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I have a huge problem and her name is Heather. Heather is a frenemy. I sit next to her in Spanish class and whenever I try to sit down, she’ll pull my chair out from beneath me. And whenever I get up, she pushes the chair into the back of my knees, making me fall again. She always talks when the teacher is talking and copies my homework. I tell her all the time to stop doing these things, but no matter what I say, she won’t stop. I’m getting really fed up with her bullying. I’ve already told my dad and he has no ideas. How can I get her to stop?-SuNsHiNeHow annoying! She seems like she’s just trying to get attention, honestly—either from people around you who might get a laugh out of it, or you. Unfortunately, that’s definitely not the way to get positive attention from anyone. If you want to be her friend, but she’s just being too annoying, talk to her about it. Tell her firmly, “Seriously, if you want to be my friend, you have to stop. It’s really annoying.” If she doesn’t stop, or if you don’t want to be her friend, try to avoid her as much as possible. Don’t sit near her in class anymore (ask your teacher to move your seat if you need to). Also, branch out and try to make other friends with people who will treat you right.And don’t be afraid to speak up! You could seriously get hurt one day with the antics that she pulls. If talking to her doesn’t work and ignoring her doesn’t work, let your teachers know about it. You’re not being a tattletale, you’re just looking out for your own safety. What if a teacher catches her cheating off of you and you’re blamed as an accomplice? What if one day you fall off your chair and sprain your ankle? Stand up to her bullying and let her know she has to stop! <3 Jessie M.
BY JIAE K. ON 4/22/2008 12:00:00 AM 133 COMMENTS
wassup peeps!!!! its Petoria here and IM DA 1ST COMINT!!! sadly i will no longer be petoria4eva now i am victoryismine22!!!! This is wut i plan 2 do at skool 2day!! flirt with this gy in 6th our then flirt with another gy in 7th our!!!!! i mite do sum flirtin at lunch 2 and in core clases!! I have 2 go 2 skool now!!! BYE!!!!
Posted by: Victoryismine22 on 4/22/2008 4:39:52 AM
I have these probloms too, I'm sorry you have to deal with this
Posted by: sooperstar on 4/22/2008 5:13:59 AM
thats rude!
Posted by: perky on 4/22/2008 5:25:17 AM
good luck sunshine!!!♥
Posted by: perky on 4/22/2008 5:25:39 AM
i wish it was summer already!
Posted by: perky on 4/22/2008 5:26:00 AM
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Posted by: AliOop on 4/22/2008 6:38:22 AM
oh my god, that is JUST like the movie heathers, everyone watch it! its funny but creepy but seriously just say that you don't her doing those things, you could get hurt, what would happen if you seriously hurt yourself falling off the chair. or you can ask the teacher for two copies of the homework and do one all wrong, when she gets it back you can tell her i mean it stop doing what you're doing. hope this helps! because this guy knocked me down and i didn't know it but i had a sinus infection and the next day my eye swelled up and i went to the hospital, i had to stay in the hospital for 17 days and i had to have a PICC put in AND i had to have surgery. so trust me lots of nasty things happen when you fall.
Posted by: londongirl12 on 4/22/2008 7:25:13 AM
eergh my comment isn't up!
Posted by: londongirl12 on 4/22/2008 7:28:57 AM
no mod is on... o yeah, there is skool today for u ppl...well i gonna turn the comp of now, EARTH DAY RULES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! there shudn't b that many comments on here though b/c no1 shud have there comp on...im goin to pick up sum litter! bye,ttyl,and l8r!!!
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 7:33:56 AM
Sorrry, that has to suuuck :/ One thing you can do is maybe go up to the principle && tell her/him that you want to change your classes :] But your dad might have to go wtih you. Good luck < 3
Posted by: luzbug57 on 4/22/2008 7:34:32 AM
Renee r u new??? i havent ever had u as a mod b4! pleasure to meet u!!!
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 9:07:16 AM
does n e one like the song Sorry by Buck Cherry???
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 9:17:03 AM
talk to ur teacher about having the seating arangment changed!
Posted by: lds_gurlie on 4/22/2008 9:21:35 AM
MOD is there someone modding? why in the other blogs are the comments ending up scrambled?
Cindy is modding right now and the comments are scrambled up because we're still working out the kinks on the website. -Cindy
Posted by: justgottaloveit on 4/22/2008 9:51:14 AM
MODD- Heyo! I'm sick today :*( How are you doin?? OKIE I have a question: At iceskating there's this guy I like (as a friend, but i mean i REALLY wanna be his friend), but he doesn't know my name or who I am or anything. He's going out with some gir, which is fine I don't want to get in the way of that, but theres like no other guy that skates besides my bro, and I think thats pretty cool. Anyways I've said a few words to him and stuff, but when i try to start a convo he just laughs at whatever I say and doesn't help out. Wha should i do? He's attachted to his girlfriend like glue, and I don't want her to think i'm trying to flirt with him! All i want to do is become friends ALso I know that he has a facebook account, and I want to be his friend on facebook, buut that maybe kinda weird, cuz then he'd think i looked him up and wonder why i did. Think im some kinda stalker or something and probably will have no idea who i am.. How do I find my way around this?? DANKE MODD You guys are awesome!
Maybe you should meet him more often through mutual friends. -Cindy
Posted by: Jen on 4/22/2008 10:05:43 AM
Renee! r u still on?
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 10:54:16 AM
hey perky!!!
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 10:55:11 AM
i have the same problem too. i just ask the teacher to move me, and that usually works. ~Racheeezz
Posted by: rachelgirlie321 on 4/22/2008 12:41:23 PM
kno-1 should do tht 2 some1!!!! it needs 2 stop!
Posted by: ilovemybffs on 4/22/2008 12:41:49 PM
Posted by: ilovemybffs on 4/22/2008 12:42:33 PM
thats a stupid thing for her to do to u! maybe u can tell the principal. the principal may have u or her moved to a different spot in class. prob. solved
Posted by: pokechic101 on 4/22/2008 1:12:27 PM
i think you should just ask the teach. if you can get another seat in class, or just ask the teach. to move her away from you. hope this helps!
Posted by: heeeyy?wuzup? on 4/22/2008 1:13:50 PM
i love girlslife!!!!
Posted by: heeeyy?wuzup? on 4/22/2008 1:14:29 PM
kk, this is off topic but........HELP!!!!!!!!! i got my period last week. it olny lasted for 3 days!!!!and also, i didnt tell my mom. i am sorta planning to tell her wen i get IT again, but i dont no when that will be. what should i do? also, i rlly like this guy, we have been frends for over a year, abd he has shown sgns of liking me back. but latly, my twin sis has been hanging out wth him, like playing bball at lunch. im not so worried, cause him and i hav don group dates to the movies, and i hav been to his house to work on a project(sigh) i have been flirting a bit more, and i dont rllly mind her liking him, but recently also, they hav started hugging at the end of games, instead of high5ing!!!1 HELPHELPHELPHELPHELPHELPHELP PLZ HELP ME OUT GRLS!
You should definitely tell your mom as soon as possible! As for this guy, I think you should talk to your sister about how you're feeling and work it out between you guys. You should also talk to the guy when you get a chance and when you're ready so you can see where he is. -Cindy
Posted by: blueyedblondie on 4/22/2008 1:15:03 PM
*********************MOD************************* my frend KT is for some reason pissd with me cuz i mite go to New York city with my frend sara. i was just talking to her on the fone and shes all like "i thot that u said u werent gana go cuz u said that saras a b****" becuz i used to think sara was a b***** but i dont anymore and so i said "i dont anymore." and then KT said "U cant just change ur mind. thats retarded" and then i said "how is it retarded" and then she said "it just is" and im startin to get relly pissed with her cuz she keeps remindin me what i said about sara being a b**** and i regret telling her. shes probally just jealous cuz im going to NY but wateva idc. so, wat shuld i do?? i cant put up wit her. im soooo worried cuz i think KT will tell sara about wat i said and i dont want her too. PIZ HELP!
Yeah she might be a little hurt that you guys aren't going together or that you aren't going with her. You should just tell KT that what you told her before was in confidence and it would be appreciated if she didn't say anything, if she were a good friend. -Cindy
Posted by: ariesgirl on 4/22/2008 1:44:16 PM
*******MOD********* I have a problem. Boys dont seem to like me. Like today, we had to sit in boy girl order for study hall. I came in late, and there were barley any seats left. I sat next to this one kid and when I did he groaned and said "Ugh! I dont wanna sit by her!" This isnt the first time it happend though. Sometimes (also when we have to sit girl boy order) I sit down next to a boy and he moves to sit by a "cooler" girl. I dont know why they dont like me because I am not unattractive and I am not "unpopular" or mean. )I am kinda "popular" but more in between the two.) And, I think I have a good personality. So, why dont boys like me?
Maybe they just don't know you very well and once they do, they'll like you more. -Cindy
Posted by: Losttluva on 4/22/2008 1:51:44 PM
MOD okay i got my first bf real bf last friday! i had a hee-uge crush on him so i told him and he addmitted that he likes me too then i asked him to b my bf and he said yes! im thrilled the only prob is that idk if he is... like he always smiles at me and helps me out and stuff but he doesnt do any of the "honey" or "baby" things idk how to explain it but all of the other guys that hav liked me hav said things like "Baby come here i can help you out" and stuff like that i mean mayb he's not the type of guy but i feel like he doesnt care, i mean he never calls my gf or stuff like that, but ik that he cares for me. Okay this is probably the worst and most confusing thing that u hav EVER read but could u help me? Im totaly lost with this bf stuff (im used to having guys like me, not bf's) thanks for everything u r soooo great~*~ <3
Maybe he's just a different person and you just have to get used to having a different kind of guy as your bf. -Cindy
Posted by: tinkgirly on 4/22/2008 2:02:40 PM
hello yallz lolz
Posted by: tinkgirly on 4/22/2008 2:14:21 PM
Anyone want to chat
Posted by: daisymae on 4/22/2008 2:27:03 PM
♥♥MOD♥♥ Theres this girl (call her K) and she really annoys me! she tells these 2 girls she hates me, and then the next day shes ready to walk to art with me and be my BEST friend! but then when shes with these other 2 girls shes a brat! what should i do to make her leave me alone? she tells her mom things that arent true about me, and now her mom and most of my friends moms don't like me. and its really aqward going to their houses! what should i say?
Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes
Posted by: Pumpkin2517 on 4/22/2008 2:35:54 PM
hi. i am sort of new round here. i have no idea wat modding is and i dont know how to post my own stories and stuff. can u guys please help me?
Moderators mediate the conversations and give advice to you girls. -Cindy
Posted by: girliegirlie123 on 4/22/2008 2:45:46 PM
OMG she sonds realy mean luckily we only have 7or8 weeks of school left if you still can't stand her go talk to the teacher trust me on this one long and painful story so i won't tell you what happend
Posted by: vballbabesks on 4/22/2008 2:59:48 PM
Hi actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... !!!
Posted by: memememememe!! on 4/22/2008 3:25:58 PM
um,I'm sorry but why didn't my comment show? Was it innapropriate?
Posted by: memememememe!! on 4/22/2008 3:27:25 PM
anyone wanna chat?
Posted by: MileyCyrusOfficial on 4/22/2008 3:36:48 PM
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Posted by: lilgirlyme on 4/22/2008 3:36:50 PM
****MOD****** mod, i was wondering, what is the email for ask lucky? i need it cuz i want to send a question but my computer wont let me have it cuz when i click CLICK HERE on the ask lucky page its says its not available or something like that. so can i have it?
It's AskLucky@girlslife.com
Posted by: mrs.latina cutie*latinas like me rock the house!* on 4/22/2008 3:41:27 PM
Keep telling her to stop if it STILL doesn't work, get your friends to help you out. Maybe they can help. If it really doesnt work maybe you should tell the teacher, that is if it gets serious.
Posted by: spanish.chick on 4/22/2008 3:47:46 PM
mod, can i have the ask lucky email please.
Asklucky@girlslife.com
Posted by: mrs.latina cutie*latinas like me rock the house!* on 4/22/2008 3:48:37 PM
MOD Can you please help me?? Do you know what technical directions are and where could i find more info about it? I am doing this project that is due TOMORROW and I dont know what technical directions are! PLS HELP ME!
What do you mean technical directions? Cindy
Posted by: Crusher on 4/22/2008 3:50:56 PM
actress in my heart: did u tell ur mom somehow yet?
Posted by: perky on 4/22/2008 3:54:58 PM
***MOD*** I like this guy but I've never actually talked to him. He smiles at me all the time and stares. I want to talk to him but what should I say?
Posted by: Cute on 4/22/2008 3:58:48 PM
Hey I sent this in like a month ago! She's been a lot better lately. She still pulls my chair out before I sit down but I just learned that if I just stand there for about a minute before I sit down, she'll give up and let me sit. She doesn't push my chair out at my knees anymore either. Her sister (who I'm friends with) said that's just the way she treats her friends. It's not really possible to switch seats either because we picked seats at the beginning of the semester. Oh well. Thanks for all the advice girls ♥Kelly
Posted by: SuNsHiNe...the.great.escape on 4/22/2008 4:15:28 PM
Mod, I'm in middle school and my brother is kindergarten and sometimes I worry about how he is doing in school. He will tell me everything and when I tell my mom about how he got in trouble my brother will just say I am lying and both of my parents believe him. He tells me their is this kid who is always bullying him and he doesn't tell the teacher. How can I help my brother? I'll go to college and he will go to middle school one day. I don't know how to help him then.
Posted by: shimmergirl on 4/22/2008 4:15:45 PM
*******MOD********* i have a problem. i let everyone make decisions for me. i listen to what everyone else wants me to do instead of doing what I want to do. i know that i should make my own decisions but instead i just let people like friends family and everyone else decide for me. it's like i let other people live my own life instead of me living it myself.i just wanna make the people around me and the people i love happy. like one of my friends wants me to play a sport next fall that we both quit last fall for reasons and now shes doing it this fall and i was going to too but i think the only reason i was going to was cause she wanted me to do it. UGH!!!!
Posted by: corkyrenee on 4/22/2008 4:23:06 PM
MOD is it good for you hair if you wash it with cold water? i just tried it tonight. my hair is still wet but ill see what happens.
I think it's better for you if you wash your hair in colder water (it doesn't have to be freezing) because the pores in the hair close and retain the moisture. -Cindy
Posted by: :] on 4/22/2008 4:36:30 PM
mod mod mod please biggest thing of my life MO MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD ok so i was at a party on sat. with a my bf (im a freshman he's a senior) and he's so much more experienced than me i should have known because im a very stupid girl and i dont know what to do now (i really dont want to say the word it would be inapropriate but I DID IT) yes i had it and i have no idea whatsoever to do my parents would never talk to me again im scared im gonna screw up my life!!!!!!!!! AHHHH-TOLD ME TO REPOST
Posted by: couturebabe on 4/22/2008 4:37:56 PM
Cindy~ is the blog still that busy? dont want to b in ur way or n e thin
No no wha'ts up?
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 4:52:16 PM
OMG! that is creppy. i sit next to a heather in spanish class! but she is really nice, she is one of my best friends. =)
Posted by: missnickjonas on 4/22/2008 4:54:09 PM
is n e one on???
Posted by: actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/22/2008 4:58:29 PM
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