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Hi ok I have a major problem! I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months now, but I never see him because its summer. He never calls me, which makes it worse. I had to call him one time to actually try to talk to him and we didn’t even talk that long! ): Anyways since I haven’t been able to see my boyfriend I am kinda crushing on my neighbor who I see and hang out with ALOT! (: But idk what to do should I stay with my boyfriend (who I never see) or go for my neighbor! Help me plz!-ConfusedThe key to any relationship is communication and it sounds like that is exactly what's missing here. Call your boyfriend and arrange a time to meet up. If that's not possible, then just have the conversation over the phone. Let him know what it is you need in a boyfriend (ahem, some one who actually talks to you) and that aren't really happy in your relationship. If he seems like he's not willing to change, or you think you no longer want to be in that relationship, then maybe it's time to end it. There's no point in being in a relationship with someone you never see or talk to. Explain that to him. As for the neighbor, if you end things with your boyfriend, there's no reason not to go for the boy next door.-Alli
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BY ANDREA T. ON 7/24/2008 6:07:00 PM 73 COMMENTS
1st comment?
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 6:42:10 PM
hi
gumdrops and lolipops on 7/24/2008 6:47:13 PM
MOD, I have a similar problem except the roles r switchd, i won't talk 2 my boyfriend. The problem i have with him though is how 2 break up with him. When i break up with him my friends r goin to want a clear explaination y, saying th@ i don't wanna be in a relationship anymore & th@ i don't feel a spark any longa won't cut it. My most difficult challenge is explaining it 2 him rather than my friends. 1 of my friends told me th@ he was going 2 give up on luv if i broke up with him & I'd just take it as teen drama but he has seriuz problems where he lives. I want to break up him the right way so that itz plain & simple y I want 2 break up with him. I haven't askd 4 any advice in awhile so i could learn 2 handle thingz on my own, this time I want 2 break up with him right (I've broken up with him b4, but w got back 2getha cuz my friendz convinced th@ i did it 4 the wrong reasonz) so I'm asking 4 some adviced. If it helpz he lives in a different city & I've neva seen him eye 2 eye b4, we've just talkd on the computer.
milk&honey_baby on 7/24/2008 6:53:17 PM
hello peple!!!!
larkibabi on 7/24/2008 7:00:04 PM
*********************MODERATOR********************** MOD, please help i have a SERIOUS prob. last night, i had a dream that i was kissing a GIRL. and like, it wasnt just a kiss on the lips we were full fledged making out. but the thing is, in real life, im totally in love with BOYS and thats allllllll i talk about. also, i've kissed boys before and they were kind of slobbery and gross but i guess thats just because we were kind of young. but when i think back on my dream, while im totally completely ashamed and embarrassed that i was making out with a girl, i remember loving the kiss and if im not mistaking, it wasnt just one girl that i kissed. does this mean im lesbian?!?
Hi~
Of course your dreams aren't necessarily reality. At your age your hormones are raging and you are thinking about so many things. Just keep an open mind!
sweetiehearts1212 on 7/24/2008 7:28:49 PM
:smile: :grin: :sad: :eek: :shock: :???: :cool: :mad: :razz: :neutral: :wink: :oops: :cry: :evil: :twisted: :roll: :idea: :arrow: :mrgreen: ♥
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:39:49 PM
hi larkibabi!! u still on?
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:40:17 PM
iz anyone modding?
Yep! It's Cassie
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:40:48 PM
hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:44:23 PM
sorry about that. i think that you should tell your bf that u want to talk to him more. if he still doesn't, then break up with him.
Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:45:37 PM
hi, one of my friends has the same problem, so she talked to her bf and now they are as good as new!
Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:47:15 PM
Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:48:11 PM
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Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:49:11 PM
4th comment? lol
sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 7:55:59 PM
~MOD~ hey i have a confusing question and its totally fine if you guys are too busy to answer. okay here goes..... so there is this guy in my play (rumored to like me....& three other girls) anyway he has this little notebook he keeps bringing to rehersal and today he was extremely secretive about it (i.e. holding it really close to him whenever i walk by, if he is showing someone it he wont let me see it, he tells me there is nothing in it about me....you get the picture) anyhoo i went up to him and asked him if i could see it...I went on pleading with him to let me see it....so then i asked him why he wouldnt let me see it and he said "beacuse i like the attention" and i got tired of begging him to let me see it.......so i asked other people who had seen it and i heard that it is either a poem, song, drawing, doodles, or there is nothing on it. so what i need help with is does it sound like he likes me????
Hi!-
Okay so you can't agonize over what he is writing down. It could be about you or could very well not be... either way it sounds like he wants his privacy! I'd try to approach him another way with no mention about his notebook just to see what he's up to! Maybe ask him about a scene in the play or something so you don't act overly interested but still interested enough. Just strike up a conversation about what he is up to this summer maybe!
glinda on 7/24/2008 8:00:16 PM
that would suck
sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:06:06 PM
Hey everyone! check out my profile!
sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:06:40 PM
hey! the host by stephanie meyer is the best book ever! i just finished it and i am just like, woa. Everybody needs to read it.
sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:07:42 PM
Wow, i have a boyfriend just like this. :]
vball_lover on 7/24/2008 8:46:19 PM
I used to have the same problem. Tell him that you need to talk more. If he doesn't listen, then break up.
Twilighter101 on 7/24/2008 8:51:02 PM
hey! yea totally talk to ur bf... if he shows no interest in it...or makes excuses...its time to end it then u can totally go 4 the new guy...!!! good luck!!
starlet0605 on 7/24/2008 9:06:19 PM
hey any1 on
starlet0605 on 7/24/2008 9:08:12 PM
i say c if da neighbor dudes into u first!! if he iz i say dump the other dude!! ((i mean he's not actin much like a boyfriend!!))then go for da neighbor!!♥
neworleans_chic on 7/24/2008 9:09:31 PM
I had a problem like that but with my bff's next door neighbor. Lets just say he still doesn't know.
txtr on 7/24/2008 9:23:22 PM
For the answer it says "If he's not willing to change" I along with a lot of other people have been told you should never change for a guy. So wait it's okay for guys to change for girls but it's wrong for girls to change for guys. That's messed up.
panicatthediscolova on 7/24/2008 9:49:58 PM
~*~*~*~*~*MOD*~*~*~*~*~ how do you get boils? they are so weird looking and I NEVER want to get them!
Hi
boils happen for different reasons. They are usually clogged sweat glands but I would ask your pediatrician!
volleyballstar14 on 7/24/2008 10:29:41 PM
MOD~ i hve a suggestion... about the profiles... ok so uk how if ur profile is being modded it says its not publically visable? well we dont kno the dif between tht and just really not publically visable.... get my point?... anyways i think u should hve a screen tht says "this profile is currently being moderated... check back in a few days!" or something like tht and then 4 if it IS private just hve it hve the same screen so tht way we wont b as confused! thx!
~p0!k@dot95~ on 7/24/2008 10:30:42 PM
Yo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have a total omg problem, there is this guy i know weve been best friends forever. he just asked me out like in the begining of the summer, and I said no, but now I think I do like him. I'm starting to regret my decision, but he's dating now! Please Help, Tell what I should do!
Hi-
don't think that you have totally missed your chance! Guys love girls with confidence so when you get back to school just act friendly and confident and he will turn around and look back in your direction. The key is to act like you don't care at all that he is dating someone else at the moment!
danceluvr96 on 7/24/2008 11:18:41 PM
MOD! i REALLY like my bgf, but i dont want to ruin r friendship. ive known him since b4 kindergarten, and im so confused. i think he likes me, but im not sure!plz help! i c him all the time, and i can play it cool, i dont think he knows, but i am soo confused!
It's normal to start to like your bgf! The best boyfriends start out as friends. I'd just remain close friends but boys are pretty oblivious sometimes, if you decide you really like him, show more interest maybe by talking to him more or flirting but not being to obvious
jazzygrl on 7/24/2008 11:21:31 PM
hey hon, i would talk to ur bf, but i would so dump him if hes not talking to u..... GO FOR UR NEIGHBOR! (isnt it weird how i can help others but then cant figure out what to do with my prob???)
jazzygrl on 7/24/2008 11:23:30 PM
u shud ask ur bf y he isnt talking to you and i he doesnt know or has a bad answer, dump him and go for the neighbor,
simplydifferent on 7/24/2008 11:48:39 PM
MOD, I was just wondering how long it takes to moderate a profile cuz mine is taking awhile. Thanks
swimstar515 on 7/25/2008 8:15:48 AM
mod--- when will we know if we won the school style week 4 giveaway???
sweetdreams33 on 7/25/2008 8:53:30 AM
sugaraddict--- i didn't like The Host. it seemed boring alot of the time and i guess it did have a nice ending and intriguing characters, but jared, the guy mel loves, was so MEAN. unfortunately for me but luckily for you, stephenie is supposedly working on a sequel.
sweetdreams33 on 7/25/2008 9:14:01 AM
i had a dream that i was kissing a girl once...it was really weird cuz i knew her... but i'm totally not a les..
nirvanaluver on 7/25/2008 12:51:03 PM
THANX SOOOOO MUCH to whichever mod helped me! i love u guys!
jazzygrl on 7/25/2008 1:20:10 PM
omg, sugaraddict,i read that book and it rocks! also, read generation dead and lock and key! they r sooooooooo good!!!!
jazzygrl on 7/25/2008 1:23:36 PM
~~~MOD~~~ I want a job this summer, and I'm only 12. I'm thinking of becoming a model. My mom always said that i should try it, same with my friends. So should I try it? Thanks♥
v95 on 7/25/2008 1:28:31 PM
*-*-*MOD*-*-* How long does it take for your profile to be moderated cuz mine is taking a long time. Thanks!
swimstar515 on 7/25/2008 3:04:09 PM
hiya, mod!!
hey girl! XOXO Aubrey
cjlizzy on 7/25/2008 5:36:58 PM
cjlizzy, u still on? HI AUBREY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:36:11 PM
hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:37:12 PM
hiya girlies and mods!!!!
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:37:33 PM
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Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:39:37 PM
omg, i got the first comment yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:40:30 PM
Mod when are there gonna be new quizzes, cuz i'm real tired of doing htese quizzes over and over again. Thanks!
SouljaGirl22 on 7/25/2008 7:12:41 PM
hi lol hi lol hi lol
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 7:15:10 PM
Bye yo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 7:16:03 PM
*****MOD***** How can a girl make her hair more wavy for the new school year without using stuff that can dry out hair?
iamherefornoreason on 7/25/2008 8:03:15 PM
*****MOD***** Aubrey, your avatar is so cute!
iamherefornoreason on 7/25/2008 8:03:45 PM
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