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The Geeky Girl?

 

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I'm sometimes known as the "smart girl" amongst my friends and I'm really not! I am smart, but I don't know everything. People are like you should know this answer, and just expect me to know everything. How do I break out of my shell and be the smart, outgoing person that I am?


-Anonymous


Hey, babe! So your peers think you're some super-shy-out-of-this-world-genius-chick, huh? And that's all, they think? Psshh!


Girl, don't let them stop you from being who you are! You need to show them that you're not who they think you are by being yourself at school. Don't simply accept that you are the "smart girl" and play the part. Play YOUR part. Be you!


It might be kind of awkward at first, but start slow! Even if you start being outgoing and yourself by raising your hand more often in class during discussions, personally inviting people to each lunch with you at your table or simply walking with loads of confidence and attitude down the hallways!


I totally know you can show the world who you really are, babe. Don't be afraid to go all out! Good luck!


<3, Sharon

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omg!!! i know what ur feeling, grl. just b urself and let them think what they want. if they can't accept that, let em go, they aren't worth it (i know, i know, total cliche)

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by ChicRavingReaderChick on 6/12/2009 4:49:26 PM

 
 

It's hard to be who you really are, I definitely get that. Because when you are being yourself and somebody doesn't like you it hurts even more than if you were just pretending.

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by hyperpuppy on 6/12/2009 2:22:34 AM

 
 

THIS IS ME TOO! except i participate a wicked lot in class but otherwise am quiet as a mouse.
i can relate
comment on my pro<33
~Jesus Saves~

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by fieldhockeyballetstar13 on 6/10/2009 11:08:21 PM

 
 

being smart and being "geeky" are two completely different things...

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by stagebabe401 on 6/10/2009 8:58:08 PM

 
 

Oh I had the same problem. Then I realized that if I am myself then they won't treat me that way. Now they know that I am the smart person but they also know that I have a social life too.Good Luck!

Hey girlies I would love to talk and give advice so drop a line if you have some time!

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by pupellie on 6/10/2009 3:58:06 PM

 
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