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The Problem is Me!

I'm afraid of shots!

 

I have been afraid of shots since I was a baby. Now, I'm older but five nurses have to hold me down while I get a shot. Can you give me some advice on how to control this phobia?


Hey girlie!

Unfortunately, the longer you wait to deal with a fear like this, the worse it'll probably get. So, think about when your next big shot is. Before you have to get it, prep yourself way in advance so that you'll feel less anxious. First off, DON'T LOOK! It'll totally freak you out if you can see the needle going into your skin. You should also see if you can drag your BFF, your mom or your BF into the shot room with ya to act as a hand-holder.


Another thing you can do is create an anxiety-free atmosphere right before you get your shot. What calms you down in a stressful sitch? Is it listening to your iPod? Calmly counting to ten? Squeezing your eyes shut and dreaming of an island vacay? Think of something that'll make you less nervous and apply that technique the next time the doc orders up a pincher.


If you give these tactics a try and they're still not working it might be time to talk to your 'rents about seeking professional help. No one should have to live their lives with such an intense fear. Good luck, girl. I know you can do it!


-Jackie E.

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 9/21/2009 7:00:00 AM 92 COMMENTS

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The same with my second older brother he hates too.He had five nurses to hold him down but now if he get a shot he don't like it at all. I hate shots also I'm 14 and I had to get a shot yesterday and I didn't like it at all. Just to let you know a advice to do is don't look at them when they do it. Hold onto the bench or where ever u on or close your eyes and imagiane of some thing owes.

daddygirl on 3/20/2010 8:11:28 PM

Im the xact same way!!! i feel like such a baby when i get a shot cuz im 12 and i still cry, but i cry B4 the shot. The older i get, the worse it gets. for the H1N1, i tried to run out of the office!!! its so embarrasing. it doesnt even hurt that much!!!!!!!! its just the anticipation!!!

strangechick37 on 3/18/2010 8:36:25 PM

I hate shots too!!! Last time I got a shot I screamed and the whole office looked!

dancingqueen08 on 1/19/2010 6:53:08 PM

I am deathly afraid of shots. My mom, dad, and my younger brother think it's no big deal. But my brother is 8 and I'm 11. He doesn't cry when he gets shot and he didn't cry when they popped his bone in his arm back in place when he broke his arm. Ugh, and when I went to get the H1N1 shot, they couldn't give me and my brother the mist in your nose because we get ashtma (coughing and whhezing) when we're sick.

Shayna♪♥ on 1/4/2010 2:24:57 PM

i know i cry,but i'm hoping wheni get my next shot i'll get a mist

98765anna on 12/28/2009 3:50:13 PM

Think of it this way. There r kids out there dying of diseases because they didnt have the $ 2 get the shot to protect them. Be happy and grateful (that sounded stupid). So...yep.

by the way im scared of needles 2. they dont hurt me though. go figure

animallover234 on 12/26/2009 8:20:05 PM

in Feb. I had to get 4 shots in 1 day!As i was leaving I nearly fainted. Everything went all fuzzy and i had to sit down while my mom payed. I HATE shots. That was sooooo not a good day.

darbydoe on 12/20/2009 5:39:03 PM

I kinda understand how you feel..I had to get the Swine Flu shot like a week ago and before hand I was sooo nervous! XD But just
1. Don't look
2. Breathe
3. Think of something nice and remember it will be over really soon!
For me, the shot only hurt a little! I'm glad its over though! Good luck! =)
XxX

XxXFionnualaXxX on 12/13/2009 5:31:40 PM

I just look away when they give me the shot cause it probly wont hurt as bad so i dont see it going into my skin or anything it looks gross even when others have a shot i dont look

trigerxtran on 11/14/2009 12:49:29 PM

I was afraid to get my shots (im in Gr.6) but i got them and they dont actully hurt that much so dont be afraid be calm and it wont hurt as much. but it will hurt after a while but not a lot

Mistymaya5056 on 11/12/2009 10:22:31 PM

i'm very faraid of needles and shots too. we're getting the H1N1 shot at school, where my mom won't be to be my hand-holder. i'm scared cuz even though i'm 15, i still need my mom to be with me when i get a shot. this is the first one ever where my mom won't be in the room with me. this'll be interesting......

snsoccer322 on 10/24/2009 2:45:58 PM

i tottaly was scared of shots then everyone told me that they tickel so i started to belive them so now every time i get a shot now i start to laugh Smile

LindaCrohn on 10/15/2009 9:43:37 PM

MODMODMOD!!!!!!! id totaly look away from shots but icant i need to know when threre going in!!!

 

Hey girl! Just take a deep breath!! You'll be fine promise!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Webby13456 on 10/13/2009 7:25:22 PM

i absoulotly HATE shots also. i know howya feel! im trying these tekneeks for my flu shot. hope da work!

Webby13456 on 10/13/2009 7:24:19 PM

i have this phobia too. the last one i got i got while walking.

jackim1615 on 10/7/2009 6:36:09 PM

i hate shots too wen i had 2 get shots b4 i startd 7th grade and my dr had 2 hold me down my mom was mad @ me she says id idnt used to b so scared wen i was a baby

booklover96 on 10/7/2009 4:49:15 PM

hey mod i need advice!!!
im RLLY freaked out about the whole H1N1 thing. its all i think about alot of the time becuz im really worried about getting it. should i b really freaked out about it or not? thanx so mch. Smile




You should definitely not be worried. Wash your hands often with soap and water and you'll be fine Smile As long as youre not in close contact with someone who has H1N1 then you wont get it. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

feebster101 on 10/3/2009 10:13:32 PM

hey mod i need advice!!!




I'm here to help. What can i help with? xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

feebster101 on 10/3/2009 10:11:42 PM

There is nothing wrong with being afraid of shots! I totally am!
The most important thing that I remember is that the shots are to make me feel GOOD, not BAD.
So the next time you go to the doctor, hold your mom's hand and be thankful!
good luck!
ky Smile

ky :) on 10/2/2009 1:07:01 PM

i'm the same way my sister could hear me sceaming and crying from like 3 rooms away.

teamJasper22 on 9/28/2009 7:51:52 PM

MOD! i think i might have dyslexia. i tend to mix things up when i right or try to spell out loud. im perfectly fine with reading and i do very well ins chool but when i wirte i mix up letters or make numbers backwards. like this morning i made a backwards 6 and in school i wrote h5rs instead of 5hrs. what can i do about dyslexia? is there a test or soemthing for it? how do i know if i really have it?

 

Hey girlie! Yep, you'll have to see a doc about that one!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

FIRED UP on 9/27/2009 11:35:12 PM

i hate shots too!!!! ugh! Also ive heard that if u relax ur arm (or leg) so that its just like hanging that it helps and u wont feel it. im not afraid of getting my blood drawn anymore as long as its a Childrens Mercy with the butterfly needles.. every six months since i was about 5.... then if i flunk it then it has to be done again at my local hostpital and they suck! i have a thyroid disease so thats why. but the good thing is i cant really die from it.. at least i dont think. :-p

selena_wiz_lover on 9/27/2009 10:02:39 PM

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! Ok so about a month ago someone in my family died. I went into a small depression too. Not where I need medication or anything. I just was sad all the time and didn't care what happend and just kept to myself and held my feelings in and I felt sick and what not, my grades were dropping, and I would get so frustrated and I was stressed like 24/7. Well recently I've beginning to come out and be happier. But during that small period, I sorta damaged my friendships and now I only have a few left. I've been trying to repair them but it's just really hard. Not many people really listen to me anymore and the few I have left aren't as good as they were before. Can you help me?

 

Hey girl!  I'm sorry to hear about your rough patch, but that's great that you've been doing a lot better.  With the friends that you're still sorta close to, let them know about how you feel.  Tell them you had a rough time, but you're really glad that you're still friends.  To the friends who you aren't so close to anymore, tell them that you're sorry you were distant, but your family was having a tough time.  You can always invite your friends over to hang out or to go out and spend some bonding time together.  Don't be afraid to let them in and have fun.  Soon enough, things will be better again. Best of luck, Kristen

Kristen Y.

4evamusicluver on 9/27/2009 5:47:17 PM

I am 12 and i am afraid of shots so i don't look at the needle a i hold my moms hand and it helps me.

workoutgirl233 on 9/27/2009 5:38:42 PM

Hey chick,
I'm deathly afraid of shots too!!!! One time I had an allergic reaction and my leg swelled up like the size of Jupiter. My mom is always in there with me when i get shots just to bring up a subject that will get my mind off of it. If you get nauseous easily eat something or drink something sweet before that shot so that you don't get dizzy or feel like your gonna pass out. Don't worry everyone is afraid of something.
~Morgan

morgan<3luv ya on 9/27/2009 4:37:50 PM

MOD!
during the summer, and school, I have LOTS of extra curricular activities, but I still get really bored... after watching TV and playing computer to my limit. I can't really go outside without my parents because a creeper has been exposing himself (one time to one of my friends 0_o) in our city and he still hasn't been caught... anyway, I can't go outside without an adult, and my parents are always working, and it feels like there is nothing to do! Do you have any FUN suggestions? (haha, my mom already suggested reading and knitting)




Hey girl! You're lucky you have so much free time!  I like to collage in my free time. I take pictures and cut out pics and sayings from magazines. I paste them all together on posters and frame them. Or you could try another craft...like painting a T-shirt or a photo frame. You could make beaded necklaces or hemp jewelry. You could give yourself a mani-pedi or call a friend! Hope this helps a bit! 
Megan R.

mini_girl on 9/27/2009 12:21:08 PM

omigosd i have the exact same thing!!!!! my whole family makes fun of me cuz im the oldest kid and the only one who cant sit and get the flu shot!!!!!!!! its super annoying Frown

luvsoccercutie on 9/27/2009 12:11:58 PM

MOD MOD I know this is totally random and its not like I"m that old but I really would like to be a model for GL but I have no clue how to get started in that Im tall for my age im not a teen ager yet my age on here is not correct becasue i dont want people to knw my real age but i have no clue how to get started in that. And im totally photogenic and im have awesome grades in school and personaly i dont think im verry preety and the way myfam. is the wouldnt tell me im ugly but i still get all the time that im pretty so i guess if understand where im comeing from I just have to work on my nails becasue their comepletly runined and im not verry old i have a tendency to bite them and their hiddioeous but please help me this what i want to be when i get old er and its not like im some celeb eiother so i really need this just please reply me and heres a hint ima slow typer if this wasnt important i wouldnt be typing so much lol, but please help me start! MOD MOD MOD




Work on your nail biting issue and I'm sure you could be a model. If you want to model for girls life click on the contact us link and theres information in there about modeling for gl. Good luck girly! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

Oliviarode on 9/26/2009 11:42:26 PM

I know how u feel I do the same thing LOL they have to hold down my arms legs and pretty much my whole body and I scream and cry

Hope u can get Over ur phobia
Wish me luck at my next shot
I wish u luck at ur next shot

smalgirl on 9/26/2009 9:50:20 PM

I used to have a phobia 2. Now I've gotten over it and....I think getting shots r fun.^^

i_luv_devin on 9/26/2009 12:53:10 PM

Mod!!!!!!!!! I commented the other day about forgetting my password but I've tried resending the email 7 times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Help What do I do know?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Keep trying! You may need to create a new user name. 
Megan R.

mileycrazy99 on 9/26/2009 12:22:07 PM

One day I went to a foot doctor and he was going to put one through my foot. I was so scared of him doing it so i kicked and screamed until he said he will do it another day.

lavender3499 on 9/26/2009 9:51:39 AM

Mod help my other account name is lovergirl99 and i can't figure cause i forgot it but then when i said forgot my password it never got emailed to me help me figure it out pleaze

 

Hey chica, try to re-send it to your email address.

Lynae P.

Mileycrazy99 on 9/25/2009 11:36:48 PM

MOD! i wnat to track this year but i dont really like to run but i like competition and it seems like fun and the other track people are nice. but how can i get better at running. i run short distance but how can i get better?

 

Hey missy, you should start by running more and more each day. On Monday run a certain amount of miles, then on Tuesday increase that amount of miles by 3 more and so on and so on. Be sure to time yourself along the way, so whenever you run you're always trying to beat that last time.

Lynae P.

fired up on 9/25/2009 11:07:27 PM

wowzers! shots are scary! just remember to relax your arm cuz it will hurt less!

crazynlazy540 on 9/25/2009 7:05:55 PM

Im also am scard omg when i had to get a shot to go to school I freaked out 3 shots i had to get!3!

nightmare123 on 9/25/2009 4:43:31 PM

omg!!! im terrified of needels too!!! when i was like going into kindergarten i fainted because of getting a shot!!! now i just close my eyes and look the other way!

polkadot66 on 9/25/2009 4:42:30 PM

Hey yah i no to i am getting my flu shot on friday and i am freaking out!!!! i cry every time and i have to hold my moms hand. my sis is 2 years younger and she is like what is wrong with u. It makes me feel really stupid

Cookiemonster1 on 9/23/2009 8:52:57 PM

Girl I Know your pain. Once I was so scared I bit the nurse, my mom litteraly had to drag me into the office, and 4 nurses had to hold me down....
It wasn't pretty.

darklilly on 9/23/2009 8:27:55 PM

Idk for me its better to look cuz it reassures me in a way.

JeNNY101 on 9/22/2009 8:54:34 PM

well i am terribly afraid of shots. last time i got one i cried a lot. then i got another one and instead of looking at the needle i read my book, twilight!!!!! Im not so afraid anymore.

solvedprob1 on 9/22/2009 8:22:27 PM

Hey!!!

Shots aren't that bad... I'm only 11 and the last time I really freaked out over a shot was when I was like 5 and I had a reason to.... they gave me like 6 in one day all on my leg... but it's not that bad... STOP OVER REACTING!!! The only thing at the doctors office I freak out over is the strep test.... especially cuz it either chokes me or gags me and I hate both!!!


PEACE!ELLA!

jellybean1998 on 9/22/2009 8:00:25 PM

If you don't look its fine, i am REALLY freaked out if i see a needle going into skin, but if you don't look, you don't even know it happens!! it doesn't feel like a thing

frostybunny9 on 9/22/2009 7:48:09 PM

i've got to tell you... dont be afraid.

okay because i just got my shots yesturday.

and iyes you do get really scared but, once its done you dont have to be worried about getting the horrible dieases.

and just to tell you it doesnt hurt either.
what it feel like is a little pinch and a nudge to it.

sooo, try getting your confidence up, and when you get your first needle. be excited not afraid.

luv,
misher<3

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misher4 on 9/22/2009 7:30:20 PM

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CLUB GLAMOUROUS! on 9/22/2009 6:54:13 PM

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
I HATE SHOTS TOO!
I MIGHT HAVE TO GET ONE IN OCTOBER
HOPEFULLLY NOT
HEY GURLIE,
FOR FLU SHOTS THEY CAME OUT WITH A NASAL SPRAY (SOMETHING THEY SPRAY UP YOUR NOSE)
SO MAYBE I WILL GET THAT Smile Smile

luvohiostate on 9/22/2009 4:42:56 PM

i hate the docs office because a lot of the times i have to give a urine sample instead. and the worst part is i have to actually spread my leggs apart in the office in front of my mom and my doc it is so disgusting

cupcake143 on 9/22/2009 1:33:19 PM

i used to be afraid of shots when i was like 5 or 6 and below. then after that, i wasn't as afraid anymore. but then, i watched a documentary on discovery channel about the world's smallest girl and she had to get a shot. the needle looked huge against her and when she got the shot she was crying hysterically. then i became afraid of shots once again and that was just like 3 weeks ago. i got my shot and it didn't hurt [that much] so im not afraid anymore

NJessicaN on 9/21/2009 11:33:09 PM

Aaawww...I hate shots too. They stink. but sometimes they are not as bad as you think. sometimes you over exagerate when sometimes it doesnt even hurt and its over in a second. But what you should know next time you get a shot is that remember that it will be over and its worth it. I mean wouldnt you like to know your protected from a disease rather then living in a world never knowing whats goign to happen to your health?

myhalo118 on 9/21/2009 11:27:44 PM

Hey babe,

Shots suck, but they are also quick. It takes longer to rip off a Band-Aid then to get a slight prick in your arm. When you are getting the shots just try to relax and think about how quickly it will all be over. Also, look away from the nurse - that way you won't know exactly when they are going to stick you with the needle.

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E. on 9/21/2009 11:05:16 PM



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