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So you finally 'fess up to your new friend and tell her about the boy you've had a crush on since forever! You swore her to secrecy and she kept your promise but now she likes him too. Worst part is, she isn't the shy one about her feelings and has been flirting with your crush non-stop ever since! What do you do?

Last year, I started befriending this girl whose locker was next to mine. We got pretty close and I told her that I was going to ask my crush to the upcoming school dance. When I was walking over there to finally ask him, my "friend" ran right by me asked him first! I was so mad because I had specifically told my friend that I have liked this guy for four years. How could she do something like that?"

BFF Fix-It: Hey girl! That is definitely a BFF no-no! I would be straight-up with your friend and ask her why she would do something like that. There are no excuses for that kind of behavior, especially because you trusted her with some very secretive info! She seems like the type of girl who is extremely jealous so I would be careful.

Sounds like she only wanted to ask him to the dance so you weren't able to which isn't a very "friend" thing to do at all. If she sincerely apologizes for her actions, then give her one more chance to prove herself. But if she backstabs you again I'd drop her!

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 8/10/2009 10:45:00 AM 28 COMMENTS

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REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT 1. Say ur name 10x 2. Say ur mom's name 5x 3. Say ur crushes name 3x 4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

lover girl on 10/8/2009 7:27:03 PM

ok thanks so much i hope it works

jess<313 on 9/24/2009 3:28:05 PM

mod mod mod! omg that is happening to me now! i really need help! i told my bff that i really like this boy but he goes to a different school then us but she was looking through my cell phone and got his numder and his email and then she started texting him and calling him non stop and then she asked him out! i was so mad but he said yes and i thought if thats who he wants to date he can its up to him but i cant beleave my bff did that and the worse part is she is mad at me because i was alittle mad at her i dont know what to do i really liked him and my bff is mad at me what should i do?!?!

What your BFF did totally broke girl code and you have a right to be upset. I would explain this to her and if she is still mad I would reconsider how true of a friend she is.

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jess<313 on 9/24/2009 3:24:43 PM

Ok, it wasn't mean, just a little embarrassing...
Me and my friend were walking around the backside of her house (there was a trail and grass area) and we saw my crush and a bunch of his friends. I was wearing shorts and sunglasses (totally different than what i usually wear). He said hey to my friend and liike he was the only one that didn't know i was the other one. I was a little embarrassed cuz my friend smiled at me cuz she knew i liked him and stuff and that i we actually saw him while school was out. so ya and he still doesn't know it was me. i hope he doesn't ask when i started wearing shorts (my arms are long, so i can't wear them to school, because of dresscode stuff)

so ya ... i didn't really think i was THAT hard to notice, hehe

camel490 on 9/2/2009 8:29:41 PM

i wouldnt tell my friends about my crush....

blossomzzz13 on 9/2/2009 4:44:20 PM

KKKKKIIILLLLL HERRRR LOL IF ANYONE DID THAT THEY WOULD FACE DA CONSEWUENCES

happyhamsters! on 8/29/2009 11:03:17 PM

My BFF said she had a crush on a 2nd grader. Now they're going out

hitthemall#1 on 8/24/2009 11:01:55 AM

OMG, who would do that?! Now thats just cruel.

ILive2BUrs4ever on 8/20/2009 12:01:55 AM

Thats SOOOOOOOOOOOO mean. i dont even no her but i hate her. u should definitely dump her!!!!!

blueberry458 on 8/17/2009 6:29:53 PM

Aghhhh!!
goshh i hatee her and i donnt even knoww her !!

ms naughty on 8/17/2009 11:43:20 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ohkay, i have mom troubles. I don't have my period yet, and havvent had a boyfriend, but for getting a bra and stuff, it was so hard to tell her! I feel like its so akward and my mom is old-fashioned so its weird. My friends say i live a double life. I dont no how to make it comfortable to talk to her. -idk.

Hey girl,

Why don't you let Mom get to know the real you! Try it over a Mother-Daughter hangout. Where you two have fun and talk. I'm sure it will work out!

Mel

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dancegirly1014 on 8/16/2009 11:07:08 PM

omg.
you should totally tell her that straight up.
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girlslifefreak234 on 8/16/2009 11:03:27 AM

this has happened to me soooo many times! and i was soooooooooo made about it i wish i would have had this a long time ago

jayjai19 on 8/14/2009 8:20:21 PM

i'd be sooooo mad!!!!! i'd give her the cold shoulder till like a week after the dance, but at the dance i would find a big group of friends that also don't have dates, and laugh a bunch, and get kind of quiet and whisper when she looks over or comes by us...... okay, so kinda mean, but she took you guy!!!!!! make it look like you're having a blast.... mwahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!

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anna girl on 8/14/2009 7:11:53 PM

omg that actually happend to me!!!

cheergurl132 on 8/14/2009 1:23:43 PM

OMG i would give her really old vanilla candy (like a year old) the day before the dance and she wont be able to go b/c she is 2 sick the i'll dance wit my crush all night long

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zany94 on 8/13/2009 6:05:40 PM

who would do that i would not like that i would like not talk to her for days

Fashonista234 on 8/12/2009 10:06:50 PM

Thats awful! Sorry about that

1cutiepie24546 on 8/12/2009 4:20:46 PM

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lakerschica12 on 8/12/2009 12:07:48 PM

That stinks!Once my friends crush asked me out and I turned him down cuz I didn't want 2 hurt her feelings.Now he hates me and won't even sign my yearbook!Oh well.

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CLUB GLAMOUROUS! on 8/12/2009 1:12:49 AM

totally not a good friend! def ask her y she did it!

cutieme03 on 8/11/2009 9:59:56 AM

OMG!! I beat she doesnt even like him I would totally confront this girl and see wut her deal is :/

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SportyGal on 8/11/2009 9:10:53 AM

*************MOD************* my friends always fight, they r guys and i no that but sometimes me and my girlfriends hav to choose sides. how do we stop them form fighting?

Hey girl,

You don't want to throw yourself into the middle of the drama! Have a little talk with your bgf's to find out the deal. See if you can patch things up that way!

Mel

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aussie1300 on 8/11/2009 4:20:49 AM