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A Quick Guide to Eating Disorders

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Here’s what you need to know about the most common eating disorders:

ANOREXIA NERVOSA

Anorexia nervosa is a potentially deadly eating disorder. The sufferer intentionally starves herself, and is unwilling or unable to keep a healthy weight for her size, height, body type and activity level. She has an intense need for control and is scared of gaining weight even when extremely underweight.

BULIMIA NERVOSA

The bulimic consumes large amounts of food in short periods of time- – sometimes, thousands of calories at one sitting – and then forces herself to purge by throwing up, exercising or using laxatives. After bingeing and purging, a bulimic feels depressed or guilty. Like the anorexic, she is intensely fearful of being fat. Binge-and-purge cycles damage the digestive system and affect major internal organs, like the heart, which can cause death.

COMPULSIVE OVEREATING

The compulsive overeater, usually overweight, eats to excess even when not hungry, but doesn't purge food. The overeater eats throughout the day, not just during binges. Health concerns, similar to people with clinical obesity, include diabetes.

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MOD MOD MOD ok so im 90 pounds 11 and 4'11 i have not gained any weight since the last year!!! im not anerexic im eating quite healthy and im playing a lot more sports but im going through puberty and arent you SUPPOSE to gain weight while your going through puberty?

Hey girl,

Everybody's bodies are unique, and they grow at a different pace. If you are taking good care of yourself and eating well, you are probably just fine. Your body will do what it needs to do. However, if you do have worries, you can talk with a parent or your doc - they can help you make sure everything is going just fine. Take care!

Marie H.

11soccergirl11 on 3/10/2010 8:06:07 PM

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i think i am developing an eating disorder. some
days i eat A LOT and feel guilty. Then, on other days, i don't eat hardly anything and excersize.
eating a lot happens when my parents aren't home, and when i don't eat, its random. is there something wrong with me?

Hey babe...it sounds like you're restricting at times and then bingeing at others because your body needs the food. It is a bit of eating disorder behavior, but the fact that you realize what is happening is amazing. You can stop these behaviors with effort before an eating disorder does develop. If you stick to three balanced meals, 2 snacks, and 1 dessert you will feel full of energy and will not end up restricting and bingeing. However, if you feel you are over exercising to compensate for eating alot, that is definitely eating disorder thinking and you should try talking to a trusted adult about it. The key is balance, but it's hard to get ourselves to commit to balance without support from the ones around us.

Megan R.

MaddieOMG on 3/1/2010 8:15:58 PM

i think i have COMPULSIVE OVEREATING disorder!!!! i eat throughtout the day several days...esp. when im bored! im not overweight thou !

famousrichgirl on 2/26/2010 1:40:41 PM

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Heyy. How are you? Good? I hope so. Well, anyways, I really need your help. I know I'm not fat but...I think I am. My doctor says I'm at a very good weight but I have a stomach and thighs. I'vee thought about puking multiple times and almost did it. I'm fat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what should I do? It's not like I could tell my mom. Besides, if I did, I don't want them to have to spend money on a therapist. HELLO, it's call a recession

Hi darlin, everyone has a tummy and thighs, like 1 % of the world is stick skinny. if your doctor isnt concerned then you have no reason to worry, they would tell you if you were fat. If you are having a body image issue, why not talk to your mom...she is a woman that probably went through the same thing as some point. If you dont want to talk to her, talk to your guidance counselor. That is what they are there for, plus its free. xoJANA

jana k.

samm213 on 2/23/2010 10:13:48 PM

Hey girls, i know many of you have plenty to ask and and I have plenty to answer! So check my profile - *Beth's advice* and trust me when I say this I will get to answer your quests ASAP!

All you have to is post you question on my Profile!And I WILL get back to you.

If you want advice from a chica like your self, ask me!

And unlike the people that answer here I will tell stuff that i had from my own experiences!

Also what is also cool is that some of my friends are going to help me answer some of the more challenging questions

And eventually I'm going to put up a website for all of you senoritas! but for now Go to my Profile and I'l make life a bit easier!

Beth's Advice! on 2/23/2010 5:04:16 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! Ok, so I am 5"3 and am 136 pounds. I have a tiny waist but hips, boobs and thighs. A lot of time I feel gross about myself. A couple of times I made myself throw up!! Sometimes I skip lunch and eat a small breakfast, but then rumors around school start about me being anorexic!! I really wanna loose weight but I cant work out at the gym until I am 15. What are some healthy food I can eat to maintain a healthy weight?

Hey girl,

Losing weight will not happen by not eating! Instead, make sure you eat a balanced amount of veggies, fruits, protein (meat, fish, eggs, etc.), and grains. You don't need a gym to get physical activity either. Walk/run around your school's track or even just around the block. Rent tapes from the library that walk you through a yoga routine or Tae Bo - anything to get your heart pumping. Just remember that you are absolutely beautiful and your goal should be to get HEALTHY, not just lose weight.

Lauren C.

Alia4Ever on 2/19/2010 5:37:37 PM

***********MOD********* i need some help. i have been thinking a lot about bulimia lately. i see a therapist for different reasons. but i need someone to snap me out of thinking about bulimia cause i know how dangerous it is. idk how much longer i'll go before trying to make myself throw up... THANKS!

hey girl! DO NOT DO IT EVERRR! Think of how sad your family and friends would be. Can you do that to them? Do you want ROTTED teeth and ICKY breath? Do you want to possibly have a heart attack before you ever turn 18?!? NO!! Keep talking to a therapist and try to be careful never to eat more than what you feel comfortable with, that way you wont want to throw it up!

Hallie R.

jazz/tap/ballroom dancenonstop on 2/16/2010 3:57:04 PM

One of my friends thinks she's needs to loose weight. She told me once in class that she weighs 88 pounds, and she's 5'1". Every one is encouraging her to eat food, because she's becoming annorexic, but she feels guilty when she eats a full meal. She knows she needs to eat, but she can't. Every one is scared, especially me. I know how it started, her family would joke about her being fat(they were joking, since she's normally skinny) and it lead to this. Please help! I don't want her to die.

Hey girl! Try talking to her and expressing your concern. If nothing changes, I would talk to an adult about how worried you are. They will be able to take further action!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

oliviart123 on 2/14/2010 9:45:31 PM

That's scary..

[xganzxalleinx] on 2/12/2010 12:40:42 AM

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I've been diagnosed with anorexia and I go to a therapist. One of the biggest problems is that its stopping me from having my period. I know I am underwieght, and Ive been trying to gain weight so I can participate in track this season. However, everytime I start eating alot of calories I feel sooo guilty. I like being underwieght and I am terrified of becoming fat again since I used to be. Please Help!!!!!

I can only imagine how tough things are for you. Because we
wish you only the best, it’s extremely important that you speak to a trusted adult,
such as a family member, doctor, guidance counselor, teacher, etc. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

lizzie n.

candygrl22 on 2/11/2010 11:25:47 PM

MOD! I'm around 5 ft... 5'1 ~ish I weigh 88 lbs? Is that okay? thanks!

Hey girl, everyone is different, unless your doctor is worried I wouldnt be concerned over it. xo JANA

jana k.

dina22464 on 2/9/2010 8:59:57 PM

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(Reply to Allie S.)
Well, she has told an adult, she was diagnosed, but I want to try and help stop because she probably does it 2 times a day, and if I could just help decrease it to 1...and hopefully 0.

Hey babe, That's a great first step! Let her know how worried you are and how much you want her to stop. Maybe your support will help make a difference.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

SecretlyMe on 2/9/2010 7:24:33 PM

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My friend is bulimic, because people judge her I guess, and she knows it's serious, but she can't stop and though she is a little overweight, she shouldn't be doing it. I have no idea what to do and I don't want to lose her trust. And my friend keeps making fun of it, and she doesn't care that this friend could DIE. She keeps laughing and saying "HUR HURRRR" and saying "If she wants to go kill herself, not my problem" and I know it's not, but she still should care at least a little.
HELP!

Hey babe, Wow, that's harsh! You're right - your friend could be really hurting herself. If you're really worried about her, you might have to sacrifice her trust for her safety. You can't fix this by yourself, so you need to go to an adult (like a teacher or a counselor or a parent) and let them know what's going on. You can also try to convince your friend to seek help herself, but you have to be prepared to tell someone for her if she won't agree to do it herself. she might be mad at you at first, but she'll understand later that you were only showing her how much you care. it's one of the nicest things you can do for someone, even if you have to betray her trust to do it.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

SecretlyMe on 2/9/2010 7:05:13 PM

MOD ok i'm 5'2 and weigh 100 pounds is that too much? how much should someone my height weigh? am i overweight i dont really know. do i need to lose weight? plz answer!! someone

Hey chicky, nope you're fine! Your really young, so your bod is still developing and maturing, so don't try to start loosing weight now. Your wieght is really good for your height, so no worries!

Lynae P.

koolkangaroo37 on 2/7/2010 4:54:27 PM

i'm not really sure if i'm overweight or not i'm 5'2 and 100 pounds is that too much?how much should someone my height weigh?plzzz answer someone!!

koolkangaroo37 on 2/7/2010 4:51:56 PM

MOD! My mom is always watching very adult stuff on TV in front on us. I have a 10 year old sister and a 1 year old brother. I have told her multiple times to watch that stuff when we aren't there, but she always says shut up or doesn't listen or says no. And she turns it up and refuses to turn it down. This has been going on ever since i was 5. It is not like she is a bad mother, because other than the TV she is great! What should I do?

Hi babes, it is good that you speak up. If she wants to her her alone time, why dont you take your siblings into your room and read a book or play a game? xo JANA

jana k.

dancerhn on 2/4/2010 11:47:15 PM

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My doc (like 4-7 months ago) told me that i would need to gain more weight to have my period but i have all the signs is she right? do i need to gain 20 pounds because i weigh 80 and im 4"10 so should i gain weight?

Hey girl,

I'm sure you're perf the way you are . Listen to your doc and remember to eat healthy meals plus snacks every day. Head to G-Life for great healthy eating tips.

Caitlin R.

Ladybug863 on 2/3/2010 7:49:39 PM

*********MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD************ I have a problem- I take after my dad who is not the thinest- he does everything right and eats healthy food but he is just not the thinest. Well I thin k i am over weight. Please tell me if you think I am. I am 12 5'51/2 and 141 punds. I think that is not right. I have really strong arms like strong than all the boys in my class but I bigger thighs like my moms she is 5'3 3/4 and is 120- really thin!!!!) but i have so much fat on my stomach and hips. I want you to answer honestly!!!! plz don't be like omg ur really thin when u r really thinking that i am not. I want ur hones opinion cuz i hate when ppl lie to me. any1 else readin this comment on my page tell me what you think and how i can loose weight!!! PLZ!!!!

Hey chica, sooo sorry but I'm super busy right now with all these comments. I'd love to answer and chat with ya, but it's not possible at the moment. I'm sure our awesome bloggers would like to help ya out, trust me they give good advice. Thanx for understanding!

Lynae P.

h2oaddict on 2/3/2010 4:30:47 PM

i use to try to cut back on food to be healthier but then i thought what if i am becoming anorexic then i thought eat healthy and junk food every now and then and u don't have to worry about that kind of stuff so now i am as healthy as ever and i hope to always be that way!

lipgloss13 on 2/2/2010 9:41:57 PM

Some guy told me i looked anorexic i just lol and ignored him. btw i'm 16 5'5 and 105 pds

karatejenn16 on 1/30/2010 8:59:17 PM

Mod!
Some girls in my grade have been "cutting" or so everyone says. They have been carving things into their skin with pencils. And they might be doing drugs. I want to tell a teacher but I don't want to be a tattle tale...and I caught the one girl telling another she was going to cut herself tonight and then they started talking in a secret code. That involved hand signals showing cutting their arms and smoking. They are some of the girls in my grade that everyone hates because they don't shut up during class and they always are brats to EVERYONE! And I certainly don't like them. Cause they always cause drama and fights and almost get the whole class detention. But they really shouldn't be doing this stuff cause if they aren't doing drugs, cutting, or making out/having sex with guys they are pretty much failing school and our grade. So I really don't like them but my Mom said I should do whats right and tell even if I don't like them or they hate me even more because I told. But I really don't know what to do cause they hate my guts cause I am what they call a "smart, pretty, popular, brat that doesn't find them funny and I make comments to what they do" So I like Really dispise these girls but I really don't know what to do cause like I don't want to just be someone who knew about it but didn't do anything and they end up like dead....WHAT SHOULD I DO???? Please help me!!!

hey girl,

It sounds like you have your priorities together and know that what these girls are doing is harmful to their health. so, I would just let them be them and not be their friends so that you don't have that negative energy. it is really their choice, and until someone really tries to harm themselves, that's when you should tell a trusted adult. Just because you don't like them you shouldn't feel like you should tattle on them. just avoid them and be you

xoxo

sammy d

sammy d.

PinkGirl15 on 1/29/2010 7:47:57 PM

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I'm a lil' overweight but I feel more huge than I really am! I'm tall and my older sister is short and skinny so I look like a complete giant next to her...I HATE IT!! Almost all my friends are shorter and skinnier than I am...what can I do???

Hey babes, first things first, you gotta stop comparing yourself to your friends, especially friends that are smaller than you. All that matters is YOUR health. If you want to feel a little lighter, start focusing on your habits. Start jogging a few times a week and cut back on sweets. Once you get your body moving you will start to feel healthier. xo JANA

jana k.

Rebel-girl15 on 1/28/2010 8:53:31 PM

one of my best friends is 5'3. she weighs 105lbs. she's always complaining about how she's fat, blah, blah, blah. she is so skinny. she's not anorexic tho. it bothers me that she thinks she's fat. i weigh 133lbs. im normal size. i wonder, if she thinks she's fat, what does she think of me? it bothers me to see beautiful girls call themselvs ugly and skinny girls call themselves fat.

HeartsGetBroken on 1/27/2010 8:04:51 PM

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i'm sure this girl in my grade cuts herself. one time i heard her say to her friend "my mom saw my cuts" . and once she said to my friend "if u ever see blood in your desk it's not blood. it's tomato sauce." everyone else knows this but doesn't realize how serious it is. i want to help but i don't want to talk to her about it because we're not really friends and she'd probably be mortified if she found out everyone knew. what should i do?

Hey babe, if she's telling a friend about it, that's good. She's dealing with tough problems and at least she's not hiding it from EVERYONE. I think it's important for her to get the help she needs. You could try talking to her and asking if she's okay, or let her know if she ever needs anything you're here. Try talking to your mom about it, and then maybe your teacher. This way you can just voice your concern, rather than accusing her of cutting. If you have more questions about cutting, check out the help hotline:

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx

Megan R.

kgirlpanda on 1/26/2010 5:46:06 PM

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my friend thinks she's fat. but she's 5'3 and 95lbs. she told me she wanted to be underweight. when we sit beside her on a bench or whatever she measures who has bigger things and always thinks it's her and freaks. but she doesn't think she's anorexic because she says anorexics just stop eating but she knows how to lose weight properly. but she doesn't need to lose weight. does this mean she has an eating disorder? what can i do to help?

Hey girl! It sounds like your friend may be struggling with an eating disorder, or may be starting to develop one. Either way, do not let her negative body image affect your positive energy! Let her know you're concerned for her because she's beautiful just the way she is! There's no need to change your bodies because they are awesome just how they are! They do so much for us on a daily basis It's important to give them the proper nutrition to function properly! Some people are born with genetics to naturally be a little bigger or smaller in certain areas. It might be good to talk about the negative body image issues with your mom or an aunt and let her know you're worried about your friend.

Megan R.

kgirlpanda on 1/26/2010 5:13:21 PM

counselers r not that bad i go to one
lol lol im not depressed or anything
im EXTREMLY cling to my mom lol
thats all lol lol lol im always HAPPY!
BE HAPPY AND LIKE IT!lol
=!

Dogyocatyo on 11/23/2009 4:45:05 PM

I'm 14 years old and I'm 114 pounds I think and I'm always worried about my waight and I don't want to be worried about it so much I always think I should lose more waight. Am I a healthy waight and can someone help me stop worrying about my waight all the time.

bubblie303 on 9/5/2009 7:39:49 PM

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everyone at GL should know to KEEP POSTING ARTICLES LIKE THESE & THE HELP LINES!

you really are helping SO many girls out.
i noticed as soon as you put up stuff like this, all the truth comes out, for the good (i hope all the time)

thank you!!!

Abercrombie_Ballet_beauty on 8/30/2009 9:10:46 PM

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I'm almost 12 years old, 5 foot 2, and 100 pounds. I saw the comment about the girl being skinny and 150 pounds. but here's the thing- I think I'm fat! this recently started a few months ago. I plan my meals ahead of time, and exercise a lot. but I still feel fat. do I have anorexia?!

Hey babe,

You're at a normal weight, but fixating on how much you weigh isn't healthy. It's kind of unavoidable because of the media, but try to translate all that pressure to be skinny into pressure to be HEALTHY. it's okay to care about being in good shape and eating right, but don't freak out over how much it makes you weigh.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

rubynelawafer on 8/7/2009 6:33:21 PM

Hey girl,

Sorry to hear about the disorder but the fact you're getting help is a great first step! When it comes to overcoming any illness, the time it takes to get over it depends on the person (there's no magic time frame, unfortunately). That said, girlie, you can't give up. You will get through this. When you're having doubts, seek encouragement from your friends and family around you (try talking to your therapist about your doubts too--she'll have some great tips to help you get through them). Recovery take time, but your perseverance will get you through in the long run, so never stop trying. We here at GL at rooting for you!

Good luck, girl. Things will get better, all in time!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

carlixxoo on 7/23/2009 10:13:45 PM

I'm 12, 5'5" and I'm 125 pounds. Is this normal?

BubbaleeEmalee123 on 7/18/2009 11:45:50 PM

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Lately I've been thinking that I look overweight, even though I know I don't and I'm not. It's actually forcing me to eat almost nothing in the day. I have been eating only when forced, and then I feel guilty after. I have no idea what's going on with me, but it's really scary and I just want to know what to do! Please help?

it's a scary thing a lot of girls go through--you have to realize that your body NEEDS fuel to feel happy, energetic, and (most importantly) healthy. Make sure you're getting a well-balanced diet no matter what, and focus on portion control (instead of not eating) to control the weight.

Katie P.

BubbaleeEmalee123 on 7/18/2009 11:36:57 PM

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I'm 14 and my doctor say 10-15 pounds overweight. I know I'm not obese, but I just want to be in the healthy weight class. I don't eat that much in the day and I'm really fairly active. I do Scottish dancing and I have to practice 30 minutes a day with an hour dance class once a week. How can I meet my goal?

Hey babe, it takes time and it's hard work but you can do it! Just focus on eating lots of fruits and veggies for snacks and eat lean meats and whole grains. Then get in some walking or jogging every day. Talk to your doc about what he/she suggests as well.

katelin s.

prettydrama831 on 6/17/2009 12:49:14 AM

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i want to go anorexic i feel like i am way to fat. I once over heard my dad talking about how i eat too much for my age. I can never stop thinking about that. i want to stop eating but my parents always cook dinner. Bulimea sound gross to other people but i always thought about doind that. Should I?

Hey girl! NO!! Anorexia and bulimea are very serious diseases that will make you much more unhealthy than you are now and can even kill you. Just try to watch what you eat... ask your parents to cook healthier and serve smaller portions. And start working out some. You'll feel much better about yourself and will be healthy, too.

Jess H.

lil_ladie13 on 6/5/2009 1:34:44 AM

MOD! A lot has happend to me over the past year. I am 12 years old and I weighed 68lbs(I lost 8 lbs), I dropped out of school for 6 months because of weightloss and depression, and my family is having personal problems. I weigh 80 lbs now, but I still am watching my weight.Do you think I have an eating disorder? I don't know how to not care about the way I look.

Hey babes, I can't tell you whether or not you have one, but you really need to go to the doc and tell them whats going on to keep yourself healthy. XO Lori

lori S.

claire123 on 6/4/2009 9:44:35 PM

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OKAY SO, MY BEST GUY FRIEND HAS A PROBLEM. HE THINKS HE'S FAT. HE AND I ARE BOTH REALLY SKINNY AND TALL. MY DAD CALLS ME "SKINNY MINNY" AND HIM "****** THE RAIL". HOW DO I CONVINCE HE'S NOT FAT? ALSO, MY FRIENDS SAY HE LIKES ME. HE STARES AT ME A LOT,TALKS ABOUT ME A LOT, SEEMS VERY NERVOUS WHEN HE TALKS TO ME, LAUGHS AND SMILES AND BLUSHES A LOT WHEN I'M TALKING TO HIM, HE SAID I WAS PRETTY AND VERY SMART, AND WHEN SOMEONE CALLED ME A JEW, HE MADE THEM APOLOGIZE TO ME.DOES HE LIKE ME?

It seems like he likes you. -lauren

Lauren H.

juliesbff212 on 5/30/2009 7:48:50 PM

Im in the middle of recovering from anorexia right now. This is one of the hardest thing ive ever had to delt with so girlys love yourself, your body, and remember your perfect just the way you are. <3

soccerchic222 on 5/30/2009 9:22:05 AM

MOD! I am 12 and I think I am anerexic. I am 67 pounds which is 5 pounds less from wat I was last yr. I am also depressed and I feel like no one cares. My friend doesn't say anything about how I can count all my ribs. My mom doesn't talk to me much either.

Hey girl,

It seems like your in a really bad situation that could put your health in danger. In this case, you're going to have to talk to your mother and tell her how you're feeling mentally and physically. This is a very serious matter and you should see a doctor if it gets worse.

<3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

igymnast10 on 5/10/2009 6:35:25 PM

Hey babes,

You have to start taking better care of yourself. Eat three small meals every single day with small healthy snacks in between, you should really speak to a trusted adult or counselor about the cutting issue. It's very serious and there's no reason, if you want to get better, that you should feel that you should avoid speaking about it. Keeping things bottled up won't help, speaking to someone that is able to help you get better will.

Xo Lori

lori S.

smexysportychica on 4/16/2009 7:44:38 PM

If you or someone you love is sufering from an eating disorder, you should check on going to the Eating Diorders program in Denver, Colorado at the Children's Hospital. I went there at my worst and i cant even explain how much they changed my life! i mean it! It was so nice to be around girls and boys with the same fears and problems as me. It was almost like living in a dorm at college! Dont let an eating disorder take your life because it almost took mine and Denver saved my life! if you need help with issues on eating disorders, contact me

Girlzrule09 on 4/14/2009 2:23:30 PM

my friend used to be 'emo' and 'anorexic' and everyone made fun of her and eventually she stopped and moved away....

beachbabe4eva on 4/13/2009 4:16:37 PM

hey this is for the girl that thinks that she's fat if she's 125 lbs and 11. dude i'm just like you and i feel fine. ;D

slyver01 on 4/11/2009 2:50:21 PM

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i am not super skiny but allmy friends tell me i am! i eat more than them and i told them that but now they think i have an eating disorder! How can i get them to stop?!?!

Hey babe, just let them know it's bothering you. If they know it upsets you, I'm sure they'll stop.

katelin s.

cait14150 on 4/10/2009 10:14:05 AM

I am eleven,5 foot 3 and 150 pounds. I have a super high metabolism, and I swim every day. everyone at school thinks i weigh half of what i really weigh(so 75 instead of 150), and some people think i am a vampire because i have bruises under my eyes and am very skinny compared to most people, and am very pale and always tired. it's not fun to have everyone think you're a vampire.

championswimmer on 4/10/2009 9:19:09 AM

i have an eating disorder. i have anorexia. i wish i didnt. it controls my life. it ruins relationships and i not only am hurting myself but other people as well. i know it is killing my boyfriend. he is so concerned. ive gotten so thin it take me ten mintues too get too class at school because im so weak. my boyfriend actually has too almost carry me too his car in the afternoons. its bad. and i need help. and im scared. im thinking about talking too my mom soon....

ddc_ballerina on 4/9/2009 6:01:29 PM

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I am not overweight or anything (but not super thin) but one of my friends is very skinny and always talks about it! She always asks me to feel her arm muscles/abs or talks about how hard her abs are or how skinny she is. And whenever we watch movies she comments on people's weight calling some average people like me "fat".It just really bugs me because I am not super thin and I don't like hearing about it all the time! How can I get her to STOP?!

Hey Babes, Trust me, your friend is only saying this stuff because she is concerned about herself. Maybe she doesn't feel smart enough, or pretty enough, but no matter what it is, it's less to do with you and more to do with her. I would ignore her when she says that stuff and see if she gets the hint. xo Annemarie

Annemarie D.

superswimmer8 on 4/8/2009 10:46:25 PM

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I am not underweight or anything but im thin. MY BFF sees helself fat compared to me. WE weight about the same but i am taller which makes me look thinner. I am scared she will have an eating disorder. HELP.

Hey girl, keep an eye on her. If it seems like she really does have problems, tell a trusted adult because she needs help. you can also check out this page for more: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx -lauren

Lauren H.

funkymonkey98 on 4/5/2009 4:26:13 PM

I am not underweight or anything. But thin. My BFF sees her self as fat compared to me. We weight about the same, But im taller. I m scared that she will have an eating diasorder in the future. HELP

funkymonkey98 on 4/4/2009 5:37:15 PM

MOD- i need ur help!
i have a messed up life.
i suffer from anerexia and bulimia
i cut myself.
i think i have depression.
i have only told one of my bffs about this, she told me i need to go to a counsellor, but i'm too scared to. If u go to the counsellor, they have a private meeting w/ ur parents about it. and my mom would have an emotional break down if she knew. and my dad was one of those kids who had a great childhood and thinks "depression is just kids who need attention and can't deal with thier problems" nobody wold expect it if they new. I'm a happy go luck cheerleader and straigh A student on the outside but i'm not like that on the inside. i would like to get help, but i don't think i can cuz i'm too scared. oh , and i also have tried to killl myself, but NOONE knows that! plz plz help me!

YOu can see a conselour without having anyone know about it. First tell your counselor to keep this confidential and then you really need to see a doctor asap or the worst can happend. If your dad judges, ignore him, your mom will understand and will make him understand..gotta love mom. Get help asap or it will not be good for you in the future, seriously.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

fmscheerleader on 3/31/2009 9:18:10 PM

MOD! i sort of have the 3rd one but i feel REALLY guilty when i eat like that and so i feel like i kinda have anorexia too. im really skinny so i want to eat lots and gain some weight but i just feel bad about doing it. wat can i do?

Please babe, see a doctor, this is really, really unhealthy and they can help you gain weight.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

kewlgirl13 on 3/29/2009 6:39:37 PM