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BY JIAE K. ON 5/6/2009 10:44:00 AM 219 COMMENTS
I guess we can blame it on the hormones but STD's are real and can happen if we are having sex. So many of the shows we watch just go over the fun part about sex and it being exciting and feeling good but they almost ever go over the STD and the getting pregnant part. So just because we are attracted to a guy doesnt mean we have to sleep with them. But I know thats why a lot of the people do it and why 1 out of 4 of us teen girls has a STD.
luckykel on 3/10/2010 4:41:05 PM
My parents (and I) are Christian, so, of course, the speeches I get are always abstinence until marriage. I do believe that that's the right way to go.....but I know i'm not going to wait that long (i don't want to get married really young) my mom is okay with it as long as i have safe sex but my dad won't hear about it. He doesn't even like one of my friends cuz she has a boyfriend and he doesn't believe any girl should be dating in high school (like really?). I wish I could actually be close to him but there's so much between us....
lavendermitsukai on 3/7/2010 2:57:37 PM
I personally believe that you should wait until your married before you have sex. It should be a special thing you share with your husband, but hormones make it hard for girls AND guys when they think they are in love. Still, it's not impossible to wait. And if you think I am just some stupid girl who doesn't know what she is talking about, you're wrong. My mother got pregnant when she was 17 with my older sister and the guy didn't want to help (and he died of cancer). You think you'll just have sex and nothing will happen, but even if you don't get pregnant, you can also get diseases. But in the end, It's your choice whether you want to take that chance or not! Have a beautiful day!
Cginm96 on 3/2/2010 7:23:49 PM
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twilightgrl22 on 2/27/2010 10:12:51 AM
i think it is wrong, but i dont look down on girls who are pregnant at our age!
coolgirl998756 on 2/16/2010 11:45:02 AM
I dont want to get pregnate till im married or before im married i dont want to do it when im like in middle school or when im in high school!
Bell1997 on 2/10/2010 10:21:22 PM
whenever i c a baby i always think that it would be fun to have my OWN baby cause i love kids but i would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER get pregnant before i was like 20!
28PuppyPaws on 1/28/2010 1:26:28 PM
We all need to be more educated about pregnancy and using protection. We get shocked when someone we know gets pregnant at 14, I know a few, but after you learn they started having sex at 12 or 13 we do nothing to try and help other friends who are going through that or who are starting to do the same thing. And its more girls than we think because some of my friends dont even want to admit to what they are doing or when they started. Its just sad because we have our whole life in front of us and some of us ruin it because we get addicted to having sex or because we want to be with a guy. That is why I like TheNationalCampaign.org site and StayTeen.org and why its a good idea to mention them on tv at the end of the Secret Life.
luckykel on 1/16/2010 11:57:26 AM
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PeaceLoveDisneyWorld123 on 12/22/2009 3:54:53 PM
i am 12 and dont plan on having sex ANY time soon. i think you should wait for sex until you are responsible enough to take necessary precautions (condoms and birth control). and just because a bed is right there, and your boyfriend says he loves you, doesnt mean you have to. you should wait for the right guy and the right time. many girls give themselves up right away and are happy, until their bf breaks up with them and there is a huge hole in their lives. they try to fill that hole with more and more sex, which could ultimately lead to severe emotional disorders. if you are thinking about having sex are already are, take a step back and ask yourself why. do you want to have sex just because everyone else is, and they say its fun? or do you REALLY love your boyfriend and wan to have that special connection with him? make sure that youre in it for the right reasons before making a decision. ive seen girls on tv who used to be addicted to sex, but then realized that what they were doing was unhealthy. then they decided to become born-again-virgins. although they are not physically virgins, they decided to put their pasts behind them and be emotional virgins.
strawberrysmiles on 12/20/2009 1:11:35 PM
dogyocatyo, first off, its so NOT lol when a chick gets drunk or pregant. were YOU drunk when you wrote that ? and second of all, every one has an opinion so dont be tellin other people to "shut ther mouths if they no wats good for them"
Pinkdramaqueen<3 on 12/3/2009 10:09:30 PM
like omg this girl in my homeroom she got drunk on thursday lol haha we r in the 6th grade and she is one of my bff but im not stupid like her hmmmm and last year in 5th grade this rummr was that this one girl got pregggy lol lol i still thiink it was true she was cubby and was out for like 3 weeks yeah so idk i still thinks its true lol lol lol
Dogyocatyo on 11/23/2009 4:39:20 PM
talorswiftchick youd better shut your mouth if u know whats good for ya
Dogyocatyo on 11/23/2009 4:34:25 PM
ive already made the chocie to ADOPT when im older!cuz i got dreams!im goin for my masters in collage and im gonna get a really god job! i have big dreams and that doesnt invole(or however you spell it lola hubby or BF truthly id rather be ALONE BF r just a pain in the butt like im in 6th grade and like all the 'POUPULERS' have BF and GF lol lol lol lol
Dogyocatyo on 11/23/2009 4:24:34 PM
popcorn159 on 11/20/2009 5:07:24 PM
this scares me thinking that this could actually happen to me. just looking at all these other girls i hear about getting pregnant is freaky. I'm a Christian and i don't believe in having sex before marriage is ok but what if ur forced to like what if ur rapped? then what? does it count as losing ur virginity or what?
angel365 on 11/11/2009 5:44:53 PM
i often think i would love to have a baby but i no im 2 young so i def dont want 2 now!!! but anyway the thing i would misss the most if i ever became prego would b my sleep ugh i hate waking up in the middle of the night!!!!!!
waspl on 11/8/2009 1:26:57 AM
I WILL NEVA GET PREGNANT TILL IM MARRIED...WE r learning bout these things in science!!!!!!!!!!!EWW!!
PuppyLover290 on 11/6/2009 9:06:18 PM
Teen pregnancy is awful! Think about your life! All your dreams (going to college, having a real career, etc)would go down the drain! Don't be pressured into something you don't want to do, especially if it will ruin your life! Think about what you do before you do it! Spread the word!! Love, Labluver1996
Labluver1996 on 11/1/2009 7:57:23 PM
Hey guys, I think it's fine to have sex if you're an adult and you what you're doing, and you know you're respnsible enough to handle an unexpected pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease, but if you're younger then 18, I'd really think things through. -H-
CountryCutie4 on 10/23/2009 5:56:44 PM
Hey guys,
CountryCutie4 on 10/23/2009 5:51:03 PM
And honestly, to all these people saying they won't have sex until their married and all this about how they think it's disgusting, that's really unfair, I think, at least. Once you're older, I have a feeling you'll have quite a different perspective, and just because you're religious doesn't mean you have a Teen-Pregnancy shield up around you.
exuberant_emily on 10/19/2009 4:43:37 AM
To be honest, I would abort. Adoption would be too hard, and I wouldn't want to raise the kid because they wouldn't have as full a life as possible, and neither would I. Why do that to your child and yourself?
exuberant_emily on 10/19/2009 4:41:47 AM
hmm... this is interesting
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*Twifan.Vball.Chic* on 8/29/2009 3:07:38 PM
i am so against teen pregnancy. its wrong. thats all there is to it.
Pinkdramaqueen<3 on 8/28/2009 9:24:31 PM
Teen Pregnancy IS bad. I know a lot because my cousin had her first baby when she was 15!! It was horrible because she had to get a job, and take care of her son while dealing with school work. Worst of all? The "father" didn't want anything to do with it. I felt so bad because her life was falling apart. sadness.
RachelWazHere on 8/19/2009 1:07:43 PM
i think sex should not happen until marrige!!! even if a guy is like sex is so nice and u need to do it u shouldn't!!! i will have sex when i am good and ready!!! sex is wrong unless u r married Jeannie L.
Chicky baby on 8/16/2009 8:16:01 PM
I deffeniatly won't have sex until I am married. What's the poing besides getting in trouble and having something that bothers you your whole life?
beautybabe11 on 8/15/2009 8:14:51 AM
red_orange_yellow_green_blue on 8/11/2009 10:34:23 PM
Teen Pregnancy is a bad thing of course. Girls should know how to handle a bed and a guy!!! But it isn't like they know it's gonna happen!!
3hugskisses on 8/10/2009 5:52:14 PM
I dont think people should get an obortion because even tho you made a mistake its really a blessing in descise because even tho you might not be ready for the responsibilty of a babby there are tons of good loveing careing coupls who would love to have the babby so it is a blessing so think about all of those people who would love your babby and give it a good life instead of killing ot befor it even has a chance
lakenluvspandas on 8/10/2009 9:45:50 AM
My cuz got pregnant and i think she kept her babby for all the wrong reasons her BF (the father) was gonna break up with her and she pretty much just kept it so hed stay with her the babby dosent even live with her and she only sees it once or twice a week because her mom takes care of it im not saying that you shouldnt keep your babby but at least take care of it and dont keep it for all the wrong reasons like my cusin
lakenluvspandas on 8/10/2009 9:42:05 AM
I agree with Ammiegirl13.
Softball_chick on 8/10/2009 2:44:55 AM
I am Catholic, I attended a Catholic school and graduated. I will be attending a public high school, and I am sooo nervous about being faced with 'reality' and the slutty world. Not that all public school kids are sluts and not virgins, but I know a HECK of a lot who wear just about nothing to school (like, almost a tankini amount of clothes! GROSS!!!). I also heard from my Religion teach that his daughter (he has a few daughters, but this was the oldest) came home from school, and told him that a teacher had a 'condom tree' and was handing out condoms and telling them to 'be safe'. But really, condoms don't work, and they don't protect you from HPV, which is a serious STD, and besides, condom or no condom, your rents will almost inevitably find out AND it's still sex. No sex is safe!!! And about abortion. Well, that's another story. I totally disagree with abortion no matter what. Rape or no rape. God had you raped for a reason. Maybe your child will be the 2nd coming of Christ or whatever, but don't kill it!!!!!! Wow. I need a shrink!!! Or someone to talk to!!! -Divegirl
Divegirl on 8/7/2009 7:21:31 PM
ill never get pregnant till im married
dolcecupcakes on 8/5/2009 10:52:49 PM
one time i was playing at her house and she ask me to have sex with her. i screamed no and ran away. later i told her that wanting ir having sex with somebody b4 your married is a sin and you cood go to hell. she didnt care cuz she is not christian im christian and i am only having sex with mr right. and guess what she is only 8!!! and im 10. and i cant believe she wanted to do it with me shes a girl and im a girl im only having sex when im married with MR right
dolcecupcakes on 8/5/2009 10:51:04 PM
hmmm abortion would be my choice, giving your own child for adoption would probably be emotionally harder than taking care of it your own self. and boys are disgusting and who in their right minds would want to give up themselves for something that special? i mean really?
silverflash on 8/3/2009 3:17:25 PM
elephant_baby77 on 8/1/2009 6:26:39 PM
brittybab on 7/31/2009 12:55:40 AM
this shouldent happen
xoerlaxo on 7/28/2009 7:59:21 AM
i thought it would never happen to my family but little did i know that last summer my sister got pregnant. i knew she couldnt have an abortion because of all the complications that go with it and that she would be killing a baby because she didnt want it so that couldnt happen. then adoption wouldnt work cause she didnt want to never be able to have a child again and in 10 years wonder what ever happened to your baby. so she just kept it and graduated early thank goodness and is still starting college in the fall as well as the dad!!!
peanutslush on 7/20/2009 11:45:58 PM
Sensu, In health class our teacher told us how bad the US was when it came to teen pregnancies and teen stds compared to other countries. I have read online where other countries do teach sex education much younger and go over sex, birth control and why we want to have sex. I do know that some schools go over a lot of good things and some dont because I have friends who went over how to use condoms in class and some who never even talked about them in class. Like this talk I had with my mom about sex, she wanted to know I was informed and I think the more you know about it, the more you might not want to be doing it until you are older.
luckykel on 7/11/2009 7:29:28 PM
icecreamfriday103 on 7/3/2009 8:05:28 PM
i think teen pregnencies are wrong...and teens dont want babies...soo a light bulb should click on not to have sex...i am a Christian and i think sex before marrage is wrong...and they have risks...STDs and of course getting pregnent...but also aborition is wrong...it is murder...and i think if someone makes a decision to have sex before marrage then they should have to live with the conciquences
alli*heart on 7/3/2009 6:04:14 PM
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