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I love, I mean, love this boy, but how can I tell if he likes me?

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there is this guy that i really like & he has a girlfriend .he said we're only friends but it seems like he likes me more than a friend what should i do.
ps:how do u get a guy??

sabrinadel on 11/17/2009 6:21:30 PM

hey. so im really into this guy named cole.
he's on my brothers football team and hes only one year younger than i.
so this is the scoop..
so i get his number.. we totally hit it off.
and the next day we tell each other we like each other.. the week after that he asks me to go to a haunted house with him and some friends.. so i go and he makes moves on me.. he says things like" im going with kenndi through the house" (kenndi is my name haha) and just stuff like he wants to be with me. then he like wants to hug me a lot and everything. then he had his arm around me. he grabbed my hand and everything.. then the next day he didnt text me or anything. and throughout the week i went over to football practice to watch my brother.. and of course to see cole.. i noticed he was wearing the bracelet to get into the haunted house still and everything. so i kept mine on until he took his off. so i thought i would try and just not text him or anything for like a week. the next week the team decides to go to another haunted house.. so i invite cole because i like him. we go.. he dosesnt make a move on me. he said a few flirtacious things.. but not really.. we go through the haunted house and hes kinda flirting with another girl..[before we were waiting our turn to go in the haunted room:we had to go in 2's: he asked if it would be ok if he went with another girl, and not me

] and i got all sad.. and i guessed he noticed i was. so he talked to my brother since he happened to be there. and said" is your sister mad at me" and my brother said " well kinda cuz you flirting with a girl like right in front of her when you know she likes you a lot.. its kinda messed up dude" and he didnt really say anything back.. later we get done with the haunted house and he comes and talks to me and asks me why im mad at him. and all this stuff. i explained to him and all. and we were cool the rest the night.. but when we were talking he noticed i had my bracelet on from the first haunted house on still and hes like " you still have that on, i threw mine away because i thought you were mad at me" so.. basicly hes saying he kept it on cuz of me. i think.. haha and he also mentioned how i didnt text him for a while he said it like this " well,you didnt text me for like a week" and i said " haha dude,cuz i was waiting for you to text me." .. so he noticed i didnt text him,he kept his bracelet on because of me, he held my hand,he put his arm around me, he kept saying he'd pay for me with stuff,he asked me to a haunted house.. and yeahh.. now i have no idea what he is thinking.. and i dont know if he likes me or not.. im gettin kinda depressed ..
help.
sorry this is long.. i just am desperate!

Hey girl, you need to move on from this guy. If HE likes you, then let him come to you. Instead, realize that your brother's got your back and you should take his advice and see that Cole just isn't being nice. You hadfun together but it seems that he's not big on long-term. Keep an eye out for another cute the next time you're at the haunted house. Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

kendolyn on 10/11/2009 2:16:44 AM

hi there is this boy at school that i like but i dont now if he likes me or not.

p.s. if he dose not like me can u tell me how to get a guy.

There is no one way to just "get a guy". It's all about being yourself and hitting it off with a guy who you have stuff in common with. Be confident, outgoing,happy, and true to yourself! They'll be fallin for you!

Megan R.

magicalmadi on 9/19/2009 10:41:40 AM

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Ok so I REALLY like this guy, Adam, but i just turned 13 and he's about to turn 16, and i'm going into 8th grade and he's going into 10th plus my brother is going into 10th grade too...so i'm in cross country and 7-12 all practice together but i would anyways cus i'm running varsity (YAY!)...so practice started on monday and i've seen him there but we haven't talked like at all...it's kind of weird cus like we've been texting eachother alot for the past couple of weeks and its been kinda nice....but whenever we text i'm always the one to start the conversation and sometimes he just answers with "ok" and so one day i asked him why he just says that and he said cus he didn't know what else to say...but like when we first started texting eachother i told him he really didn't know me and then started to tell him random facts about myself and he really didn't seem to mind....and it's really fun talking to him most of the time but i really don't know if he likes me....what in the world should i do?

Hey girl, if you wanna find out if this dude likes you, try spending some time with him in person. If you hang out together, you'll be able to feel out his vibes and see if he's crushing on you as much as you're crushing on him. If he doesn't seem to like you... no worries, babe. There are sooo many guys out there!

xox Alexa

alexa e.

ally28granite on 8/19/2009 7:06:15 PM

OMG there is this super cute guy that i really like i really need to know how to get his attention btw my crush sits next to me i homeroom omg this will give me a chance to get to know him better

star53 on 8/12/2009 12:59:50 PM

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I really like this guy, but he doesn't act flustered or anything around me. He does watch me sometimes, and ALWAYS makes me laugh. Uncontrollably! He also looks me in the eye, too. What does this mean?? It's so confusing!

furuba97 on 8/11/2009 3:13:12 PM

MOD MOD MOD I'm afraid to go back to school. The reason why is because of report cards. If I get a B+ i get yelled at by my parents. This year I got a B in math and because of that my mom got me a TUTOR. BECAUSE I GOT A B!!!!! Any other parent would congrat their kids for a B. My parents tell me that I should feel lucky that they push me. I mean, I love that they care about my grades but their pushing way too hard. And whenever I try to talk to them about it they lecture me. Now I hate school. I used to love it. How can I tell them to back off without getting yelled at? Please help me.

Hey Girl, anyway you can get a school councelor to step in and help? Because you need to talk to them and let them know how you feel girl so your not so stressed. *Cara T*

Cara T.

enagirl on 7/1/2009 10:25:58 PM

Does anyone have an advice page i cant find one.....

lilxhammer13 on 7/1/2009 9:15:19 AM

tell him how you feel about him and see what he says.how he responds, what you do after that is up to you.if hes a jerk get rid of him,if he apologizes and such wait and see if he continues dating these girls.let me know if everything works out :]

chyzybryzy on 6/29/2009 9:50:41 PM

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there is this guy and hes kinda out of my leage. but i think he might like me because he always listens to what i say and laughs when i say somehting funny. but other times hes rude and obnoxious. does he like me?

Hey babe,

Who says he's out of your league? If you think he might like you, don't be afraid to make a movie. If he's rude to you though, maybe you don't want to waste your time. That's usually a good sign that a guy is either mean or just immature.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

madicadaby on 6/26/2009 8:19:20 PM

YOU SHOULD SOOOOO ASK HIM OUT CHANCES ARE IF HE IS ASKING YOU RANDOM QUESTION THEN HES TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO TALK TO YOU DUHHHHHHHHHH BUT SERIOSLY GO FOR GIRLIE

cutie23 on 6/26/2009 11:50:14 AM

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ladybug101 on 6/23/2009 5:35:18 PM

modmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmodmod*** ok. so I like this guy who is in my homeroom plus my pre-algebra, science, world studies, english, and gym class. We also have the same lunch period. So really I only have one class without him, but thats beside the point. What is the point is that my World Sudies and English class is combined so it is taught in a double period slot by the same teacher. This guy I like (let's call him Alex) sits across from me in this class. So my desk is facing his (our teacher is this weird hippie and doesn't believe in rows) and during class I'll just start staring at him whenever I start to get bored (what girl doesn't do this??) and I'll see him staring at me. So we will just sit there for a few seconds staring at eachother and then I'll look away. Then this will repeat. Also, sometimes he waits for me after class and after we put all our books away in our lockers. His locker is only a few over from mine. So I was just dying to know if he liked me or not so I employed my bestie to ask him who he liked. Well she took this the wrong way and twisted my words a bit and their convo ended up like this: My bestie(Kate): who do you like? Alex:why should I tell you? KateLaughingo you like anyone in our homeroom(she is also in my homeroom) alex:why should i tell you? kate: do you like jane(not me another girl in homeroom) alex: why should i tell you? kate:do you like samantha(me but not my real name) alexFrownpauses) uhhhh...no i guess. But I was not there for this convo I just received a detailed description of it via text message. I beleive alex was lying to Kate because he still stares at me and jokes with me and tries to make me laugh. Also, i don't have any trouble talking around him. I have another friend ( Lizzy) who is at home sick with pneumonia and has been since Tuesday(since no one had school on monday) and they are like bgf's. So Lizzy said she will give me his number as soon as she gets over from her pneumonia but now my other friend thinks I am being a coward for not asking him myself. the friend who thinks I am a coward ( Haley) just moved here from California ( I'm in Virginia btw) and she still doesn't understand that in my school if a girl makes the first move it gets you a really bad rep. Plus I get really nervous when I ask guys stuff that might reveale that I like them. So my question to you is, how do you think I should tell him I like him, without ruining my rep, or should I tell him at all?? Haley thinks I should but she has a very LA way of thinking...

I think Alex was lying to Kate too. I believe he is such good friends with you that he is scared to admit he has a crush on you as well. Well, not too hard to believe since you are doing the same exact thing! Time to make some moves and get to know Alex outside of school. Why not ask him to a see a movie or play a friendly game of frisbee? Hope it goes well!

Brooke E.

yola purple princess on 6/22/2009 6:16:16 AM

some1 likes you and don't get freaked. i know a friend of mine told this guy she liked him and he said he liked her 2 but they got to close to fast and it didn't work!

perrygirl01 on 6/20/2009 11:59:47 PM

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My bff needs help! ok so my bff constantly is telling me that she LOVES this one particular guy. They are like best friends but she says she wants to be more than that. They skate together a lot and hang out. She asked him out once but he said no thanks. IDK how to help her cause she is drooling over a guy who doesn't like her!

Hey babe! You could try talking to your friend about it, but it sounds like she's pretty stuck on this guy and nothing you will say will change that. I know it's tough seeing your friend struggling with this guy, but I have a feeling that she thinks she can change his mind and make him like her. For now, I know it's tough, but let your friend figure things out on her own with this guy.

<3 katy

Katy J.

pinkster526 on 6/20/2009 11:58:02 AM

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PLEASE HELP ME! my bf and i have been going out for about 8 months now and he's been saying stuff with the word love in it and he'll say please e-mail back i can't stand not hearing from you! does he love me or am i just over reacting? please help.

~randomlycrazy!

Hey babes, Hmm sounds like he has some pretty strong feelings, if you feel the same then just keep going and eventually you'll say the same. If its a little too much then let him know things are moving too fast, you like him a lot but you want to slow down a little. XOLori

lori S.

randomlycrazy! on 6/20/2009 12:08:10 AM

evryonesbff...i would find a new guy who really likes you. he sounds cheesey

swimmerxox on 6/19/2009 7:27:53 AM

HAh i saw some1 say lucky in love. ya its the best feeling in the world but wen ur in 9th grade it absolutly SUCKS... i love my boyfriend.

swimmerxox on 6/19/2009 7:18:50 AM

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theres this boy that always spys on me and sometimes makes fun of me sometimes..and always asks where is your sister where is ur brother? when we are alone..do u think he likes me?

Hey babes, Sounds like he's flirting a little, if you like him flirt back. XO LOri

lori S.

avr4407 on 6/13/2009 10:53:31 PM

Hey girl!!
I know how you feel. Theres this guy who acts like he likes me sometimes but other times he doesnt. Maybe you could just straight up ask him if he likes you. That would be kinda embarrasing though. To me it sounds like he likes you

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ladybug101 on 6/11/2009 10:03:22 PM

ladybug101 on 6/11/2009 10:00:01 PM

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i live in canada but my dad got a job promotion so now my family's moving to Manhattan NYC im really sad that im going to leave and im scared too. how am i gonna make freinds?

Hey girl, take it from someone who went to 4 different elementary schools, middle school for only a year and a half, and a high school in a new country: You'll be fine! Just be yourself and if you're open to everyone, they'll want to meet you. If someone introduces him/herself to you, say hi back and continue the conversation. There is nothing you should be afraid of! Just have a positive outlook! <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

Bill Kaulitz_luver on 6/11/2009 4:52:49 PM

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I need help. I've been going out with this guy for almost eight months now, and I REALLY like him. But I think he likes this girl because he's always by her and he talks to her almost more than me. I'm getting really nervous and I don't know what to do. We've already broken up twice now (I've dumped him both times). So if I dump him again, I don't think he's gonna go back out with me. I REALLY like him though!
P.S. Sadly...I kinda sorta like my BGF. I dunno...I've kinda liked him for a while now but it's nothing serious.
Sincerely,
Dancechica453

Hey girl, if you want this relationship to work out, you cannot dump your boyfriend. The more you break up with him, the weaker your relationship is going to get. Next, you have to make the effort to be with him more than he's with the girl. You don't want to look desperate, but you do want to let him know that you're committed to him and he should be too. Speaking of your committment, if you really like your BF and you want to stay with him, you have to get your interest in your BGF totally out of your system. Even if it's nothing serious, showing an interest in another guy generally is not a good sign. <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

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Club Guy Advice and Anything Else on 6/11/2009 1:53:38 PM

ummmm.....my bf told me he loved me and we've only been going out for like a week. i find it weird!!! im 13!!

hottiebrat on 6/10/2009 11:01:26 PM

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Can you give me suggestions on how to ask him? I want to ask him, but I dont know how to do it.. I also dont want to ruin out relationship, because, well, I like him alot. I dont know how he'll handle it if I confront him, because he said yes to her when she asked him. (Thanks!!

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Hey Girl, maybe try hanging out with him one on one more and see what kind of vibe your getting from him, or ask him if he is into anyone right now. *Cara T*

Cara T.

MonsterrCookies on 6/10/2009 10:19:54 PM

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I have a dilemma. I have this guy friend, who when he was single, took me out to dinner at the mall. Then an eighth grader asked him out over break when I was out of town. I think he flirts with me but I'm not sure. He'll make a joke and look at me to see if I think it's funny, or just try to catch my eye. He'll compliment me by saying, "Hey, your hair looks nice that way", ect. I'm so confused. Does he or doesn't he like me? Maybe he's like me and doesn't know he's flirting, but I dont know. HELP! (sorry this is long =p)

Hey Girl, it sounds like he is into you but guys are hard to read sometimes, I would def try talking to him about it. *Cara T*

Cara T.

MonsterrCookies on 6/10/2009 10:00:25 PM

a guy asked me out and said he really liked me so i said yes...but now (three weeks later) he doesnt seem interested at all i mean he wont hug me (i have to hug him) he wont kiss me(not even a peck)
i dont know im not getting any action what should i do??

keygirllmao on 6/10/2009 9:00:46 PM

girl if u need help contact me sometime

kittylover2009-2030 on 6/10/2009 8:50:07 PM

That last part is really important to keep in mind!

GymnastDancer on 6/10/2009 7:20:15 PM

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There is this guy who liked me before and my BGF (who is also his friend) says he still likes me. One person said he would ask me out and then another person asked if he did or not and said they have been telling him to. But he hasn't. Help? He said he liked me a long time ago and asked if I and I said maybe. Well my friend told him I did! Help?

Hey girl, unless you're willing to take the initiative to ask him out, there is nothing I can do to help. It's up the guy when he wants to ask you out. Just give it some time. If he really asks you, he will! <3 Jeannie

Jeannie L.

blueowl455 on 6/10/2009 5:59:36 PM

ask himif u 2can talk and then ask if he likes u

musicluvr13 on 6/10/2009 5:38:40 PM

hey chicas. That is great advice because when i though a boy liked me I was kind of standoffish cause i didnt like him more than a friend, but when i got to know him better i relized that he was like that with every girl.

prettyperson12 on 6/10/2009 5:27:50 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEEZE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im really sad cuz theres this guy that i am crazy about and i totally like him. hes in my group (for this summer program) along with this other blondie in my group. we decided to start pelting him with soft squishy balls and when we did he sarted playing and he pelted the blondie with balls and didn't even pay any attention to me (and he knew i was there!) how can i get him to talk to me and pay attention to me!?!?!?!?!?!? im like really depressed (I W!!!!!!!!!! THANKS SOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!! (\_/) (='.'=) (")(")

Why not strike up a friendly conversation. Ask him the basics like what he's interested in, why he is doing the summer program, etc. By showing your interested in getting to know him maybe he'll catch on and show an interest in you too!

Brooke E.
Brooke E.

tennislvr on 6/10/2009 1:26:15 PM

*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD* OK im thinkin that got ur attention...ever since skwl let out my bf of 3months hasnt txtd me or called or talked 2 me at all and thats been 2 weeks!!! i've tried txting him like 50 times aqnd he hasnt txtd back at all!!! my frnd talked 2 him at her sisters softbal game and asked y he hasnt been txting me back and he said its cuz he lost his fone but idk if ibelieve him...should i???? and does he even like me????

Sounds a little fishy to me. If he wanted to get in touch with you to let you know he lost his phone don't you think he would of by now? My advice: forget this guy! You can do better! Find a new summer crush that jumps at the bit for a chance to talk to you. Your too special to be worrying about this non-communicating loser. L8ter dater!

Brooke E.

ella_babe on 6/10/2009 1:05:54 PM

guys think different from us
when they flir its with a lot of girls not just one so if a guy flirts with you dont give any hints that you like him until he tells you he does

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TheJournal on 6/10/2009 10:33:40 AM

i wonder does anyone know how to tell if a guy is just messing with ur mind or if he likes you???
im clueless

nat716 on 6/9/2009 11:24:12 PM

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OMG LPEASE I NEED HELP!!
I think mi majorly in love with this guy, (we'll call him t) and t and i have been buds seriously since we were in diapers,(our moms are besties) but a few years bac, he seriously no joke moved all the way across the country becuz his mom and dad broke up, so now they live in CA, and we talk but not as much as before, but he come over this past christmas, and me and im made out the last day he was here becuz we developed feelings for each other over the past few months.. but get this, since then my mom and dad have been having problems and since my mom and his mom are besties, she offered us a place to stay with them in CA if mom and dad get really bad about arguing, but mom and dad "sorted things out" and now theyre back together.. CRAZY STORY, RIGHT!! anyways, hes back in CA and we havent been talking that much since then, becuz he's been so busy, but i dont want to fall in love so soon but, i dont exactly agree with my mom and dad being back together becuz my mom can't let go of dad, but i promised myself as soon as im eighteen, im gonna move in with them, mom sez that i can do this by the way, so im not sneaking behind her back.. but i dont wanna fall in love so soon, cuz what if he falls in love with someone else becuz were so far apart?? i feel so close to him , and i dont ever want to mess up our relationship as buds, but im scared he's gonna fall in love with someone else!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP MEE!!!!! THANKYOU SOOOOO MUCH I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING!!
cartooni94

Hey babe, since you're so far away right now I would def talk to him as much as possible but keep it as friends. If things change and you move closer then consider dating but for now I'd keep him close but also keep my eye out for other cute guys!

katelin s.

cartooni94 on 6/9/2009 11:11:23 PM

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I have a problem. Well last year I liked this guy (Lets call him Tim) . But now my bff (lets call her Angela) is going out with Tim. I don't care but another girl I told last year told Angela and I'm afraid she told Tim. I don't like him but my friend tends to overreact. Thanks a lot!!

Hey babe, if she's your friend I doubt she'd say so. Talk to her about it and how it's worrying you. I'm sure she'll understand.

katelin s.

catgirl1997 on 6/9/2009 10:28:14 PM

if i know one thing it is guys all my friends that are girls thought it was weird to play sports at recess with the dudes and now all my friends are guys so any guy will go out with a girl that likes sports and if you just be yourself you will probily end up with the guy that is right for you

sportypiratechick83 on 6/9/2009 10:19:09 PM

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hi. well today i got this note from this guy that i met in the mall on saturday that told me that he's seen me before in school. in the note it said: "hey. remember me? haha from the mall...lol i found you!umm you should text me sometimelol!" then he put his number then he wrote ttyl.
haha i just wanted to ask if i should text him or not because i was wondering that maybe this was just a prank.
thank you

p.s- ahhh i don't know his name or what grade he's even in but i wanna make a new friend so please help. thank you again!:]

Hey girl, it could be real or I guess it could be a prank from a friend because how else would he have your number? Just text and see if you can figure it out. Don't agree to meet though since it could be a stranger.

katelin s.

kariabelle on 6/9/2009 9:54:29 PM

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hey so my BFF has this really cool ring & it doesn't have diomonds or anything it just has this engraving about God. it's really pretty and i want one but i can't find one anywhere! do you have any ideas where i can get one??
~thanx~

Hey babes, I would try Etsy.com. It's full of totally handmade original objects and there are tons of engraved pieces like that. xo Annemarie

Annemarie D.

oliviaT2014 on 6/9/2009 4:40:17 PM

he likes u sorta but dont anything serious till you know for sure

kaj3248 on 6/9/2009 4:36:36 PM

my lover is micheal jackson he is so yummy

holly's awesome on 6/9/2009 4:20:15 PM

MOD HELP! i told my friends at my lunch table who i liked a pretty long time ago. maybe like a month. Then maybe like 2 weeks ago or so my one friend told me something like this: the guy you like is on my bus and he said he wasnt sure who liked and that he liked a few people and wanted to see who liked him, so maybe he could like them back. So she told him i liked him. Then like the day after she told him or so... he talked to me on the bus when coming/going to a field trip. And he has been flirting with me alot. For the dance we danced to this one song together! Which the dance waz like 2 weeks ago also. Ok. The big deal is that today the whole 6th grade when to the cafe and we signed peoples yearbooks. i asked him to sign my yearbook and he gave me his to sign i signed his and said h.a.g.s. ( have a great summer) and i wrote text me and wrote my number then my name. He wrote his name in my yearbook. Idk what to do. does he like me? how should i flirt? school is over in like 2 and a half days! i really like him help!

Hey chica,

Sounds like you have a pretty fun summer a head of you! Let him know while school is out, you totally want to keep in touch with him over the summer. I'm sure the feeling is mutual.

*Mel

Melany T.

citrus13 on 6/9/2009 4:11:44 PM

i think the best thing to do is to spend some more time with him. think about whether you REALLY love him, and then ask him out with a couple of other friends. if he hangs around you most of the time, and you two really hit it off, make plans to see him again! it'll be totally worth it
xoxo advic_chica
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advice_chica on 6/9/2009 1:41:06 PM

OMG LPEASE I NEED HELP!!
I think mi majorly in love with this guy, (we'll call him t) and t and i have been buds seriously since we were in diapers,(our moms are besties) but a few years bac, he seriously no joke moved all the way across the country becuz his mom and dad broke up, so now they live in CA, and we talk but not as much as before, but he come over this past christmas, and me and im made out the last day he was here becuz we developed feelings for each other over the past few months.. but get this, since then my mom and dad have been having problems and since my mom and his mom are besties, she offered us a place to stay with them in CA if mom and dad get really bad about arguing, but mom and dad "sorted things out" and now theyre back together.. CRAZY STORY, RIGHT!! anyways, hes back in CA and we havent been talking that much since then, becuz he's been so busy, but i dont want to fall in love so soon but, i dont exactly agree with my mom and dad being back together becuz my mom can't let go of dad, but i promised myself as soon as im eighteen, im gonna move in with them, mom sez that i can do this by the way, so im not sneaking behind her back.. but i dont wanna fall in love so soon, cuz what if he falls in love with someone else, becuz he's so far away? i feel so close to him , and i dont ever want to mess up our relationship as buds, but im scared he's gonna fall in love with someone else!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP MEE!!!!! THANKYOU SOOOOO MUCH I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING!!
cartooni94

cartooni94 on 6/9/2009 12:07:34 PM

MOD***MOD***MOD*** Their is a boy i've been going out with since we were like 5. ( i no odd rite?) he is like 23 monthes younger than me. Is that wrong? I'm eleven now....

Hey chica,

As long as the 'rents approve, then you're okay!

*Mel

Melany T.

suchablonde98 on 6/9/2009 10:58:30 AM

MOD?! i need some advice. i need to hear what someone thinks that doesnt know me, and isnt like in the middle of all this- i met my bf a year and a half ago, and started going out a year ago (like a year and 4 days or something) anyway, we would always break up and get back together. we had something really special, i could look at him and know what he's thinking, and he knows me better than anyone. problem is, he cheated a lot. but i ignored it, cuz i didnt care, i wanted to be w/ him. but i always went to my mom crying about him, telling her all the negative stuff about him. so she thinks all he does is use me and bring me down. which he doesnt. he's my everything. i never stopped to tell my mom the awesome things about him. i love him, and i would so do ANYTHING for him, still, even though we're not together. we arent now b/c my mom told me i was to never talk to him again. i think it's stupid, but i guess she's just trying to protect me? i dont know! anyway, he told me that he loves me more than anything, and that he wants to spend the rest of our lives together. and so do i. but i dont see how we could, b/c of my mom. he said that he'd wait a few years if that's what it takes. but i love my mom, she's IS my best friend! he doesnt, well wont, make me choose between them, either. he's always like "nicole, it's over...your relationship with your mom is more important than the one w/ me." but i'm not sure if *i* think that! i need some help-do you think i should just move on? forget everything we had? it's so hard. i've tried. should i again? or should i also wait a few years????? i dont know what to do. please help! thanks

Hey girl,

Your mommy is totally looking out for you, she doesn't want to see you get hurt! As for the bf, he shouldn't cheat on you, or make you feel like you have to choose between him or your mom! Remember boys come and go, but mom will always be there! Don't worry chica, it will all work out!

*Mel

Melany T.

nicole1044 on 6/9/2009 10:32:24 AM

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