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I moved at the beginning of the summer. Then I went vacationing in the same town that my BF lives in. I met up with my friends who said that they had seen my BF around.

This is strange because he said he was on vacation in Germany. So I called his house and there was no answer.

Then my BFF called to say that she just saw him again. What is going on?

Hey girl,

Yikes, that’s a toughie. Your friends are telling you one thing but your hearts telling you that there’s gotta be some explanation. Moving is tough and I gotta give ya props for trying long distance with your BF. Def not an easy feat. This is a guy AND friend dilemma since there's really no way to tell who's being honest. Unfortunately, in this situation it looks like ONE of your sources is lying.

So, it's one of two explanations. Either your guy didn't tell you the truth and your friend did see him strolling around town, or your guy is home and your gal isn’t being 100% honest with ya. The signs point to your BF being out of town since you haven't seen him and no one picks up when he calls. Plus, saying you're going to Germany seems a li'l excessive for a white lie.

I don't know why your friend wouldn't be honest with you so for now assume she's keeping it real. She prob thinks she saw him. Talk to her one-on-one and ask her to tell you exactly what she saw. You never know, it could be some look-a-like! But that doesn't mean you should be in denial of the possibility. There's no need to stress out and jump to conclusions before getting all the info.

Regardless of whether your BF is home or not, it sure seems like he's not telling you everything. It's a little surprising that he didn't call or send you a letter or postcard this past summer. Since it's time to head back to class, maybe he came back from vacay a little early. You def need to get in touch with him (try sending an email, sending him a message on Facebook, calling his house again or texting). Ask him to be honest with you and to tell you what's up. That'll clear the air. He's your BF, so it's not fair that you feel like you have to doubt him, right?

This is a situation filled with lotsa miscommunications, so you gotta confront both your BF and your friends. I wish you the best of luck with clearing up this prob and good luck at your new school.

Best,

Miliana

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Hi. Yeah So I like this guy like A LOT but he is 2 years older than me. I don’t know if he likes me but I always see him staring at me then he turns bright red if I catch him looking at me! When I hang with my friends in his grade he always comes over there and asks his friend near me a question. On Friday night at the football game I was with my friends in his grade and babysitting little kids I was standing behind him and he turned around and was looking at me! I stood up with one of the kids on back and he kept looking at me! Then I looked at him and he turned his head really quickly and blushed! All my friends in his grade always try to introduce us. But somthing always get in the way! I once saw him at the store and his mom went down the aisle we were on. He saw me then was like,"Mom do you need anything on that aisle?" And pointed to the aisle next to us. I don’t know what to do should I wait for him to make the move should I just let him go????? Please help me! It is so confusing… Oh yeah I need to tell you we are on a know each others names thing not a hey how are you thing so please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!P.S. I love your profile!!! Oh Yeah Sorry For The LONG Message!!:-(

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myohmy101 on 11/24/2009 2:00:42 PM

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Hey, i really need your help. Okay so i am not that confident. There is this one girl i know that always looks so pritty and she is one of those girls who could get any guy she wanted. I always feel super self concious around her. Also the guy i like is friends with the guys that always talk to her and are around her (he is not one of them). How do i stop being self concious? Also how come guys never talk to me unless i start the conversation? When i do start the conversations they are always so open and nice as if i was talking to you of my close friends, but always seem kinda nervous. I feel like something is wrong with me because lots of guys are nervouse and weird acting around me but when they are around this other girl they just act as if they were talking to one of there close buds. Sorry this is so long but i could really use an explanation to all of this. lots of love
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Hey girl, it's hard to say (each guy is a case-by-case thing) but it's way important you know that you are beautiful, nice and amazing. These guys obviously see it too. Be confident and don't be shy. Things are only awkward if you make them awkward. And here's the secret girlie: guys like the girls who believe in themselves. Have that faith and you'll be great.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

1234makemeinsane on 10/15/2009 5:18:24 PM

Hi guys can you give me some advice? See I really like this guy, he is so cute and we totally click. Plus he told me last year that he liked me the only problem is I don't know if he still does and I scared to ask him.What should I do?

Cornetto morango on 10/7/2009 7:33:52 AM

i like this guy and he flirts with me but he wants to ask out another girl but i really like him and i feel like i want to cry because he dosent want to go out with me what can i do i want to be his girl friend so much HELP!!!!

adrianajacinto58 on 10/1/2009 8:00:10 PM

MOD!!!!MOD!!!!MOD!!!!!!MOD!!!!! okay so I just found out from one of my friends that this guy likes me and wants 2 ask me out!! He is really cute and is on the football team! Now the problem is that another one of my friends likes him and she liked him way b4 me! If he asks me out should I say no?? What should I tell my friend??(she doesn't know he likes me yet)I don't know what to do!

Hey girly, you should ask your friend if she's okay with you guys going out first because you don't wanna loose a friend over a guy.

Lynae P.

Tiff!x84 on 9/27/2009 3:53:11 PM

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hEY I Just found out today from my gf that my crush(my gf doesnt know i like him) is going out with a freshmann. Im really upset. He was asked out three times already this year on his freshmann year. Im in eighth grade and have no intentions of going out til the later part of high school cuz im 13, but I hate that hes already dating and i dont think hes a stuck-up popular kid but at the same time a lot of girls think hes great lookin. Help for my self esteem. Thanks

Hey babe, everyone is different and you'll start dating when you're ready. You're young and have your whole life ahead of you to meet new guys so just enjoy the great things you have going on now!

katelin s.

mccap0123 on 9/22/2009 10:24:51 PM

MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD! Im it the seventh grade and EVERYONE has a boyfriend! I dont now if i should be going out with guys at 13! I do like this guy but im not sure if im really sure what my mom would think if i went out with boys.

Hey girl! At your age, it's tough to be diff. But don't do anything you're not okay with. If you don't want to date yet, that's totally fine! If you do, try sitting down with your mom and talk to her about it. It sounds kinda weird, but she's been in your sitch before, so she'll understand. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

gotpink on 9/20/2009 8:21:38 PM

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THere is this guy i like, my friends says he is always staring at me and sending me the siganls that he lkes me , but when i look at him he is always by the girl that is sitting next to me. Does that mean he likes me or the other girl.
P.S. He is really shy and so am I.

Hey girl, it's hard when the signals aren't clear. It seems like he may like the other girl though sadly and is just afraid to talk to her. Give it some time and keep your eyes out. You never know with guys and don't be afraid yourself to say hi sometime too.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

chillipurry on 9/17/2009 6:58:17 PM

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ok so i know asked i asked for advice the other day...but i forgot to mention that this guy is a sophmore....im a freshman but hes still and upper classman...plus there is this other guy that i used to like but dont anymore and i need to tell him because the last time he liked someone they ended up going out with someone else and it really hurt him...im not sure what to say to him. thanks for the advice the other day Allie and thanks to whoever helps today

Hey girl, thanks for the thanks first off! It means a lot! As for your guy sitch, while I don't know the full deets, if you don't like this guy anymore and he doesn't like you, you don't really need to tell him. Just let it go and be friends. The upperclassman? Believe me, the one year difference is no biggie. It's one thing if you're a freshman and your guy's a senior, but if you're only one year apart, believe me, it can work. It's totes acceptable (or at least it was at my high school). Just be confident and let your personality shine -- works every time!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

skittleluvr94 on 9/17/2009 6:46:25 PM

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ok so i had an AMAZING DAY. the guy i am crushing on sat with me today. HE INITIATED IT!!! and i talked to him for like 30 mins on the bus. we have SO much in common and i stil get SO nervous when i see him!! i get the jitters just thinking about him!! i want to like maybe start dating him but i'm soo nervous! what if things dont work out? what if he rejects me? what if what if what if!!!!!! aaahh!! i like him SO much!!! but he's amazing just perfect and i just.....have NEVER EVER IN MY LIFE felt this way about ANY guy! please help!!!

Hey girl, sounds like you've got a crush on this guy! First thing first, take a deep breath. It will ALL be fine. What's meant to be WILL be and chances are you two are destined to be friends if not more. Next time you talk, try to hint to him that you think you're a good pair. Let him know in that subtle way you'd like to hang out with him, the definition of that hangout (date or not?) up to him. With the right signals, he'll catch the hint and from there on, it's up to him. The ball will be in his court; no need to be afraid now to make the first move!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

Ringette #9 on 9/16/2009 9:50:44 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!OK heres the deal theres this guy and i hav lked him since 4th grade and now im in 7th ya wow i know we went out in 5th but we had a VERY painful breakup (longstory) but ive been in lik a love with him for like ever we broke up and it really hurt now hes going out with some other girl but i know it wont last long and we just started talking 2 each other again with usually takes a month now i want to flirt with him and show with him and show him i still like him without bein desperate

Hey girl, wow, sounds like you've got lotsa history together. Take a deep breath though, girlie -- if it's meant to be, it will be, promise! Your guy's dating another girl right now, so technically he's off limits. I know, I know, that's not what you wanna hear, but you've gotta respect his relationship and understand it's his. As for you, don't be afraid to take a peek at the other guys around you -- there's tons. Strike up a convo and get to know that cutie in your math class. Granted, he's not your 5th grade fling, but there may be that 'lil spark that'll lead to the real thing. Good luck!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

1bum10 on 9/16/2009 9:27:14 PM

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1bum10 on 9/16/2009 8:49:01 PM

OK heres the deal theres this guy and i hav lked him since 4th grade and now im in 7th ya wow i know we went out in 5th but we had a VERY painful breakup (longstory) but ive been in lik a love with him for like ever we broke up and it really hurt now hes going out with some other girl but i know it wont last long and we just started talking 2 each other again with usually takes a month now i want to flirt with him and show with him and show him i still like him without bein desperate

1bum10 on 9/16/2009 8:46:30 PM

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ok so the other day my cousin asked me what i thought of this guy at my school (she said it was because he asked her to) and i told her i thought he was kool and that he was really cute. Then she said not to tell anyone that he wanted to know. then at school today we talked like we usualy do except i was trying to figure out what Fecha means(its spanish) and i was like does it mean date and he said what of course i wont go on a date with you...(hes kind of a jokester) so idk if he likes me or not...i mean it seems like he might but im not sure...what do you think i should do??

Hey babe,

I think he might. That sounds like a funny guy's idea of a joke. If he's asking people to find out what you think of him he's probably going to make a move pretty soon, so just be patient!

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

skittleluvr94 on 9/16/2009 6:28:58 PM

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I met my crush at one of our monthly homeschool group teen parties. He is a really cool guy- funny, mature, sweet, intelligent, artistic and sensitive. We also have a LOT in common. Well, we became friends while he had a girlfriend, but now he's single. I'm trying to figure out if he likes me... He always says "Hi!" when he sees me and always seems happy to see me or hear from me (we IM a lot). I told our other friend that I like him and she said we would make a good couple. Well, at the last party, my friend accidentally hurt me and caused me to dislocate my kneecap. They had to call 911 and I was screaming and everything. I IMed him the next day and I said "So, did I scare the heck out of everyone last night?" and he said "Scare everyone? huh?" So I said "That was me screaming if you heard." And he sent back "Oh my goodness that was you! No one told me that was you!" And then he asked if I was the person who got my leg hurt and immediately after that if I was okay.
My friend suggested to me that I IM him or say to him on Facebook "If my leg's healed by the Halloween party, I expect a dance with you." to kind of amp up the flirting a little.
So, my questions are: Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? Do you think I should send the thing about dancing to him? And if I do, would it be ok to write it on his Facebook page instead of IMing, or would that be too bold?
Also, how can I be better at flirting in person? I am a witty person and I don't really find flirting itself hard, he just makes me EXTREMELY nervous!
Thanks so much and sorry this was so long! =)

Hey babe,

I think your friend had a good idea about the Halloween party, but it depends how public you want it to be or not whether you send it over IM or Facebook. I don't either one is more personal than the other, but on Facebook everyone will see it. If you can flirt already all you have to do is keep yourself calm when you're talking to him. Try not to overthink it before you talk to him. If you're naturally funny you'll be able to make him laugh and flirt with him much better if you can just get out of your own way, if you know what I mean.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

RainbowStar on 9/16/2009 5:52:04 PM

Wow i'm sorry girlie! I hope everything works out! ;)
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Ok so i really like this guy (Typical huh?) Well anyways, we've been good friends for a few years and his friends told me he likes me. We have ballroom dancing at our school and they said he's going to ask me to be his partner when it gets closer. I'm really excited because they also said he's probably going to ask me out! I'm really excited but i wanted to know if theres anything i could do to amp up my flirting just a little bit? Like trying a new outfit or how i talk to him or something like that? Thanks!

Hey babe,

How about you make the first move and ask him to be your partner? That might make him feel comfortable enough to ask you out sooner, plus it's not as scary for you, since you're already pretty sure he'll say yes.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

puppylove123 on 9/16/2009 5:12:08 PM

MOD_ my crush asked if i liked him (in texting) and said Well, do you like me? Him: answer my question Me: mine first Him: well i like you a lot, as a friend Me: same here well i obviously lied, cause i didnt want to sound stupid , and he said that people told him that i like him. ugh now im scared to text or IM him cause i dont want to freak him out. talking to him in person will be even harder! help!!!

Hey girlie! You don't have to be scared! You haven't admitted anything yet! Just keep doin your thing and being yourself!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bunhead007 on 9/13/2009 10:01:44 PM

*MOD* Ok so my crush that I have liked for a pretty long time told me that he liked me. I am so happy, but also worried. He has one of my best guy friends. If we like each other a lot, I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship when we don't. What should I do??? HELP!

hey girl! I liked my bgf for a long time before he because my bf too. It can be really scary, but the truth is that a lot of relationships that start out as good friends are the best and most successful ones out there. Of course you're worried, but that shouldn't stop you from being with him. Don't worry, and let things flow. You two are already great friends, so going out will only bring you two closer. Congrats and good luck! Kristen

Kristen Y.

RECGirl on 9/13/2009 6:53:21 PM

How strange I would totally find out what was going on!

BubblegumPanda on 9/13/2009 5:37:58 PM

~~~~~~~~******MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!*********~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I need some serious un-cunfuzzling. (un-confusing) I really liked this guy let's call him Bobert. We both really liked each other. But then his dad got a job half way across the country! I didn't think I could handle a relationship that far away. So with a heavy heart we both decided that it would be best that we broke up. It broke my heart to do that and I still hurt sometimes. But I decided after a while I was ready to look for a new BF again. I found one and he's wonderful, but my old feelings for Bobert still haunt me. HELP!!!!!!!

Hey girl! Sorry to hear about the rough sitch, but I'm glad to hear you found a great new guy. Chances are, you still wonder about Bobert because things were unfinished. Even though you may be totally into this new guy, you still wonder what would have happened with Bobert. It can be frustrating, but you have to accept that even though things didn't work out with him, they worked out for the better. You've found a great guy, and things are going great! So don't worry about it. Just be happy with what you have, and your old feelings will go away in time. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

Trombone~Lovah! on 9/13/2009 5:05:25 PM

MOD I like this guy, but he's never met me, we have no classes together, his locker is at the other end of my school, and I know none of his friends. How do I meet him besides just going up to him and saying hi.

Hey girly, if you don't have a friend that knows him and could introduce you two, you may have to walk up to him and say hi.

Lynae P.

♥Dance♥Is♥My♥Life on 9/13/2009 4:07:24 PM

If I move, I would dump my bf, cuz u never know, ur not there so he could flirt with other girls without you knowing, or even cheat on u! Plus, long-distance relationships never work out

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jonasNtwilight3 on 9/13/2009 3:29:25 PM

well! i have to say that this might be an indication that he wants a brake but is to shy to say! it does not mean that he hates you! js=ust that yuo guys need a brake for a little while!

Miranda999 on 9/13/2009 2:57:33 PM

Hmm. Sounds he's lying maybe. i dunno.
why is the guy's stomach showing?! lol oh well. its a cute pic

nerdykitty97 on 9/13/2009 2:46:20 PM

MOD I'm 15 and have never had a bf. I've had a couple of guys like me before, but I haven't liked them (and they aren't that great looking.) I've been trying to convince myself that I don't need one and that I really don't care but i've gotten to the point where I'm extremelyyy desperate. It sounds pathetic but any advice on how not to feel so obsessed with having a boyfriend?

Hey chicky, think about how lucky you are that you don't have to deal with all boyfriend, he said-she said drama. Instead you can talk and date whoever you want! You don't have any obligations to anyone.

Lynae P.

laura123 on 9/13/2009 1:54:39 PM

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My bestie has a boyfriend this is the third time they have been an "item" he is totaly a player and keeps on telling girls that he will change but never dose. He was saying really sweet stuff when he asked her out so i get kinda why she said yes. But i don't think that she should go out with him but i don't want her to be mad at me so how do i still me happy for her?

I say you should give this guy another chance like your friend is. But if he messes up again, then i suggest you sit her down and talk to her about his behavior. Good luck and i hope things work out. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

sophia19 on 9/13/2009 12:06:27 AM

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I sorta hav dees leetle problem, when ever i like someone i pretend like they don't exist, i'm scared to talk a lot to boys cause im scared they'll think i like them or they'll start liking me, how can i let a guy kno i don't like him or if i do like him to stop pretending he doesn't exist.?????!!!!!

I suggest you talk to these boys. If you get to know them then you can help them see you don't like them or that you do like them. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

volley♥it! on 9/12/2009 11:00:58 PM

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I just met this guy that is a neighbor (he went to private school) He doesnt talk much. But he seems to hate me for no reason and he doesnt act like this to anyone else. Could it be that he likes me or is it because me and his best friend are frienemys (we are friends sometime and other times not) There is also rumors that his bff likes me and I think they might be true. Please Help because I think I might like my neighbor!

If youre neighbor is acting mean to you then you shouldn't like him. Its better to like someone who makes you feel good and doesn't seem to hate you. I know you like him but you might want to stop so you don't get hurt. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

bichonmo123 on 9/12/2009 9:54:20 PM

I would go to his house and ask him whats wrong and what did I do. Maybe he is just really upset that you moved!! Good Luck!

May1616 on 9/12/2009 9:22:03 PM

xxlil-tk-girlxx on 9/12/2009 4:27:31 PM

Taht's a toughy.

HippieGirl101 on 9/12/2009 11:10:38 AM

*********************MOD********************** Okay, so today was a bad day :/ I'm not sure who I should and shouldnt trust. I'm not mad, just confused. See, all of my friends are awesome, but they have a second side to them. Like, my friend, let's call her K, looves to bring me down. She always critcizes my hair, my makeup, you name it. And my other friend, let's call her C, is a follower, not a leader, which isn't a bad thing, but when people gossip about me, she agrees with them and she never sticks up for me. I don't count on her to defend me though. I can fend for myself. But it still kinda bugs me. And my friend, M, is probably the worst of them all. She's pretty immature, and is an attention seeker. She also gets extremely jealous when I hang with my other friends, and it's sooo annoying! Plus, it's her birthday tomorrow, but it's also my other friend's birthday, so I asked her if she could share the day with her, and she's like, "No, it's my special day, so I want it about me." It's not always about her! I mean, couldn't she share the spot light for like a second? I'm just really confused, and I don't know who my true friends are. Help???

Hey babe! I would be confused too, these girls are doing nothing for you friendship-wise. They're bringing you down and hurting you with their selfishness. Anyone who is not willing to stick up for you is not a true friend. It's okay to hang out with these people, but if it's not making you happy, you don't have to! There are other girls out there who will be your true friends and not talk about you behind your back. There are girls who will support you rather than bring you down. You don't deserve to be so disrespected. I hope you go with your heart and try to ignore their cold words. Spend time with the people who are nicest, and stay away from the drama!

Go with your heart. The people who make you happy are the most worth it.

Megan R.

Haley160 on 9/12/2009 3:57:37 AM

That is tough. Great advice, as always

Haley160 on 9/12/2009 3:39:37 AM

MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD* I really enjoy singing and people tell me I'm pretty good. I wanna inprove and go onstage and sing for an audience. So I found a singing-coach but I haven't signed up for it, the reason for this is 'cause I have these 2 friends (thier twins), they never want to be on thier own and if you want to do something they want to do the same thing

. I've started to become more independent and I want something that's my own and that I'm good at. Please help! thanks!

Hey babe!

Sounds like a case of copy-cat syndrome. Don't worry, it's normal for girls to want to do the same activities as their friends, but once they try it for themselves they'll probably see it's not for them and become uninterested. If you are good at something that no one else is, you should embrace it! Even if your hobby is unique, go with your heart and explain to them that you'll still be their friends even if you have different interests. Just because you are going to be singing and doing inprov doesn't mean they'll lose you as their friend- which is probably what they'd be most worried about.

Good luck! you go girl!

Megan R.

Rato09 on 9/12/2009 3:14:59 AM

MOD Ok so theres this guy (u were expecting that weren't u?) and i had a crush on him since last year around the end of the year and throughout the summer vacation n now to this very day.He know i like him and he liked me too,we got to know each other more and stuff on msn and then he would ask me to go places with him but the thing was that whenever he asked me to go somewhere with him he always mentioned how he wanted to do physical "stuff". But i didn't want him to just want me for my body and what physical things he wanted me to do with him, so i wud tell him no and he would say it was ok but still mention it later. after a while he told me he got girl friend but continued to flirt with me and mention doing physical stuff.I kept sayng no and after awhile it was like he wasnt interested in me anymore, but when school started (he's in one of my classes) it's like he suddenly is interested again, giving me compliments and hugs and tickling me from behind, n trying to get my attention in class but now i don't know i went through alot because of him when he told me he had a girlfriend b4 i was crushed. And when he stop showing interest i started to wonder what wrong with me or if i shud just do what he wants because maybe other girls wud do that(he is very handsome). n now he's suddenly shows interest i dunno if to ignore him or just see what happens. I forgot to mention that he is a nice guy nice personality and all which made me like him alot also.so wat shud i do?

Hey chica, you should never do anything physical with a guy that you are not ready to do. If a guy really likes you, he will wait until you are ready to do that physical stuff, and he won't rush you into it. So don't let this guy's good looks and personality make you do something you don't want to. Just to be clear of his intentions, I reccommend you keep your relationship at a friend level.

Lynae P.

Zee<3 on 9/12/2009 12:26:31 AM

OOoooohhhhhh..... that is so weird. GOOD LUCK! Maybe u shud go to your BF's house.

readerhi1234 on 9/12/2009 12:00:51 AM

Go see if he is home! Thats what I would do!

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Ringette #9 on 9/11/2009 9:50:02 PM

***MOD*** Ok so this year i just started going on the bus and i guess you could say i'm pretty, and this is the 2nd week of school and this guy on my bus, is in grade 9 as well and since the first day i thought he was soooo cuute! I started to kinda talk to him and i kept feeling more and more like i was crushing on him. 2 days ago, i could feel his gaze on me the whole bus ride home and he is a really nice guy and i mean i still don't know him that well but i want to get to know him....i want to go out with him to a movie or something but i am SOO nervous to ask what if i get rejected?? and then i have to face him every day morning and night....uuurrrggg!!! i Really like him and when i see him the butterflies start and when i talk to him my heart pounds like i ran 20 laps!!! EEEKKK!!

Hey missy, when you ask him to the movies, don't make it so akward or formal, ask how you would ask one of your girlfriends, that way, if you do get rejected, it won't feel like you got rejected. For example you could ask him like this: "Hey this really cool movie is coming out, and I was wondering if you didn't have anything to do this weekend, would you wanna go see it?" If he says no then you can say something like "Ok, that's cool. If I go see it, I'll let you know if it was good or not." Hopes this helps ya!

Lynae P.

Ringette #9 on 9/11/2009 9:38:26 PM

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ok so i want a new hair cut and i wanted your input....i have an oval shaped face and i have LOTS of VERY thick brown hair that is below my collar bone and i have mouth length side bangs....
thanks so much!!!!
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Hey babe,

If you want to go for a big change, try straight bangs. They're pretty popular right now and they would look good with your face shape.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

itzy bitzy on 9/11/2009 8:01:42 PM

Aww....that's kinda strange. Good luck, I guess. ;)

gladiator*girl on 9/11/2009 7:54:35 PM

weird. thats kinda weird. bff seen him him not home said was vacationing in GERMENY.....ok dats kinda WEIRD!!

PicturePerfect on 9/11/2009 7:50:19 PM

He is hiding something from you or something1

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Hey girls!
I need your help!
I want to be girly!
If you are a girly gal please help me!
I am a tom-boy but want to be a girly girl!
And I am on a cheer squad as of today!

Also if you have any advice on getting your "." that would be much apprecitated!

fashionista305 on 9/11/2009 7:36:35 PM

wow, what a jerk your bf is. i would get rid of him, you deserve better then him! (:

Becca13 on 9/11/2009 7:16:12 PM

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There is this gut who started to like my best friend is 6th grade, he still does, and back then he would smile at her and almost wait for her at the end of lunch. Now he's gotten worse, he looked up her parents names' and got her phone numbe and address. Should I be worried?
P.S. he hasn't called yet.

Hey babe,

If your friend likes this guy then it's nothing to worry about, but if not, then she might want to tell him before he gets any more serious.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

Mrs.Cullen on 9/11/2009 7:08:50 PM

Your boyfriend is a liar.

Hey girls, come check out my profile!!

mynameislory on 9/11/2009 6:58:25 PM

ouch. good luck!

hit.the.surfs. on 9/11/2009 6:48:58 PM

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I just found out one od my friends is bisexual! I'm not sure what to say really or how to proceed.

Hey babe,

she's still your friend and as long as you still care about her the best thing you can do is treat her like you always have and support her. she's probably pretty confused herself right now and could really use someone to talk to. Once you have time to adjust to the idea you might have a better idea of how you want to proceed.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

ipodipodipod on 9/11/2009 6:47:40 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD! I really like this guy but it is my sister's best friends brother! It would be so akward at first if people new! What do i do?

Hey babe,

I don't think that's that awkward. It's perfectly normal to meet people through family and friends and if you like him, that's what's important, not how you know him.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

coolgreengirl on 9/11/2009 6:24:35 PM

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OK, so this guy I used to like in fifth grade called me today and asked me if I wanted to go with him to the Sixth Grade Back to School Dance! So I said yes. But he's kind of like a bad boy/ trouble maker. (at my birthday party he kept disobeying the adults!) So I like him I guess... I mean kind of... but not like I used to. I really wanna go with him, but is there anything I can do to like him more?
-dancing queen?

Hey babe,

You can't force yourself to like someone, especially if you have a legitimate reason not to. Just go to the dance together and keep yourself open to seeing a better side of him. Even if sparks don't fly, you'll have fun hanging out as friends.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

candieheartsgirl on 9/11/2009 5:56:39 PM

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