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When will I get my period? I need to know!

 
Most girls get their first period around 11 or 12. However, some girls get their period as early as 9, and some as late as 16. The truth is, every girl is different. But we can assure you that, sooner or later, you will almost definitely get it.

Q: Once I get it, how will I know when it’s coming next?

A: For the most part, girls get their periods every 28 days or so. While some can predict the exact day of their next period, other girls have irregular cycles and may be off by a week or more. You may be even more irregular when you first start getting your period, skipping a whole month or two. This is perfectly normal—nothing to panic over. Says Jerry, 12, “When you first start getting it, you can never predict when it might strike. I once got mine twice in one month.”

Q: I’m terrified I will be caught totally off guard. What can I do?

A: This is the extreme fear for girls. Says Kristi, 10, “I always hear about girls going to dances in white dresses and walking out with a big red spot!” First of all, of the hundreds of letters we received, only three girls said they were busted in public with a surprise stain.
   
But, OK, there’s certainly a fair chance you’ll be surprised at least one prepped. Keep a few pads in your locker and a sweater you can wrap around your waist, just in case. Our readers also say they keep spares for friends, which is a smart (and generous) idea.

BY JIAE K. ON 10/12/2009 7:01:00 AM 365 COMMENTS

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Mod! this is URGENT ok so my mom and my older sister are so comfortable about talking about pads, i don't even like to say the word.Yuck! but i got boobs 32B i have no spotting i had discharge, a few bumps a little stressed-n-tired. so when. is the question in class i can barely concentrate i don't sit on the edge of my seat, just in case. i steal my sisters pads but shes tall-n-long so they don't fit me/ im scared to stick a tampon up there!!! help me please...my little sister has more hair than me, i ran in on her in the b-room on accident will she start b4 me thts kind of embarrasing she's taller than me to. but i got bigger boobs tho. so help please!! ur my only choice to avoid this embarrasing talk with my mom. (p.s. my sister ka'saya is also more immature, so id maturity a sign?) a really sacerd gurlyy.

 

Hey girl, I know this sort of thing can be scary but there's no need to stress so much. First of all, height doesn't have much to do with when you'll start your period. Even though everyone is different, you could expect to start around the same time your older sister did, but again, thats not a guarantee. I know you feel awkward talking to your mom about it, but she's used to it! She knows all about periods, so if you talk to her about your worries, I'm sure she'll be able to give you lots of advice and be more than happy to buy you some pads that are a better size for you. Also, I know tampons seem intimidating, but they really aren't that bad. If you're worried, start with pads and then when you feel comfortable, give them a try. Don't worry girl, it'll all turn out okay!

 

- Gabrielle

gabrielle m.

ThisGurlyy on 3/1/2010 2:31:48 PM

MOD! K so im 11 years old and i still don't have my period. I've been getting discharge for at least 4 months now and i've had a time when i wipe and i see a tiny dot of blood but nothing else is there. I wear a size 32A in bra and i have hair there where it is supposed to be and i'm usally tired and stressed and mostly hungry. Whats wrong with me????

 

Hey girlfriend, sounds like your period is around the corner. You're having all the signs so I'm sure it will be arriving soon. Be sure to get prepared with some pads and tampons and visit our Period Page to answer any questions ya might have. xoxo

Lynae P.

Timeline98 on 2/28/2010 2:50:37 PM

mod mod mod mod does gaining weight increase your chance of getting your period?(im asking on behalf of a friend)

 

Hey girlfriend, mhmm that's a really good question that I don't have the answer to lol. Try asking your school nurse or health teacher. Smile

Lynae P.

Ladybug863 on 2/27/2010 11:28:31 PM

Mod mod mod mod!!
I am 12 , 13 in april
I have all the signs , hair everywear , boobs 32A




Youre probably going to get it soon. Prepare yourself with pads and tampons and youll be fine Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

zipzapzo9 on 2/27/2010 6:40:20 PM

mod mod mod mod
is it true that if you drink a lot of green tea you will get your period? i heard this from someone on here!




Hey girl! That's a rumor!

xoxo

liz 
Liz L.

Ladybug863 on 2/26/2010 9:40:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD im 15 never had a period but two days ago der was blood on my nicker and my discharge had blood in it my belly really hurt and i had a backache should i go doctors please answer im really scared :S




 



Hey girl, check out this
page and see if it helps:


http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx


We have loads of info on your bod to help ya out! , Your Blog
Patrol Babes


lizzie n.

littlekai15 on 2/24/2010 2:08:20 PM

MOD MOD
I got a bra a year before my mom started needing one(me:5/6th grade Her:7th grade) and I'm wondering if I'm gunna start my period a year before she did or sooner? She got hers when she was 14 and I'm still 11 (turning 12 on Sept. 27) I have hair "down there" and under my arms (about 4 months), I have discharge (a year), and wear a 30/32a bra, but no cramping or bloating. What do ya think?
Thanks! Sarah




Hey girl! You might get yours around the age when your mom did, but it could be different. 
Eryn G.

Sarah_Scoop on 2/21/2010 6:23:51 PM

Ughhh! I hate having the feeling that i will soon be getting it. I have Hair "down their" and in my pits. and when im in shcool i feel like im peeing and it feels wet, but then i go to the bathroom and There is nothing there. Its just kind of sticky and ewwy. (sorry tmi)
I have been having My temper change. I flipped out on my parents then i was happy. and i have B.O! Will you please tell me when it might be coming. i'm only 11. Please tell me when it might come.

CheerGirly84 on 2/16/2010 12:02:04 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! Can u get your period and not be wearing a real bra (by real bra i mean like a size A or B) because i have all the signs except i dont fit in an A yet???

 

Hey chicky, yup you can. Every girl gets their period at a different time. Some chicas get their period after they're fully developed some before, so it all depends on you. No worries, you're good to go. Smile

Lynae P.

bee12 on 2/15/2010 6:50:21 PM

mod!!!!!******* i have pains below the bellybutton, but when i ran on the treadmill, they went away. Is this pms or just stomach pains?




Hey girl! Just sounds like gas pains.

xoxo

liz 
Liz L.

sunny1997 on 2/13/2010 12:21:44 PM

MOD!!***** i heard that drinking green tea a lot can make you get your period......... is this true?

sunny1997 on 2/12/2010 1:41:24 PM

once again, thank u soo much for your advice. I really appreciate it and it saves me awkward moments with the 'rents!! Smile

sunny1997 on 2/12/2010 12:12:13 PM

MOD!!*** sorry if im annoying u, but i have some questions still.... this is just a continuation of my other question. I havent had any "spotting" since and i dont know if it was just a one time thing. And i didnt have my "." the 1st time i "spotted". also i noticed more discharge. i just wanted to know if these were signs of having it or if i will be having it soon. Plz answer soon! Smile

 

Nope, not annoying! Smile  All of these things are signs that your period is on its way, but there's no way to tell exactly when (in one week, in one month, in 4 months) it's going to come.  Just be sure you're prepared - have some pads or tampons tucked away in your closet and carry one in your backpack for when your "." decides to make its debut!

Lauren C.

sunny1997 on 2/12/2010 11:21:38 AM

Thank u soo much for answering my question!!!!<3

 

 You're welcome, love!

Lauren C.

sunny1997 on 2/12/2010 10:54:20 AM

Mod!!!*************** Did i have my period??? i am 12, gonna be 13 in 2 weeks. a few weeks ago i wiped and i saw 3 reddish brownish dots on the tp..srry if tmi!!! we're all girls here.. i told my mom the next day, she made me wear a pad to school but nothin happened. Plz answer asap!!

 

Hey girl,

 

What you experienced was "spotting" - when you have a little bit of blood, but not a full period.  For some girls, this is a sign that their period is on the way...for others, it's not.  So just sit tight and be patient for your period to get here.  You could get it now, or it could be here a year from now!  There's no way to tell for sure until it happens.

Lauren C.

sunny1997 on 2/12/2010 9:29:03 AM

ok well i am 12 years old and ive been having all the signs for almost 3 years! all my friends have started! all at the same time practicly and im so lonley......i dont think i ever will start....like im already a 32B and i have hair where hairs supposed to be and all the signs but please help me! i need to know if i will or wont start my period because im like envy and embarrassed

LonerGirl! :( on 2/11/2010 8:11:31 PM

Mod I been havin nosebleeds like once every couple months,and my grandma says that means I'll have my period soon. Is she right




Hey girl! Nosebleeds and periods usually are completely unrelated.   
Megan R.

Fashonista98 on 1/26/2010 8:39:38 PM

When do you think I'll get my period? I've had hair "down there" for a while now, and I've been having discharge regularly. But my mom and grandma got theirs period when they were 16. What do ya think?

Sarah_Scoop on 1/25/2010 9:27:11 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
so im 12 1/2 and havent gottne my period yet. all my ffriends have and i feel left out. I have discharge. I have for a while now. I wear a real bra, 34A/36A. I have hair down there and under my armpits. i get pimples somestiomes and have b.o.. When do you think i'll be getting my period?

 

hey girl! You should get it soon but ask a doctor for more info.

Eryn G.

maelcl1344 on 1/24/2010 8:24:12 PM

When I get older, I will be stonger.

spacekitty on 1/22/2010 8:51:30 PM

hey arrowclaw your not the only one! it feels like wetting your pants i have the same prob! is it discharge if it is then i have had it for a while

Ladybug863 on 1/21/2010 10:46:08 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!
ok so i have had discharge for at least 2 years. i am still wearing a training bra and i am 14!! isnt this a little abnormal. i also have pubic hair but none under my arm pits. i have had a little more B.O. no carmps or anything. do u think i am gonna get my period or breast soon. please help!
Thanks!

 



Hey girl, check out this page and see if it helps:

http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx


Sammy d.

letsdance111 on 1/21/2010 4:49:52 PM

What does mod mean?




Hey girl, a mod is a moderator. We answer all your Qs on GL! Just put MOD at the top of your post with the question and we'll look at 'em.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

GilmoreAddict on 1/20/2010 9:32:23 PM

MOD MOD okay so i turned 13 in september and i dont have my period. its been a few months and all my other friends have there period. my mom said that she got hers when she was 14 or 15. i've had discharge for 18 monthes and my boobs are tender and hurt to the touch. i have a few zits. and cramps all the time! i feel left out because everyone else has there period! when will it happen. help me.plz

 

Hey girl! Every chick is different so it's hard to say when you'll get your period. Sounds like you have all the signs but it could still be a while. Keep track of what's going on with your bod and I bet you'll get it soon!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

skijumper4life on 1/17/2010 8:55:06 PM

1. Do you have your period? no
2. How old when you got it? dont have it but im 13
3. What was your bra size when you got it? I didnt get it, but my bra size is 32A
4. Pads or tampons? when i get it..tampons
5. Brand of pads/tampons? idk yet
6. If you dont have it do you want it?
to be completly honest..yes. i know that apparently its a pain but i cant help but want to feel like a woman.
7. Bra size now? 32A
8. First period story? no period yet

skijumper4life on 1/17/2010 8:05:53 PM

okay so i turned 13 in september and i dont have my period. its been a few months and all my other friends have there period. my mom said that she got hers when she was 14 or 15. my sister got hers when she was 12 or something. i have discharge but its not too thick but my boobs are tender and hurt to the touch. i have a few zits. i feel left out because everyone else has there period! when will it happen. help me.

katiesil*xoxo on 1/15/2010 9:43:29 AM

I have this body book and it says that I should have gotten my period by now but I haven't! The girls my age in my class have all gotten it but I haven't! Why not???? Frown

Madie04031999 on 1/14/2010 7:41:33 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD im really confused about my period. i dont understand when u get it or anything really. can u kind of explain it 2 me???!? thx sooo mcuh Smile

 

Hey chica, periods help your bod release dead waste from your system. During a period, you bleed from your vagina and it lasts three to seven days. Head to our Period Page to learn more about periods. There's a lot of info on there! Smile

Lynae P.

CutieWithGlasses on 1/13/2010 6:07:16 PM

mod! mod! mod! mod! ok so im 12. i got my period last june. i want to start that birth control that olny lets u have ur period 3 times a year. im definatly not having sex! but i owuld love to olny have 3 periods a year. is it safe for me to start birth control so young? if not wats the youngest agfe i can start it? and how would i ask my mom? hel please Smile

 

Hey missy, birth control is the wrong way to go. Birth control prevents you from having sex, not getting your period. It also has side effects like nausea, headaches, moodswings and breast tenderness. All that's not worth getting only three periods. Ditch birth control girly! Smile

Lynae P.

madona on 1/10/2010 1:59:25 PM

1. Do you have your period? yeah!
2. How old when you got it? 12
3. What was your bra size when you got it? 34/36A
4. Pads or tampons? pads
5. Brand of pads/tampons? i think its always
6. If you dont have it do you want it? well i hav it, dnt get much say about it.
7. Bra size now? 34/36A
8. First period story? i got it a few days ago on when i slept over my besties house on a snow day.

GreenEyedBeauty12 on 1/10/2010 10:10:49 AM

mod mod mod mod mod mod i was wondering how many months does a girl have discharge until she get her first period? i have had discharge for 9 months now and all the signs of starting my period. thank you!!

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mileycalyx on 1/9/2010 9:20:57 PM

MOD MOD MOD!
im about 6 months older than my mom was when she got hers and i have all the signs (breasts, growth spurt, ect.) except for pit hair but my ma didnt either. when will i get my period?

 

 

Hey doll!  Every girl is different so there's no real way to know when you'll get your period.  But it sounds like you'll be getting it very soon!








Tyler J.

beaniebaby10 on 1/7/2010 2:15:15 AM

*****MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD******** lately i've been getting cramps(i think thats what it is), and i've had discharge for awhile, but lately its been really mucous-y like. i've heard that that means i'll get my period soon, but i'm not sure. help!

 

Hey girlfriend, sounds normal to me. Your period could be on its way so get prepared by heading to our period page and reading all about periods and discharge. Grab some pads and tampons just in case! Smile

Lynae P.

jonasgurll232 on 1/6/2010 5:35:37 PM

mod mod mod mod
i've been having really bad back pain...but it comes and goes and i heard that back pain is usually a sign of getting your period... which i havent yet. i dont really have amy other signs of my period and im almost 13 and my mom and my grandma both got their periods early. is this normal? thnx

 

 

Hey babes, I have never had back pain in the twelve years that i have had my period. Those are possible side affects but it doesnt mean that youre definitely getting your period. It is a matter of genetics as well as hormons in food, and your diet and your weight and all sorts of biological components that contribute to your maturity. Be patient. xo JANA

jana k.

paramore21497 on 1/5/2010 11:39:43 PM

MOd! Mod!
I am 13 1/2 I have had discharge for about a year and a half i have hair down there and everywhere. I sometimes have breast tendernesss. my mom got her period aroun when she was 14 and 15
does that mean I am getting my period soon?
I aam really scared to tell my mom if yes
pliss answer as quickly as you can thanks Smile

There's no way to know exactly when you will get it, but those signs are often linked to PMS, so it's a good chance you could be getting it in the next month or so! 


Hey girl, check out this
page and see if it helps:


http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx


 


We have everything you need
to know about all things period!
, Your Blog
Patrol Babes



Megan R.

PMDND on 1/5/2010 7:42:32 PM

Hey girl! For sure. You're def developing and growing. Those are great signs of maturity but it will prob be a few more months or years before your period comes along!

-Taeler

 

Taeler L.

beaniebaby10 on 1/4/2010 12:12:16 AM

Hellloorr i got my first period before new years eve LMAO and im still on...
how long does your first 1 last for ?

1. Do you have your period? Yes
2. How old when you got it? I just turned 13
3. What was your bra size when you got it? 28a
4. Pads or tampons? pads
5. Brand of pads/tampons? always
6. If you dont have it do you want it? i HAVE it
7. Bra size now? 28a i only got it 4 days ago.
8. First period story? It was snowing. And it was freezing and i know i wanted a bath and it was kinda there...thats basically it LMAO

charliexoxo on 1/3/2010 10:14:08 PM

well i have gotton my period like 4 days ago wat should i do i havent told my mom yet because i dnt no how to fraze it how should i go up to her and tell her that my period is on somebody plz tell me how yall went up to your mother well the good news is i have alot of pantie liner i had them since last year when i was 11 in the sixth grade now in 12 in the seventh grade and im afraid to tell my mom plz some one help me i need it the most help plz

tasiabooh on 1/3/2010 8:03:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD WHAT COLORS IS THE PERIOD??? I THOUGHT I GOT IT BUT IT WAS ONLY THE TINIST BIT OF BLOOD AND I HAVNT SEEN IT AGAIN P.S.THAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT

 

Hey missy, periods are red, usually a darker red. Your period might be on its way, that could explain the blood. Just in case it is coming, get prepared with some pads and by heading to our Period Page 9http://www.girlslife.com/hub/periods-period.aspx) to learn all about menustration. Smile

Lynae P.

bluesea98 on 1/3/2010 2:51:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD sometimes my nipple on my breast has little bumps but they are useully soft and smooth, i know it sounds weird but are these goosebumpps? If not what is it? THX XOXO BLUESEA98

 

Hey chicky, no they aren't goosebumps. Goosebumps are usually harder and only pop up in certain situations. Sometimes when you see something that freaks you out or when you get cold. Those bumps are just apart of your breast, so no worries, you're fine. Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

bluesea98 on 1/3/2010 2:46:42 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!! I have breast tendernesss,(right now actually) breast growth, discharge for about a year, pubic hair since I was about 10 or 11(im 12)i have stomache aches, cramps in my tummy and back, and im my legs, iv been irritated alot latly. Do you think Ill be getting my period soon? And if so, can you plz give me an estimate? I really need a guess time period. like 3 months or 6 months or something like that! plz answer soon!!!!!! 18girlsalie

 

Hey babes, I can't estimate that. It is diffrent for everyone and some people have symptoms they THINK are period symptoms but aren't. I have a friend who didn't get hers until she was in college. xo JANA

jana k.

18girlsalie on 1/2/2010 10:15:06 AM

Are there any signs of getting your period? How do I tell my mom and dada I need a bra? What happens if I am at my dads house if I get my period? Please Help! Thanks!

puppieszigzag on 12/30/2009 1:34:12 AM

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cloqueen on 12/26/2009 8:38:55 PM

MOD
I'm 14, and I heard that some girls shave *down there* but i haven't had my period yet, and i don't know if i have to shave or want to.




Hey girl! Its up to you, you can decide because it is your body. 
Eryn G.

ConverseCutie/AlexaT on 12/24/2009 2:13:26 AM

MODMODMOD! I'm 11. and i have dishcharge, hair down there, and lately i've been having REALLY bad cramps and cravings (but i don't know if the cravings are just be cause i love sweets)... will i get my period soon?

 

 

Hey girlie,

 

It sounds like your period is coming soon!

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

applebabey on 12/18/2009 9:53:56 AM

Thanks Megan. =P It helps a little, but I want to know what it looks like. I said 'what is it', but scratch that--typo. Sorry if I sound rude! I just want to know when I'll get it, so I'll be prepared. Smile




Hey! No worries.  It looks like a dark spot in your underwear when you get your period.  It could be brownish/red.   
Megan R.

arrowclaw on 12/15/2009 8:44:14 PM

PS: I've had hair since...well, I started having light hair in 4th-5th grade, but it stayed the same since the summer of 5th. I'm in 7th now. I remember having breats in 4th grade, and I crashed onto my bed, but my breasts hurt, so I felt them, felt a lump, and thought it was cancer!

arrowclaw on 12/15/2009 8:40:24 PM

Heheh, this may sound really stupid, but what is discharge? I /think/ I might have it, but idk! I'm 12, turning 13 in May, and I have had this pee-ish type stuff, but idk if it's pee! It's yellowish, sometimes whitish, and sometimes a little wet, but I can feel it come out, and I'm not sure whether I'm wetting my pants a little or if it's discharge! It happens a lot, sometimes I feel it more than other times, and when I check myself in the bathroom, it's either a dark stain against opaque panties, or a clear-ish, wettish smear against white. This has been happening for...hm, I'd say 6-10months, but I'm unsure. Smile Also, I sometimes see a brownish smear, but I'm also unsure if that's poo! (again, a stupid question) I feel like the only one who has no clue what discharge looks like! My friend, who got it yesterday, says her period looked like a bloody nose... (sorry for the longness!)




Hey babe for all your period Q's , check out this site:









Hope it helps! 
Megan R.

arrowclaw on 12/15/2009 8:38:03 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am 12 years old. i have had hair down there for about 2 years same for my breasts. I have oly had discharge for about a year or so. i dont know when i will start PLEASE HELP





Hey girl, check out this
page and see if it helps:


http://www.girlslife.com/hub/bod-squad.aspx



 
Megan R.

dolphinlover22 on 12/15/2009 7:16:58 PM



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