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Addicted to porn


I’m 14, and I’ve been looking at porn. I’m really not that kind of person, and I want to stop. But it has gotten kind of addicting in a way. 
 
Dear Porned,
Many teens, especially guys, find themselves intrigued by such material. Your curiosity is normal, but one problem with pornography is that it’s so degrading to women. Respectable women don’t look or act like that. Looking at porn can indeed become addicting, but give yourself some credit: You’ve been able to stop for weeks at a time. Get yourself to sign off, and make plans with friends instead. You might even consider saying to your mom, “I stumbled onto a really gross site, and it’s OK with me if you want to block that stuff.” She’d probably be glad to change the parental controls or move the computer to a common area, no questions asked.
 

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by TheColorsOfTheRainbow on 4/12/2013 9:31:25 PM

 
 

A lot of us struggle with this so you arent the only one. Its kind of easy to find and often you end up wanting to look at it more, so it becomes addicting. Maybe the best thing is to try to get your mind on something else because I have noticed just thinking about guys and kissing can give me fantasies and then I end up often looking at it.

I think we go through these phases where we want to watch it more at certain times and want to watch different kinds because we are curious and because we are at the age when we think about these things. The guys on Glee said it right when they talked about girls watching porn and how it affects us because we can look at naked men anytime we want because of the internet. So the best way to stop or not watch it as much is to think about something else.

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by fashionqn on 3/15/2013 12:01:34 AM

 
 

I'm addicted to porn too... But unlike you, I'm not ashamed of it.

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