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How do I tell my friends I still like a heartbreaker?

 

I really like this guy and he likes me.  We were kind of going out for about six months. Then I "broke up" with him. He got really mad and started saying all these mean things about me to me and his brother. I was really upset and hurt. We secretly talked because my friends didn't want me speaking to him but I still liked him.


I feel bad about lying to my friends about liking him and I want to tell them the truth. The thing is he isn't the best guy. We're total opposites. Should I just be honest with my friends? Or does it sound like I should get over him (I've tried that and it doesn't work)?


Hey hon, someone who makes you feel like crap really isn’t worth your time or attention. Period. But I know it's easier said than done. Trust me, I’ve been there. And believe me, both of us deserve the best!


It seems as though this guy has some anger-control issues. Chances are he was the perfect BF while you were together. Then you broke up with him and he suddenly he starts talking trash? Sounds like he has some issues and he's taking them out on you, which is not fair at all. Did he apologize after he said those mean things to you? More importantly, did he mean it if he said he was sorry? If not, it's time to move on, chica.


He probably doesn't even think he did anything wrong and, because you're such a nice girl, you probably want to give him another chance. But he's not going to change overnight. And if you can't tell your friends the truth about him, that's a sign he may not be the guy for you. Make a list of his good qualities and look for those traits in other guys. Remember, he’s not the only boy out there. Any guy would be absolutely lucky to go out with you!


Lots of love,
L'Oreal

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 9/18/2009 7:00:00 AM 96 COMMENTS

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hey girly,
well im having the same problem but instead of liking the guy i was in love with him we went out for 10 months and he broke my heart =/...my friends dont want me talking to him because he is a big jerk but you know what its not their life its mine so you do watever you wanna do b/c your friends dont control your life and they dont know how you feel about that one guy and hey you never he could be one!!!
Wish you the best,
♥ Melissa

♥melissa♥ on 2/4/2010 10:53:38 AM

Mod! I'm having this same problem pretty much. Except, I have liked him for 3 years. We dated 2 years ago and I broke his heart. We've dated 2 times since then and he broke my heart. I still like him. I told my friend thats close to him about my deepest and truthful feelings for him. The next day she told me that she likes him. Then she told me to get over him because theyre going out. Everytime I see them together I want to scream or cry. She is a player and she broke my best guy friends heart. I think their relationship will end soon but then again, I don't really know. I just want to get another chance with him. Thanks! :]




Hey girl! Just let things work themselves out and try not to rush into anything. Make sure that's what you really want.

xoxo

liz 
Liz L.

xoblondie414xo on 12/10/2009 5:41:46 PM

i believe u girl, im in the same situation and it is really hard. this guy i like and have liked for a while used to like me then someone from another school bothered him about it (his ex) and he said some mean things about me. i asked him about it at school and he said he didn't mean it, but you don't say things like that and not mean it, so were not talking to each other and i really want him to say sorry but he won't.
i feel your pain! good luck!

unouloveme on 12/4/2009 9:43:09 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! ok so here is the prob i started going out with this guy who one of my besties had gone out with anyway her and one other of my friends whos like in love with him told me all this stuff about him using me 4 someone else and they told me they hated me because i was going out with him!! anyway they just went and broke up with him 4 me and i never said they could and they told him that i was using him i so was not!! and then i tried talking to him after school turns out he wasn't using me and now he's basically gone all sour on me because i told him about what my friends said and i still really like him what should i do plzz help me out ASAP!!!!

 

Hey girl! Sounds like a sitch that's been pretty poorly communicated. You should talk to everyone face to face and let them know how you feel.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

blueberry1357 on 10/19/2009 12:27:28 AM

Yeah I know how you feel I have the same problem I told some one that lie him then he told everyone I mean evryone so I called him a jerk but I still like him.

mckenzdun on 10/18/2009 11:33:50 AM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:17:31 PM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:17:02 PM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:16:34 PM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:16:21 PM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:15:56 PM

1. say ur name 10x
2. say ur moms name 5x
3. say ur crushes name 3x
4. now post this in 4 other spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:15:40 PM

Hey, break ups are real hard, we all know that, even when you still like him. I think you should tell you friends other wise they won't really be your friends. friends are people that have a shoulder for you to cry on a, someone you can tell all your secrets to and they won't say anything bad just be there to comfort you, and someone who will alway try to bring that pretty smile back to your face. if they aren't those type of friends then they aren't much of a friend.

sPunkygrl on 10/16/2009 8:47:32 AM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

Iloveu09 on 10/15/2009 6:24:41 PM

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is 13 too young for love??? there was this guy that i really really really liked he told me he loved me and that i could never in a million years love him more but he never asked me out i asked him and he said that he has a bad track record with girls he thought i was to good to be treated like that and i was too good for him (he brought this up alot) does he really mean what he says or is he jsut playing to get me to like him




Hey girl, I want to say he means it, but I think he's probably just doing a bit of both. Love's a big thing and chances are, he prob doesn't love you -- he just might like you a lot (or like your attention). I wouldn't get too attached though, girlie. If this guy "likes" you, he should ask you out, not make up excuses. 

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

dolphingirl1114 on 10/14/2009 11:36:06 PM

First, you have to do what seems right to you. If you can't decide, Try thinking it out. If you tell your friends, they will either not get mAd because you told them or get mad because you've never told them earlier. If they get mad at you, remember that they still are your frinds and that it should all get better n time. Once things start to cool down, try talking to the a little bit more in detail about your relationship with the guy. Now you have to think of the other side of the story. The guy. If you are gonna break up with the guy because hes not the best to date try explaining to him that you might need to spend some time apart. if he gets mad try forgetting aboout him! he didnt treat you right by saying mean things about you so why should you still have to put up with him?? If you cant forget about him, write your feeling out in a journl. chances are,\ that things will all get better in few weeks time. just follow the choice that seems right! hope i help!

SMYoshi on 10/12/2009 10:43:52 PM

If any of you guys need help with guy problems, come to me. I am an expert. Just post on profile!!!!!

Abberz2424 on 10/12/2009 3:32:38 PM

So I like this guy and I think he likes me back... thats the problem. Im not allowed to date and my dad would kill me if i did. I dont want to mess anything up but I cant stop liking him. Wat should I do?

lek96 on 10/11/2009 11:04:04 PM

1.Say ur name 10x
2.Say ur mom's name 5x
3.Say ur crush's name 3x
4.then post this in 4 spots, if you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday.

mallod099 on 10/9/2009 5:55:36 PM

Well, I was in the same situation last week. I liked this guy, but we didn't have any of the same classes, and we only saw each other at lunch. But, I did ask him out, and he said yes. He even said that he liked me before I asked him out. Now, we are going strong. So, I say go for it.
Good Luck,
Abbey S.

Abberz2424 on 10/9/2009 2:39:52 PM

1. Say your name 10x
2. Say your mom's name 5x
3. Say your crush's name 3x
4. Now put this on 4 other articles and your crush will kiss you the nearest friday!

Jb24631 on 10/9/2009 12:58:45 AM

MOD!! I have a problem/question. Okay so I really like this guy and we've dated once before, too, for about 2 months. I know he likes me, too.
Problem is, My best friend hates him. They used to be best friends but now she thinks he is a jerk. He really isn't but I can't loose my best friend to get a boyfriend. I just don't know what to do. And my best friend is the reason I broke up with him in the first place, because I felt really bad for dating him when she didn't like him. But I really, really miss him. And she thinks he does all this awful stuff which he did do for a while but he stopped. And she knows that, but she thinks he will start again or something. I'm really confused. I really can't live without my best friend, but I really like the guy... I don't know what I can do without hurting one of them. Can you help?




Hey babe,

Talk to your friend about it and try to get her to give him another chance. If she understands how much it means to you and how much you care about him, she'll give it another try.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

chloegurl on 10/7/2009 8:20:37 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

lovablelily71796 on 10/7/2009 7:36:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD
how do i get an older guy to like me? he's only a year older, and i talk to him so i know he's a good guy. i just don't know how to get him to like me, considering im a freshman and the sophmores hate us.




Hey babe! Unfortunately you can't make someone like you.  Things like that just happen and fall into place when there is a mutual connection.  If you talk with him, that's awesome!  Keep up the chit-chat and maybe it will develop into something more! Smile Good luck 
Megan R.

luvxtennisx3 on 10/3/2009 10:29:21 AM

well just tell them who cares what they think and besides if they were your friends they wouldnt care riiiiiiiight?

s321gama on 10/2/2009 8:38:44 AM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry this is long.
I like this guy since the very end of fifth grade and now it's seventh grade and im confused. We were considered a perfect match in the beginning of sixth grade, but in the middle of sixth grade i hated him because he ignored me. finally at the end of sixth grade i think he kind of liked me again. now its seventh grade and hes going for all the popular girls. i can't seem to get over him, because how much we clicked... and now hes going out with my friend. but he and my friend never talk, and i still like him. help!!!




Hey girl, this guy doesn't sound like he's worth your time. You deserve a lot better. I know it may be hard, but the best way to get over a guy is distance yourself from him. Stick with your besties. Stay distracted with schoolwork and activities. You'll find you'll be thinking less and less of him and eventually, won't think of him at all. It just takes a 'lil time.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

GwenRoxMySox on 10/1/2009 7:06:11 PM

heyy hon,
if this guy is hurting you this badly then you guys should just be friends for a while and see if he can gain your trust back overtime. if it doesnt work then dont waste your time on him. i know it may be hard to get over him but face the facts. there are plenty of other guys out there that will be willing to treat you right and make you feel special. your beautiful and a bunch of guys will be waiting for you in this big world. go get 'em!!!!

<3,
shelbyrox81

shelbyrox81 on 9/28/2009 4:31:22 PM

YAY!!!!!! I'm playing the violin now! Only prob, I don't know anything about it. Come to my profile and tell me something about the violin if ya play it. And see what we have in common.

CHECK IT OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please help me, hitthemall#1, (My name is Maddie.

hitthemall#1 on 9/28/2009 4:28:51 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD hey, mod. i found out my ex-bf still has lots of feelings for me, but he didnt want me to find out. he knows that i still love him also. i want to go back out with him, but the reason why he broke up with me was because he thought i was being too serious ( the only thing i did was hug him goodbye sometimes )and im scared if i bring it up to him he will get turned off. help!

 

hey girl!  If you both still have feelings for eachother, you should talk to him about it.  Clear things up by telling him how you feel.  If he wants to get back together, talk about what is "too much" for both of you.  This way, you can come to an agreement and not have to worry about being too serious.  Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

andrea95 on 9/27/2009 7:36:05 PM

help this guy and i went out last year and i still like him . we were in the band hall and we kissed later that day he pulled me out of class and kissed me in the hall then later at the football game we kept kissing i know we are just friends but is it ok just to be make-out friends or should we stop cuz i dont want to get hurt pleaz help panda&j

 

Hey girl, maybe you should stop. Kissing is a very affectionate thing, and it's easy for a gal to catch feelings after doing it so much. And if he doesn't want a relationship, you should cut it off before you get hurt.

Lynae P.

panda&j on 9/27/2009 2:49:29 PM

take it from me dont go back to him. that has happen to me girl. it is hard to get over ur bf but i know i can if u ever need to talk talk to me

mylife*11 on 9/27/2009 2:47:31 PM

!!! first thing i can actually relate to! i was with this guy most of eighth grade and most of summer. after about 3 months my friends started hating him. nearly every single one! then in august he got arrested and thought we should break up which stunk esp. since it was 5 days before school, and i still like him, but ppl get mad when i bring it up.
remember, your true best friends will support you tell them that if he makes you happy they should be happy.

whitehouses on 9/26/2009 12:11:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD I like this guy and he used to be my boyfriend but my mom found out and i had to break up with him. At school he is really mean to me he calls me a jerk. But i kind of still like him but he treats me so badly. I don't know what to do?

 

Hey girl, you don't wanna like someone who treats you bad. So when he's calling you those names ignore him and act like it doesn't even bother you. But if it gets too bad, you may need to say something back to him.

Lynae P.

smurfky92 on 9/25/2009 11:14:02 PM

I know its hard to let go, but chasing after a heartbreaker will lead to no good!And i say tell your friends!!
COMMENT ON MY PROFILE PLEASE

mattitude on 9/24/2009 11:21:59 PM

MOD MOD
ok so i like this guy we'll call him Z. ok so Z is a good singer in baseball and sits by me in one of my classes. I really want to talk to him but what would i say to start the conversation? Today in class i tried to talk to him but got in trouble by the teacher and that class is about the only time i see him other than when i see him by his locker. How do i talk to him and what do i say???




Hey, I wouldn't try to talk during class because you might keep getting in trouble. Try to talk to him before or after class, or in the hall near your lockers. Ask him how he thought a test or quiz was or if you have a question about homework, talk about that. That will at least open up a convo.  
katelin s.

pinkster526 on 9/24/2009 9:02:42 PM

MOD!
Hey there! I like this guy (hehe) & he tried to kiss me. (!!) I couldn't do it, because he was acting as if he didn't like me, but suddenly wanted to kiss me. I pulled away and made a big, childish fuss about it (I'm thirteen, I guess I can get away with it). Man, I wanted to kiss him. I think he got upset and went home, and I haven't seen him since (we're off from school now) and I've been hearing he likes one of my friends. I know that if I mention it, he'll get mad that I'm assuming. I. Need. Help. He's 14, but two grades older than me. Do you think going for a walk in the woods with him is a good idea to talk things out, and see if he still likes me? If so, it'd be after my haircut. Yum. But would kissing him on the cheek be an okay idea?
I am SO lost.
Thankies <33.
-Shannon.




Hey babe, you shouldn't feel bad about not kissing the guy - you should only do that when you're comfortable with it. If you think he likes your friend, just ask him about it. I wouldn't necessarily  go for a walk in the woods, maybe go somewhere more public, like a park to talk about things. Kissing him on the cheek would be fine, do whatever feels natural.
katelin s.

AsIAm. on 9/24/2009 8:51:21 PM

ALYSSA:
thanks so much for the advice. i get what u mean but i think i will take me a while to get ovr him. thanks thanks thanks karrisa




Hey girl, I don't doubt that at all and I know it'll be super hard. But it's the right move in the end -- especially for your BFF. Give it some time. A good way to help yourself is to give yourself a little distance from this guy. Take a break and see what your heart tells you. Talk it out with your friends. The last thing anyone wants, however, is a Romeo and Juilet story with the tragedy. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, girl!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

karrisa1 on 9/23/2009 10:20:37 PM

mod mod mod mod mod mod mod
i am COMPLETELY in love with my guy friend. he is weird and random and he always changes his mind about who he likes and he has dated girls alot older than him and he can b selfish sometimes and he has kissed my best friend. aka he is the WORST possible guy for me but i love him. i rly do. i mean its the kind of love that once ur past infatuation u feel for someone. ya know? like when u dont care if he has a big old zit on his face or rly needs to shave cuz he is just with you. i have never ever ever felt this way about a guy ever and i think he could be the one. there is only alot of other problems that i hve to go thru to get to him. sry this is super long. 1) my bff: she used to date my crush and even tho there r no hard feelings, he broke her heart and left me to find the superglue. i told her i wuld nevr like him and here i am ready to marry him if he asked. idk how to tell her or what she would say. howz the best way to tell ut bff that ur in love with her ex who broke her heart. 2) him: ugh he is so blind to what we have. we have such a great time together but he cant seem to realize what we have its like, over here!!! you belong with me!!!! how can i get him to realize that???3) Our family: we met b/c of out older bros. theyre best friends and
if we did get togetha then breakup would it destroy our family's friendship? 4) who he is interested in: he likes 1 of my rly close friends and i cant help but b jealous of her but she doesnt like him back. its so confusing but he changes who he likes almost every week. does that mean he isnt rly interestd in them? 6) me: i have been trying not to let it show that i like him but it does show thru. the thing is i dont think he thinks im interested. what r some TOTALLY obvious ways without telling him to show jim i like him?? plz plzplz help me!!! i am out of my mind confuzzled and could rly use some advice. thnx buckets!!!!! karrisa




Aw girl, sounds like you fell hard. But take a step back because you're right, there's a lot of reasons you shouldn't be with this guy. This guy has hurt girls in the past and has fleeting emotions. What you have is great, girlie, but you can def be good friends with it. To hint to him you like him, try giving subtle hints. Bring up relationships -- how he might just fit your perfect guy mold. But be careful. From the sounds of it, it sounds like there are way more cons (you deserve a guy that will stick to liking you -- not just ditch his feelings in a week) than pros to this union. Sisters before misters, girlie, and honestly know that you will meet a lot of guys you may think will be the one. Keep your eyes open all around you at those other cuties sans all that crazy history and strings. You may be surprised at what you find. As for this dude? Give him the hints and if he doesn't catch your drift, leave him behind. I promise you that feeling won't only be around once. Hope this helps!

xoxo
Alyssa B.

karrisa1 on 9/23/2009 10:04:25 PM

****MODMODMOD***- or anyone who can help, post on my profile..
So my crush (Mike) I've liked him since last year. His brother was in a play with me, and he showed up both nights sitting in the front row and backstage when his brother wasn't there. He was always staring at me in class and trying to impress me (i think) My friends figured out that he liked me and asked him. He flipped out and completely denied it. After that, he had some health problems and wasn't in school - when he came back he never looked at me twice.
Then this year started and we have one class together. He's always staring at me, but when I try to come anywhere near him he shuts down and gives me the cold shoulder. Today in class, when he was agreeing with something I said, he started clapping and said "She has a great idea" but when the teacher asked him to say my name instead of she Mike froze up. Does he like me? How can I find out?
Thanks!!!




Hey girl, sounds like a way confusing sitch. There's signals coming both ways, so my suggestion is to confront him yourself. Ask him how he's doing and when the time's right, if something's up. Chances are, this cutie may just be shy. Be confident and you. And if things with this guy don't work out? Well, there's tons of fish in the sea. Go fish and best of luck with your sitch, girlie!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

writereee on 9/23/2009 8:52:16 PM

MOD MOD MOD*******
okay i used to go out wiht this one guy but we had problems and now i like him again and we flirt alot what should i do? like i wanna g out with him but idkkk HELPPP




Hey girl, that's great there's sparks but before you go in for the full flames, give your past a thought. Think long and hard about your relationship before. Why didn't it work the first time? And what has changed since then? If you've realized things are looking great, go for round 2, but go in with a bit of reservations. As Mr. Winston Churchill said, those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it. So follow your heart, keep the past in perspective, and figure out the right move for now. I promise, girlie, if you think it through and see what's right for you, you'll make the right choice. Good luck!

xoxo
Alyssa B.

moelover268 on 9/23/2009 8:47:43 PM

***MOD***
I am going to a dance on friday and i was wondering how to slow dance?? just in case. even though i just found out that my crush likes someone else. plus can you give me some tips to get over it and move on.




Hey babe,

There isn't much to learn when it comes to slow dancing - you just put your arms around his neck or on his shoulders and he puts his hands on your waist and you pretty much just lean left and right to the beat of the song. some schools have rules about how close you can be to who you're dancing with, though. To get over your crush, try to focus on other things like schoolwork and friends. The busier you are the less time you'll have to think about it too much.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

rockincat10 on 9/23/2009 4:27:21 PM

Thats great advice
Follow your heart!
Hey Girls comment on my pro and I PROMISE to comment on yours!
Best wishes
tang454

tang454 on 9/23/2009 3:47:18 PM

MOD! okay so theres this guy i really lke but hes like the flirtious guy i know im only in ne of his classes (gym) and i always seing him talking to others girls he always looks my way though and tries to make me laugh

 

Hey girlie! Not sure what you're question is but just keep being yourself and being confident. If he truly likes you, he will let you know!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

future_rocker on 9/22/2009 7:20:59 PM

Girl its just like me my bf he broke up with me and i feltt distroyed, just try to explain to your friends easily....

Ms.Priss1332 on 9/21/2009 7:52:22 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD ... Ok so this doesn't exactly relate. well this guy liked me like 2 years ago and i liked him. he told me he liked me and i told him. we didn't go out of anything. then the next year he started to hate me and like love one of my friends! now 1 year later he sometimes is nice to me but is crushing on a girl 1 year older than him. MY COUSIN BFF! what do i do??? -Tired of this

 

Hey girlie! Just try ignoring him. He obviously has some issue to work out and you should totally just keep doing your thing and not worry about him!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

bootycall7 on 9/20/2009 10:32:04 PM

MOD MOD-Help Guys Puberty Is it kind of normal to be interested in guys and their puberty and how their body changes? I have listened well in class and had very open health teachers but I still find myself very interested in their bodies and how they mature. Is this just part of being curious about the opposite sex? My last teacher said the internet is a good place to learn about guys bodies and their puberty and made it seem normal to want to know about that stuff. But sometimes I do wonder if I am normal or not about it even if it seems my friends want to know too. Can you give some advice? I meant to ask a Mod about this. And anyone else can too.

 

Hey girlie! It's pretty normal to wonder how everything works. Dont worry.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

luckykel on 9/20/2009 9:27:58 PM

**MOD** I have my boyfriend adn hes getting annoying by like pre-tending to bite me and like playing the drumms on my legs... and it annoys me... and then i like his friend and... AH! i dont know what to do!! i still like my boyfriend but i also like his friend!

 

Hey girlie! Sounds tough. You're just going to have to figure out who you care for the most. And try not to hurt any feelings. You'll make a good decision!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

mintymonkey16 on 9/20/2009 9:22:04 PM

***MOD*** Im torn between 4 guys! One is my boyfriend and i luv him to death but im getting boerd with him and like the other 3 i luv alot one was my "first time" and the other 2 aer my best friends i think i like them alot. but im not sure. Help Please! This is my friends account she let mee on.

 

Hey girlie! You're just going to have to find out which boy you like best. Try not to hurt anyone's feelings and make the best choice for you!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Reeses31416 on 9/20/2009 9:06:41 PM

**MOD** my boyfriends getting kinda annoying!!! I have no idea what to do!! Help me pleasE!

 

Hey girl!  First off, figure out what it is that annoys you about your bf.  If it's something silly like the way he cracks his knuckles all the time, let him know.  But if you're getting tired of his all over manner, it may be time to break up with him.  Ask yourself if you still want to be with him.  Before you do anything drastic, make sure you're completely sure.  If you don't want to be with him anymore, let him know that you really like him as a friend, but you don't see the two of you working out anymore.  Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

mintymonkey16 on 9/20/2009 8:37:31 PM

♫eggs and bacon oh yeah♫
i have never had a bf cuz i can't date till 9th grade Frown

PicturePerfect on 9/20/2009 7:40:15 PM

*******MOD********* I like this boy a lot lets say his name is bob lol. So bob and me text a good amount and HE usually starts em. But he is like crazy about this other girl at my church and asks me advice about her and stuff, and it kills me. i am trying to get over him, but its hard. and i know he will never like me cuz i know him VERY well, and i dont think he would like me. what should i do!??? HELP!

 

Hey girl!  That's a really tough sitch to be in.  If you two are really good friends, you don't want to lose that.  You can keep talking to him because you never know, he could end up falling for you.  Until then, it hurts, but keep your eyes open for other guys.  Talk to new guys or just chat more with guy friends you already have.  Things may end up working out better between you and one of them later on, Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

mads4 on 9/20/2009 6:51:05 PM



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