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Pads vs. Tampons

I use tampons. Am I still a virgin?

Why wouldn’t you be? A virgin is someone who’s never had sex, not someone who’s never used a tampon. Using a tampon can break or stretch the hymen. But even if it breaks, you’re still a virgin.

BY ANDREA T. ON 8/18/2009 7:00:00 AM 92 COMMENTS

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are you still a vitgen if you have oral sex or do you actly have to do it?

sheba_britney on 11/25/2009 3:50:56 PM

mod
o ok thanks i was confused because it said "it can break or stretch the hymen" i was like ???
thanks!

Your welcome!

Eryn G.

willy wonka on 11/14/2009 1:46:09 PM

mod!!
wat is a hymen?

Hey girl! I think that it is a song.

Eryn G.

willy wonka on 11/14/2009 1:41:47 PM

yeah ur still a virgin. if you have sex, then ur not, not if u use a tampon! but i use pads, its more comfy, and not weird feeling... urrhhhggghh...

lip-smacker on 11/7/2009 11:17:30 AM

Hey girl! I've answered your questions several times. It's a big decision and you should talk to a doc before choosing anything major.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

PrettyPrincess13567 on 10/18/2009 11:20:18 PM

mod mod mod if i am at school from 7:00 to 3:30 how many times will i have to change my tampon? what about 7:50 to 2:20? thanks

Hey missy, the amount of times you change your tampon really depends upon your period. So if you usually have a heavy flow, you may have to change more times during the day. If your flow is small or not that heavy you can leave your tampon on longer, so it really depends upon your bod. But just to be on the safe side, pack extra tampons!

Lynae P.

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twihead101 on 10/17/2009 3:07:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!
My docter tells me I am not developed enough to getmy period. My mom says not to worry about it!! She says I have a good two years. I'm still scared. My mom and sisters had it at the same time. And do you need pubicare? Why do we need our period?

Hey babe,

You don't necessarily develop at the same time or speed as your mom and sisters though it's usually a pretty good indicator. Your period is about your body getting ready to make babies.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

Smileygirl86 on 9/25/2009 5:02:01 PM

kami-j,
using a tampon is much easier than you think it just takes practice and once you get it it a lot cleaner than using pads and youll feel more comfortable than in a bulky pad. read the directions on the box and if you need to to look at the (ugh) diagram just relax hope this helped
hoodie

hoodie_obsessed on 9/4/2009 2:05:16 PM

Mallory P.
try wearing a panty liner and a tampon just in case you tampon leaks. panty liners arent as bulky as pads

hoodie_obsessed on 9/4/2009 2:02:03 PM

XxsassyxpeachesxX,
there are two different places down there. one to pee, one to have your period.hope this helped
hoodie

hoodie_obsessed on 9/4/2009 2:00:00 PM

MOD!! um um.. what is hymen?
and when you have a tampon in do you pee where you bleed cuz i don wear tampons yet and don't know?.

Hey girl,

Check this out for info about your bod:http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx

And here for info about tampons, your period, etc.: http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

XxsassyxpeachesxX on 9/3/2009 9:12:11 PM

For those girls who can't seem to get a tampon in the trick is to relax. If you are all stressed out you will start freaking out and not be able to put it in all the way. When I first tried a tampon it was like halfway out. I asked my mom why that was and she said it was because my body had cramped up, not letting it get all the way in.
So ya. Good luck!

Lucy-lu on 9/3/2009 12:30:53 AM

please please please help!!!!!!
I usually have a normal to very heavy flow. I have used tampons for a few years, but a little blood still comes out. I am possitive I am putting it in right but, am I just too late when I change?

Thanks!
Mallory P.

Mallory P. on 9/2/2009 12:45:15 AM

umm i have had my period for over 2 years now and i havent used tampons yet.... im really scared to try it and i dont know what to do because i am tierd of using pads!!!!

kami-j on 9/1/2009 7:52:48 PM

MOD Does it hurt when your hymen breaks? Thank you!

Hey girl. No worries, there's no pain. You prob won't even notice it! Mel

Melany T.

dancerhn on 8/30/2009 9:25:55 PM

Why wouldn't u be a virgin ?

jonasNtwilight3 on 8/30/2009 4:21:58 PM

I don't really get why everyone is so worried. I've only had my period like 5 times, but i started using tampons the second time i got it. THey dont hurt. If you can't see where to put the tampon in, just use a mirror.

jackiechan12 on 8/29/2009 3:56:30 PM

mod mod mod
how do you know when your hymen is broken?

Hey girl, most people actually don't know! It can break because of a tampon, sexual intercourse, even when you're born! You never know! <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

hoodie_obsessed on 8/26/2009 7:27:40 PM

MOD how do you know i fyou put a tampon in right? from reading peoples comments i dont think i do. because i cant pee and keep it in?

Hey girl,

Read the instructions on the back of the tampon box! That tells you every single step to take. You might not be putting it in enough if it's coming out when you go to th ebathroom.

Megan P.

Megan P.

scarlett_renee on 8/26/2009 12:51:34 AM

Um...... I was wondering I havnt gotten my period yet and I am really curious. Does it hurt? Also, is it un safe to use a tampone? Will my lages really fall off? And what happens if you hae it and you want to go swimming?

laxchick216 on 8/25/2009 8:49:24 PM

Stupid Myths, one girl in our group was actually trying to say that using tampons was just like losing your virginity and it depended on the size you used. She was saying if you used big tampons you lost your virginity and if you used thinner ones you didnt.

The only reason I thought she was saying that was maybe with a wider or bigger tampon she thought it might be easier to break your hymen with it or with using a bigger tampon it felt more like what sex feels like.

I use tampons and I have no problem and I know that I havent lost my virginity because of them.

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Club*Girl on 8/22/2009 3:51:53 AM

the only pain from a tamponis of its too big or you put it in wrong (whcih is very hard to do by the way!) i would start out with a lite tampon and go from there! you just have to do and not overthink it! hope this helps ;)

(sorry if this is a duplicate cause my computer had a little glich!)

miss_giggles on 8/21/2009 11:33:20 AM

using a tampon only hurts if you put it in wrong or if its too obig. i would start with a litle tampon! just go for it and you'll see how easy it is!

miss_giggles on 8/21/2009 11:30:32 AM

is there pain when u wear a tampon because i'm kinda scared to use it and i'm very active please responed

7laughsalot98 on 8/19/2009 3:17:57 AM

MOD MOD MOD What is a hymen? Please respond!!

Hey girl,

It's apart of a girlies bod. Ya know down there. If you want a little more detail, you should most def ask an adult!

Mel

Melany T.

gabbytiger on 8/16/2009 9:44:54 PM

can someone please answer my question?

sharonopal on 8/16/2009 6:44:35 PM

What is a hymen?

sharonopal on 8/16/2009 4:02:39 PM

It does hurt some girls when it breaks, but it shouldn't hurt when you wear a tampon! Katie P.

periodworrier17 on 8/8/2009 9:19:12 PM

Just because your hymen breaks, doesn't mean your not a virgin. Hymens can break from a lot of things, even sports. You're only not a virgin if you've had sex.

hollywoodhottie16 on 7/23/2009 2:16:32 PM

***MOD***
If your hymen isnt broken, and it hurts to use a tampon, how will you put it in? I really wouldn't want it to hurt alot.

Hey babe, you would still be able to put it in. You can always try tampons and if you don't like them you can stick with pads. Many girls do.

katelin s.

iactising on 6/29/2009 11:24:59 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!
I haven't used a tampon before even though Ive had my period for a few months, Summers coming and Im really scared to use a tampon!! what should I do??

Hey girl, first of all, you have to get rid of that fear. Tampons need time to get used to and if you read the directions then you will be fine. Also try talking to your friend or mom who already uses tampons. They'll be able to comfort you about the use of it. <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

olivia13 on 6/9/2009 8:14:28 PM

Hey, i have a question

You say the Hymen can break, why does it break?
Is it supposed to break with everyone? What happens if it never breaks?

Cici867 on 6/4/2009 9:40:17 AM

Thatz good news

Kat9999 on 5/20/2009 6:28:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD! So I was wondering; I want to use a tampon but I really am nervous. I know everyone's like oh it's easy but I don't see that at all. But what I want to know is if you can pee when you use a tampon because I don't see how you could...

Hey girl,

One thing you want to know is that there are different parts of the body "down there." Your urine and blood are discharged from two different areas, although they may seem the same.

<3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

lovetoshop17 on 5/17/2009 5:27:13 PM

i just got my period and my mom says that i need to wait for i get a couple more cycles until i can use tampons no matter what i find online she still says i need to wait is she right? i HATE pads they are really uncomfortable thanks

CliqueGirlzFan365 on 5/12/2009 9:04:38 PM

Hey Moderator;
How do you know if you've broken your hymen?
And I have another question,
When I change my tampon when my period's lighter, after I take out the applicator, there's gross stuff on it. It's a cream-ish color, almost like discharge, but I know it's not the same.
Is this normal for other girls, too, or just me?

Check out this page for info: http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx -lauren

Lauren H.

JescaLovey on 5/9/2009 7:46:46 PM

MOD=
one more question sorry this might be silly, but how does the umm... vagina look like?

Talk to your parents or your school nurse about that sweety.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

califgirl on 5/6/2009 12:35:43 AM

WAIT MOD!!!!!
does the pain in inserting the tampon have to do with the hymen? btw i cant even get the upper part of the applicator halfway in! what can i do to calm myself?

http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx

This site will help you soo much babes.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

califgirl on 5/6/2009 12:24:11 AM

MOD!!!!!
ok so i tried inserting a tampon today. it cant go in though when i tried to get it in it hurted like cr8zy! WHY????? does it have to do with the hymen? does breaking the hymen hurt? how can i get it in without hurting?

You probably inserted it into fast or your body is too nervous to deal with it. Read the directions again, slip it in all the way and try again. If your scared, then don't force yourself to wear a tampon, wear pads for awhile until you are ready.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

califgirl on 5/6/2009 12:07:54 AM

MOD ok this is embarrassing but ......what is a virgin? my mom ummmmmm ............ left that out .

Hey babes,

A virgin is an individual that has not yet had sex.

XO Lori

lori S.

swimprincesschic on 5/1/2009 9:33:32 PM

MOD MOD MOD this doesnt really hav 2 do with periods but i wuz just wondering..... my mom is really flat chested and i look exactly like her.... am i always gonna b flat like her? i mean seriously shes like a 32A & its weird! she doesnt look good in a swimsuit and i sont want to end up like that!!!! am i gonna b flat like her & iz there anythin i can do bout it!?!?!?! plz help, thx MOD!!!!!!

Hey Girl, it all depends on your genetics, you may or may not, it depends on the other women in your family. *Cara T*

Cara T.

kkblondi.funsize on 4/25/2009 9:57:35 PM

Mod~~~~~Hey mod is it true if ur having cramps and u put a warm water bottle between ur legs, it help ese the cramping??
~2cutefuryou

Hey babes,

It helps if you put it on the craps sometimes. You can also take a hot bath that can help as well.

Xo Lori

lori S.

2cutefuryou on 4/25/2009 12:28:37 AM

thanks

volleygirl4ever123 on 4/23/2009 7:12:37 PM

mod i never just got home an hour ago and so i didnt write that and also its the same everthing all the info and stuff
do you think any body could have figured out my password

Hey babes,

Just checked back and I found the problem. You posted the comments in feb so that's probably why you didn't remember. The post was dated newer, but it could just be a typo. No worries.

Xo Lori

lori S.

volleygirl4ever123 on 4/23/2009 6:55:34 PM

mod
when will the magazine with the girl from secret life come out and why is it posted already thanks

Hey babes,

The next issue will be for June/July, stay tuned for more info!

Xo Lori

lori S.

volleygirl4ever123 on 4/23/2009 6:38:55 PM

mod
i never put the two comments at the top but they have my avatar and my same screen name. whats going on
thanks

Hey babes,

Not too sure whats up with that, maybe you did by accident, or it was someone that has info close to yours.