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Addicted to porn

I’m 14, and I’ve been looking at porn. I’m really not that kind of person, and I want to stop. But it has gotten kind of addicting in a way.

Dear Porned,

Many teens, especially guys, find themselves intrigued by such material. Your curiosity is normal, but one problem with pornography is that it’s so degrading to women. Respectable women don’t look or act like that. Looking at porn can indeed become addicting, but give yourself some credit: You’ve been able to stop for weeks at a time. Get yourself to sign off, and make plans with friends instead. You might even consider saying to your mom, “I stumbled onto a really gross site, and it’s OK with me if you want to block that stuff.” She’d probably be glad to change the parental controls or move the computer to a common area, no questions asked.

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Whats porn?

Hey girlie,

Check out a definition in a dictionary, like webster.com. I don't want to post anything here that may make others uncomfortable!

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by LoveHappens on 4/2/2011 9:28:35 PM

I sorta started to get addicted to it also and it's disgusting..... I cant stand it!!!! I hope I can stop soooo bad!!!!!

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by alison99 on 1/15/2011 12:21:05 AM

for the people wonder what porn is

i'm 16 i know what it is through south park and other stuff. trust me you don't want to know. it'll wreck your mind for life.

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by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:47:34 PM

please don't write on my wall about these things. i've come clean and don't want to EVER hear about it agian.

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by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:40:09 PM

there is even stuff like this in anime fan fics. fortunaly i don't read them. but i know they exist and we nerds can get pretty perverted sometimes. they also can be really bizzar if you aren't a nerd and probably think it's extremly out there. (trust me it's weird to my standards and heard people be sexually attracted to anime charaters. trust me on that one. i'm not though.)

trust me never read a m rated fan fic until your older. i learn that the hard way. and scared myself for life. dispite the fact i'm christian and i never want to do that till im married

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by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:38:02 PM