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BY ANDREA T. ON 4/26/2008 9:01:00 AM 267 COMMENTS
first comment? Probs not!
Posted by: aaaabbbbbbbbyyyyyyyy on 4/26/2008 9:41:51 AM
wOw,i got one of the first comments
Posted by: grinningskullz on 4/26/2008 9:44:31 AM
Mod, My recently bff stole my boyfrind, she even admits it. She hasn't been acting nice around me or my other friends. She's always putting us down, and we're tired of it. She's also always talking about my ex in front of me and how they were makin out at some date. It hurts, and until she grows up, I want to quietly break it off with her
This girl is NOT a good friend. Tell her that she's being hurtful and that you don't want to be her friend if her attitude keeps up. If she doesn't choose you and your friend over her bf, then she doesn't deserve to be your friend.
Posted by: grinningskullz on 4/26/2008 9:46:46 AM
3rd comment!
Posted by: lalala ♫ ♪ on 4/26/2008 9:46:54 AM
Any1 know how 2 flirt?
Posted by: cookies on 4/26/2008 9:52:34 AM
yay that is verry good advice.
Posted by: lilacake on 4/26/2008 9:52:49 AM
maybe she's jealous so that may be the reason why she said that 2 him
Posted by: cookies on 4/26/2008 9:53:37 AM
mod i am confused i cant figure out on this website what else there is to do beacause i am new and cant find everything. Also mod wat happens when a mod answers your comment?
There are plenty of articles to post comments on (about boys, friends, health, beauty, and more)! When we answer your questions, the comment is posted on whatever article you posted on with our answer in bold underneath. The website is new, and work working on other things to add to the site.
Posted by: miley8001 on 4/26/2008 9:54:30 AM
mod i am newwha happens when u answer my question
You'll see my answer underneath your question in bold (like this)
Posted by: miley8001 on 4/26/2008 9:55:45 AM
Aww. Shes probably just jealous
Posted by: polka-dot-love on 4/26/2008 9:56:46 AM
Ived had that happen and as it turned out, she was jelous...
Posted by: stargalm4life on 4/26/2008 10:11:25 AM
well that is pretty sad for u! I hope u two get together, and im sure u will. The girl prob said that to this guy, cuz she likes him too
Posted by: 7chickenisbomb on 4/26/2008 10:15:15 AM
MODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! Can you play game son girlslife.com
There are fun quizzes you can take about your personality, boys, and other fun things!
Posted by: cortezandajax on 4/26/2008 10:15:46 AM
Yeah, I KNOW that she's jealous. She probably has a crush on the dude. I've had that happen to me before, exspect I was the jealous one. It feels horrible to have yuor crush taken away from you.
Posted by: lipglossgal1414 on 4/26/2008 10:44:51 AM
MOD~~~ ok so my bff got a new bf and they'v been goin out 4 like........almost 2 weeks...well on tha 3rd day they kissed! her bf.... lets say drake... is ALL OVER HER!!! i mean every time he sees her his hands r all ovr her waist and he doesnt let ne of her friends walk bside her. my bff....lets say kaci.... knos tht none of her friends aprove of him being all over her but she doesnt seem 2 care! 2day like 2 of my friends and me linked arms around kaci and held on rly tight so drake couldnt get 2 her...it wuz hard lol....but newayz iz ther neway tht i can make her realize tht he iz TOO PHYSICAL i kno her mom WOULD NOT approve and i'm just afraid he'll try to make her go 2 far. thx p.s. i dont rly like the fact tht they'r goin out. she knows tht and i've told her they just dont "click" in my head
Have all of your friends get together and tell her and the bf that the PDA is not Ok.
Posted by: free.2.sing on 4/26/2008 10:45:08 AM
MOD When do we get to create profiles?
I don't know exactly when, but I can promise you that we're working on it and it's coming soon! -lauren
Posted by: blondesportsbabe on 4/26/2008 11:01:47 AM
does anyone here know how to get rid of zits on your back?? my friend has this prob and she already washes it everyday! she just got a new bf too. shes just jealous, tell him not to let her ruin the perfect couple you could be! (unless shes right) (which she SO isnt)
Posted by: SkatingFreak on 4/26/2008 11:11:36 AM
Anyone want to chat
Posted by: daisymae on 4/26/2008 11:12:46 AM
daisymae- I'll chat, what's up?
Posted by: M... on 4/26/2008 11:18:26 AM
***********MOD********************* Theres this one boy who I really really really liked, but yesterday I found out that he liked another girl. Now I can't even look at him. I am so upset. Another guy I sort of like asked me out but I dont know what to say to him becasue I still have feelings for the other guy.
It'll take time to heal, but don't let that stop you from dating this other guy (if you like him). Tell the guy who asked you out that you need time to think things through. If you like this guy, go ahead and go out with him because he likes you
Posted by: mymirrorgirl on 4/26/2008 11:29:44 AM
okay, is anybody here?
Posted by: M... on 4/26/2008 11:34:34 AM
I am here M... Nothing is up with me how about you
Posted by: daisymae on 4/26/2008 11:42:44 AM
HEY MOD!!! WHEN R WE GONNA B ABLE 2 DECORATE OUR PROFILES!?
I'm not sure, we're working on it though. We'll let you know when we know -lauren
Posted by: hpcr on 4/26/2008 11:46:58 AM
daisymae- sry, sry, sry! if ur still here, sry I had to leave for a few minutes. I needed to write an email to someone so my mom would stop bugging me about it. not much is going on with me either.
Posted by: M... on 4/26/2008 12:01:34 PM
HEY MOD!!! PLZ HELP! I NEED SOME ADVICE PRONTO! i'm a realy hiper person and i sorta like to be the center of attention. last week my BFF said that she would love for me to come over to her house Friday. i've beeen over to her house plenty of times before, but i still wanted to go again. the next day my friend said that she asked her mom if i could come over and her mom said that she just couldn't handle me this weekend. i didn't want to say anything to my bff but i felt embarrassed and ashamed. all and all i just felt pretty BAD. PLZ HELP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
It's totally ok to be hyper, but try to understand why your actions might get on people's nerves. Small changes in your attiude can make a huge difference in the way people look at you, so you can make those small changes and then maybe your friend's mom will be more understanding.
Posted by: hpcr on 4/26/2008 12:21:31 PM
m...-Thats ok I had 2 leave too. My mom sent me to my room. I'm back now!
Posted by: daisymae on 4/26/2008 12:24:19 PM
daisymae- okay... so... have you seen the movie "enchanted"? we started watching it in spanish class (in spanish of course) and now I really want to see it. just in english 'cuz I couldn't understand a word they were saying, lol.
Posted by: M... on 4/26/2008 12:32:05 PM
Should i keep liking the guy who i like who happens to have a gf..i was at his soccer game esterday and he had taken his shirt off after and his gf wasnt there but he knew i was. then he waved when he saw me and he kept looking at me. i was talking to my friend's mom whos also on the team..but i dont know what to do..it's like..he likes me but then again he doesnt want to go out with me help please.
Posted by: aeroangel1987 on 4/26/2008 12:43:44 PM
WHen do profiles come out? are they already out?
Posted by: aeroangel1987 on 4/26/2008 12:44:20 PM
Moderator--im so stumped! please answer my last comment...
Posted by: aeroangel1987 on 4/26/2008 12:53:20 PM
mod when do the profiles come out or are they out if they r where are they????? thanx
They're coming soon, but we don't know when yet
Posted by: #1 iowa hawkeye fan on 4/26/2008 1:01:08 PM
grly keep likn him!!!
Posted by: #1 iowa hawkeye fan on 4/26/2008 1:01:34 PM
omg that is so mean! i sent my crush a note recently too, but he hasn't said anything back yet cuz he's thinking about it. but there are only 4 girls in the whole school who would do that to me! (and one used to be my friend) I advise you send your crush another note telling him that girl doesn't like you and she said that so you guys wouldn't get together!
Posted by: ~*future-superstar*~ on 4/26/2008 1:09:31 PM
MINI SURVEY 1. What religion are you? * baptist 2. Favorite activity in gym? Even if you don't like gym pick one. *I guess I would have to say going on the field trips 3. What is your favorite game show and would you want to be on the show? *all of them! 4. Favorite cartoon?(if you got one)not really in to cartoons 5. Favorite reality show? *american idol 6. Do you watch tv on friday? If you do what do you watch? *I love ghost whisperer(watch tonight's, it suppose to be good!) 7. Did you catch the season premiere of Ugly Betty, Grey's Ant.(somethin like that) or Lost? *I saw lost but not the others. I wanted to. 8. If you watch American Idol who do you want to win? Not sure but i felt bad for carly wed. Grade quiz from 1-10 1=horrible 10= totally great! It's my own quiz and I say it's better than my last one.
Posted by: shimmergirl on 4/26/2008 1:31:06 PM
Heeeyyyy everyoneeeeeeeee
Posted by: Q-Tgurl5678 on 4/26/2008 1:37:52 PM
MOD I keep seeing all these comments about profiles. What are they????? How do we get them???
The profiles aren't available yet, we'll let you know when they are! -lauren
Posted by: Q-Tgurl5678 on 4/26/2008 1:41:28 PM
hey, does anyone want advice. Or just to talk?
Posted by: Q-Tgurl5678 on 4/26/2008 1:44:14 PM
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Posted by: shimmergirl on 4/26/2008 1:45:43 PM
aeroangel1987: love the name by the way! U shouldn't go after him if he's not available but if he breaks up with her... Just don't chase after him while he has a gf-u can still like him just don't go after him.
Posted by: Kalie on 4/26/2008 1:56:03 PM
Does popularity matter 2 a guy who is REALLY popular or does it not matter?
Posted by: Kalie on 4/26/2008 1:57:27 PM
MOD When i asked what the profiles are, you said they'd be out soon. But what are they?
They're similar to the AIM buddy info and will allow you to post pictures up as well. -Cindy
Posted by: Q-Tgurl5678 on 4/26/2008 2:01:13 PM
Moderator----please help......i tell my friends im over the guy i like but deep down i really still do like him. i dont know what to do. he flirts with me and he has a gf, and we still walk togethr and everything after class. and he looks at me in band still, and when he saw me at his game yesterday ahe was drinking water before it started by the bench and he looked up and he saw me and he looked at me twice again after that before he got on the field..what is up with him?....he's really sweet and makes me laugh but i dont wanna keep waiting for him to like me and aske me out...Please help! :/
You should make it more obvious that you like him and if you don't want to wait anymore, you can just ask him out yourself to a movie or something. -Cindy
Posted by: aeroangel1987 on 4/26/2008 2:15:39 PM
If I were u (aeroangel1987) i woould wait until the two are over with. If he seems like he likes you,then chances are he doesnt take his realationship with the other girl seriously. If it doesn't seem like he's going to back out of the realationship, then you should probably find a more realistic guy 2 crush on. hope i helped!!!
Posted by: mymirrorgirl on 4/26/2008 2:28:13 PM
hey mod. do you know of any good places to go to learn how to lose inner thigh fat. and please dont just say to love my body the way it is. i cant go to a gym cause im not old enough so do u know of any exercises i could do at home?
One exercise you can do is to lie on your left side with your right left bent and in front of your left leg. Lift your left leg a couple of inches off the floor, hold, and place it back onto the ground. Repeat and do the same on the other side. Make sure you do plenty of cardio too if you want to lose fat. -Cindy
Posted by: cute_chc on 4/26/2008 2:29:22 PM
AEROANGEL1987: Ugh thats a tough situation. Either A. He likes you and he is afraid to dumb his gf or is planning on dumping her or 2. He likes you as a friend and was just trying to be friendly. Guys can be nice (but then it makes us wonder....) I wouldn't wait around for him, but I wouldnt totally give up either. Hope this helps!
Posted by: laurlizzy326 on 4/26/2008 2:29:36 PM
***MOD*** i need help again. one of my so called "friends" told the boy who liked another girl that i liked him and now i want 2 b nice 2 him, but i cant bcuz i am worried hell think i am madly in love with him or something. Also, my "friend" is really upset bcuz she didnt want me 2 find out that she told him that. Now the boy who I like thinks i h8 him when i dont!!! plz help me!!! :+(
You should confront this friend and let her know that it was not acceptable that she went and told this guy this. From now on, be careful about what you tell this friend. As for the guy, just act like you normally do and he don't think you are madly in love with him or hate him after a while if you keep acting normally. -Cindy
Posted by: mymirrorgirl on 4/26/2008 2:31:41 PM
MOD MOD M0D!!!!!!!!!!! i have this guy i like but he is going out with somebody what do i do?????
Maintain your friendship with him and when he's single, do something about it. -Cindy
Posted by: luv2dance32 on 4/26/2008 2:33:43 PM
hey mod i have a question my mom wont let me have anyone over to my house and i dont get invited over to my friends houses therefore i have nothing to do all day and i just sit on my computer or watch tv. it makes me feel really depressed. do you have any ideas on what i can do about this?
You can go over to your friends houses if they're doing something or maybe you can plan something outside like a nice dinner out or a picnic or a pool day, something like that. -cindy
Posted by: ashleyxx14 on 4/26/2008 3:06:10 PM
thats a tuffy i think that you should still like him but only tell your bf that you do and if h happens to break up with his gf then start ttel your frinds and maby he will here and then hillask you out but remember what saposed to happens happens for a reason
Posted by: eatmybubbles14 on 4/26/2008 3:11:46 PM
**-**-aeroangel1987-**-** Here's the thing: If this guy is the kind of guy who flirts with other girls while he already has a gf, how do you know that if you become his gf, he won't do the same thing to YOU when another girl he likes comes along? The way I see it, once a cheater, always a cheater. In the same way, if he ends up dumping his current gf for you, he just might dump you in the future for someone else. If I were you, I would set higher standards and get someone who will treat you better than to flirt with other people when he's already with you. Just my opinion. I hope I was helpful. :smile: hearts;
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