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My bust is just starting to grow. One of them is a little big and the other is completely flat! It’s so obviously lopsided! Is this some sort of deformity?
-DramaQueenHey Drama Queen,First of all, you’re not deformed. Everyone develops at different times and even parts of your body develop at different times. Since you’re just starting to grow, you are nowhere near finished yet, so don’t freak out if one of your breasts is bigger than the other—it will catch up soon enough.But if it’s really bothering you, or you think it may be something more serious, then you should talk to your parents and visit your doctor. However, you should also know that no one’s breasts are perfect—usually one is slightly bigger than the other and that’s completely normal. You’re probably more aware of your own breasts just because they’re yours, but believe me, no one else probably notices and you shouldn’t feel bad about it. You’re still growing and your body is changing. Don’t worry about being perfect, you’re fine the way you are.Lots of love,L’Oreal
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BY JIAE K. ON 4/27/2008 12:00:00 AM 168 COMMENTS
that's definetly normal. i have some sort of weird problem too.
milliebilly789 on 4/27/2008 12:45:08 AM
that happened to me. then they normaled out, to,uh *cough*, big size...
soccergurl94 on 4/27/2008 3:24:23 AM
~~~~~~MOD~~~~~~ Ok, a couple months ago my big sis and her bf broke up. One of her ex-Bffs is know going out with him and all of her old bffs hate her. So me and my friends have opened up to her and she has been hangin out with us a lot. I don't mind it's just all of my bgfs like her and they ask me about her. It really annoys me that they would rather hang out with her than me. And it would'nt be as big of a problem if we wer'nt 9 months apart. So please help me!!!!
Hey girl, they are just excited because an older girl is actually paying attention to them. I know its hard to NOT be jealous, but remember that your sister is going through a hard time and she doesnt have anywhere to go
basketball_luver#44 on 4/27/2008 6:34:27 AM
First comment!!!
daisymae on 4/27/2008 6:50:14 AM
1st comment!
soccergal57 on 4/27/2008 6:56:54 AM
Hey girl, don't fret, many girls experience that, and it's completely normal. Your body develops all during your adolescense, so you have plenty of time to finish growing. You'll besome more proportionate, I promise. And don't feel too bad about it, because you're the only one who notices these minor things about you!
Legally Brunette ♥ on 4/27/2008 7:00:06 AM
1st comment??
Cute on 4/27/2008 7:08:36 AM
mod- how can i change my password?i want shorten it up.
prettycatholicgirl11 on 4/27/2008 7:47:10 AM
***MOD*** Hey i was just wondering... when i take those quizzes that are like 'Does he like you' It always says questions like 'when he talks to you does his eyes do this or that' and i'm not really friends with him but you know that i still like him and i think he likes me because he finds reasons to touch me or he stares at me but i was just wondering how i know if he likes me even though were not friends and dont talk alot ( i know its possible because i like him and we don't talk alot and i am like obsessed wit him) so how do i know if he likes me?
Hey love, how can you like someone if you dont really see him or talk to him? You may be attracted to how he looks, but you cant be attracted to WHO he is, which is crucial for any relationship to work. You wont know if he likes you until you start making moves and trying to forge a bond with him
2pinky10 on 4/27/2008 7:54:28 AM
Sorry if my comments post 2 my comp is messed up
2pinky10 on 4/27/2008 7:54:46 AM
Cindy- U R da best mod eva!!!
2pinky10 on 4/27/2008 7:55:48 AM
Hey i was wondering how to talk to a guy... without making it obvious u like him.... and i son't know how to flirt how do u do that??? I'm in 7th grade...
2pinky10 on 4/27/2008 7:56:34 AM
i have the problem like DramaQueen,but the other boob is cathing up!!it takes time!
prettycatholicgirl11 on 4/27/2008 7:57:02 AM
Hey mod and everybody else, i love the princess diaries series!!! (the poll) They are my favorite books ever! But I'm on the last book in the series. Does anybody have some other good books similar to them? About a girl's problems, boys, about same size, ect.??? Thanks so much!
luv2brianna on 4/27/2008 7:57:58 AM
1st Comment?
UniquelyMe on 4/27/2008 8:17:24 AM
first comment?
BasketballGirl on 4/27/2008 8:20:31 AM
JAIME JAIME JAIME JAIME JAIME!!! its miss me agen but i no ur not on rite now... im goin shoppin and mite not b bak til 2 or 3 (im not leavin now) but i wanted to let u no i will ttly try to get on b4 u leave(b4 4)
actress in my heart; i was singing and dancing with a million eyes; pingree is the best camp in the world! not gonna write u a luv song cuz u ask for it... on 4/27/2008 8:23:33 AM
im in the same boat w/ u, Drama Queen. keep holdin on and soon you'll be known as PROMqueen!
kuroneko on 4/27/2008 8:41:19 AM
mod** i have a serious sweating problem. Even when i'm not running around, i get HUGE sweat stains!! it's awful and embarrassing. I have tried SO many different deoderants; secret, degree, ban, soft and dry, lady speed stick, and so many others. right now i use this super strong stuff that my MOM also uses!! Any suggestions of what i should do? P.S. is it true that if you use to much strong deoderant you can get cancer?
pinkmagic366 on 4/27/2008 8:47:06 AM
MODERATORS or grls tht have their "." already i have really bad cramps and cravings what do u do to stop the pain i cant take midol it doesnt wrk 4 me and i tried 2 deny my cravings and it doesnt wrk
live life love life cuz you only have 1 life on 4/27/2008 9:03:40 AM
i've heard that a lot of people have that problem at one point or another. just wait it out. if it is kinda noticeable (ask a few friends if it's really obvious), get an insert for one of your bra cups.
refrigeratedrubberbands on 4/27/2008 9:08:04 AM
I Know how you feel Drama Queen.
CuteCupcake on 4/27/2008 9:09:02 AM
luv2brianna: hey you could read other books by Meg Cabot. I've read a bunch of her books and they are really good.
pinkmagic366 on 4/27/2008 9:37:00 AM
Live life love life cuz you only have 1 life: i got my period about 1 1/2 years ago. sometimes i get cramps...but i have only had them 1 or 2 times. ask your mom if she gets cramps and cravings when she gets her period and ask her what she does to help them go away. If she never gets them, maybe you can ask your mom to call your doctor so she can suggest something good luck!
pinkmagic366 on 4/27/2008 10:05:07 AM
MOD and everyone else I want a beach room but I am not allowed to repaint or get new furnature. What could I buy to make if look and feel more like a beach?
You could buy some beachy themed lamp shades, and decorate some old frames with shells! <3 Jaime
penguinfan on 4/27/2008 10:28:04 AM
live life love life cuz you only have 1: I got mine a couple months ago and I still haven't gotten any serious cramps or cravings...so I wouldn't know. Try asking your mom (like pinkmagic366 said) to see what she does. Try asking your friends maybe. I have heard that exercising and holding a heating pad where you have cramps help! You should try it if you haven't already!
♥Giggly4Ever♥ on 4/27/2008 10:32:23 AM
MOD ive wanted contacts for the longest time but my rents always said no. now they said i can get contacts! im really excited...but im nervous to some of my friends have them and they think there awesome but... ive heard soo many horror stories like breaking in ur eye ect. does it hurt to put them in and take them out? or is it just mental fear like when i first started putting on mascara and eye liner? should i try them out or stick wit glasses? thx 4 ur help.
Hey girl, you asked the right person because I have contacts! It can feel weird touching your eyeball to put them in, but totally not scary! Just go slowly the first few times and use a mirror. You'll be a pro after a while. Take good care of them and clean and take them out every night. It's safe to wear mascara ad eyeliner, just be careful when you put it on. I usually put it on after my contacts. The eye doc will also let you try to take them in and out a few times in his office before you order them! Good Luck! <3 Jaime
Lettuce on 4/27/2008 10:33:24 AM
2pinky10 on 4/27/2008 10:43:28 AM
Live life love life cuz you only have 1 life- I don't get cramps, but I have lots of cravings! This past week (I had my period, it should be ending by about... today) I have always been wanting cake. For dessert we had ice cream and chocolate (which I normally NEVER pass up) but all I wanted was cake so my brotehr took my to the grocery store to get some... twice this past week. now, I'm pretty weak about cravings so we got mini cupcakes so I could feel like I was eating a ton when I was probably actually eating less than one piece of cake. so say if you are craving choclate, you can get some chocolate chips or hershey kisses and only eat a few. or if you're craving ice cream you can get frozen yogurt or something like that. if u can't totally deny your cravings (like me) then just have a little of whatever you want and hopefully you will be satisfied.
M... on 4/27/2008 10:50:02 AM
MOD I have clothes that look nice on me but no matter what i do I can't keep up with fashion and they end up just looking stretched unlike how they look on other people. how can i pick better clothes and stop them stretching?
justgottaloveit on 4/27/2008 11:25:35 AM
Mod~ WOW! Theres like 5 mods. Holy cow. Well anyways.. back to my question. I got this bump on my pointer finger and no, it doesnt hurt that bad. Idk if its a wart or not. But ive tried this Dr Schols freeze away stuff and its not working. Should I see a doc? Good job modding you guys. Theres like 5 of you right now!
You should see a doc. It's probably just a wart, but get it checked anyway. <3 Jaime
polka-dot-love on 4/27/2008 11:41:08 AM
mod** where can i find a cute and cheap bikini...i already checked target and they had some cute ones, but none that i really love thnx<3
if you look online, you can find some online discounts sometimes! <3 Jaime
pinkmagic366 on 4/27/2008 11:44:40 AM
MOD MOD I have clothes that look nice on me but no matter what i do I can't keep up with fashion and they end up just looking stretched unlike how they look on other people. how can i pick better clothes and stop them stretching?
justgottaloveit on 4/27/2008 11:47:07 AM
!!!!!!!!!! LUV2BRIANNA: !!!!!!!!! try the sisterhood of the traveling pants series! the are AMAZING. i love love love them soooo much. its about, like you said, girl's problems, boys, same size, ect. I think you'd love em if you haven't already read them!
milliebilly789 on 4/27/2008 11:48:19 AM
mOd Who's modding?
Jaime
♥outlawbaby07♥ on 4/27/2008 11:59:23 AM
MOD, Is it true that jello is made out of cow toe nails?
hahaha..no it's not true. <3 Jaime
tennis diva101 on 4/27/2008 12:11:49 PM
Mod~ k. soooooo im making a commitment to actually talk to a guy this week! Is there anyway that I can talk to not make it obvious that I like him??? I mean when I like talk to someone my friends say omg you like himmm. And thats not always true
polka-dot-love on 4/27/2008 12:33:31 PM
live life love life cuz you only have 1 life: Try a really hot cloth or a heating pad.
Eternity on 4/27/2008 12:37:53 PM
***MOD*** Ok so my mom has a hard time letting me show off my bod. I have this form fitting tank and I was wearing a shirt over it. It was like... 85 degrees and we were going to meet my grandma so my bro and I could go up to her house. It was BURNING UP since I was wearing two shirts. We were in the parking lot of this grocery store and my mom and my grandma were talking so I knew it'd be awhile before I could get some air conditioning. I was starting to breathe heavily so I took off the T-Shirt I was wearing over the tank. My mom freaked out. She was like "You better put that back on!" As if I just took off both shirts. Later on my grandma said that there was nothing wrong with the tank top. That it looked perfectly fine. Not too showy or anything. I got some other opinions and all of them say it's not too showy. That's just one incident. Why is my mom freaking out so much? I'm not wearing bikini tops with mini skirts for goodness sakes! It was a tank top and jeans!
Your mom is just being protective. Try talking to her and come up with a list of things you are allowed to wear and are not allowed to wear. Remember, you'll have to compromise! <3 Jaime
Eternity on 4/27/2008 12:48:03 PM
Hi Mod: K my friend wears glasses. she is reallyl pretty and without the glasses she cood look like a model. she wants to be a model and shes auditioned for many commercials, but she never gets it. it was because her glasses that she wears hides her eyes and brings out pimples. i dont mean to be mean, because i ♥ glasses and they can be sooo cute. but it will be hard for my bff to get a job w/ the glasses. i tried to get her to get contacts, but she says w/o her glasses shes not her. YES she is still her becuz it counts whats inside, not outside rite? what do i do becuz i reallllly want her to live the dream, and want her to understand that shes pretty and herself without glasses too. also, she always says shes ugly, and thats when she wears glasses. but i noticed that when she doesnt wear them cuz she forgets them at home, she doesnt say shes ugly plz plz help
It's really sweet of you to be concerned babe, but it's really up to her whether she wants to make the switch to contacts. Her glasses probably aren't the only reason why she's not booking jobs...the talent agent will ask her to take off her glasses for a few moments or some test shots if he or she sees potential. Try to make her feel comfortable in her own skin - that includes her glasses. Maybe all it will take is suggesting getting a new frame...with the right frame, glasses can be adorable!
♥ Alli
JellyBeanz101 on 4/27/2008 1:14:29 PM
penguinfan: yeah thats a good idea Jaime said. also, u cood take some pix opf the beach and hang them arounf ur room. u cood get a alot of beach stuff like whale stuffed animals and maybe a mouse [ad that has a pic of the ocean. u cood also get a sound soother and turn it on to the wave sound, to make it seem like a beach. hope i helped!
JellyBeanz101 on 4/27/2008 1:16:39 PM
MOD Today is really hot again and my brother is going to the beach. before he left he was like "u should get some friends and go hang out at the beach" I have many friends but most of them I'm either not close enough to or live too far from the beach to call them up and then be at the beach with them 5 minutes later. I would've asked to come with him, but I'm not as comfortable around his friends as I used to be. Also he went with his gf who is the same age as me, but still all our conversations are kinda awkward (probably BECAUSE she is the same age as me, actually she's almost a year younger than me and my brother is two years older than me) anyway, how can I be more outgoing to be able to go to the beach with my brother and then hang out with all his friends and not seem like a tag-along little sister? oooh, the weirdest thing just happened. a few minutes ago it was sunny and hot and some clouds just rolled in and now it's cooler so I don't want to go to the beach as much now (especially since there was a shark attack a couple days ago, did u hear about it? someone was killed so it might have been in not just the local news. it was a great white) so just for the future, how can I be more like a friend to my brother's friends? like I don't want to be bffs with them, but I see them all the time and it's getting kind of awkward.
I did hear about the shark attack...scary stuff! Just try to forget about the age difference between you and your bro's friends. When it comes down to it, you're probably on the same maturity level as his guy friends anyway. You don't have to be BFFs or seem like the tagalong little sis. Just be yourself and treat these people the same way you'd treat your own friends
M... on 4/27/2008 1:16:43 PM
Mod- I used to have the same prob, but I grew out of it. The funny thing is I used to think it was totally weird, but now I think that I was so silly to dwell on it. Love from Rikki!
Rikki S. on 4/27/2008 1:21:41 PM
wow, dang, there's a lot of mods!!!! =D!
=] Lillian [= on 4/27/2008 1:52:05 PM
***MOD*** I used to "kid" around with my best friends a few years ago(I knew them for 6 years!)I don't do that anymore but ever since then when I tell the truth they don't belive me and I have to PROVE it to them it gets annoying and then when I say something that's true they say "yeah right!)then I say "I'll prove it to you" they say "Geese you don't have to prove tit to us!" But its like they never believe me anymore!And when I used to kid around with them that was like 3 years ago!And when I kidded with then I'd be like "That person is pointing at you and then I'd say Tricked Ya!"But that was when I was 9 years old!!!Can ya just help me to get them to knw that I am telling the truth!
This is a prime example of how past actions can totally affect the way people view you years later. Don't go to such great extents to prove to your friends that you're telling the truth. They'll think your overcompensating and that something really is up. If they're your friends, they should believe you no matter what.
Summer♥Chick on 4/27/2008 1:54:11 PM
Mod, i love Nick Jonas from the jonas brothers, why am i attracted to someone i can never be with??
It's normal to have a crush on someone you don't personally know...it's just that you find him attractive. Recognize the difference between love and lust though...you can't love someone you don't actually know. It's totally fine to be attracted to him, just don't let it keep you from getting into a relationship with someone who's actually a part of your daily life!
littlemissme! on 4/27/2008 1:55:33 PM
this is so true i got a big chest to and this is jus the begging and trust me on this im 14 years old
krazygurl on 4/27/2008 2:04:28 PM
MODMODMOD I was talking to my bgf earlier today and we were talking about like bfs and gfs cause my friend just dumped him and his cousin just dumped me and he said that i wont get a bf if I keep acting the way that I do. I don't want to change myself but I want a Bf. What should I do??? I have finally started being myself and not caring what people think of me but it is biting me in the Butt. Help!
You need to be you. Pretending to be someone else might get you a boyfriend, but it won't be a lasting relationship because it's not based on honesty and truth. Be you. The right guy will love you for it.
♥StrikingSpeedSkater♥ on 4/27/2008 2:21:21 PM
MODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!! please help me! i'm freaking out i need to know how to kiss a guy i think my bf is gonna kiss me tomarrow, no-i know he is!--(im in 8th grade) i need to know how to on your first one---like what kind of kiss....ya know. i know ur uber busy and have a lot of things probably more important but PLEASE!!! ASAP!!! thanks mod, whoever you may be! LUV YALL! ♥leah
Try not to stress! I know it's major, but honestly, it really will just come naturally. Just follow his lead and do what seems right
leah99 on 4/27/2008 3:40:20 PM
MODS!! Boys in my class get in trouble, and act stupid when their with their friends, but when their alone, or with girls they act like a normal person. Why??
It's just in their nature - no explanation!
littlemissme! on 4/27/2008 3:42:18 PM
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