: kcmprincess on 3/24/2008 1:20:42 PM

drop the dude ASAP &hearts;

Posted by: tigg3r on 3/24/2008 10:04:22 PM

I have trouble with my bf and my bgf. all of my friends except for this one girl thinks that my bf like likes the one girl. I don't get it! What do I do?

Posted by: retrogirl254 on 3/24/2008 10:13:49 PM

Hello? Why aren't my comments coming up?!?!

Posted by: retrogirl254 on 3/24/2008 10:15:20 PM

hey yals ttly adore the new site!!!!o ya plus i hav one last thing to say...SPRING BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: CHeErLEAdeR13 on 3/25/2008 7:55:07 AM

**MOD**PLZ HELP********
Ok,
so i started playing the flute when i was in 2nd grade, and evryone thought i was the best.It was my dream to play at lincoln center.
by the time 4th grade came, i didnt practice anymore
Now im in 7th grade and i hate playing,
i dont like the music, my band teacher, even playin the flute. Im not interseted and i got 7th chair now b/ i dont wanna play
Everyone is telling me to quit, but if i quit, i cant play in high school.
I dont know what to do!!! PLZ HELP!!!



Hey girlie! As we grow older, some of our interests change. Don't force yourself to enjoy playing the flute b/c you'll never succeed at it if you don't really enjoy doing it. Make sure it is something you really want to do...Renee:)

Posted by: CaseyGrrl on 3/25/2008 8:05:12 AM

hey yals ttly adore the new site!!!!o ya plus i hav one last thing to say...SPRING BREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: CHeErLEAdeR13 on 3/25/2008 8:15:39 AM

Mod
I was invited this guys party and i think he has a major crush on me. He calls me at 11 at night to invite me to a party today. i never gave him my phone number, he said he got it from one of my BFF's. i don't know if i should go. i think i like him. his best friend even told me he likes me. this guy is so weird because most of the time he is around he acts flirty but mean at the same time. one time he said we're a friendshiphate and he said this is a new word he made up. i need some help.


 


Hey girl! It sounds like this guy has a crush on yo, but is afraid to admit it so don't let his being mean get to you...Renee:)

Posted by: Coribart on 3/25/2008 8:17:31 AM

heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Posted by: CHeErLEAdeR13 on 3/25/2008 8:22:09 AM

MOD
Hey! Um, the magazine said that I would be able to view my favorite mod's page/profile. Is there a way to do this or is it just not set up yet?

Posted by: Lina on 3/25/2008 8:22:39 AM

wen i ask a guy out i always do it by note or by friend. aca sending a friend to ask him out 4 me. but there is also by texting, im, or the dreaded face to face. so really it depends on the guy and how outgoing the girl is haha. so pick whichever u think is the most romantic and realistic.

Posted by: CHeErLEAdeR13 on 3/25/2008 8:24:50 AM

MOD:
My mom really wants me to get a German penpal, but i'm afraid to go through the internet. any suggestions?


 


Hey girl! Maybe you and your mom can research safe ways to find German penpals to ensure that your new pal is legitimate...Renee:)

Posted by: 2hyperwriter on 3/25/2008 9:16:14 AM

last year my friend was tlking to me after skool and she said she was tlking to this guy we've known forever and she said he said that this guy was going to ask me out and i really don't like this guy, well the next day the guy we've know forever came up to me with a note on it, it said:
will you go out with me
and then it stated a guys name who was in my social studies and science and english and math class [[who i didn't like]] i told him no,
well, this year i sit next to him in english and i always feel him staring at me, it's so akward because he doesn't tlk to me, and the one time he did tlk to me we got in a mini fight, how do i deal with him??

sorry if that didn't make any sense!
help if you can plz!!!

Posted by: msmith on 3/25/2008 9:59:28 AM

There is this guy I like, when he is next to me, he knows how to annoy me, so he does, when he is not close enough to talk to me, he looks at me, but when he is across the room he acts like I’m not in the same room as him. He doesn’t acknowledge me in the hallway and I don’t always understand what he means when he says something. I have 4 classes with him and I had 2 classes with him next year, I want something to happen between us before summer because we will be going to the high school next year, and it’s so big. He also acts so different around his friends! I hate it because he’s kind of a jerk but when he’s not with his friends he is kind of nice. What do I do?

Posted by: msmith on 3/25/2008 10:20:27 AM

hellooooooo! Happy Spring Break! how come this site is sooooo off on the times, dates and stuff?
♥s and love,
Rose

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/25/2008 10:51:09 AM

****MOD****
I never know what kind of perfume to wear around guys. Sometimes I buy a perfume that I think smells awesome, but then everytime I walk by a guy he's like "Whoa! Something smells like rotten fruit loops." I keep wanting to buy more perfumes that I like, but then I don't because I dont want boys to think I smell bad. Do you know of any perfume sents boys like on girls?!!


 


Try calm and sweet scents like sweet pea from bath and body works or a gentle, cool perfume...Renee:)

Posted by: Nic♥le on 3/25/2008 11:05:53 AM

Mod~
ok. i have enterd this like a MILLION times and it will not go through. i even thougth that soemting was rong w/ my name soichanged it. but anyway, i like the paris bob from GL's 4 hot short hairstyls. i have teh kind of hair for this, too, but i dont no i will like bangs. should i get ti anyway?


 


It depends on what you feel will suit you...ask friends, hairdresser, 'rents...Renee:)

Posted by: RosePoem7 on 3/25/2008 11:08:30 AM

hola!

Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 3/22/2008 1:49:09 PM

MOD
hey my mom and dad tease me about a boy i hang out w/. my 'rents say i like him. I dont like him and i want them to get off my case ive told them to stop and they kept doing it. HELP!!!




Don't show them that it's getting to you. Play it cool and maybe even joke about it! <3 Jaime

Posted by: eagle on 3/22/2008 1:55:39 PM

mod~

i dont understand the time, can u help me...

Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 3/22/2008 1:56:36 PM

n e 1 on?

Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 3/22/2008 1:57:28 PM

i think im gonna go onto another blog now...l8r!

Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 3/22/2008 1:57:54 PM

2 words, Call Him! If u don't have his #, just try 2 get in touch with him some other way! Or get the # from ur friend.

Posted by: coolgirlTT on 3/22/2008 2:18:18 PM

i have this bf named kerian that a irish dance with! he is the cutes thing in the world!!!!! but the problem is other girls are trying to steal him what do i do!!!!
~molly♥♥♥♥

Posted by: redhead456 on 3/22/2008 2:23:54 PM

2 words, Call Him! If u don't have his #, just try 2 get in touch with him some other way! Or get the # from ur friend.

Posted by: coolgirlTT on 3/22/2008 2:25:53 PM

redhead456-
tell them to back off because he is yours!!!

Posted by: dramadork on 3/22/2008 2:28:56 PM

hey yall have a Happy Easter!!!!

Posted by: dramadork on 3/22/2008 2:31:26 PM

Mod i have a sub to your mag and it been a week and your new one is on the posts and i dont have it? whats up?????


Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, pleasse come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Posted by: BRETTFAVRELOVER58 on 3/25/2008 1:54:50 PM

love at first sight is not really a reality.

Posted by: :) on 3/25/2008 2:31:37 PM

dancechic846:
his friends don't have to know youre dating.
they might actually think its totally rad that hes got girlfriend

Posted by: :) on 3/25/2008 2:34:20 PM

i can sum this down 2 3 words: GUYS ARE STUPID!!!! no, but seriously, h probally just wants u 2 worry. or he already 4got bout u, as guys do(h8 em in th way tht i dont h8 em!)

Posted by: ryleerox on 3/24/2008 5:45:48 PM

Mod!!!
Is it possible to find true love at 13??

Posted by: minkmink13 on 3/24/2008 5:53:19 PM

what did u post??

Posted by: bballgurl on 3/24/2008 5:56:16 PM

hey do any girls know the right way to ask a guy out

Posted by: bballgurl on 3/24/2008 5:57:18 PM

maryallieangienina

Posted by: ryan3ily on 3/24/2008 7:03:21 PM

I dont get these guys at all! My ex wont tell anyone why he broke up with me, but I always catch him staring at me like he still likes me.
And I think there are a lot of guys at my school who like me, or at least i think they do.
I know for sure that there are at least 2 or 3 that like me but they are either going out with someone or trying to make me jealous!!! And my crush, now thats a different story! He stares at me a lot and acts as if he has a crush on me, but yet he's going out with some other girl and she's like the 3rd or 4th this school year!
I need some advice on all of these guys cause they are all confusing! HELP!

Posted by: americangirl108 on 3/24/2008 7:08:27 PM

Call Him- Just say hi- But don't be poured milk on him , What I mean is Just don't Scare him off by telling him too much @ one time. OR 2 LITTLE--

Then offer 2go out some time. If he says no- Forget him girlfriend - Leave him

Posted by: bigbear525 on 3/24/2008 7:14:07 PM

HOW DO U KNOW MY NAME?

Posted by: bigbear525 on 3/24/2008 7:14:54 PM

*******MOD*******
can i ask u sumthing?

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/24/2008 7:36:40 PM

Mod
i have boy broblems. who doesn't?!
i really like this boy and his friend. there is just one itsy bitsy problem. me and my friend are so close that one boy is her crush too and the other boy is her ex bf Help me!

Posted by: puppy2700 on 3/24/2008 7:40:19 PM

*MOD*
whos modding?
is it still laura?

Posted by: 3m[iLY] on 3/24/2008 7:43:54 PM

any1 here?

Posted by: puppy2700 on 3/24/2008 8:11:06 PM

Heyy girlie odds are he was cheating! srry! take things slower next time! that is my advice...I like things slow though!

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