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You are getting older and things are changing. One big change is that your friend since forever is starting to act a little funny. She is so sweet and nice when the two of you are alone together but at school she’s a total meanie! It seems like everyone is one her side and you don’t know what to do.
There is this girl that was so nice to me when I was new at elementary school but now that we're in middle school she acts like a total brat! She spills my secrets to all of my other friends and it's really embarrassing. I don't know how to handle my mean friend’s behavior because I've never seen her act like this. I've tried to go to the guidance counselor to see what he can do and every time he pulls her into his office she acts like she knows nothing!
Her mom even works at the school and watches after her. I feel like when I go to stand up to her, her mom's going to see and get me in some sort of trouble. I don't know how much more I can take of it because she is constantly making fun of my small boob size and treating me like garbag.! When we're together by ourselves though she acts completely different and promises she won't say those things again but she does!
BFF Fix-it: This girl has to decide what she wants. She shouldn’t just brush the harsh things she does and says to you off her shoulder like it was no big deal… and you shouldn’t let her! Instead of confronting her about her nasty behavior when the two of you are alone and she’s being nice, why not confront her mid-action? Next time her horns come out and she embarrasses you purposely, call her out! Let her know IN FRONT of everyone that those things aren’t nice. Then, ask why she repeatedly says and does these things. She'll be floored that you're standing up for yourself. Kill her with that confident, chica!
If her nasty behavior continues to be a problem even after that then I would suggest dropping her and finding a friend that doesn’t make you feel so bad about yourself. After all, buds are supposed to help our self-esteem, not knock it down.
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 7/24/2009 4:42:00 PM 11 COMMENTS
:-(
kittykatz000000 on 10/30/2009 2:25:38 PM
the same thing has happened to me!
Bridgge2010 on 8/20/2009 7:38:26 PM
wow!
iloveicarly1 on 8/10/2009 11:53:22 AM
That's rlly mean! Yeah and Y was it under Sweet Sistah?! that not vry sweet!
nerdykitty97 on 8/7/2009 2:13:35 AM
that is HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! v i s i t m y p r o f i l e ! ! ! ! !
aussie1300 on 8/4/2009 3:38:49 AM
HAPPY NEW MONTH!!!!!!!
bustarhythm on 8/1/2009 5:11:42 PM
friend? her? *bursts out laughing*
bustarhythm on 8/1/2009 5:11:12 PM
that totally stinks. she's just not nice. you should find new friends ASAP. but i have some friends - not besties - who are a little different in public than in private like don't talk too me that much in front of popular girls but its not really that bad anyway that girl probably has self-confidence issues X3 <3
emmycookie96 on 7/25/2009 1:19:10 PM
Great advice! If i were you, I'd totally confront her in front of everyone including her mom. Since u nvr did that before she'll be shocked and wont know how to react Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!
SportyGal on 7/25/2009 10:06:05 AM
why was THIS under "sweet sistah?"
BubbaleeEmalee123 on 7/24/2009 6:58:54 PM
wow, she gives the batman villian, Two-Face, a run for his money...
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