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Weekend Fun

Hooray-for-Labor-Day Party!

 

It's time for a day off to kick back and relax after your first week of homework assignments, studying and pop quizzes. Yup, this Monday is already Labor Day! Celebrate our fave end-of-the-summer holiday by hosting a low-key cookout at your casa.


Invite some close pals, cute boys and cool new kids over to chill out and goof off on your first official "day off" from school. We'll show you some fab party ideas to get the year off to a relaxed and fun start!


Summin' Up Summer!

Since it's the end of summer, it's the last time to break out some warm-weather faves. Buy a bunch of cheap beach balls (one for each guest at the bash) and a couple of waterproof permanent markers. Have guests sign each other's and write a li'l message about a fun summer memory.


Other fun ways to remember your summer?

Make a summer scrapbook. Get the perf ideas RIGHT HERE.


Or a jet setting bangle! CLICK HERE to see our easy how-tos.

 
Farewell-to-Summer Fare
 

A good party isn't complete without a ton of tasty (not to mention healthy!) food.

 


These yummy burgs are perfect for a Labor Day cookout.

Serve this refreshing thirst quencher in some fancy champagne glasses and drink up! It'll look really cute and it's a great alternative to the standard "Coke or Sprite?" drink option.

What cookout wouldn't be complete without a side of potato salad?

We're so over boring fruit salad. Put that fruit on a skewer and make it look as delish as it tastes!

S'more of Summer

Test your outdoorsy skills by making a bonfire! Have your parents help you set up a bonfire in your backyard. Get everyone around and roast some marshmallows. And hey, it wouldn't hurt to burn one to a crisp and ask your crush to make you a new one! Sitting around the warmth of the fire makes a great environment to chat with some interesting girlies from your classes and it's the perf setting to cozy up to your crush!


Enjoy Warm Nights, Just One More Time

Tag, you're it! Now that it's starting to get darker earlier, get everyone together and play a game of good old flashlight tag. Remember that game? Grab some flashlights, head into the backyard, and get to it! Choose one person to be "it" and have him/her wait in the "jail" while the others hide in the dark. "It" counts to 60, then hunts for the other peeps in the dark (who may or may not be changing hiding spots). Once "it" spies a person they must shine the flashlight and say their name before they're sent home. Our even funnier tip? Pick silly nicknames before you do it to make it even more confusing when you identify each other.


-Megan Parker

BLOG IT OUT! What are you up to this weekend? Any big plans for Labor Day? Are you going away? Or are ya maxin' and relaxin' at home?

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musicrox on 9/6/2009 5:01:05 PM

***********MOD****************** i posted a Mod comment here yesterday, and it still isn't posted! And I seriously need the advice.

 

Sorry about that girl, ask your question again.

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twilightgirl1 on 9/6/2009 4:57:12 PM

MOD-im going to a memorial service on in a week, and i dont know what would be appropriate to wear. its outside, and might be a little bit chilly, so do you have any ideas on what to wear?
thnx so much

 

Hey girl,

Sorry to hear about that. With the weather changing right now, I'd stick to some classic black pants. Try a dark blouse and if you think that it'll be really cold, wear a dark blazer or jacket too.


Best,

Miliana

Miliana B.

spotadot on 9/6/2009 7:48:52 AM

My comments dont work!!! arg!!!

prjdizzy on 9/6/2009 2:07:08 AM

check out my profile!

prjdizzy on 9/6/2009 1:24:52 AM

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So I really like this guy. I've known him sinse 6th grade (were in 8th) but he has always had a GF and I've never been interested. All of the sudden I like him! He recently broke up with his long term year older GF but I think he's over her cuz he's been flirting w/me (hes's asked if I have a BF and we played footies for awhile in Homeroom). Is there anything I can say to get him to ask me out? Or any Creative way to ask him out? PLZ keep in mind we cant really "go out" its middle school dating.




Hey girl,

Yep, it def' seems like he's into ya if he did the breaking up and he's been flirting with you recently. You've got a couple options here. You can keep being friendly and flirty and hope that he makes the move, which is fine but it may take longer. Or you can be extra flirty and hint that you like him. If you're feeling extra daring, say something like, "So when are you gonna ask me out?" and see how he reacts. Good luck!

Best,


Miliana


Miliana B.

prjdizzy on 9/6/2009 1:24:27 AM

MOD!
when r u posting the back-2-cool clean and clear clear skin challenge week 3 winners?
sry if i sound impatient but im excited.... i entered a lot! Smile Smile Smile
thanx!
~Allie




If the contest is over the winners should be announced as soon as gl has chosen the winners from everyone who entered. Should be soon. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

shopperlove5 on 9/5/2009 11:35:53 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!! my friends say i have a smaller forehead (well compared to they'res cause they're are big) and i guess its kinda small but not like extremely small so would the side swept bangs still work???? thanks!!!




Yeah I think side swept bangs would still work. You just have to make sure that you go to a good hair salon and they'll make sure to make side swept bangs work with your face shape. Good luck! xoxo kerra




 
Kerra S.

ana1515 on 9/5/2009 11:16:29 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!! what are some good haircuts for a girl with thick shoulder length hair that has a natural wave but i usually wake up with it being really un-even(one side is really straight and the other is really wavy/curly)I also have an oval face what are some good haircuts for fall???? thanks!! Oh yeah and what else BESIDES choppy layers is there???? thx!!!










Hey! Your hair sounds just like mine. Since your hair is often uneven with one side wavy and the other not i suggest you use either a straightner or hair products that make your hair wave to even it out. I also suggest you keep it all one length with side swept bangs ( they look good with your oval face) Good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

ana1515 on 9/5/2009 10:55:48 PM

Hey grils need advice?

Want to make friends?

Well come to Club_Chicas!! Smile


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Come and join today!! Smile

Club_Chicas on 9/5/2009 10:21:45 PM

Come and check out Club PARTYGIRLS 2day!!! Smile

Club PARTYGIRLS is new and jobs r still available so come check it out and see if ur PARTY side is ready 4 this!!!!!!!

crazy-is-me on 9/5/2009 10:17:45 PM

my school hasnt even started yet, and im in a new school sooooo i dont know anybody yet Frown . but its all good, bcus im good @ friend-makkingg!

crystal_1024 on 9/5/2009 10:11:36 PM

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How do you submit a blush much moment.. I reeeally like that section, its my favorite (: thanks.




Hey! Here's the contact section. Find the appropriate section for what you wanna do Smile http://www.girlslife.com/page/contact.aspx xoxo kerra




 
Kerra S.

**emily** on 9/5/2009 9:53:18 PM

**MOD**
Theres this guy I like, and I havent seen him all summer. I really want to go out with him, but I don’t know how to ask him out.. Like what do I say? Thanks Smile




Hey girl! If you really like this guy and you get along really well i suggest you gather your courage and ask him out. When you have some alone time with him just bring up dating and ask him out. It will be worth it. Good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

**emily** on 9/5/2009 9:12:24 PM

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Club Beauty on 9/5/2009 6:15:48 PM

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check out my profile! i give advice on anything!

summerlover0116 on 9/5/2009 5:07:05 PM

MOD!
My BFF has this friend who I hate, she is mean to me and to my BFF behind her back. If I start mentioning ANYTHING about this girl to my BFF, she flips out or I chicken out that our friendship will end if I say anything. What should I do?! My BFF's Mom would be really mad at me too, and never let her daughter be with me again if I say anything also, because she LOVES this girl and her Mom. HELP!




Hey girl! It's important to let your friend know about this because no one likes to be talked about behind their back. You could try to write her a letter explaining everything. You are trying to be a good friend and your friend needs to see this. She might still want to be friends with this other girl which is fine because it is her decision. Good Luck! 
Eryn G.

BalletDancer297 on 9/5/2009 4:37:04 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MMMMOOODDD!!!
That doesn't really answer my question. It wasn't anything bad, just about an article I read in a magazine about acne. And I just wanna know if it's not going through because I said something about another magazine. Is that why my comment wouldn't go through? Thanks. 




Hey girl! We only talk about GL mag on this website. Sorry 
Eryn G.

pageantprincess411 on 9/5/2009 4:20:42 PM

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Okay, so if I try to post a comment that says something about a magazine that isn't girls life will it not go through. Because I was trying to tell this girl about an article I read in a magazine but all the parts are getting taken out that had 2 do w/ that magazine. Thanks u soo much 4 answering my question. 




Hey girl! There is certain info that isn't allowed on the GL website. Sorry 
Eryn G.

pageantprincess411 on 9/5/2009 4:10:37 PM

I'm going to my Aunt's house for Labor Day! I am excited because she has a pool! Laughing Only prob, there is a lot of tension going on in my fam Frown Like between my one Aunt and her BF and my Uncle and his wife, pretty bad when 35 year old siblings still fight like they are 5 lol, but now they bring they're wives and BF's in on the fight lol.

BalletDancer297 on 9/5/2009 4:06:50 PM

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What are some of your favorite love songs, I am making a list.




Hey girl! There are so many love songs! Taylor Swift has some good songs!  
Eryn G.

M.C. KENNA :D on 9/5/2009 3:57:02 PM

boo hoo summer is over! I mean I got really bored at the end of the summer, and I like school, but I just like summer becuase the season is so wonderful! I like being able to go to waterparks and the beach every weekend!!! Hey girlies come and check out my profile... comment on mine and ill comment on yours!!!  Eryn G.

chelle123 on 9/5/2009 3:47:08 PM

Mod
I broke up w/ my bf today we had only been going out a week or so, but he said he really likes me.I like him as a friend and without thinking I sent him a message on facebook and broke up with him like that but after the message was sent I realized how shallow tht was and tried to call him.He rejected the call 3 times so finnaly the last time I just left a message saying how I was sorry for breaking up with him tht way and really wanted to just be friends should I just give up or try and reach him again????P.s. I am sorry for the length of this!!!!!Thank ya'll Cowgirl




Hey girl! You might just want to give him some time. He might just need a little break. If you already told him that you made a mistake, then he knows.  Hope it works out!
Eryn G.

cowgirl_9506 on 9/5/2009 3:41:56 PM

MOD: i have a couple of questions
what is the best way to wash my bra?
i have a bra that clips from the front, should i wear it or will it unclip?
whenever i straighten my hair it never stays, it goes back to curly, is there any way to make it stay?
Should i put product in my hair after i straighten it, or before?
thanks soo much u guys always help me out!
keep it fresh




Hey girl! A bra that clips in the front is perfectly fine to wear, it shouldn't come unhooked. You can try putting anit-frizz stuff in your hair after you straighten it. You can get it at any drug store. 
Eryn G.

Elaaa on 9/5/2009 3:32:52 PM

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I am having a birthday party next weekend, and im handing out some of the invitations at church tomorrow. My crush- (who likes me back but his mom wont let him have a gf) goes to my church, but not my school, and his sister is my bff. this probly sounds like a stupid question, but i want to get this guys attention so do u think i should give him the invite or give it to his siter for both of them? because i dont wanna seem like im desperate 4 him to come by like shoving an invitation in his face.... so how should i do it?




Hey girl! You can do whatever you feel most comfortable with. You can hand it to him and just say here is the invite. You can be very casual about it. Good Luck! 
Eryn G.

dragonvolleyball24 on 9/5/2009 3:15:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Ok so the homecoming football game is coming up, and we always dress really crazy. do you have any really unique ideas for t -shirts? sort of like cutting and tying them but really cute. any ideas?




Hey girl! You can always tye dye t-shirts and then write on them with paint. They will look rly cute because you can personalize them. Have fun! 
Eryn G.

cozmo on 9/5/2009 2:59:26 PM

yay! im having a party this weekend, too! Smile

livepurple on 9/5/2009 2:59:20 PM

school starts sep. 9th for me! yay! but down side, all my friends r with fam. or at the beach.


check out my pro! comment if ya want advice!

xmonkeybrain10 on 9/5/2009 2:58:26 PM

I'm probably gonna just have a few really close friends over for a sleepover right before school starts September 8th.

laneyloo on 9/5/2009 2:49:16 PM

MOD~
I have a crush on this boy, but I don't know how to take the next step. We don't see each other at school because I'm a sophomore and I go up to the high school, while he's a freshman at the jr. high. However, we see each other for a little bit at cross country. We also text each other. Last year we were really close and because I'm older than him I took on the "protective big sister" type role, but now I'm finding myself thinking about him in more of the romantic way.
It's hard to tell if he feels the same 'cause we were so close. Whenever we look at each other I smile and wave (in a dorky way 'cause that's how I am) and he smiles back and waves sometimes before turning away, sometimes it's because he's shy and sometimes because he's embarrassed.
I don't know how to approach this. Should I keep it safe and keep playing the big sister to keep our friendship intact, or should I go for it? And if I do how can I so that I don't scare him off?
Thanks =) Sorry that was so long =P




Hey girl! You could talk to this guy and tell him how you feel, he might change his feelings towards you when he knows your feelings. You only should so this if you are comfortable. You can always talk to your parents or friends to ask them what they think that you should do. Good Luck! 
Eryn G.

Sky Blossom on 9/5/2009 2:48:55 PM

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wednesday1408 on 9/5/2009 2:06:33 PM

I love playing flashlight tag! My neighbors and my family play cops and robbers. The cobs run around and if they tag a robber, they have to go to "jail". Then other robbers have to tag them out of jail. If there's no little kids (I have 3 brothers!) then we have to tackle the robber. LOL good times. Smile

SummerROx on 9/5/2009 2:05:18 PM

im going out of town so i cant do that

beastie on 9/5/2009 2:04:00 PM

this sounds really fun but i go back to school the day after labor day so you know gotta prepare for the next day. my nerves will be higher than they are now!

well i gotta go- my cousins (adult... married) and aunt (one cousin's mommy) is comming from the next state over.

see ya! Smile xoxo danielle

btw, all those yankee fans out there watching the game right now- THE BALL IS FOUL! NO HOMERUN FOR THE BLUE JAYS! WE ARE STILL IN THE LEAD 1-0 !!!!! YAY!

periodworrier17 on 9/5/2009 1:59:30 PM

I always you the party ideas!!! Im gonna ask my mom if I can do this!

QQuinnShoe on 9/5/2009 1:32:55 PM

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I asked her to sleepover... she just has to ask her parents.
and one other thing
I'm askina bunch of other ppl this-
If I'm going to a dance with a guy as a friend is it ok to dance with other guys.. maybe even slow dance with the guy I like?




Hey girl! You just want to make sure that the guy your going with to the dance with doesn't mind if you dance with another guy. You don't want to dance with a ton of guys because you don't want to hurt your friend's feelings. But  you could ask him if he minds if you dance once with the the guy you like, that might be a good compromise. Good Luck!
Eryn G.

LJSOCCER12 on 9/5/2009 1:24:44 PM

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But she is talking about starving herself and I don't think she would actually do it but she has me super worried. I'm talking to her on the pone right now. She doesn't even eat at lunch cuz she doesn't like to eat infornt of her bf. i try to make her but she lies to me and she says she's not hungry... Frown




Not eating could be for a number of reasons.  She could be stressed, depressed, or struggling with an eating disorder.  Trying to make her eat will not help this situation.  If she's one of your closest friends it would help to sit down with her alone in her house and tell her you're worried about her.  If things get really bad it may be smart to talk with her mom and see if she's aware of your friends changing eating habits. 
Megan R.

LJSOCCER12 on 9/5/2009 12:55:28 PM

*********MODS***************
pleze read and answer!!!!
every year my dad has a motorcycle party/birthday party for his dad...and this year he said i could invite sum friends. my crushes dad rides with em sum and they might come, its also gonna be a swim party...my crush likes me but he has a gf and likes me enough to dat eme...what can i do to make him like me more??????
pleze answer!!!!!
thnx!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Hey babe!  You deserve a boyfriend who will make you his number 1 and only girlfriend! I suggest keeping a good friendship, but resisting the urge to date him unless things tide over with the other girl.  Think about if you were the other girl's friend...it'd be against girl-code!  She wouldn't be very happy, and either will you're his #2 GF.
Megan R.

VampireChic_12 on 9/5/2009 12:48:48 PM

MOd:
Hi, how are you?
I am having a pool/birthday party tommorow at my house. I axpect about ten girls to come. It will be for two hours. What kind of things can we do that arent childish? Any fun pool games? I am thirteen.




Usually my friends and I just like sitting on rafts and chatting.  Sometimes we'll play the game called Categories.  There will be a "chooser" on one side of the pool and this person will say a category like for example: Popular Movies,

and each person on the other side of the pool thinks of one in their head.  Then the "Chooser" starts naming popular movies, and if he or she says the one that was in your head, you must swim as fast as you can to the other side of the pool (where the Chooser was).  The chooser then has to swim to the other side of the pool (where you were).  Whoever gets to the other side first wins.




Sounds complicated, but I promise it's fun! 
Megan R.

C_B_Mia on 9/5/2009 12:38:49 PM

*****MOD*****
About how much is a cheap but good webcam, and interior wall paint, I'm going to paint my room and post vids on youtube. Thanks!




Target and Best Buy usually have great electronics sections.  If you go to one of the stores and ask for assistance, they should be able to help you find the best deals and give you the inside scoop on each webcam. (how they are better/worse) 

If you want to purchase the webcam and paint online, you still can after you find out the details in person!
Megan R.

twilightgirl1 on 9/5/2009 12:28:42 PM

sounds like fun! me and my 3 besties are having a picnic on labor day! the day before school starts.

ilovegiraffes45 on 9/5/2009 12:10:43 PM

okay so this seems really fun and all but i'm not allowed to throw a co-ed party and no more than 4 other girls at a time. but i do get to go to my aunt's Labor Day party and it's a swimmin' party! So cool!!! love ya'll!!

dancing4ever1997 on 9/5/2009 12:06:52 PM

Hi again! Sorry, the club is actually Club LOL! with a space. Thanks!

Inky23 on 9/5/2009 11:41:58 AM

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Inky23 on 9/5/2009 11:40:52 AM

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1. I really like this guy but he is a year older than me. We have dances together and I really want to ask him to dance but I am scared he will say no. How do I ask him or even get the courage to talk to him in class?
2. My guy friend think my other guy friend likes me and I do not like him back. I am scared he will ask me to dance but I don't know how to say no. How can I gently turn him done?




Good questions! You never know if he'll want to dance until you ask! 

Sometimes guys are just as nervous as us, and they're afraid to get turned down more than we are! You could always start conversation in class by asking about a homework assignment or asking if he wants to study with you. Or a great convo-starter: If he wears T-shirts with sports logos or band logos and you like the same team or band, you could start talking about that! 

If you really don't want to dance with someone, you definitely do not have to! Just tell him you're exhausted from all the previous dancing, or you want to just relax. If you still want to dance, just not with him, tell him a gentle, "Aw, no thanks! That's nice though, how about you dance with (Name here of one of your friends)?"  He should get the hint, but not feel too upset.

Megan R. Megan R.

smart_chick12 on 9/5/2009 11:27:35 AM

my friends are already having a labor day party... sooooo

lutz94 on 9/5/2009 11:14:55 AM

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I jusr called my best friend and she is soooo upset. Her dad is extremely strict. she truly hates him...she says once she goes to college she's never visiting him again. her dad already said she could go to this dance and her mom is fine with it and then he just told her she couldn't. her bf already asked her and she said yes. she has to tell him she can't now, and she isn't even allowed to call him. we were at a football game last night and her parents were like stalking us because she was sittin gnext to her bf. at the end they kissed and her brother saw and told her parents and that's the reason she isn't allowed to go. her mom has known that they have kissed and just didn't tell her dad. i don't know what to do to help her. i asked my mom if she could sleepover 2nite, but she has to talk to my Dad.




Aww I'm so sorry for your friend.  That really stinks that her parents are so strict, but sometimes people have different views on relationships, PDA, and how old people should be when they start to date. It's important to remember to respect her parents, but also to be there for your friend. Hopefully her parents will understand that she is a responsible girl and will let her go to the dance.  If not, maybe you can make your own dance party when you have your sleepover. Good luck, fighting with parents is the worst! Especially because they just don't seem to understand. It'll take time but eventually they'll be okay with allowing dating.   

Megan R. Megan R.

LJSOCCER12 on 9/5/2009 11:13:58 AM

im going campin wit my friend yay lol

sportscutie14 on 9/5/2009 11:06:07 AM

cool!!! i'm not doing anything 4 labor day...just chilling. Smile

hit.the.surfs. on 9/5/2009 11:04:00 AM



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