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BGF and BFF Love Triangle

 

OK, I have a really big problem. This year I realized I liked my BGF, Chris. Except he likes one of my very close friends and at our dances he gets upset because she's dancing with the guy she likes. I feel bad for him, so I go ask her to dance with him and then I'm all upset and it's just horrible.


Then my second problem is my friend. I haven't told any of my friends that I like him for two reasons. First, me and my bestie never tell each other who we like, we tell each other everything but that, I don't know why, we just don't. Then one of my other best friends (who I also tell everything), she's always talking about how annoying he is and how much she hates him every time I bring up his name. I don't know what to do, because obviously he doesn't realize I like him and I can't tell anyone.


-mibabe'


I think you should explain to the friend who doesn’t like Chris that you are good friends with him and don’t appreciate when she complains about him. You won’t have to put up with her badmouthing him anymore, but she doesn’t have to know that you have a crush on him, either. It might also be a good idea to explain to your other best friend (the one that Chris likes) that he has a crush on her. She may not have realized or known.


Since she likes another guy, she won’t go out with Chris, but she will probably get the message across to Chris that she doesn’t like him that way. If you don’t mind being just friends with Chris, I would suggest leaving it at that. However, if you feel you really need to tell him, then talk to him about it. Explain that you know he likes your friend, but that you wanted to let him know how much you like him and how much of a great guy he is.


-Andie

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HA HA HA been there...done that...don't want to do it again....not in high school yet so I bet that I will......

music_chica_03 on 11/24/2009 6:31:37 PM

mod, oh ok, thanks for the help! but im seeing lots of these chain comments like this on the articles like" IF YOU POST THIS, YOUR CRUSH WILL KISS YOU ON FRIDAY" and things like that. Its getting really annoying

 

Hey girl! We're taking care of it!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

BestestPastry:) on 10/24/2009 1:23:39 PM

mod, Ok, so there is this guy i have liked since the first day of school. There was this one incident where my friend asked him out for me, but we got over that. But I have been talking to his best friend, who is my BGF, and he says he doesnt like me at all, and he wants to be single for a long time, since his GF just dumped him. But it says on his facebook that"i need a relationship"! and we were playing truth or dare, and he told me he liked me!!!! who should i beleive!

 

Hey girl! Hmm...sounds kind of confusing! I would just take it day by day and see how everything goes. Keep talking and hanging out with your friend and see what happens.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

BestestPastry:) on 10/24/2009 1:11:43 PM

LEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

iheartbraden on 10/16/2009 10:41:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Please Please help!!!!!!! Ok so I liked this guy since the begging of last year and I really like him he's like the most serious crush I have ever had and so like 3 weeks ago he asked out my best friend ( I met my bff in the middle of last year) she said yes but she doesn't know I like him at all or as much as I do. I think she kinds suspects it thought. But at first them being together didn't really bother me but now that they are getting more "lovey" and it's starting to bother me. I don't know how long they are gonna last but she has only liked him for a little while and never told me. So if something happened and they broke up would I be okay to be with him or is he off limits? I like him sooo much and my bff really wants me to tell her who I like but I don't know what to do. I am happy that the both of them are happy cause he is a really good friend too but there romance is kinds bothering me and I am so confused!!!!!! Please please please help!!!' Thanks soooooooooooooo much!!! Softballstar67

 

Hey girl! Touch sitch, babe. Just try focusing on you right now. Concentrate on your classes and doing your own thing. It's great that you are happy for them, you're a good friend. If they break up, be there for you girl and him, too. Wait a while then, talk to her about maybe hanging out with him. Hold your head high, chick!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

softballstar67 on 10/11/2009 11:25:16 PM

mod ! glad to hear. i'm pretty good cuz i already know what i'm gonna say to himLaughing

 

Good for you! Good luck, babe!

 

Taeler L.

xxfrankieismyheroxx on 10/11/2009 10:48:14 PM

MOD thanks Taeler wasn't exactly sure just wanted to 2x check. So how you been ?

 

Hey chick! No prob, hope I helped! And, I'm fabulous! How are you?!

Taeler L.

xxfrankieismyheroxx on 10/11/2009 10:44:02 PM

MODMODMOD! help ! i have a crush on this guy i met... thing is... i met him over the xbox ! he likes me back and he said he really wants to meet me and i might go over there over spring break but i also really like this guy devon that's in my gym class. i've like brandon for a while now and im positive he is real but at the same time i like a guy that's local and i'm pretty sure he likes me back. because the other day my friend called me an ugly little brat just kidding around and devon yelled she's not ugly ! then ran off... and he's always really flirty and sweet with me. sorry it's so long/

 

Hey girl! I would focus on your local boy. You would have more of a chance to hang out with him!  Be confident and be yourself; everything will play out like it should!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

xxfrankieismyheroxx on 10/11/2009 10:39:35 PM

say ur name 10 times
say ur moms name 5 times
say ur crushes name 3 times
now post this on 4 other spots
if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday

tennischamp18 on 10/11/2009 6:42:03 PM

Who the heck is MOD MOD!?!?

MusicLove on 10/11/2009 5:31:00 PM

Hola! What's Goin' On???

MusicLove on 10/11/2009 5:28:37 PM

MOD MOD MOD ok so the other day me and my friends were at a football game with some other guys. we were hanging out in the field and stuff and my friends bf just asked her out a week ago but she doesnt really like him. she said yes cuz he likes her sooo much!! while we were at the game he was acting creepy!! he would go up to her and talk about random stuff, and then while she was talking to her friends he would come up and just sand behind her. then, he wanted to get a pic with her and he set it as his wallpaper on his phone!! y is he acting so creepy? im worried for my bff!! even she thinks its creepy!

 

Hey chicky, he's probably acting that way because he's really excited about dating your friend. Sounds like he's really into her and just wants her to notice how much he likes her. So give him some time and he may chill out a little bit.

Lynae P.

dancingirl12 on 10/11/2009 4:11:31 PM

say ur name 10 times
say ur moms name 5 times
say ur crushes name 3 times
now post this on 4 other spots
if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday

celn on 10/10/2009 8:22:32 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
I sent a comment yesterday on here and its not here yet but all my others are..!!?? Its about my BGFFrown




Hey girl! I am not sure..sorry 
Eryn G.

Paramore_247 on 10/10/2009 1:56:33 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Thanks Allie for the advice you gave me ..!! About my BGF..!! It helped alot

Paramore_247 on 10/10/2009 12:45:32 PM

MODMODMOD
A few days ago, I found out my crush likes one of my friends and she likes him back. They're not going out, though, because she's not allowed to. I'm really hurt and confused that she didn't tell me. Also, she's moving in December. Is the guy totally off limits? I like him so much...what should I do?




Hey girl! I'd say he's pretty off limits. Think about if you were in your friends shoes...you'd be pretty hurt if she went after a guy you liked, right?  There are other guys out there! A guy is not worth ruining a friendship over.   
Megan R.

kendopolis on 10/10/2009 12:13:12 PM

1.say your name 10X's
2.say your moms name 5S's
3.say your crushes name3X'sa
4.now post this in 4 other spots
if you do this your crush will
kiss you on the nearest friday

cinnaroll17 on 10/10/2009 12:48:51 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD HELP,,,, OMG I've liked this guy for like ever since we became friends in the 8th grade. And of corse ive told my best friends about him. on the last day of school he admitted that he liked me and then we kissed........ he said that he couldent wait for freshman year to start so that he could see me. As soon as i got home i texted both of my friends..... and they both were really excited! the next day i left for summer camp and before i knew it it was the first day of school again.Every thing was the samee as before but when i was walking to class with my best friend she told me that my other best friend and my crush had a thing over the summer behing my back..... what should i do

 

Hey girly, before you believe the he say- she say, ask your crush and BFF about it. That way you'll know what really happened over the summer.

Lynae P.

lulu345xoxo on 10/9/2009 10:54:05 PM

Hey girl,

I have the same issue I like a boy my friends know but some of them don't like him and when I'm around him I am nice but is like I doesn't notice that I like him so I got over him I still have a crush on him but I'll move on you should too.

msmeme on 10/9/2009 7:46:57 PM

My BGF I haven't seen in 2 months and I really miss him. He's like a brother to me. He acts like he likes me. I try to text him but he doesn't answer, but i think its because he uses his dad's phone What should I do to talk to him?

GL1Fan on 10/9/2009 6:36:05 PM

someone keeps on trying to ask me out so i say no cause i dont like him but now im starting to like him cause hes one of thoseshow- offy guys that make me blsh alot but he is also one of those bad boys that get in trouble alot but he gets good grades so next time he asks me out i might say yes but people just laugh at me and i startto blush.

reeldancer on 10/9/2009 6:30:23 PM

***MOD***
Ever since I have gotten into high school my crush hasn't been paying that much attention to me like he used to in middle school. He doesn't stare at me as much, and he always talks to other girls... including his ex-gf! I had a strong feeling he liked me, but now I don't even know if he does. What's the deal? Has he moved on?




Hey babe,

Unfortunately, it sounds like he has moved on. Try to forget about him and focus on school and friends for awhile and soon you'll be ready to move on too.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

evercole95 on 10/9/2009 6:07:18 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

polkadotz97 on 10/9/2009 5:49:58 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

cgirl751 on 10/9/2009 5:29:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Help me n my BGF just got in a big fight n i have been friends with him for 2yrs and now he says he hates me n doesnt wanna be friends n im sooo heartbroken and he called me names im trying to forget but i just cant..!! I tried talking to him but he wont talk to me. I know i should leave him but i tried and i just Cant...!! Help me please




Hey babe,

Give him some space to cool off before you try to talk to him again. Things might go better if he's had some time to think about things and miss you for awhile.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

Paramore_247 on 10/9/2009 5:03:39 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT 1. Say ur name 10x 2. Say ur mom's name 5x 3. Say ur crushes name 3x 4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

bubblekinz on 10/9/2009 1:47:54 AM

1. Say your name 10x
2. Say your mom"s name 5x
3. Say your crush Names 3x
4. Now put this on 4 different Articles and your crush will kiss you the nearest friday!

Jb24631 on 10/9/2009 12:53:45 AM

MOD! MOD!!
ok so recently this guys in my class and me have became friends and every time i turn around he's looking at me. he told my friend that he SERIOUSLY doesnt like any one. whats it all mean?




Hey babe, he could like ya. You never really know with guys! Just hang out with him and get to know him better and then you'll probably be able to tell. 
katelin s.

hcteh on 10/8/2009 11:36:11 PM

MOD!MOD!MOD!
What are some little hints that I should do to the boy that I like? And what are some hints that he could possibley be into me?




Hey babe, just be flirty and talk to him a lot and look him in the eyes. Be extra giggly and friendly and he'll notice. If he's looking at you a lot and talking to you more than usual, chances are he likes you too. 
katelin s.

jello4eve on 10/8/2009 10:25:51 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!



1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!




1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!




1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!



1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

kari9 on 10/8/2009 8:43:27 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

iloveicarly1 on 10/8/2009 8:35:47 PM

MOD MOD MOD
kay, theres a dance coming up and i wanna know if this one guys going but im to she to talk to him.. what do i do? please write back ASAP.

 

Hey girl, I know it's hard biut try taking the plunge. Just ask him casually sometime if he's going to the dance as a friend. Maybe even get a friend to be there with you as you're walking to class or in the hall. A buddy's a great person to have -- especially to help you take that step.

xoxo

Alyssa B.

kari9 on 10/8/2009 8:20:30 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other places, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearset friday

P.S. Check out my profile!

futurewriter on 10/8/2009 7:27:47 PM

MODMODMOD
Is it ok to like more than one guy at once? There this one guy who's really sweet in all my classes, but when I think about him, I feel all guilty because there's another guy I've liked for a year now. Help!

 

Hey girl, it's totally okay. Hormones determine who you like, so don't sweat it. Just don't date both guys at the same time and you'll be fine!

xoxo

Alyssa B.

kendopolis on 10/8/2009 5:51:00 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck


misshwoman on 10/8/2009 5:12:00 PM

MODMODMOD
Today, one of my crush's friends started joking with him on how he wouldn't tell him who he was going out with. He didn't really say anything but walked away. He has no idea I like him, or that another girl who was with us likes him. Do you think his friend was kidding? Or is he really going out with someone but wouldn't tell one of his best friends?

 

Hey girl, it's hard to say for sure. The best way to get an answer though is to pry his friend (and maybe the guy!) for a bit more info. Be subtle and you'll def get your answer.

xoxo 

Alyssa B.

kendopolis on 10/8/2009 4:58:38 PM

hi

ciapet9624 on 10/8/2009 4:33:09 PM

Hey girly's!

My BFFL (a) and I like the same guy, Then now are other BFFL (b) likes him and asked us out. And at school A and I almost started crying because B asked him out! AND B never asked us how we felt about it. Girly's lemme know on my profile.

Smile_if_U-want on 10/8/2009 4:15:38 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
I used to like this guy, but don't anymore. It seems like he flirts with me, but it is a lot like with other girls except he is more physical with me. I don't want himto ask me out and get hurt. How can i figure out if he likes me? Thanks!!!




Hey girl, try having a friend ask him about it casually when you're not around. Since you're not interested in him, instruct your friend to hint to him that, well, once upon a time you liked him, but that ship has sailed. He'll get the drift and pursue his other "conquests." 

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

vgirl4 on 10/7/2009 10:44:05 PM

HELP..!! Worst feeling ever..!!
I really like my BGF..!! But he likes my Best friend and my Worst enimie..!! I try not being friends with him but when I am not friends with him I get a bad stomach ach and not feeling well and I have no clue why.I also tried just not talking to him and that did not help..!! So I told him I liked him and now i feel wired around him..!! I dont know what to do now..!! I am trying to act normal but I know I cant hide this forever..!! MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Help..!!
Paramore_247




Hey girl, I def know what that's like. It's totally natural for things to get weird when you let something off your chest like that. My suggestion is to take a break from him. It may be hard, but let him reach out to you. There's a lot of drama and if he wants to be friends, he will talk to you. If he doesn't, it's for the best, girlie. You'll move on and find new BGFs and BFs. Sisters before misters always!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

Paramore_247 on 10/7/2009 9:42:41 PM

MODMODMODMOD Smile
Okay, so I like this guy (I bet you've never heard that one before Tong) And I'm absolutely crazy about him but don't show it. He's been sending me super-mixed signals lately, like one day we're best friends and the next week he doesn't talk to me. Why do you think that is?? I'm not shy, but I am around guys... so I don't talk to him. It that bad? Do I need to "work harder" If I want him to like me? Please Mod please!!!




Hey babe,

I think it might help if you showed a little more interest in him. Maybe he likes you just as much but thinks you don't like him!

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

kendopolis on 10/7/2009 8:29:48 PM

Allie So i've liked this guy all last year and still this year he knows I like him and last year i would always look at him and he would sometimes talk about me when i was right there.This year he's been looking at me first instead of me looking at him and he does that everyweek some of his friends also know that i like him.Like yesterday and today at the end of the day he turned around and looked at me.Does this mean anything? Kayla xoxo




Hey babe,

If he knows you like him and hasn't made a move, then he probably won't. It might also be why he's looking at you. Maybe his feelings are starting to change. But since he knows already, wait for him to make the first move so you don't seem too pushy.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

redsoxlover on 10/7/2009 8:06:12 PM

Try this it really works!
1.Say ur name 10x
2.Say ur mom's name 5x
3.Say ur crush's name 3x
4.Paste this on 4 other articles and ur crush will kiss u the nearest friday!

kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,kaley,

erin,erin,erin,erin,erin,

kallen,kallen,kallen

turquoise_girl13 on 10/7/2009 7:31:11 PM

How do u MOD?? Do u just write MOD a buncha times at the top of the comment? sorry if this sounds dumb but im totally confused.

googoogal on 10/7/2009 7:09:08 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

googoogal on 10/7/2009 7:06:37 PM

So, I'm a freshman. & I'm kind of starting to like this guy thats junior. He's really cute, and our families hang out sometimes. He even has a nickname for me (: He usually says hey to me in the hallways and stuff, but he hasn't lately.
I pretty much think I have NO chance with him. So, should I try to get him to like me? I'm sort of scared to flirt with him, 'cause I dont want him to think I'm weird for flirting with him! lol Do you think it's too big of an age difference? I'm just really confused! haha
Anyways, thanks for your help! (:
xoxox
<3

lovelovelove5 on 10/7/2009 6:53:31 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

tennisroxursox on 10/7/2009 6:25:55 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

twilight4everlalala on 10/6/2009 9:15:08 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

periodworrier17 on 10/6/2009 7:52:10 PM

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD ok so lately my friend has been noticing one of my guy friends and i have been getting close, i dont like him but shes positive he likes me and she thinks i like him back cuz we always joke around and stuff, i have to admit i do think he likes me, alot but its kinda awkward now that ive began to notice this,,,WHAT DO I DO????

 

Hey girly, you have to figure out if you like him or not. If you don't like him, tell him you just want to remain friends.

Lynae P.

Djdancerxox on 10/4/2009 2:43:27 PM



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