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How can I grow taller?

 
I am thirteen years old, and I'm only 4ft. 10in. I hate being short and I feel like it is a disadvantage to me. My mom says that I am lucky to be short, but I think otherwise. I hate being considered as a kid needing a kiddie menu at restaurants! My mom and dad are short, but is there any way to make myself taller?

-Anonymous


Hey girl,

You are still young, there is no reason why you won’t grow a few more inches. Even if you are short, as you get older your face will mature and people will start to know that you are older. I understand that it is annoying to be mistaken for a little kid and I know you can’t see it now, but when you’re 42 and still look like your in your mid-twenties, you’re going to be in a very luck position.

If your height really has you down, you can easily strap on some heels or wedges to add a few inches of height. The most important thing you do right now is embrace yourself and accept yourself as you are. Ask any guy and they will tell you that they love short girls, it makes them feel protective. Being smaller also means you can fit into all of those super cute clothes that go on sale. You will grow a little bit more by high school, don’t worry! I grew 4 inches.
 
XO,
JANA

BY JIAE K. ON 9/6/2009 7:00:00 AM 57 COMMENTS

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YAH IM SUPER SHORT. xD People are always resting their arms on top of my head and stuff... :O Idontlikebeingshorterthanpeopleyoungerthanmethough. ><

sHyViOleT on 3/3/2010 4:07:52 PM

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lately ive been pestering my mom about buying some high heels. she always says either, "those are too high" or just plain "NO" how old should u be to wear heels and how can i percuade her! PLZ HELP!!!




Hey girl, high heels are more of an adult thing, but you can try persuading her by explaining why and where you want to wear them. To school? Not so much. But dances? Why not?

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

mojo41 on 12/30/2009 11:18:27 PM

Mod I'm 14 and almost 5"2 I weigh some where between 99 and 110 pounds. A lot of girls in my grade are short and petite/skinny or tall and skinny. I'm in between and I know that everyone is different and that there isn't a specific size I should be but I feel like I am fatter than everyone else. I have good self esteem and stuff I like my body I just don't like myself compared to the others. Plus I am a twin and my twin is about 30ish pounds less than I am even though she is shorter I am always being compared to her. But what is the weight range for my height/age? Thanks.







Youre the perfect weigh for your age and height. I know everyone else may be shorter and seem skinnier, but thats just because they're shorter. Want to know the real reason shorter people weigh less? Its because they have less bone mass than you do (your bones are longer so youre taller). So comparing yourself to them is very unfair to yourself. You are a cute girl Smile and youre taking great care of yourself. Keep up the good work girly! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

soccergirl95 on 12/12/2009 5:08:33 PM

Yeah, I have the same problem..
It's the rollercoasters that piss me off, though.

[xganzxalleinx] on 12/7/2009 11:13:16 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD DO GUYS SERIOUSLY LIKE SHORT GURLZ???? PLZ ANSWER I KNOW ITS A STUPID QUEST! PEACE Smile

 



Hey girl! It just depends on what they like. Guys like all types of girls so short girls def fit into that category.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

popstarno1 on 12/1/2009 7:00:43 AM

You're lucky. I'm twelve and 5'6. I tower above a lot of the girls at my school, and people ask me a lot of stupid questions like "Why are you so tall?" or "How's the weather up there?"

KawaiiBlond on 11/29/2009 7:30:29 PM

my cousin is like 5'4 and she is 11 im like 4'8 and im 12

girlzrock123 on 11/27/2009 7:20:17 PM

I'm only 4'9" so your so lucky

guycrazyctgirl160 on 11/26/2009 7:37:18 PM

i know how you feel i'm in seventh grade i'm only 5 fdott. My mom is 5'1" and my dad is 6'

exreme cheerleader24 on 11/24/2009 11:51:17 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! my mom is 5'3" and my dad is 6'1" and im 5'2" do u think I'll be around between those heights of my parents??

 

It really depends! You won't be an average of their heights prob. Genetics just don't work like that. You may just be one or the other. But there's no way of knowing until you wait a couple years. Best,

Miliana B.

mayte411 on 11/22/2009 1:50:08 AM

I don't get teased for being short but some people out of nowhere are like, "OMG, you're short!" as if they didn't know before. But I don't actually get made fun of. I get teased but it's okay cause since most of my other friends are short we just say "we're fun-sized!"

NJessicaN on 11/11/2009 11:37:19 AM

I JUST grew to 5 feet after I turned 13. But the thing is, I have alot of friends around my height. Some are an inch taller and some are an inch shorter. But other than that, we wear close to the same sizes (size 12-16 in kids, and size 6-8 in juniors) and close shoe sizes (7-8) so that's an advantage. WE CAN SHARE CLOTHES!

NJessicaN on 11/11/2009 11:34:50 AM

i have a really great friend who is 13 and she's only like 4 foot 9! it's kinda an advantage being short cuz she's really good at limbo! me and my other friends tease her for being short, but in a nice way!

kittykatz000000 on 10/29/2009 11:57:14 AM

MOD MOD MOD i am 5ft 2in 12 years old and i am happy at my height. but i was just wondering is this the average height for my age? cause my mom keeps saying how im soooo tall but i dont really feel that tall. my mom is 5ft 11in and my dads 6ft 1in so i think im still gonna grow. i have really long legs too maybe thats why i seem so tall to my mom

 

Hey chicky, most girlies are around 5'2'' at your age, so you have nothing to worry about. But you will be tall, considering the height of your parents.

Lynae P.

jessyjess on 10/25/2009 3:59:20 PM

MOD!!
I'm really short, 4ft 8 in and i'm 13 years old. My problem is that i gain weight really easily. Even just a little food will make me bloated, and my stomach enlarges dramatically between the time i wake up and go to sleep. I hate the feeling when my jeans feel really tight in the afternoon when they fit perfectly fine in the morning. What's wrong with me?




Hey girl! You should ask a doctor. 
Eryn G.

morningglory888 on 10/24/2009 11:52:28 PM

i am tall and i hate it i tower over most of my friends it's so annoying

blueberry1357 on 10/17/2009 3:50:12 PM

guys do not feel bad about being short iam 5;8inches and i am only 10 years old and it is hard for me because i looke down on every one

secretcodelil on 10/16/2009 9:27:51 AM

DUDE!!!!!1 SAME HERE! im 12 and only like 4'9 i h8 beiing short and everyone in my class r like mutants, theyre huge! especially the guy i like so being around him is awkward sux for me...

fali897 on 10/15/2009 9:15:06 PM

I'm 12, I'll be 13 in 22 days, and I'm only 4' 8"

I know exactly how you feel! If anyone ever calls you short, immediately retort with

"I'm not short, I'm vertically challenged!"

Works every time.

kendopolis on 10/4/2009 2:29:06 PM

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ok so this is sorta off topic but i still need help. I want to get my ears double-pierced but my mom said i cant until im 16. She says that I don't need that many holes in my ears. She also says that I am too irresponsible with my earrings b/c they r everywhere and i hav lost a backing or 2. I guess I can understand the fact about the irresponsibleness b/c i sorta am... but i dont get the 16 rule and stuff??? How do I get her to let up and agree w/ me. Cuz like i already have them pierced once...




I think that if you prove to her youre no longer irresponsible and stop losing your earrings then she'll let up on the 16 year old rule. But first you need to organize your earrings and prove to her youre responsible. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

troublemakr78 on 9/26/2009 10:19:02 PM

I'm 11 and only 4'9 my friends are at least 5 ft. My mom is 5'2 and my dad is 5'5. So I'm bound to be short. I play volleyball and can't get my overhand serve over the net . What should i do?

sparkles333 on 9/24/2009 4:53:39 PM

Im 5'3 and that may not seem short but when your on the volleyball team and you cant get your hands over the net it stinks when your bf is 5'11 it also stinks. i wish i had long legs!

billie241 on 9/16/2009 8:18:50 PM

Im 5'3 and that may not seem short but when your on the volleyball team and you cant get your hands over the net it stinks when your bf is 5'11 it also stinks. i wish i had long legs!

billie241 on 9/16/2009 8:17:56 PM

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I go to a private high school so we wear uniforms, but Friday we have a casual day, and I want to wear jeans and look good in them. I know I can't lose weight by then, so what kind of jeans should I wear to camaflouge my belly, my thighs, and my butt? I'm nowhere near being obese, just thick from my waist down, and I don't want those areas to be noticable in jeans. Thanks!




DArk wash do wonders at slimming you down. So i suggest you get jeans that are stretchy so they are comfortable and are dark wash so you look slim and trim. Have fun! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

lovesmusic9 on 9/13/2009 12:47:17 AM

I'm very tall... I'm only 11 and I'm about 5'9 and souposed to be atleast 6'0!!! So all of you who think it sucks to be short you shouldn't say that cuz when I was like 5 I was too tall to go on any of the kiddy rides... I was 3'0 when I was 2!!! So tall can be good but if your too tall you can actully die... The tallest lady alive when she was 11 she was only 5 inches taller than me... And she can barely walk and she has a really deep voice.. I definetly don't like that... I mean my voice isn't too deep but I sound kinda like a boy...

PEACE!ELLA!

jellybean1998 on 9/12/2009 1:10:57 PM

***MOD*** I just measured myself and I'm exactly 5 feet! MY mom is 5'1 and a half, and my dad is 6'1". I haven't started growing breasts yet, and I don't have my period. How tall do u think I'm going to be...or am I going to get any taller?? Thanks!

 

You're still growing and maturing, but there is no way to know for sure how tall you will be. If you go to the doctor, he or she can give you a rough estimate where you will be when you are fully grown. Usually doctors estimate somewhere in between both of your parents. You will likely get taller!

Megan R.

SummerRox on 9/12/2009 10:22:34 AM

i think guys do like shorter girls or about the same height. my major crush isnt at my school anymore but my bff still teases me that if we ever kissed i would either need a step stool or just stand on his feet

eki_dancer13 on 9/12/2009 1:34:46 AM

trying not try

JeNNY101 on 9/11/2009 11:52:58 PM

wow. lol what are try to say..that guys dont like tall girls??? man I feel worse. haha

JeNNY101 on 9/11/2009 11:52:42 PM

its ok, when i was 13 i was 5'10" and felt like a giant. Now im 14 and 5'11"

xmasrxs on 9/11/2009 9:53:35 PM

Well that makes me sad that guys like short girls! Thats not always true though. Im 5'7.5. I guess there are positives to being tall and short. Smile

Dancing Diva on 9/11/2009 6:21:01 PM

MOD MOD I'M 5' 6". My mom is 5' 7" and my dad is 5' 11" my to older brother is 19 and 6' 3" and my other brother is 6' 5" will I get taller???




Hey babe,

since your brothers did you still might, but I don't think it will be that much taller. You're already a little over the average height for a woman, just like your brothers are a little over the average height for a man. Maybe you'll grow another inch or two, but probably not more than that.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

Brownie7877 on 9/11/2009 5:53:09 PM

hey yall dont feel bad about being short it has its advanages an ts dis advanages im 16 and i havent grown since i was 12 im 5'3 and pretty uch every body in my family and my friends are taller than me but thats ok if some body says ur short say "no, im fun sized" lol

im_so_illy on 9/11/2009 5:46:16 PM

i'm 13 and 4 9

iDance4God on 9/11/2009 5:31:00 PM

I'm 13 and im like 4' 8"! ugh being short is cool but bad!
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Hi! Ok i just found out my crush doesn't like me! it was science and I heard a girl say to him: "Who do you like?" Then she said "I know who. Meg over there." (that's me!) my crush said "No, I prefer taller girls." Frown( Frown( Frown( What can I do to get over this?




Hey babe,

I'm sorry to hear that, but being ready to move on is a great first step. Try to focus on your friends and your activities and your schoolwork for awhile. The less time you have to think the less time you'll spend thinking about him.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

pearlnagem on 9/11/2009 4:44:54 PM

I'm only 5 ft and im in 8th grade! i feel ya pain! tho alot of people think im older than i am!!! haha idk why! i guess i look older despite my height lol Smile
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Monkey Gal on 9/11/2009 3:24:55 PM

I'm not short, im average. Jana is so right about guys like short girls becus it make sthem feel protective lol. lucky!

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SportyGal on 9/11/2009 8:24:03 AM

HEY GIRL
im short too
i'm 12 and i'm 4'9"
my doc said i'm only supposed to reach 5'1" or 5'2"
if that!!!!
at least we don't have to worry about being taller than a guy
~guys can pick us up easily
~we can ride most kiddie rides our friends can't!!
i know it seems hard but just push threw it and know that ur beautiful!!!

dancechick44 on 9/10/2009 5:25:05 PM

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ok, so I'm 12 years old (7th grade) and im about 5"4. My mom is 5"5 and dad, 5"8. I take after my dad a little more (i think) and tht means I am gunna be like his sisters who are pretty short. (very, actually) and it's KILLING ME!!! I LOVE being taller then other ppl, so do u think I WILL grow an inch or 2? (maybe more?) My face is already murturing now.... help!




Hey girl, first off, remember that all girls are beautiful regardless of what size or height they are. The thing to know, though, is that everyone's body is unique and they're all growing at different rates. Give it some time, girlie. You'll definitely grow a lot more before you're a full adult. Don't sweat it now!

xoxo
Alyssa B.

gabster08 on 9/10/2009 4:57:13 PM

Be happy with what you are!! I am 5'5" and one of the tallest girls in my class. I am even taller than some on the guys! No one is completely happy with their body, just be confident!

lechair on 9/10/2009 3:20:50 PM

OMG I am in the same position!! I'm 13 and 4'11, almost about 5 feet. But the other day this girl actually thought I was 4'8 and i'm like what the heck?! But one time when I was 11 this lady thought I was 8 years old and I was w/ my BFF who is also like my exact height, and the lady said nothing about her! It was so weird!

volleyballgirl102 on 9/10/2009 9:11:45 AM

i'm 11, and 5'2, or 5'3. i'm supposed to be about 5'9, at least that's what my doctor said (: i sort of like being taller-ish (:

bluegreeneyegurl<333 on 9/9/2009 10:51:25 AM

im in 7th grade and im 4'5 probobly the shortes in my class. most boys made fun of me being short...but who cares gotta deal with it..it really sucks. once i was at the doc buying a pretzal in the cafe and a clerk thut i was 9 when i was really 12..sad but true!!

xdancerxcheerleader on 9/7/2009 10:42:02 PM

***MOD***
I noticed in the shower that I have a lot of armpit hair!! Yikes! I don't want to tell my mom but how can I get rid of it painlessly?




Hi babe,




Don't be afraid to tell your mom. She went through the same thing when she was your age. Try shaving. It's easy and painless.




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

Wehkamp96 on 9/7/2009 9:11:31 PM

I'm 13 and 5'3. That's cool to know guys like short girls. Haha my bf is 5 inches taller than me.


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Abriella123 on 9/7/2009 8:35:28 PM

Hey girlie I know exactly how you feel. I've always been short compared to people in my grade, and I've dealt with a lot of comments (like hey, you're short!, it's like duh!!!) I know it's annoying, but who knows? You're still growing, and you'll probably grow a few inches by the end of the year. If it really bothers you, maybe wear some wedges or heels? Not everyday, but on special occasions it could boost your self-confidence! Also, just learn to love your body the way it is. When you feel confident, people can tell that! Smile I know that you're beautiful girlie! Smile

ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/7/2009 2:45:32 PM

Your mom is soooo right.
And I agree with dina22464. Smile

gladiator*girl on 9/7/2009 1:13:08 PM

oh my gosh i know what you mean! don't worry!!!!!!

amrox08 on 9/7/2009 12:44:26 PM

Same thing happens to me! One time ,we went to this Mexican Restraunt, and I got a Kid's Menu, I looked at the age requirements and it was like, either 8 or 10 and under, and I am almost thirteen, so I feel really bad, and at this other resturant the waiter thought my 10 year old brother was older then me!

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