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Inappro texter is in my class!

 

I have been having this problem with a boy. He texted me inappropriate questions and word got around. That was a year ago, and my mom requested him to not be in any of my classes this year.


The problem is, he's in my language arts and social studies class anyway! What should I do? I am scared he will do something to me, especially because everyone found out what he texted to me.


HELP!

Hey girl, you don’t have to deal with this sticky sitch alone. This guy has no right to make you feel uncomfortable or harass you at your own school—or anywhere else for that matter. First, tell your mom that this boy is in your classes. Most likely, she’ll be upset and want to meet with your principal ASAP.


When you and mama meet with your principal, make sure you’re there and explain exactly why you don’t want this guy in your class. Let your principal know how much he gets on your nerves. You could say, “I feel really uncomfortable and nervous when I’m around him. I’m afraid he’s going to do something to me.” Hopefully, your principal will listen and actually do something about your situation.


But for now, be sure to keep your distance. Don’t even say anything to the terrible texter. If he talks to you, just ignore him or get your BFFs to back you up. Who knows? Maybe he’ll leave you alone and allow you to move on with your life. Most importantly, remember none of this is your fault and you’re not a bad person. You should feel great about standing up for yourself.


Lots of love,
L’Oreal

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How did he get ur #???

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by #1iowadefendersfan on 10/14/2009 2:21:49 PM

 
 

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
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2. Say ur mom's name 5x
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by michipie205 on 10/7/2009 4:53:52 PM

 
 

Answer these questions:
-is he being gross to you specifically in class?
-Does he constantly make weird noises in your direction?
If none of the above, there might not be a need to switch classes.
But if it is too uncomfortable, then tell your parents about it so they can talk to your teachers.
Hope this helps!
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by ky :) on 10/1/2009 1:49:16 PM

 
 

i got a prob lik that 2...

by sportygalygurl on 9/27/2009 5:40:36 PM

 
 

Mod!! My friend is having a Halloween party this year and I was wondering if you had any ideas of a unique costume. She usually gives out a best costume award, and I want to be comfy and confident wearing it. Her brother's friends will be there (they are in a grade ahead of us) and I don't want to look dumb like I did last year. Any ideas? Thanks!!

 

Hey girly, I think going as a Hollywood star would make a great costume. Check out this link http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/hollywood-halloween-costumes.aspx to read about cool Hollywood costumes!
 


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by AcePrincessGal on 9/18/2009 3:29:47 PM

 
 

if i were you i'd stay away from him and if he text u anything i say get one of your older guy cousins or brother if you have one to ''scare'' the crap out of him you don't have to deal with it!!!!

by punkrose babe on 9/16/2009 10:43:28 PM

 
 

That had 2 b soooo embarassing! I feel 4 u!
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by GLreader44 on 9/16/2009 4:50:47 PM

 
 

thats so not nice.

by luv2txt on 9/15/2009 9:04:20 PM

 
 

Wow that guy is something all right. You don't have to deal with this, so you should tell your principal and teacher. Ooooooh and he better not text anything stupid or innapropriate to you. He's got problems if he is going to still keep on doing that to you!! So don't deal with it!!

by LilyLoverre on 9/13/2009 5:08:20 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD can u help me?? Last year, one girl in my class sent some REALLY innapro pics of herself to her BF, let's call him 'Bob', and that got them both in tons of trouble (and resulted in immediate dumping) but, im starting to have feelings for 'Bob', but i also dont want him to hurt me like he did her. I know that its best for me to stay away from him, but im a bit low on the self-control. please tell me what to do! Thanx!

 

Hey girly, well guys act different with different girls. So maybe he won't hurt you like he did her. I say, give him a chance.

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by angelfood123 on 9/13/2009 3:57:49 PM

 
 

hey girlie, you do NOT have to deal with this. At most schools, harassment is punishable by suspension or worse. TELL YOUR PRINCIPAL or giudance counselor. They'll be more than happy to help you! stay strong!
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by angelfood123 on 9/13/2009 3:46:48 PM

 
 

Smile hey thats good advice you should follow it Smile

by sweetchic1116 on 9/13/2009 12:52:10 PM

 
 

Wow. what a freak. guys r to hard to deal with!

by XXMINZXX on 9/13/2009 12:36:20 PM

 
 

girl that sucks. Frown

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by clubcheer on 9/12/2009 4:11:05 PM

 
 

if this happend to me and this guy talked to me i wod prolly b lke back off and dont talk to ever again or text me or call

by dancer4life101 on 9/12/2009 1:54:31 PM

 
 

Block his number on your phone!! Most phones let you do this, but whether you do or not you still need to talk to your mom about it! This boy sounds really obnoxious, and he's got no right to harass you. Go girls!

by Percyjacksonfan on 9/12/2009 11:04:23 AM

 
 

jeez, he sounds really annoying.

by punkprincess19 on 9/12/2009 10:56:49 AM

 
 

He sounds so annoying.

by Haley160 on 9/12/2009 3:37:49 AM

 
 

Why are so many guys such losers???????

by readerhi1234 on 9/11/2009 11:54:02 PM

 
 

Mod!
Quick question: I just cast in my school play as an understudy for a character that has to kiss someone. I've never kissed anyone, so if the person playing the character gets sick- even just during a rehersal- I'm in BIG trouble. To make matters worse, the boy in question is someone I'm not real fond of because he's really arrogant. So I can't even talk to him about this. My friend keeps teasing me about the situation and I'm really freaked out. Help!




Hey babe,


Tell your friend that the teasing is making you nervous and try to look at the situation in a positive way: a stage kiss isn't really a real kiss and everyone knows that but you still get a chance to practice kissing so when you have your real first kiss you won't be so nervous!

xoxo Allie
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by Bellalovett_101 on 9/11/2009 7:52:41 PM

 
 

people r so creepy.

by PicturePerfect on 9/11/2009 7:47:55 PM

 
 

wow that must be annoying. there was a boy like that in my 6th grade class. but then i moved so i never saw him again. Smile

by mariaheartsyou on 9/11/2009 7:35:10 PM

 
 

how did he get ur number? tough sitch, but here's what u do: block his number from ur phone!!! then u'll never get any of his texts.

by hit.the.surfs. on 9/11/2009 6:47:51 PM

 
 

MOD!
Do you guys get any questions about embarressing or awkward stuff? I dont want to be the only one!




Hey babe,

I'm not sure what you mean by embarrassing or awkward, but I can pretty much guarantee you won't be the only one. Almost every question I've been asked has been exactly the same as a question someone else asked. You gals are more alike that you realize! You have a lot of the same fears and worries, and a big part of them is worrying that you're "weird" or too different. Smile

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by musicrox on 9/11/2009 5:36:16 PM

 
 

MOD:
i subcribed for gl last year in septemberish but the first mag i got was dec/jan. when will my subscription end




Hey babe,

It depends how many issues you bought, but you'll get a notice before your subscription ends.

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by bballinn123 on 9/11/2009 4:29:03 PM

 
 

wow! thats a bit scary, but some guys are like that. But he probably wont do anything like that again, because everyone knows. Some of my guy friends are like that, but they are just fooling around...
-Olivia

by olivia13 on 9/11/2009 9:08:22 AM

 
 

O wow! I am so sorry! That is creepy!










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by coolgreengirl on 9/10/2009 10:13:58 PM

 
 

MOD!!! Okay so last night i had this dream that this guy that i go to school with and me were sitting on this hill then started making out, but it wasnt gross it was actually really sweet and stuff. So anyway i have talked to him like during class and stuff but not all that much. I have never thought of him like that. Do u think this means i like him or something? plz help i am confused!

 

Hey girlie! It could mean that but dreams can get so crazy sometimes it's hard to know if they mean anything at all!

-Taeler

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by Cali_babe on 9/10/2009 9:43:10 PM

 
 

Hey girlie! It's something that happens to guys. No need to be scared/nervous. And, you can always ask your teach about it after class if you're still curious!

-Taeler

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by chefmandm on 9/10/2009 9:19:12 PM

 
 

Just ignore him if he texts you again especially like that bring it to the principal and make sure he def will not be in anymore of ur classes but for right now you could go talk to ur guidance councilor or you could take a medium way out and get a RESTRAINING ORDER and CHANGE UR NUMBER and don't tell him or just BLOCK ALL HIS TEXTS AND CALLS WHICH IS POSSIBLE.

by star53 on 9/10/2009 9:15:10 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD~ Since there's a mag for every month, is there going to be a GL Sept. mag? i am a subscriber, and I haven't recieved my mag yet! Thanks!

 

Hey girlie! We publish every 2 months. So, since you're a subscriber you should be receiving your next mag (for months October and Novemeber) in the next few weeks!

-Taeler

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by selenaFan97 on 9/10/2009 9:14:00 PM

 
 

Also it's been scientifically proven girls mature a lot faster than guys.

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by eckogirl567 on 9/10/2009 9:13:47 PM

 
 

Once in my school someone sent this very inappropriate chain text message and most of the parents found out and they weren't able to track whoever wrote it down. Frown

by eckogirl567 on 9/10/2009 9:11:57 PM

 
 

Ugh.Guys are so creepyFrown

by actress96 on 9/10/2009 9:01:12 PM

 
 

thats creepy but y did u tell every1 he txted u those things? Also if everyone knos then he probably won't do anything cuz he knos every1 knos

by volley♥it! on 9/10/2009 8:18:44 PM

 
 

If he texts you with some weird questions or sends some inappro pictures save them and show your teacher. I have had guys, and most of us probably have, where they asked weird questions or sent nasty pictures. When that happens you have to tell someone like your mom or your teacher. And block him.

by luckykel on 9/10/2009 8:15:09 PM

 
 

that is kinda creepy!!!!!
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by itzy bitzy on 9/10/2009 7:58:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! help!
i need help! i have a big test tomorrow, and i haven't had time to study until now! what do i do!?




Hey girl, the first thing you can do is shut your computer and phone off and stick to your book -- no distractions. Take a deep breath and read over your notes. Quiz yourself on the important stuff. Be sure too to get a good night's sleep. Cramming isn't good, so in the future, try to space your studying out -- you'll learn the material better. Good luck!

xoxo 
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by dance_chick_2013 on 9/10/2009 7:47:51 PM

 
 

Tell the teacher and make sure he doesn't text you. Just block calls and texts from him.


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by Abriella123 on 9/10/2009 7:46:04 PM

 
 

MOD, How long does it take for the GL magazines to come in?




Hey girl, if you have a subscription, you should get our next issue about a week or two before it hits newsstands. Issues are sent out at the same time, so you should have your issue within a couple of days after it's shipped.

xoxo 
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by 500935 on 9/10/2009 7:45:48 PM

 
 

*****MOD*****
OMG!!!! i seriously need ur opinion... so i kinda like- ok, what am i saying i seriously like my guyfriend ive known for two years now. lately we have been hanging out a lot more because i started to like him more than a friend and now we are a lot closer than we used to be... but anyways my problem is that i really cant tell if he likes me or not and the reason why is because when we are alone together, he treats me different than when we are with our friends...( we share some of the same friends.) like the other day when i approached him when it was just him and me he said quote: " you smell like a girl... and i was like " what do u mean?" and all he said was " dont worry, thats a good thing..." Smile well anyways, my bff that knows him told me that hes kinda quiet with everyone not just me... well i guess what im so confused about is how like today he kinda ignored me... because our friends were around- i think.... but like yesterday afterschool he hung out with me... and when we are alone he acts more comfortable... and last year my bff asked him... " would you go out with ( my name)? " and he said " yeah i would, but i dont think it would last and i dont think i could love her like she would expect me to..." AH!!!!!!!! and another thing... im ALWAYS the one to start the convo... and im really getting tired of it... and i almost feel like im the one doing all the work, but even tho im the first to start the convo, im the one who says i have to go everytime... im sorry mod if this is soooooo long.... i just really need someone's opinion.... thank you sooooo much!




Hey girl, it stinks when you have to control the conversation. I know what that's like and a good conversationalist asks Q's too -- not just takes yours. Try flirting with your BGF a bit and seeing how he reacts. What are his signals when you hint you wouldn't mind going on a date with him? Hot? Cold? Give it some time and see how it goes. Good luck, girlie, and don't be afraid to find a way to get that answer.

xoxo  
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by u+me=love on 9/10/2009 7:43:31 PM

 
 

i am SO glad that guys in our class don't do that, even if most of them are pretty immature. but if you do get a text like that, don't reply, and just take it to someone you trust, like your mom or dad or principal. you need to let people know so that he'll stop! Smile

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by CLUB GLAMOUROUS! on 9/10/2009 7:32:36 PM

 
 

Ohh my that would be horrible! I would so try to get new classes!

by RainforestPanda on 9/10/2009 7:32:23 PM

 
 

I have sooo many guys at school that are like that, except they dont text it they say it to u.

by littlemiss139 on 9/10/2009 7:25:40 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Over the summer I was hanging out with a friend and she said one of her goals this year was to make as many friends as possible. This is a great goal, but she's taking it too seriously. Now she completely ignores her group of friends from last year, the group I'm in. But then she tries talking to me and acts like nothing is wrong. And when I got my hair cut and got like 6 inches off everyone noticed but her. I don't mind her making more friends but i don't want her ignoring her old ones either. What should I do? Thanks and sorry this was so long!




Hey girl, I think the best way to handle this sitch is to tell her. Tell your bestie what you just told me: that you think it's great she's making new friends, but you don't want her to forget the old ones. Be gentle when you tell her, but be frank. Honesty strengthens relationships, not breaks them down. Good luck!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by skichick95 on 9/10/2009 6:18:04 PM

 
 

dont replay if he txts u somthing like idk rude tell the teacher a teacher is like a friend the come and go but u trust , i HATE THIS boy named austin such a player i dated him for 1 day dumped that jerk but 4 really dont talk in no way Alyssa B.

by scelf99 on 9/10/2009 5:59:05 PM

 
 

dont replay if he txts u somthing like idk rude tell the teacher a teacher is like a friend the come and go but u trust , i HATE THIS boy named austin such a player i dated him for 1 day dumped that jack @$$ but 4 really dont talk in no way

by scelf99 on 9/10/2009 5:58:19 PM

 
 

*******MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD******* today at recess a girl in my grade was handing out invites to her b-day party and she invited all the girls in the grade and im not really friends with her so my prob is if i should go or not cuz she can be really rude and snoby but she can also be nice so idk if i should go cuz someone said that she just invited all the girls is for the gifts but i overheard someone ask if she wanted a gift and she was like "i dont care if you get me anything"so MOD plz help!!!!!!! cuz idk if i should go or not!!!!!




Hey girl, gift or no gift, if everyone is going, it might be a fun party. Give this girl a chance and don't miss out on a chance to have a good time. In terms of gifts, it's polite to bring something small but don't sweat having the best gift of the bunch. Make a nice card and just be prepared to have a great time. Have fun!

xoxo 
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by girlzrock123 on 9/10/2009 5:53:54 PM

 
 

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by fashionista305 on 9/10/2009 5:41:46 PM

 
 

eeek! that's really creepy!!

by DanizRad on 9/10/2009 5:28:55 PM

 
 

Guys are so messed up....

by gladiator*girl on 9/10/2009 5:27:41 PM

 
 

MOD Thank-you Olivia. I think the reason why i usually don't talk to much is because i never wanted to say anything stupid, but this year I've noticed that either way, you say some unintentional things, and even if you think you completely embarrassed yourself, no one really gives a care or notices. Smile

 

Exactly so be yourself and like I said be confident and you will be fine

 

Olivia

Olivia A.

by orangeslice on 9/10/2009 4:45:33 PM

 
 

aaawwww that suuuuuxxxxxx

by JJ25 on 9/10/2009 4:40:40 PM

 
 

I would try to ignore him, I don't think he would try anything because you have reported him. Still, you never know... MOD Hi, how are you? I'm fine but I've been having a little trouble at school. In my classes, no one wants to work with me or it by me. For example, in chemistry, I sit by myself, when they are tables that sit two. I'm a quiet person in the classroom, so maybe thats the reason why I don't hae many friends. I just wish that I could stop being a third wheel,like if I have someone I talk to in class, they will easily pass me to be partners and go after their 'real' friend. It also could be because I act like too much of a push over, like once again in chemistry, a girl sat in one of the tables, the chair next to mine, and asked if she and her friend could sit there.I a bit irritated said okay, because I didn't really like the seat, and sat down in another empty desk. I just don't feel accepted.

 

Hey Girl,

Use the confidence I know you have in you. If you let your confidence shine people will be drawn to you. If you feel like a push over be more assertive and stand out. Classmates will be lfocking to you in no time.

 

Olivia

Olivia A.

by orangeslice on 9/10/2009 4:33:06 PM

 
 

**MOD** my mom really wants me to join the youth group at my church. she said that i could bring my bff every week. i don't really like all of the kids that go and i don't really wanna be commited to that every sunday night. It does sound fun i guess but i just dont know yet. Also, my bff doesn't really like to commit to things and she complains a lot if she doesn't want to do something. I would feel awkward if she does come and complain because it is my church. Ugh! i don't know what to do! HELP ME PLEASE!!!

 

Hey Girl,

Don't panic. I would ask your BFF to go with you as a favor. I'm sure since you guys are tight she will go with you. Try it, if you don't like it you don't have to go again. Giving it a shot doesn't hurt though.

 

Olivia

Olivia A.

by dancingrl <3 on 9/10/2009 4:03:41 PM

 
 

ugh! that stinks!

by Photochickie on 9/10/2009 3:36:21 PM

 
 

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by wednesday1408 on 9/10/2009 3:09:45 PM

 
 

If you're still having problems with this guy in the hallways or whatever (after the whole principal thing) you could always find a good friend and walk together. Every situation is made better with a bud by your side!

by puppyrock3 on 9/10/2009 2:26:25 PM

 
 

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by christiangirlsgroup on 9/10/2009 2:18:58 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD thanks taeler i know its probly hectic ther and every time i needed advice you guys are always there !!!!! so how r u????

 

Hey girlie! No prob! Happy to help! And, I'm great today!

-Taeler

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by soccerhet on 9/10/2009 10:56:30 AM

 
 

yeah don't worry it will all work out in the end

by jane.squash on 9/10/2009 10:49:57 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD !!!!!!!! i realy like this guy and keep having dreams about him what does it mean and how do i no he"ll like me back?????????!!!!! HELP!!!!!

 

Hey girlie! Sounds like you have a major crush! Just keep being confident and being yourself! The only way to truly know if he likes you is to ask!

-Taeler

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by soccerhet on 9/10/2009 10:47:22 AM

 
 

hay im second comment!!!!!

by soccerhet on 9/10/2009 10:45:24 AM

 
 

All guys do that sometimes, trust me. and yeah since like everyone knows (including ur mom) about what he did, he wont try anything else again!

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