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I am having a major problem. This guy, I’ll call him Tim, started being really nice to me, though we never talk. I then started to really like him. So a few days ago I told him I liked him and then he didn’t show up to school the next day. I was thinking he was avoiding me. He went out with my best friend and she told me to go for it. I wanted to change my hair and clothes to fit my style.

Do you know how I can really get my hair straight and also can you help me figure out my guy problem. If he likes me back I want to ask him out but my mom says I am to young to go on dates. I never said I wanted to go on dates but I want to have a boyfriend. CAN SOMEONE HELP?! PLEASE!?

- Confuzzled

Sometimes boys are just plain dumb. Tim might have freaked out when he heard that his feelings were reciprocated...or as hard as it might be to hear, he might just want to be friends. Give him time and he’ll come around. Don’t throw yourself at him but be available if he wants to talk.

Either way, you should NOT change yourself for a boy. Boys don’t think about hair and clothes the way other girls do. If he really likes you, he will think you look great whether you are in sweatpants or a mini skirt. Not all hair is meant to be perfectly straight. Next time you get your hair cut, ask your stylist for tips on how to manage your new ‘do.

If your mom says you can’t date, you can’t date. Ask your mom what she means by “dating” because times have changed and she might not be up on how things work these days. No dating probably means no boyfriends. If so, listen to your mom. Mom really does know best. She is not trying to ruin your life; she just wants to protect her daughter. And try to go behind her back wither, she will find out. Boyfriends aren’t worth losing you mom’s trust.

Love ya,

Lara

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Hey i have a bf but i don't know if i am too young to date.I am 12 years old going to be 13 in September.I also did not tell my mom about me dating.I really really need help.

brubru12 on 2/26/2010 11:48:41 AM

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So there's this guy i know...lets say his name is josh. Josh is kinda a goof ball in class most of the time but he really doesn't get in trouble. I always though he was funny. But lately he has been talking to me a lot and being real sweet. I told this to my friend and her response was "Josh is like the ugliest guy on the planet!" but he's so sweet to me i can't help but start to like him. Anyway my question is if he might like me back, and what can i do to get us together. Also if we do get together should i tell my friend or not?

Hey Girl! If your friends make fun of someone you like, just tell them how you feel and why you like him. If she's a true friend she will support you! xo Lizzie

lizzie n.

SecretGirl23 on 2/22/2010 9:44:49 PM

MOD There is only 4 days until Valentines day and I really want 2 break up with my bf. We are complete oppisites and I just don't like him that much. Is it to close to Valentines day 2 break up? I don't want 2 be with him for v-day. P.S. Yesterday he asked me what r song should be and if i wanted 2 hav 1 and i sed yes.(i was thinking fast...i didnt kno wat 2 say) now he picked some out and stuff and emails them 2 me and i just dont kno wat 2 say. please help. thnx a bunch!

Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ♥

Lynae P.

puddingprincess on 2/10/2010 8:19:47 PM

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When a guy gives you like a hug when you see him, as in a hello hug I guess, what does he mean?

Hey girl!It could just be another way to say hello, if you guys are close. It could also mean that he wants to get closer to you.

Eryn G.

Pro_Gymnast_32 on 11/24/2009 1:48:56 PM

Thanks Lynae!!!! btw I LOVE your name its so pretty!!!!

Gryffindorgirleb on 11/15/2009 4:59:32 PM

MOD!!!!! But my boyfriend tries to get along with her so what should I do to get her to stop it.

Tell her that either she get along with him and you or you guys won't be friends anymore.

Lynae P.

Gryffindorgirleb on 11/15/2009 4:29:45 PM

MOD!!!!! I need some help. I don't know what to do with my best friend (lets call her "D"). D is always fighting with my boyfriend and calling him a thing. It really makes me mad. She knows I don't like it. And the thing is she used to be friends with my boyfriend before we started going out. My boyfriend says that she's starting to get on his last nerve. What should I do to fix this without losing a friend and without breaking up with my boyfriend? She also has started being really controlling. It drives me crazy cuz she acts like she can conrtol my like I'm a three year old. I don't let her control me, but it still makes me mad that she tries to. What should I do to have her stop trying to control me?

Hey chica, try your best to keep your best friend and boyfriend seperated. When you and your friend hang out, don't invite your boyfriend along and vice versa. Talk to both your friend and boyfriend. Let them know they'll loose you if they don't learn to at least get along. Let your friend know that her behavior is annoying. The only way she'll stop her behavior is if you say something to her.

Lynae P.

Gryffindorgirleb on 11/15/2009 3:53:41 PM

Kerra-
thanks so much!

potterfreak11 on 11/8/2009 12:01:48 AM

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sorry that didn't make much sense...well yeah i think i was the one he didn't like as much as the other one but i am not sure. he didnt say anything about the other girl when we were talking until towards the end...what does he mean? thanks sorry

He's being confusing. I suggest you just dont stress about ti. Just be his friend, flirt, and have fun. But do not let him get to you. If he likes you he'll show you more eventually and things will work out. But for now just ignore all of his confusing comments. Good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

potterfreak11 on 11/7/2009 11:53:45 PM

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Ok so i am sooo confused.
1. This guy i know from a youth group and i were texting and we were asking each other questions about who each other liked. I think he was talking about me and i was kinda talking about him but a little into our conversation (my question was would u ever tell her you liked her) he said that he would be he would have to tell her that he might like someone else more. this kinda made me sad and confused because i don't know what to say. he askes me a couple times if i like him but i dodged around the question. i don't want to say i like him and then be the girl he doesn't like. He said that he only liked her for a little while and he wasn't sure how much he liked her but he does, i am so confused
2. My BFF also just asked her crush out and she said yes! i am so supportive of her with all of her boy issues (she has alot) but whenever i talk to her about mine. she doesn't seem to care and always says that she doesn't know what to say!

Well first of all don't stress about the bff thing. She really might not know what to say. if shes having lots of boy problems of her own, she might not know how to handle anyone elses. Also about this boy, don't worry about him. If hes being so confusing and dodging around the truth then just dont stress ti. Just be friendly with him but dont let it bother or worry you when he makes confusing comments. It really doesnt matter, especially if hes just being confusing. Maybe eventually he'll stop being confusing and jsut come out with how he feels. Good luck girly! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

potterfreak11 on 11/7/2009 10:59:52 PM

i dont think u should change just because u like a guy..... if he really liked u he would never let u change the way u r.!

peacelovecrazy1103 on 11/5/2009 3:13:39 PM

MOD!!!!!!! ok, so i really like my best guy friend, we'll call him alex! sometimes he can be REALLY flirty with me, and he makes me go home from school with butterflies in my tummy or he just seems to avoid me and doesn't want to talk to me. IS he trying to tell me something?

Hey babe, maybe he likes ya?! Talk to him and see what he says. It's worth a shot, right?!

katelin s.

redvegetable on 10/29/2009 10:47:18 PM

MOD My friend [i guess you could call her that] said that this one guy in our math class likes me but he can be a flirt so whenever he "flirts" with me she gives me this look. I tried to tell her that he kind of flirts with a lot of girls but she won't listen. I kind of like him but i don't want it to end badly because she said that she "knows the signs" when someone likes someone. Help!!

Hey girl! Well, the only way to know for sure is to find out from him. Keep flirting back with him. You don't have to commit to only crushing on him either. Keep your options open!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

e-lo on 10/27/2009 8:26:03 PM

MOD MOD MOD Please help me! I posted this somewhere else today, but I'm confused but I know what the right thing I just don't know. I have a crush on this guy who sits next to me in English and he's in my 0 period class. We have talked a little, he smiles at me, and he's really nice!! This seems like he's the right guy. All the other guys are guys who I'd never be able to talk to! But this guy (my crush) is different. Everything was going great but then he ignored me on Friday. Why? But I found out he has a gf he's been with for 3 weeks and she goes to a different school. I know I should back off, but I want to be able to at least be friends with him and wait. I really like him, but it's going to be hard to wait and I know I should focus on my new horse right now. But I can't stop thinking about him. What should I do? Please reply MOD ASAP.

thank you!

Hey girl! I saw you posted a lot of times. Mods will answer your q asap, so you don't need to keep reposting. It actually ends up taking longer that way As for your guys sitch, that's way disappointing that he has a gf. You never want to be the other woman, but you can still be friends. Keep talking and getting to know him. If things don't work out with his gf, you'll be there, but don't hang around waiting for him when you don't know if things will even work out. Talk to other guys and get to know them better. Who knows? You may end up finding the perf guy for you. just keep an open mind, and don't stress. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

Natalieee123 on 10/25/2009 6:14:22 PM

thank you!

Kristen Y.

Natalieee123 on 10/25/2009 6:13:37 PM

ok, so like this guy i have never really liked but strated i dunno kinda sorta maybe liking lat year. so on friday he told my friend that he iked me and he thought i didnt hear!! oohhh mmaannn no i dont know what to cause at our school we have diff sections like 8A,8B,8C. im in 8A and hes in 8B. and this other guy i like hes inn all my classes and i have no i dea wat to say to him!! so im considering going out wif he guy who says he likes me, and the guy hos in all of my clases is a really big flirt and i dont know if he likes me!! HEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!
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-A Boy Cunfizzled Girl

If youre torn between the two, it means youre not ready to date either. Flirt with both and youll see who you want to get serious with. Best,

Miliana B.

dizzyds96 on 10/25/2009 11:56:33 AM

HELP!
Ok, well, me and my friend (hes a boi) are pretty close, even tho i jsut met him at teh begining of the year (im in 8th grade)
Me and him hold hands, hug, and i wear his hoodie alot. He walks me to some of my classes & he said i make him happy the other day. He knows that i like him, but idk if he likes me the same way, cause he said he didnt want a GF cause he wants a few rumors to die down (he kinda an emo boi).
WHAT SHOULD I DO!?

Hey babe! It sounds like he likes you too. If you want to date him, you should let him know you want him to commit, and you don't think it's fair to you if he doesn't want to be exclusive with you. If you don't want to date him, you could keep things the way they are and let time pass and things go how they will.

Megan R.

kotalove on 10/24/2009 11:49:29 AM

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O.K., so after a really long story that I don't feel like typing, my friend asked the guy I liked if he liked me and he said he only liked me as a really good friend for now. But he went to talk to his friend right before he answered, but he already knew the question. Could his friend have influenced his decision or could he really like me after all? He always tries to start a convo in gym and show me new soccer moves cuz we're both fanatics. He's really nice to me and I catch hi looking at me all the time. Help!

Hey girl, sounds like he just wants to be friends for now. Just put your best foot forward and see how it plays out with time. You never know what could happen. (;

xoxo

Alyssa B.

mkroberts96 on 10/22/2009 7:19:20 PM

MOD MOD ok so there is this guy that i like and we never talked but now we do well he talks to me and today in 2nd hour he asked me if i was coming to music mentors and i said no then he asked me if we were friends and i like so does this sound like he is flirting with me and should i tell him i like him. HELP

Hey girl, I'd hold off telling him you like him yet but keep talking to him more. Only time will tell what he really thinks. Get to know him more before you start sending signals of your own though.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

toby1 on 10/22/2009 6:05:38 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Should I tell my crush I like him? I mean, when girls say they like a guy and tell them, the boys attomatically like you. How do I tell him?

Hey chica, yup you should tell your crush you like him. I mean who knows, maybe he feels the same way. You could say something like "Hey, you're a really cool guy. I'd like to get to know you more, wanna hang out sometime?" That way you let him know you're interested without tell him just how much you like him.

Lynae P.

Smileygirl86 on 10/18/2009 3:07:11 PM

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me and my bff really need help!
So anyway, yesterday me, my bff and our group went to sit with these hot guys that my bff does band with from a grade higher than us. They were being really nice to us and we were hanging out with them for the whole break. I realised I really liked one of the guys. I got home, and soon after my bff called and said her boyfriend broke up with her(he is a total jerk!). She was crying for ages and I was trying to cheer her up. I soon told her that I liked one of the guys that we were hanging out with(let's call him James), and she told me she liked one of the guys aswell(let's call him, alex). We were talking about how we could get them to like us, but we came to a complicated part, our guyfriends don't like the older guys we r crushing on! Do you have any suggestions how to get around this complication and make our friends happy aswell as like these older guys?
Thanks, Kayla

Krazy koala on 10/17/2009 2:12:07 AM

LEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

iheartbraden on 10/16/2009 10:41:44 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

myralee on 10/16/2009 5:31:08 PM

snowwhite2097 on 10/16/2009 5:01:01 PM

***MODD*** i got a questionn. k, so i met this guy when school started and now were really close. at first we only had one class together and we sat by each other. he always looks at me and smiles. its tech class and when his comp is frozen he wont let me work, and takes my mouse. he always wants us to be done at the same time. he always scoots close to me so our knees are touching and he always puts his head right next to mine. if he sees me alone somewhere he will say "awwwww, why are you alone??" and hes like not teasing. he also walks to class with me. now hes in my ss class and stares at me whenever possible. when he walks into the room he walks straight over to me and like doesnt even notice the other people. my friend was quizzing him on our notes becasue we had a test that day and i was standing there with them. the entire time he was looking at me and only looked away for like a second to look at her when he said the answer. do you think he likes me? or no? thankss and sorry its loong.

Hey girlie,

It sounds like this guy has a crush on you.

Megan P.

Megan P.

i_no_im_awesome on 10/16/2009 8:49:27 AM

chillipurry on 10/15/2009 7:55:50 PM

MODMODMOD Hiya!!! Omgizzle so basically the guy i likes best friend is my ex i really like him, but my ex is preassuring him to say he only likes me as a friend, which i know isnt true. But my ex still likes me. Hes immature but kinda funny. The prob is hes in ALL of m classes and my lunch period. the guy i like goes to a different school, but we text constantly and we see each other at this dance thats every month. well, i made up a fake bf so everyone would back off, and the guys in r grade like wen a girls takin. i feel bad about the whole thingy, but its gotten pretty far. well the guy i like seems jealous which is good. how can i tell every1 about the fake bf?????

Hey girl! Hmm..tricky sitch. Just stop mentioning him and maybe they will all forget about him!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

red_orange_yellow_green_blue on 10/13/2009 8:06:53 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

10_Person_Club on 10/8/2009 5:43:34 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD OKSO I GO WIT THIS BOY CAUSE HE ASKED ME ON TEH LAST DAY OF SCHOOL AT LIKE 10:00 AT NIGHT AND HE SAID HE ALWAYS LIKED ME EVEN THOUGH HE HAD A GF IN CALI SO I SAID YES CAUSE I REALLY LIKED HIM LIKE ALL YEAR BUT NOW I'M OVER IT CAUSE THE LAST TIME I TALKED TO HIM WAS AUG 22 SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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Try to talk to him and see if theres anything still there. If not tell him and move on. Also please don't leave us messages in all caps. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

jujubean1985 on 10/4/2009 12:28:50 AM

If i were you i wouldnt stress to much on him not being at school the next day. And i also wouldnt go changing yourself for him. If he likes you he'll like you for you. Good Luck girl
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confused on friends and boys on 10/1/2009 5:06:47 PM

I have just one problem with that i have tried that before it doesnt work. Also now i feel SUPER self-conscious. my bffls tell me i am pretty and that he is a jerk but i dont believe them. And all i can think about is how to look better so he will like me. I know i have problems please help me.

THANKS for the help

gummybearluva67 on 9/30/2009 8:08:45 PM

Mod! or any girl!
Hey it is me again!
Ok so my friend was dared to ask Nick out and he said no and where she got his number. she said me and he uck and she was like what and he said she is sooooooo ugly! She was soo pissed at him just as i am. What should I do? I still think he is hot but i now hate him.
p.s. I know mt friend isn't lyin to me cuz she showed me the text convo they had
HELP!!!
Thanks for the help

Hey babe,

This guy sounds like a total jerk! Who cares how hot he is? I think you and your friend are better off without him!

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

gummybearluva67 on 9/30/2009 7:33:08 PM

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ok so this guy has liked me for a few years now. i like him too but sometimes he gets annoying and we fight and get mad and then ignore eachother for a couple months. then we cant stay away from eachother and we like eachother again. im really serious about making it work this time and he isnt giving me as much attention as usual ??? im confused?

Hey babe,

Maybe he's decided that it won't work out with you two because of all the fighting. Talk to him about it and see what he thinks. If the two of you are both willing to try really hard I bet you could make it work!

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

starfruity:) on 9/30/2009 4:41:46 PM

MOD: I can never tell if a guy really likes me or not.i dont really takl to guys but still sometimes. how do I know?

Hey girlie,

If a guy likes you or is flirting with you, he might tease you and make fun of you in a playful way. He will probably smile at you and look at you alot too.

Thanks for posting!

Megan

Megan P.

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animallover126 on 9/27/2009 2:09:28 PM

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I need help. There is a boy in my classes that I think I like. But I'm not sure. I don't know if I want to be just friends or something more. I think he's really hot, sweet, funny, and talented. We have a lot in common, too. We're both artists, soccer junkies, we like to laugh, and, wierd as it sounds, our laughs go together, like a perfect symphony. We talk a lot in class and in the hallways, high-five each other, and are good friends. So, do I like him, or just good friends?

Since youre noticing all these details about him then I think you like him girly. He sounds like a great guy xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

Julia021096 on 9/26/2009 10:38:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD !!!! I like this guy and the other day there was a dance at our school and when i walked by him he kept on smiling but when we are around other people he doesnt talk to me and when we are alone he is always is trying to make me laugh one prob his sis and my bro are dating :l does you think he likes or is he being just nice ??? HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl! He might want to get to know you a little better but he might just be uncomfortable. You should just try to talk to him more.

Eryn G.

boomer12323 on 9/26/2009 1:33:33 PM

MOD MOD MOD I like some boys but every boy in my school as far sas i kno thinks im ugly what should i do

Hey girl! These guys just aren't mature enough to see how gorgeous you really are. You are perfect the way you are. If these guys are too shallow to realize it, they're not worth your time. One day, you're going to find a great guy who doesn't judge based on looks. Make friends with some of these guys, and they'll realize how great you really are! Also, just because you don't know any guys who think you're pretty doesn't mean they don't exist. They may just be more shy about their opinions. Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

watergal47 on 9/20/2009 8:18:57 PM

Guys Puberty

Is it kind of normal to be interested in guys and their puberty and how their body changes? I have listened well in class and had very open health teachers but I still find myself very interested in their bodies and how they mature.

Is this just part of being curious about the opposite sex? My last teacher said the internet is a good place to learn about guys bodies and their puberty and made it seem normal to want to know about that stuff. But sometimes I do wonder if I am normal or not about it even if it seems my friends want to know too. Can you give some advice?

luckykel on 9/20/2009 8:01:20 PM

Mod so lately like almost every week since the second week of school the guy i've liked has looked at me first instead of me looking at him first he did it again today he turned around and looked my way when he could of all this week cause i'm usually always behind him and his friends.Mean Something? Kayla xoxo

Hey girl! I posted on your other comment, but this guy may be into you. Next time he turns around, wave or give him a sweet smile. When you're in the hallway with him, say hi or start up a little convo. If it seems like he's into you, flirt a bit and see where things go! Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

daughtry fan on 9/20/2009 5:58:53 PM

ahhh my question wazzent answered!!!!!

mycoda on 9/20/2009 5:06:25 PM

MOD*MOD*MOD I tend to like guys who are a little older than me (the oldest I've ever liked has been 3 years older). I think it's because I'm kind of...well, mature. I don't like guys who ALWAYS do stuff like the Hot or Not game, and stuff like that. I also usually think before I act, unlike a lot of my friends. I do have fun and remember that I'm still young and shouldn't be worrying too much. But either way, I have three questions: 1. At what age do most guys kinda "grow up?" 2. What should I do when I like a guy who's a little older than me? 3. Is a couple years older too much to consider dating? I'm thirteen. Thanx so much for your help!

Hey chica, here are the answers to your three questions:

1. Most guys mature later in life. Usually aroun 16,17 and 18

2. There's nothing wrong with dating a guy who's older than you, as long as he's not too much older.

3. Two years and up may be too old for you to date.

Lynae P.

the brave little toaster on 9/20/2009 4:27:22 PM

thanks for your advice
and thanks for replyin soo fast
i really appreciate it

THANKS!!!!!

gummybearluva67 on 9/20/2009 12:27:47 PM

Mod! or any girl!
I have a problem.
I really like this guy named Nick.
I liked Nick a LOT last year.
He barely knew me but i thought i was doing good on becoming his gal pal. So i told my friends i liked him. Emma ended up telling nick i liked him. Ever since he doesnt talk to me anymore. However his friends still talk to me. ok so here comes the summer Nick and his friends play a joke on one of my bestest friends Jess sayin that Nick loved her. She thought he was serious so she started likin him. Then she found out it was a joke and has hated him since. They hated me that i still liked him so i pretended (i still am) i didnt like him. But I do. There is no one i can tell cuz they will be mad at me if they found out. I am majorly crushin on him like to the point that I dream that he asked me out we were bf and gf. I dont have any classes with him this year. i do have lunch with him but lunch at my school is only around 25 about 15 after everyone gets their lunch and settles.
Should i get over him. (I have tried without much sucess)
Or should i tell my friends?
or should i try to become his friend again.
What should i do ?????
I am desperate
Thanks for your help!!!!!

Hey girl, Yeah it's tough when your friends dont like your guy. As long as youre sure hes a nice guy after all, then go ahead and keep liking him. Try seeing him after school or outside of school if in school isnt an option this year. You dont need to tell your girls anything. If they mention him, just say you think hes OK, but that's all. Try getting to know him in the meantime... Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

gummybearluva67 on 9/20/2009 12:12:56 PM

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ok so homecomings in a month and i still dont have a date. i got asked by a junior but he was being all weird about it. so i said no. also is it weird to not have a date and get ur hair done for it and get all dressed up??? also is it weird to just go with a whole buncha friends??????? and also is it ok to go out to eat with a whole buncha friedns or not to????????help!!!!!!!!!! also thers this guy i rllly rllly rlllly like and i want him to ask me to homecomin btu i know hes not goin to wat happens if he goes with another girl it gonna make me wanna cry when i see thme tongether if he does what do i do/????? i f that happens

Hey girl, It's def ok not to have a date to hc, especially if you go with a bunch of your besties and you're all going stag. It's ok to go with your gut and go with a guy you like, if you do end up with a date. Some years Ive gone without a date and had a great time and other years I went with a date because I really liked him. But there's no reason to go with a date just for the sake of it, ya know? As far as the guy you like, flirt a li'l and see if he gets the hint. But dates arent totes binding. People dance with other people at the dance so tell him to save you a dance! Have a stress-free night and you can def get all dolled up (nothing wrong with feeling extra pretty!) and go out to dinner. You might even meet a new cutie along the way... Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

jb4eva94 on 9/20/2009 11:08:10 AM

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i really like this guy...ive liked him for about a year...and im almost postivie he likes me back.....i kinda want to ask him out but im WAY too nervous and i wouldnt even know what to say to him, what should i do????

If youre so nervous then i think you should talk to him and get comfortable around him before you even attempt asking him out. If you have casual convos and such then your nervousness should fade. good luck! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

sososophie55124 on 9/19/2009 11:10:37 PM

********MOD******* or anyone else who can help
I'm new at my high school so how do i get a date to the homecoming dance???

Hey girl! Just talk to guys and get to know them. You can also ask a guy that you like.

Eryn G.

macy&matty4ever on 9/19/2009 2:56:06 PM

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ok heres the deal
i like one of my guy friends
we were reall close last yr
but this yr we arent in the same class so its weird
ive liked him since 6th grade (im in 8th)
im pretty sure he knows i like him
but he doesnt do anything about it
he's alittle strange but thats one of the reasons i like him so much
so when i tell ppl the things he does they think he likes me
but its really just his personality......
last yr a tapped me and would say "it was the ghost."
or when i turned he would play w/ my hair
and one time we had this whole cottoncandy episode in math class
so you could say we hav alot of inside jokes
the thing is since hes so weird its hard to c signs of if he likes me back
i did one of the quizes on here and at the end it said like he probably did like me but idk
i dont want to have to tell him i like him again
and everytime i start liking someone else
my bestfriends say "their ur backup arent they.."
whish might be true......
(sry i wrote alot....)
please help!!!!how can i impress a weird funny guy?

Hey chicky, I’m a busy
bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with
all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers
here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for
understanding. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Eryn G.

pjcute2 on 9/19/2009 11:58:05 AM

MOD i've liked my best guy friend for almost a year and a few months ago he asked me out in front of my friends i hadn't told them that i liked him so i said no. (i feel really stupid now) he's in 2 of my calsses (band and jazz band) i sit one seat away in band and i jazz band we're on oppoisite sides of the room. he'll ask me stuff like what time it is or if we can leave class and is still pretty nice to me. i'm really curious but i'm not one of those really outgoing people who can just ask him if he likes me. how can i tell if he likes me ask more than a friend without just asking him? Thanks!

Hey girl! If he flirts with you. You can always tell him that you like him to.

Eryn G.

#1taylorfan on 9/19/2009 11:41:35 AM