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The Two-Faced

Two-faced girls act all nice to you but then rag on you the minute you turn your back. They tend to trash on others for no apparent reason.

My two best friends joined an alliance against me. They started a notebook that they never let me see. One day, I saw it. They had written all about me, bashing my clothes and family. They wrote that I was stupid and how it was sad I liked a guy who would never like me (he’s now my BF). I confronted them, and they acted as if they’d done nothing wrong. I’m so over them.

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BY JIAE K. ON 9/16/2008 3:06:00 PM 55 COMMENTS

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kudos to u for ditching them. that was a really mean thing to do

absf on 3/29/2009 4:46:40 PM

id break into there homes and trash it! muhuhaha

x2sisters on 2/15/2009 10:19:22 AM

thats not rite! me and my bff have a notebook called the BFNB (best friend notebook.) we just write letters back and forth to each other. We never gossip about any1. Its just usually used for talking about crushes! which if it gets in the wrong hands.. uh-oh..that would be bad..haha

dancingrl <3 on 2/1/2009 12:35:29 PM

OMg there is a girl at school that I hate so much she does the same thing

bolover22 on 1/23/2009 10:56:13 PM

those girls need a reality check. my bet is tht they r just jealous of u. im glad u got the guy and ditch them!!

Aria2014 on 1/19/2009 3:12:16 PM

wow. they so don't deserve to have any friends. Good job on snaggin' your crush!

volleyballgirl96 on 1/7/2009 8:25:17 PM

that's not so bad still super mean!!!! you should find some new friends!!

kgirlpanda on 1/7/2009 4:46:38 PM

What is wrong with people? I bet your an awesome girl and these girls are jealous

fieldhockjock on 12/26/2008 3:15:31 PM

That stinks.

booklover41597 on 12/19/2008 1:36:36 PM

i wood completely hate if my BFFLs did that to me... but they're not the kind to do that

501cesky on 12/10/2008 5:58:16 PM

LOW LIFE SCUMMZ!!!!!!!!

icechamp54 on 12/4/2008 5:46:59 PM

I rly need advice on this one friend of mine. okay, lemme start with the good: she's smart, funny, honest, loyal, and a good listener. now the bad: well number 1, she's overly jealous! if one person tlks says hi to me, she'll be nxt 2 tears cuz they 4got about her. the thing is, she's too shy to tlk to ppl, so thats why i hav "more friends" (she rly has jus as many friends as i do). anywayz, she's also rly rude to me. she talks to me like im sum kinda brat. i try to be nicer than i hav to, but it rly doesn't wrk. it's alot of stress to deal with her moods. thirdly, she's an awful project partner. wen we get idividual wrk, its no prob, but wen we get a project suddenly she "doesn't hav time" or she "forgets" or her "computer doesn't wrk" i usually stay up late doing her work and putting her name on it. then, she comes to skool and criticizes the wrk i did 4 her. it drives me crazy!!! lastly, she's overly sensitive. if we're wlking (and ther's a silence) and i wave to someone, she'll ditch me and not tlk to me for like an hour. then she'll yell @ me!!!! she's my bff, but idk wat to do about her. wat is her problem?

Hey babe,

Talk to her about how you feel about all of this without saying she's a bad person for this and that. Say how each of these things make you feel and ask if she can stop it. If she denies everything and still yells at you for this and that. Cut your losses! <3 Sherryn D.

bubblez101 on 11/28/2008 2:20:06 PM

SNOBBY!!! hey now u can rub it in their face cuz u got the guy! lol that would be funny

bubblez101 on 11/28/2008 2:08:01 PM

good 4 u!!!!! Im happy that u moved on. (nice score on the guy 2)

shrimpk on 11/24/2008 8:52:20 PM

good 4 u!!!!! Im happy that u moved on. (nice score on the guy 2)

shrimpk on 11/24/2008 8:51:14 PM

people can be so mean!!
my friend always gives me dirty looks and thinks i dont notice. she also says thing that she knows will make me feel uncomfortable
i have never heard her tell the truth to anyone and thats 100 percet true
i dont know what 2 do.i somtimes tell her that i notice her doing that but she just says u must have seen it wrong. and acts like it never happened.
i really want her to stop. what should i do?

Hey Girl,

Well I think that you need to loose her as a friend because she does not sound like a nice or genuine person. Good Luck!

-Kyle

anabannana on 11/20/2008 3:45:16 PM

That hurts

XD life is good

alove2345 on 11/14/2008 5:11:27 PM

ouch thats mean

.♥.♥. on 11/11/2008 4:25:50 PM

ther was a grl lik that in my class last year!
i totaly feel 4 u

yola purple princess on 11/5/2008 5:06:26 PM

**********MODERATOR********
and girls
I have a question. I'm getting really sick of this one girl she's sort of my friend but not really . She has a huge mouth and if I tell her something she tells everyone no I mean literly. I like this one guy and now all the sudden she likes him. There's only one way someone can really piss me off and thats by being nervy. And she started getting all up in my face and I can't stand that. I haven't liked her for awhile I want to set her straight but should tell her right or confront her. I really would prefer to set her straight but I need your opionion.

Hey girl!

Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. That is the best thing you can do.

<3 Brianna

PrettyNPinkBlondy on 11/3/2008 7:06:11 PM

sounds kinda like the movie Mean Girls Why do girls do stuff like this?

BasketballGirl on 11/2/2008 10:57:56 AM

Losers! We should all be treated with respect!

booklover41597 on 10/28/2008 4:45:11 PM

I can't believe they would do that...you know what you're friends were such great actresses they shoulda got a movie deal and you go girl for confronting them, they must be so heartbroken that you got what you wanted.... oh well!!!!!!!!

cocobffl98 on 10/27/2008 9:18:04 PM

I might've photo-shopped there pics and poste them on the internet.

icepaw on 10/25/2008 2:02:58 AM

they R big fat LOSERS.wonder how they felt when they found out u were goin' out with that guy.LOL!

girlytomboy22 on 10/22/2008 10:06:35 PM

Forget about those LOSERS (LOL) Just find some friends that lisen and understand you and everything you say Because a person like you deserves nice and bright friends

gabriella on 10/13/2008 4:59:02 PM

o thats just aweful!

***MOD***
I have one friend where sometimes shes really nice and we have a great time. But sometimes shes just kinda rude. Like the other day she was she was talking about another one of her friends and she was like "who I like much more than you, jk"
and another time my dad was gonna come pick me up and suddenly she just walked away and when I went to find her and she was like "oh, your still here, jk" Sometimes im just not sure if shes actually kidding or not. I dont want to lose her as a friend... but some times I dont feel like I am really hers. HELP!

cbear365 on 10/10/2008 5:48:17 PM

omg- an actual whole notebook? wow! those people have no life. seriously.

holapeeps on 10/8/2008 7:47:15 PM

u showed them!!!
way 2 get ur guy!!!

I <3 JoBros! on 10/8/2008 3:43:57 PM

OMG that's mean. I have true friends who don't gossip unless it's nice gossip (ie "did you see Hannahs shirt? I loved it!)

horseloverhgv on 10/6/2008 4:42:31 PM

That's vicous! I'm lucky I have amazing friends. And good for you, girl! Going out and gettin' that guy!(sorry, to many g's but oh well!) Buh-bye, peeps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mngirl on 10/5/2008 3:02:45 PM

Hehe wayy to show 'em by making the crush "that will never like you" your boyfriend :] Good job!!

8912 on 10/3/2008 9:25:13 PM

MOD************************
My supposed friend called me a b**** and then acted all nice to me! Now she wants to be my friend again, but I don't feel like being close to her again after what she did to me. What should I do?? What should I tell her?? Can you help me???

Hey babes, tell her that she hurt your feelings. There is NO need for name calling and what she did was completely uncalled for. If she gives a genuine apology, then accept it and let it go and move on. xo JANA

music_chica_03 on 10/3/2008 6:02:49 PM

That's terrible...im sorry that happened to you, but at least you know that they arent real friends, and that there are better people out there for you. One of my best friends is a flirt, and flirts with all of the guys that like me, even when she has a boyfriend. It's really shallow and totally stupid, but I get upset when the guy I like starts to like her because she can't even control herself for my sake. This just happened again, with an amazing guy...fun for her, and devastating for me. Any advice?

freelionemily on 10/3/2008 12:00:14 AM

*MOD*
I need help!!!ever since kindergarten ive gone to a private school,and i made some "freinds" and weve been "friends" ever since. there always putting me down and making fun of me,and a lot of times they hit me,but other times they act like we.re bffs. they make me want to just hurt them as much as theyve hurt me all these years.but ik thats not waht i should do.ive made some really good friends over the summer who go to the public school and i wanna go there next year,but im affriad when they find out theyll be really steamed at me and then acctually hate me. im sorry this is so long but please please PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!!

Hey Girl,

Well your friends at school don't seem like very good friends. I think you need to explain that you don't like when they put you down and pick on you anymore because it makes you feel bad. This may be because you have known them for so long and maybe they don't realize that their insensitiveness is hurting you. Hopefully this will help the school situation. It is awesome that you have another group of friends as well. As far as switching schools you have to think where you will have the best opportunities not just friends. Good Luck!

-Kyle

annasbananas on 10/2/2008 11:09:15 AM

*******mod*********
there's this girl in my grade and she flirts with like every guy and its sooo annoying and she called my bff the queen of (really bad word) and then she called my other bff ugly when shes not and she flirts with my bf all the time!!! WHy?????
♥laneybug24
ps i'm going out with one of the hottest guys in school

Hey babes, she is insecure and the only way she can feel better is to make others feel worse. Feel bad for her and ignore her. Dont ever stoop to her level xoxo JANA

laneybug24 on 10/1/2008 7:09:33 PM

***Mod***
My BFF has been ignoring me lately. She walks straight past me. My other friends say she says mean stuff behind my back. She does behind all our backs. Then when we get mad at her she acts all innocent. She says shes just deppressed but she talks to our other friends and tunes me out! What should I do!!!???? Do you think she's mad at me????

miley_rox on 9/30/2008 5:56:45 PM

MOD************
My dog just died. I'm sooo sad. I've been crying all day. What can I do to ease my pain?

singrgirl13 on 9/27/2008 4:34:47 PM

Those peeps r RUDE!!!!
MOD*****
My ex-BFF is calling me a lot of bad names and calling my familly fat. And this all started on her calling my dog a rat!!!! I REALLY want to beat her up for it! But I can't, I know, but what can I do to get the anger out?

brush her off. you can't let her rude remarks bother you. Laura

singrgirl13 on 9/26/2008 9:13:08 PM

In 5th grade, I really wanted to hang with the popular people, so I tried to arrange a costume we could all dress up as for Halloween! We finally figured out that we would dress up in camo and be 'military people.' Well, a few weeks before Halloween, they told me that they didn't want to dress up as the army people anymore. I asked what they wanted to dress up as instead, and they said that they didn't know. I asked them a few more times, and they kept on saying that they didn't know, so I finally decided to just find another costume. I ended up being a Junior Mint box with some other friends. On Halloween, they came to school in our original military costumes, and I felt really stupid. But now I realize that they were never really my friends, and I should just focus on my real friends.

ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/26/2008 12:14:53 PM

Wow i had the same thing going on exsept there weere 5 girls instead of 2

goshinjustu on 9/25/2008 8:31:18 PM

There is a girl in my class like that. she's not really my friend but she was my friend's friend but my friend finally realized that she is more mean then nice!

soccergirl-12 on 9/24/2008 3:19:10 PM

My friends are like that. They aren't 2 Faced, but if they dont like the same things that I do, they always are mean to me about. I just got a shirt with my fave band on it. But I'm afraid to wear it to school because my BFF doesn't like them and I know she will say rude stuff about it. MOD: I don't know what to do!!!

jonasluver4ever on 9/22/2008 9:32:58 PM

what meanies! i have a "friend" like this. just yesterday i decided not to be friends anymore because i couldn't stand what she was doing to me. ugh. sometimes ya just gotta live with those people.

ms. october on 9/22/2008 4:07:12 PM

i know the type. they are all over my school!!

SwimChik 34 on 9/21/2008 2:42:18 PM

oh em geez they are sooooo jelouse of you..and im proud for u n ur boyfriend=]

mfg1321 on 9/21/2008 12:04:07 AM

OMG! THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO RUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GAWSH I CANT B-LEEEVE SOMEONE WOULD DO DAT; FOOL DAT CRAZY!

stage.bug on 9/19/2008 9:40:08 PM

Jeez! Those snobs are total u-know-whats! You are so strong for going through that! I can't imagine! I have friends who are twofaced and one friend that never talks to me anyomore for no reason. U keep on shrugging those girls off and showing them that you're better off with out them! And when they were bashing on you about ur crush, and u said that he's now ur BF I laughed! Shows them! Good for u!!!!

KnoITAll454545 on 9/19/2008 7:32:23 PM

RUDE!

flip-flop_diva on 9/18/2008 9:45:57 PM

man! that is sooooo rude of them! good for you for ditching them! you are way better than them! i bet you can find waaaaaaaaaaay better friends than that!

xoxo♥emily

emily96 on 9/18/2008 8:50:13 PM

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