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My new BF is fun and nice. But he says he’ll call, then never does. I’m too embarrassed to ask why.

I don’t want to seem desperate. How should I handle this?

DAVE: No need for embarrassment as you’re clearly right to be annoyed. Time to bring out the trusty, “Turn things around—how would you feel?” argument. Present the situation to him, and simply ask, “If I told you I was going to call and didn’t, how would you feel?” If that doesn’t put things into perspective and change his behavior, break up. Then he’ll be the one seeming desperate.

BILL: It’s a question of nerve. Either he doesn’t have enough nerve to call, or he has so much nerve that he lies to your face. Lower the bar by getting his IM name, and drop a quick note when you see him online. If he doesn’t answer right back, you’ll have a pretty good idea which nerve you’ve struck in him.

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lesti777 on 10/22/2009 11:12:55 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

chillipurry on 10/15/2009 7:57:23 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

Photochickie on 10/10/2009 1:39:46 PM

Call him out, girlie!!!!!!

pointeprincess on 9/13/2009 4:45:04 PM

MOD,
In my school it's really weird. No girls are even FRIENDS with guys let alone dating them. If any boy every does ask someone out all that happens is everyone swamps them and asks them questions and they never even go on a date!
Well, somehow when everyone gets into high school every group of girls has a group of guy friends. The only problem is that I am afraid that my group of friends won't have a group of guy friends cause........I don't even know!!!!!!!!!
What should I do to become friends with guys in a school no one has guy friends until High school (and i have no idea how they even become friends!)??????

Hey babe,

You make friends with guys the same way you make friends with girls. Just talk about things you have in common and get to know each other. Just get to know some guys and you'll find some that you connect with.

xoxo Allie

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dancergal22 on 9/4/2009 5:33:03 PM

one time, one of my friends wouldn't talk to me because I talked to one of our other friends who she was fighting with but I didn't even know, (and neither did our other friend). It was bizarre!

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soccerbee683 on 8/29/2009 11:26:39 AM

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I like this guy but yesterday he started going out with my friend. She is not mean she didn't know but i'm so sad this happens to me all the time. Yesterday he said that i smile alot and of course i was embarassed because i have braces but than he says non i like your smile and said girls with braces are pretty. I don't no if i should go for him or not . I don't want to tell my friend she seems really happy and i wouldn't want to ruin that . And i wouldn't cheat with him all though he is really not guy . Please help he is the first ever guy that complemented my apearence .
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Redsox lover on 8/29/2009 9:56:29 AM

*MOD* My crush is shy, i mean REALLY shy. I've seen him talk to other girls and his friends, and he talks way more than he does to me. When I say hi, it's like he can't say anything. I'm really tired of always trying to start a conversation, what should i do to make him talk more? also, since he's shy around me does that mean he might like me?

Hey chick! It def could mean he is a little nervous about him! You're just going to have to talk to him more to make him more comfortable! Ask him lots of questions about himself; maybe he will warm up a little!

-Taeler

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xmasrxs on 8/29/2009 1:15:37 AM

So i have this school BFF,lets say her name is sarah, and she has this major crush on this guy. we are all in the same lunch class. But this guy doesnt like me at all( at least thats what i think) and so at lunch when we are laughing and i look over and he is looking at me with this weird face he does. i look away quickly. also at lunch he said hey sarah why are you friends with Adair( my nickname) just to be mean. finally, when we are in the halls he will walk up to me or me to him and he will say something mean like traitor or stalker. what should i do. i dont want to hurt my bff, but this guy is being very mean
sorry this was so long

Gracie401 on 8/26/2009 6:55:52 AM

Mod and girls:
I need help. My ex-bf and I are close. We talk every night and laugh and tell each other stuff. Well, I was like in love with him but then my bff said, "Do u like her?" and he said, "I kinda like somebody else but I don't want to hurt her feelings." My bff wasn't supposed to tell me that but she did. Well, it crushed me. I felt like bawling so I decided I better get over him but just doesn't work! I think about him constantly. I think I love him!!! What should I do? Flirt with him? HELP!

Hey babe, getting over a guy is not an easy thing to do! Just focus on hanging out with your friends and having fun and in time you'll start to feel better!

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RMLuvvr on 8/24/2009 9:39:10 PM

mod mod mod!!! i had a friend that did the exact same thing. it was super annoying. so i "transformed" into "spy mode" and i secretly listened to what she said to one of her other friends...and she said that she didnt call me because i wore a pair of shoes (she has the same ones) and she was sick of me "copying" her. i didnt even know she had those shoes, let alone would i copy her intentionally EVER!!!
BeachyKeen

Hey girl! That is a horrible reason for her to avoid talking to you! You can confront her about this and let her know that you didn't mean to copy her...ever! But, if she's getting so catty over a pair of shoes, it might be time to find some new friends. You don't have to be mean to her, but try to expand your horizons and make some new buddies. best, Kristen

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BeachyKeen on 8/24/2009 7:52:29 PM

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Ok so the guy i talked to u about earler about us liking each other but him being to shy. well im still kinda scared to ask him out cuz wat if he still says no. i dont think he would but idk. also this is kinda mean. but well most ppl dont think he is good looking and they dont like him so much. i like him tho. im kinda afraid pppl would judge us and say things about us goin out. plz help!

Hey girl! He may say no, but it's better to find out for yourself. You don't want to regret not asking and wonder what would/could have happened. And don't let others get in teh way of your happiness! People will ALWAYS judge, but if you're happy, they have nothing on you! Best, Kristen

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jb4eva94 on 8/24/2009 7:44:09 PM

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Gracie401 on 8/24/2009 6:07:07 PM

MODMODMOD when i click remember me it does, and then when i try to login at the top, i press go but nothing happens. i have to go to the bottom of an article to post a comment where it says you have to sign in or register to post a comment .Whats wrong????

Hey girl! I'm not sure what's wrong. Try again tomorrow; the site may be acting buggy. if that doesn't work, go to contact us and let us knwo the sitch. best, Kristen

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Gracie401 on 8/24/2009 5:47:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MDO MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MODMOD ok so theres this guy i like and he lives by me. so anyway were kinda friends. but im rlly good friends with one of his friends and he says that the guy i like likes me back a lot but wont go out with me cuz hes to shy. but the guy nos i like him hes never had a gf. before. idk wat to do. wats the point of liking him when he wont go outwith me it dosent make sence wat should i do?????????

Hey girl! If the guy likes you but is shy, he may jsut need soem reassurance. Since you two are both interested, go ahead and ask him out yourself! Showing him that you're into him too will help him feel more at ease and more likely to ask you out. Don't be afraid to take the initiative! good luck! Kristen

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jb4eva94 on 8/24/2009 3:10:50 PM

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swimmerxox on 8/24/2009 1:44:12 PM

MOD My crush likes me back, he told me so. Anyways, at the end of the school year, I left him a note that said if we're in the same class this year, I wouldn't mind being his friend. He totally went crazy over the note. Now I don't know what to do. What if we aren't in the same class this year? What if he doesn't like me? All different things. I asked my BFF who used to date him way back a long time ago and dumped him whenever she got made fun of, and she just said "Don't." I really expected better advice, and I just need help because he's the first boy I've ever felt this way with. HELP!!!

Hi girl!

Try hanging out with him a few times before you guys actually start dating. That way you will get a preview of what it would be like to actually date him.

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MathGirl98 on 8/24/2009 11:09:56 AM

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am currently going out with an amazing guy but he lives in a different town and we don;t see each other often. Also, My parents don't exactly know about him so I always bring my friend which is fine but now because she has spent some time with him im afraid she if starting to like him! I don't know what to do but she has done the same thing to other people but she has a boyfriend so i feel bad for him but i also want to have my guy to myself!

Hey girl. Well if this girl has a bf then you should be fine. If you start to see her getting a little close, remind her that you had your eyes on him first! Mel

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wavemakerashley on 8/23/2009 10:46:29 PM

MEL, MOD, GIRLS- my crush is awesome! i want to date him, so i asked my bff to say to him 'hey would u ever date hannah?' she is gna ask him that on monday. should i let her do that? if not, what should i do!?

Hey girl. If your girl is up for it, I say go ahead! Sometimes that takes the nerves away a bit! Mel

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superhannah on 8/23/2009 10:24:06 PM

MOD thanks Mel! but what do i do? just out-of-the-blue ask him for his number? that mite be awkward!!

Hey girl. You should def get his screename first then ask for his number a little later! Mel

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superhannah on 8/23/2009 9:49:21 PM

MOD hey!or girls! do u have a sec? thanks! well i have this crush on a guy who is so cute, funny, nice, everything. he always talks to me but its always small talk, and its usually about school work and stuff. my friend said he was staring at me during lunch, but idk if he was. point is, i like him and want to date, or have his screenname or cell number. should i ask a friend to see if he likes me? or ask for his number? or wait it out? what? thanks!

Hey girl. I say try to get to know him! It won't hurt, and you can see where things lead. So see if you can get his number or screename! Mel

Melany T.

superhannah on 8/23/2009 9:11:13 PM

ya dave is soo right. if he still doesnt listen i would totally break up.

cutieme03 on 8/23/2009 5:51:12 PM

My crush is kinda two-faced.One day he's nice to me and the next day(like since thursday)he ignores me.He never calls either

actress96 on 8/23/2009 4:41:12 PM

same thing happens to me but it's my friend who doesn't call me all the time.

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musicrox on 8/23/2009 9:37:46 AM

I'd go with what Dave says and turn things around, but maybe don't break up w/ ur guys just yet, have a talk!

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SportyGal on 8/23/2009 9:12:08 AM

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So there is this guy who I really like and cant stop thinkin about, but sadly he moved. even more sadly that I never realized that I liked him until this summer. and my "friend" liked him too the last time i saw her, but she doesnt go to my school, so i dont now if shes over him. i mean i can get his email, cause i also need to ask him a question about this other guy who was in all of my classes last year and they all said that he liked me but i dont now if its true. hes the only one that i trust(im not the person that wrote the different school drama just to let you know) i dont just like him, i think im in love with him what should i do????????

Hey girl, I'm sorry to hear that your crush moved away. That can rip a girl apart, but unfortunately there's not much you can do about it. You can def keep in touch with him through email, the phone, or even old fashioned snail mail, but it might be a lil' unrealistic to keep crushin' on him long distance - not to mention exhausting! You should move on to more local boys, but that doesn't mean you can't keep him as a close friend. Who knows? Maybe you can visit each other sometime.

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