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The Damp Undies Dilemma

 

 

Six months to a year before their first period, girls start to produce vaginal discharge that makes underwear feel damp. This is how your body clears dead cells from the vagina to keep you free of infection. The fluid is usually thin and slightly sticky but can be thick and gooey. Color ranges from clear to off-white, says Dr. Mary Ann LoFrumento, a pediatrician in Morristown, N.J.
 
If your discharge develops a fishy smell, causes itching or burning, or looks dark, this is a sign of a vaginal infection so see a doc for a fast remedy.
 
Another totally different reason for the watery feeling could be urine drops from holding it too long. Never do that—not peeing leads to urinary tract infections. Now you have a great excuse for a hall pass!

BY ANDREA T. ON 11/1/2009 7:00:00 AM 110 COMMENTS

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My discharge sometimes smells fishy. But not all the time. What should I do.

Darktwilight17 on 11/20/2009 4:04:33 PM

MOD!
well sometimes i like freak out (in my head of course!) because i think i got my period but is just discharge. this is really gross, but when you get your period, does it "feel" different than just discharge?




Hey girl, not really honestly. You really don't feel much if anything. Nonetheless, you should def wear a pantyliner -- that way your panties don't get stained when your period really does come.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

auburngirl220 on 11/18/2009 8:49:17 PM

can discharge be like dry and not gooey but kind of stuck to your underwear????

paramoreforever on 11/18/2009 7:35:14 PM

And to haileygirl: you probably won't have your period for another couple of years, because it sounds like your just starting puberty! but be prepared just in case!

and to sablegirl3: yup! that's discharge! good for you! you should be getting ur period soon!

taylorswift on 11/18/2009 6:14:20 PM

Ok guys, I think I can answer many of your questions! I am 12, have not had my period, but have had discharge for 10 months, and my boobs started developing about 2 years ago. That most likely means I'll be starting my period within the next 6 months. But here are the answers to your commonly asked questions:

How do you know if you have discharge: basically you feel wet in your pants, but you know you didn't pee yourself. If it gets bad for me, i put in a pantiliner, but if you don't wanna do that then you can just live with it, because it's not that bad. The color is basically like offwhite, but when it dries its kinda yellowish. but if yours is pink red or brown, then you had your period.

False alarms: you can have a false alarm, where there is a little blodd, but it's not your period, that has happened to my friend but it's perfectly normal.


How to know if your period is coming soon (like in the next week): if youve got boobs, hair down there, and are acting grumpy have had discharge FOREVER and r having cramps, then you're about to get your period. Promise

How to know if your period is coming soon (like in the next 6 months to a year): if you've got boobs, hairs down therre, and have been getting discharge for about a year or more then expect your period fairly soon.


But don't expect your period right after your boobs start growing or right after you start getting discharge because you'll be disspointed.

Tips for dealing with discharge: It's so annoying,at first you'll probably be paranoid, and you'll use lots of liners and pads, but eventually you get used to it and you won't care anymore...also for me i started getting discharge about 3-4 months before i started getting signifigant hair down there


hope this helps Smile

taylorswift on 11/18/2009 6:11:50 PM

MOD MOD MOD! Just wondering, is it normal to get discharge and your period at the same time? Like, I'm getting a REALLY lite period this month but I have lots of discharge. Is that normal?




Hey babe,


Yep, that's normal!

xoxo Allie


Allie S.

popcorn159 on 11/18/2009 4:54:12 PM

MODMODMOD! I have been having this "discharge" stuff for over a year and almost a year and a half. I used to find it in little amounts but just recently I went to the bathroom and there was a big wet spot in my underwear. Luckily I was at home. Should i put a tampon in? Or not? HELP PLASE!

 

Hey girl! If it is not your period then no. Just throw on a pantyliner to help combat the discharge.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

shorty52294 on 11/15/2009 11:03:20 PM

MOD MOD MOD!*****
MY FRIEND EATS HER DISCHARGE! UGH! WHAT SHUD I DO??!!?!?!?!

 

There's no reason at all that she should be doing that. Contact an adult or doctor ASAP.

Miliana B.

lip-smacker on 11/15/2009 7:37:00 AM

I am due for my period today and i havent gotten it yet...... but i do have a light red thing that looks vaginal digcharge... is that my period.... i just got it last month... so... ya... and could that be a problem with my vagina?

saf2009 on 11/14/2009 10:18:59 PM

How can you be sure that you actually have your period?Is there some sign that I should know about,other than the blood in your underwear!!!!!!!!!

ForrestRun515 on 11/14/2009 10:13:48 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
I HAVE SOOOOOOOOOOO MANY COMMENTS BUT IF I COMMENT ON HERE WILL IT SHOW UP ON MY FACEBOOK U DONT HAVE TO ANWSER THIS BUT I F U WANT TO U CAN

 

hey girl! I am not sure, but I dont think so.

Eryn G.

makeupgirl7 on 11/14/2009 4:03:58 PM

Discharge is so annoying, I almost always have to wear a pantiliner, to avoid the 'wet panties' problem, but I guess it's just one of those things you have to live with.
-H-

CountryCutie4 on 11/13/2009 4:45:34 PM

heyy people! haha trust me those of you that want your period-i wanted mine too and now i hate it!!! but if u have any questions leave it on my profile!! id be happy to help-im the first outta all my friends so i didnt have anyone to help me and it really blows-but stick to ur friends guys cuz they will help-i got mine in sixth grade and i was bawling in the bathroom-i had to go to the nurse and wait an hour for my mom to bring me new pants!!!Tong but my friends were there for me and they even got outta class cuz they told thei teachers their friend was having "girl issues" it was really sweet of them but just remember to stay close to your friends cuz they will make it so much easier for you!

luvsoccercutie on 11/12/2009 8:42:47 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOd!!!! I have been having mood swings, discharge, sometimes I just feel dizzy (once in lunch the room started spinning randomly) I hav kinda been losing my appetite, and hav hair under my arms and down there. I am completely flat chested tho! R these signs I might get my "." soon? I saw eflores' comment but no one answered. Also I measured my chest and for my ribcage I got 28 and the other one I got 30. What size am I? Thank you!

 

Hey girl, sounds like you may get your period soon, but no one can say for sure excpet Mother Nature. As far as the rib cage thing measure it one more time. It should double up on either 30 inches or 28 inches. Whichever one you get that is what you are.

 

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

luckyducky14 on 11/12/2009 4:31:24 PM

MODMODMODMODMOD ive had discharge for about a year now and all of a sudden its gotten more watery im worried should i see a doctor

 

Hey girl! That sounds pretty normal. I would wait it out a week or so and see what happens or if there are any changes. If no changes and you're still super worried, head to the doc for a routine checkup!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

alennia on 11/12/2009 8:51:34 AM

There is no way that I can get my period!My mom told me that when you wipe your butt, and you put your underwear back on, you can get some poop on your underwear!Is that true or not?I hope that I haven't started my periods!!!!!!

ForrestRun515 on 11/11/2009 9:29:28 PM

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Alot of girl or women have told me that when you are about to start your first period you get signs for example: PMS (bloating,cramps, mood swings,etc.)VAGINAL DISCHARGE!.I know this is true but some also say you also get dizzy, breaths hurtalso they harden and soften, diarreah and lose appetite,stomach hurt when you go to the restroom, IS THIS TRUE? I still dont start my first period so i have to be prepared and alerted!
****************MOD*******************************

eflores85658 on 11/11/2009 8:36:11 PM

How you can you tell if it's actually discharge?When it dries will it be a certain color or not?My underwear are normally brown when I'm going to the bathroom?IS THAT NORMAL OR NOT?




Hey babe, the brown is actually dried blood for your period. Normal discharge is clear. Check out this page: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/05/13/00-Period-Advice.aspx
katelin s.

ForrestRun515 on 11/10/2009 9:59:29 PM

Is there a normal color for discharge or not?

 

Hey chica, the normal color for discharge is clear or whitish. When it turns yellow or green then something is wrong.

Lynae P.

ForrestRun515 on 11/8/2009 3:15:04 PM

How can you tell if it's actually discharge?I have damp undies almost all the time but,is there some other reason for that?My sis still wets the bed and she's in high school!I need some serious help!!!!!And is there a certain time to start shave your pubic hair?

 

Usually it's just discharge, girlie. I'm not an expert on bed-wetting, so talk to your parents and a doctor to help. And don't shave unless it's summer and you're going to the pool. I guess when it becomes noticeable, it's time to shave the bikini line. Best,

Miliana B.

ForrestRun515 on 11/8/2009 12:36:59 PM

MOD!!!MOD!!!MOD!!!
I am 13 and I have had discharge for about a year now. I have "hair" and a size 34A chest. When do you think ill get my period? thankss... Smile

 


 

 

 Hey girlie! This is a great question! Every girl's body is different. It's not something you can calculate. Just wait til yours body is ready! In the meantime, you could ask a trusted adult, or doctor about any other questions you might have.


 

 

xoxo Kerra

Kerra S.

Jesabeth on 11/7/2009 10:17:57 PM

Oh No,

In my opinion the damp undie dilemma can be confusing because I have noticed that I get that watery feeling around my period but I have also had that watery feeling down there while I have been kissing a guy I really like. Its kind of embarrassing when it happens but at least the guy doesnt know whats going on.

Does that happen with anyone else and do you feel embarrassed like I do?

luckykel on 11/7/2009 2:43:59 PM

MODMODMOD What do you mean by 'fishy smell'???

 

Hey chica, the a strong odor of periods that smells like fish.

Lynae P.

CrazyXP on 11/6/2009 11:29:21 PM

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok so im 12 and ive beem getting discharge 4 like a yearand i still havent gotten my period!!!! i'm also kinda flat chested and almost all of my friends havce cleavage and they all make fun of me! please help!

 

Hey chica, your period is on its way. Your bod is still developing so right now its getting you prepared for when your period will come. So stay patient and head over to our period page to learn all about them. Stay prepared with our period tips and some handy pads! Smile

Lynae P.

nodluvssoccer on 11/6/2009 11:02:18 PM

MOD,MOD,MOD,MOD,MOD!!!!!!!!!!
one day before halloween i started having "the mud" discharge with blood.it was a very small amount and then the next day it was more blood and almost went through my underpant, then all off a sudden it becomes lighter until its completly back to being clear on the fifth day is this normal and will it happen each month or do u think its irregular please help THX SO MUCH.




Hey girl, that sounds like it's actually your period (the blood could be dried, thus that brown color). It's way important you mark the day you first got it and have pads on you around that time each month. Be prepared, girlie. When you start spotting or getting "mud discharge," wear a pantyliner at least so your panties stay nice 'n clean.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

alennia on 11/4/2009 8:53:46 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have discharge that has a foul smell but no color. What does this mean? Should I see a doctor? I've had this for awhile, and no pain or itching accompanies it. Please Help Me!!!!




Hey babe,

Nope, that's perfectly normal. Smile

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

webkin6766 on 11/4/2009 7:52:17 PM

MODMODMOD
I have 'hair' (not fully ya know) my boobs are are 34A and im starting to get curvy.i started getting discharge about 1 yr ago.does this mean my period is on its way? if so,do tampons hurt?




Hey babe, it sounds like your body is changing but there's really no way to tell if and when you're getting your period. You'll just have to wait it out and see! And no, if used properly tampons are painless! 
katelin s.

addiwuvsyew on 11/3/2009 10:12:18 PM

I am 12. I have had discharge for 7 months, my breasts are fully developed, and I have "hair". My mom had her period at 11, my grandmothers both at 10. Why haven't I had mine?!?

 

Hey girl! Every girl is different! Don't worry too much; just be patient! You'll get it soon!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jjhkkej on 11/3/2009 4:57:33 PM

i just started 7th grade and i think im gonna get it soon. i already set up an emergency kit like whats on the site but how do u know when its coming? sometimes i get real moody and cranky and crampy what to do?

sbtbfan3000 on 11/3/2009 1:57:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD i have my period and i get dicarge sometimes at the same time is this normal?????

 

Hey girly, no worries, that's normal.

lynae p.

bruinsgirl38 on 11/1/2009 3:36:21 PM

I'm in 7th grade and I've been to the doctor and they said that I'm almost about to get my period.I have boobs,hair in the backyard,discharge[I don't know if it is or not!],my friends have theirs!I have all the symptoms and I don't know if its discharge that I have or not!My underwear do feel damp sometimes!I need help and I need to know if I should go to the doctor!My mom probably won't even take me to the doctor!Help!Pleeze answer my questions!

 

Your undies being damp indicate discharge. Why do you need to go to the doc? Your doc already told you you'll get your period soon and so you prob will. Talk to your mom about it if youre unsure. Best, 

Miliana B.

ForrestRun515 on 11/1/2009 8:50:20 AM

MODDDDD!!!!!!!!! i hav al the signs of a period and it just wont come im almost 100 pounds, i hav bobs, my appetite is larger, i get pms stuff,cramps, and i get discharge. i really want ym eriod 2 just com but it wont help! sorry this is soo long!




Hey girl! everyone gets theirs at different times, yours will come eventually. 
Eryn G.

absf on 10/24/2009 9:48:26 PM

MOD I THINK I HAVVE MOST OF THE SIGNS OF URR PERIOD... DO I? PUBLIC HAIR DISCHARGE HAIR (EVERYWERE) NO BOOBS BUT SOMETIME REALEY BAD CRAMPS BELOW MY BELLY.




Hey girl! Sounds like you have some of the signs. No worries, you may get it soon!

-Taeler
Taeler L.

erichmo on 10/20/2009 5:58:08 PM

MOD after I have my peroid can I still get discharge?




Hey girl! You can 
Eryn G.

Jojo_is_loved on 10/17/2009 3:38:47 PM

MOD I have been having discharge, mood swings,and get "hair" for a while now. I am definatly more physically mature than other 10 year old in my grade. Idk how long I've been having discharge but it seems like forever! Maybe 5 months or something. Do you think it's too young to have my period in 5th grade? I only know one other girl who has. My mom got her period around 11. Do you think I might be getting mine too?




Hey girl! Everyone gets their period at different ages, so you might. You should talk to a doctor more about this. 
Eryn G.

Jojo_is_loved on 10/17/2009 3:37:53 PM

mod
i have these groos things in my underwear there all wihte and somtimes brown. help i only 11 is this and infection?




Hey girl! You can check out http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx



 for more info. 
Eryn G.

blu909 on 10/3/2009 3:23:41 PM

MODDD im 12 and ive been getting discharge for about 1 and half now....i that bad that i havent gotten my period yet

 

Hey girl!  It's not bad that you haven't gotten your period yet.  It'll come when your body is ready, so relax, and don't worry about it!  best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

hls97 on 9/27/2009 8:00:14 PM

--------MOD-------
I have a ????? When i play volleyball and any sports i sweat really bad down there! I cant wear red shorts cause it goes rite through and it kind of smells! Plz help me what do i do?!?!?!?




Hey babe, wear loose-fitting undies and shorts. If it gets really bad, talk to a doc about maybe getting a sweating prescription.  
katelin s.

vball2133 on 8/10/2009 10:58:58 PM

MOD! I've had discharge for about 2 or more years. I'm 14 and my mom got her period when she was 13. Did I get my "period genes" from dad's side or what, and do you think that I will get my period soon? Thanks!

 

Hey Girl, no one will know for sure and its different for everyone but I would think soon. *Cara T*

Cara T.

hannahmontanafana on 6/27/2009 3:35:27 PM

OMG thx sooooooooooo much i was very very scared tha something was wrong with me!!
You cleared everything up! Thx GL!!!

~brunettegurl101~ on 6/23/2009 10:29:23 PM

i've had discharge since the beggining of the school year! it's so annoying! I wanna get my stinkin' period already! >Frown

falloutgirl350 on 6/19/2009 5:10:20 PM

Lori, I also have those signs, i just wanted to make it short and sweet! Does this mean it will come sooner?

haileygirl2105 on 6/2/2009 4:02:40 PM

MOD! I have had this for about 6 months, i have some pubic hair, and i am developing breasts. I am 10. Will i get my period soon?


 

Hey babes,  Sounds like your body is starting to go through puberty.  You'll start having some other signs before you get your period, mood swings and cramps  are a few common ones.  Start wearing liners and carrying pads/tampons to be ready.  Xo Lori

lori S.

haileygirl2105 on 6/1/2009 5:38:06 PM

i have discharge also...my mom says its normal but thanks for clearing up the air. that's a whole lot off my shoulders. and if any one gets it in school and needs to go to the nurse the code is :
"i need to use the nurse's bathroom"
or if ur nurse doesn't have a bathroom:
"i need to go to nurse for girl reasons"
yepp it's that simple and don't feel weird about saying that to a male teacher..he won't tell anyone and i personally think telling the teacher and being uncomfortable for a little bit is better than not saying anything and getting teased and being uncomfortable for a long time. i haven't got my period yet and i'm glad...for all u girls who got it young i feel bad for you...this is the kind of thing that sucks about being a girl.
thankz gl
=]

jaCc_attackk on 5/24/2009 3:37:40 PM

MOD!!! I have had it for 5 months, pubic hair,i am developing breasts, and i get bad cramps.i am almost 11. will my period come soon?? Please please please answer me!








Hey girl, check out this page and see
if it helps:


http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx 



We have everything you need to know about
all things period!
, Your Blog Patrol Babes
Annemarie D.

haileygirl2105 on 5/19/2009 5:19:10 PM

ok, so i have this stuff and it smells kinda bad but only when its still wet and is a yellowly, off white when it drys. it this normal?

lib173 on 5/14/2009 8:43:13 PM

MOD!!! I am almost 11 and i have had discharge for 5 months . I get cramps too. will i get my period soon? Pleeeeeese answer my Question!

 

Hey girl! It sounds like  you might be getting it soon but it's hard to tell. Every girl is different.

Jess H.

haileygirl2105 on 5/12/2009 6:02:41 PM

 














Hey girl, check out this page and see
if it helps:


http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx 



We have everything you need to know about
all things period!
, Your Blog Patrol Babes
 
Annemarie D.

pinkzebra on 5/3/2009 3:08:43 PM

just wondering, what does MOD mean??

 

Hey girl! MOD is short for moderator and we are the ones who approve comments and answer any questions you girls might have.

Jess H.

soccergoal80 on 4/28/2009 7:08:26 PM

I have been getting discharge now for like a year. I am almost 13 and still don't have my period. My mom bought me some pads so I will be ready but I am still nervous. I want it to come soon just to get it over with!! Is there any signs or symptoms that it is coming??

soccergoal80 on 4/28/2009 7:06:00 PM



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