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Textual Harassment?

 

Between texting, instant messaging, Facebook and MySpace there are tons of chances for you to talk and flirt it up with crushes or BFs. Being so easily connected offers you tons of great opps to chat with the guys you like. But what happens when “just talking” or "flirting" turns into harassing?


Yep, you can feel forced to do stuff outside of your comfort zone even when you're not face-to-face with a super-cute sweetie. According to thatsnotcool.com, a new website and campaign designed to prevent teen dating digital abuse, one in three teens say they have been textually harassed by a romantic partner. What qualifies as a cyberspace creep-out? Asking you for inappropriate pics, constant iming or texting, or having lewd convos with you are some of the most common probs. Even worse, half of teenage girls say pressure from a dude is the reason they send sexy messages or pics.


So, take note techy sistahs! Be aware of what’s going on with your guy virtually. If the sound of your cell getting a text makes you cringe with the thought of what the message is about, it's probably time to stop hitting REPLY. When your inbox is full of inappro messages, it might be the time for you to consider a big de-friend or saving Creepy Colin's number in your cellie as DO NOT RESPOND. Even if the guy may be your perfect Prince Charming, there’s no reason you should feel forced into doing things that'll make you uncomfy. If stuff turns serious and you really feel harassed or threatened, talk to mama, your guidance counselor or head HERE for more resources.


-Taeler Lottino

BLOG IT OUT! What do you say, girlies? Have any of you felt harassed this way? How did you deal?

BY CAITLIN R. ON 9/22/2009 3:06:00 PM 105 COMMENTS

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No big deal can turn horrible. I thought my guy friend liked me cuz he would always joke and tease me, then he just kept teasing me and putting me down. I was depressed. So, TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY.

fastbutterflyer on 3/14/2010 5:51:30 PM

It's just flirtexting! It's not that big a deal!

candylips92 on 2/23/2010 2:01:04 PM

Really dumb! I mean, if guys like you, then they wouldn't ( or shouldn't ) be a complete jerk to you!

cats-r-the-best on 2/20/2010 9:41:10 AM

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!!RAWR!! on 2/2/2010 2:33:45 PM

haha thanks i wont b friends wit him! lol guys are so dumb Smile

RobPatz<3 on 1/25/2010 7:42:36 AM

heeey! if you want some guy or fashion, or any kind of advice, comment on my profile! Smile luv ya!

hottiexox9 on 1/22/2010 7:41:23 PM

MOd MOd MOD mod okay i have done alot of stuff i regret txting. I sent my boyfriend a picture of me in a sports bra and shorts.. and said alot of stuff i wish i cold take back. The other day my mom went thru my phone and found a nasty forward so she is having all my messages sent in the mail! Im so scared and dont know what to do.. MY mom will prolly make me break up with my bf and il be sooo grounded.... Could i get kicked off cheerleading? And could my bf get in trouble for the pic? and my mom is going to see messages about him asking for alot more than a kiss... MY parents are seperated so i thought about moving in with my dad but i havnt seen him sense i was 8. i even thought about suicide..Please respond right away because the mail wil be here anyday!!

 

Hey chica.  We all have things we regret and wish we could take back.  The important thing is to learn from your mistakes and keep moving.  Don't send your bf or anyone else pics unless you are fully clothed in them.  Also, try to keep the texts between you and your bf clean from now on.  Talk with your mom and tell her how sorry you are and ask her to let you continue dating your bf.  You might be grounded and your bf might get in trouble too but it won't be for the rest of your lives and you'll get through it.  If you're concerned about cheerleading, talk to your mom about it.  Don't do anything drastic or harm yourself because this situation really isn't as bad as you think it is. Talk to a school counselor or adult you trust, like your mom, about the negative feelings you're having because of what's going on.  They'll be able to help you.  Also, if you have suicidal thoughts again, talk to your mom immediately or you can check out these helpful resources:



Hotlines

If it is crucial that you get help right away, call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) or 911 IMMEDIATELY. Suicidehotlines.com also offers hotlines in all 50 states for immediate help with suicide or self-harm issues.



Focus Adolescent Services

Focus Adolescent services (focusas.com) offers info on local help and resources for teens.

  

Just keep your head up and be thankful you have a mom who really cares about you.

Tyler J.
Tyler J.

ashhagan104 on 1/11/2010 7:01:29 AM

MOD So I'm friends on Facebook with my crush. We've never IM'd each other before, and we haven't talked face-to-face in a while, but I think he knows I like him because I can never take my eyes off of him when I see him at school (sometimes he returns the stares). Now we're on winter break and I haven't seen him in over 2 weeks. Anyways, I'm online very late at night, and he usually isn't, except for the past 3 days. So the 1st night (at 2am) he set a STATUS that said "we should ichat" with his screen name. (iChat can be either instant mssg or talking through webcam.) I didn't think much of it until the next night when he wrote (at 2am again, on his status) "i want to ichat with you" and he listed his screen name again! I have no idea how many other friends he had online, but nobody commented on his status and he didn't post anything after that, although he stayed online for an extra hour. Do you think he wanted to talk to ME? I'm afraid that if I chat with him, he'll know I like him and I'll creep him out (or he already has a hunch i like him, and just wants to confirm it), and that his status wasn't meant for me. Oh, and he wasn't on Facebook at all on the 3rd night. Cry Thanks MOD and sorry about the length... I ramble.

 

Hey missy, mhmmm this is a tricky one. Why don't you leave a comment on one of his pics or his wall. You could leave something like "nice pic" or "cool profile" Something that's flirty but not too obvious. And if he responds, then you'll know he wants to talk to you. Hope that works for ya! Smile

Lynae P.

chocoholic4ever on 1/6/2010 3:42:37 PM

MOD!!! MOD!!!
I really need some help. I just moved to California from Pittsburg and to say the least, I am not in Kansas anymore (if by Kansas you mean Pittsburg). I've never been one to follow the crowd, but my parents are just dying to put me in this debutante ball! PROBLEM IS: I don't have a date! There's this one guy that I met, and we have EVERYTHING in common! I read graphic novels, and GET THIS...HE reads graffic novels! I like sailing, and, believe it or not, HE likes sailing! He would be the perfect date! PROBLEM IS: he's totally crushing on this other popular girl! She doesn't have much substance but she weights likes 90 lbs. How can I compete and have the debutante ball of my (and my parent's) dreams?
PLEASE MOD BACK! THE BALL IS THIS WEEKEND!!!
Signed,
Dateless and down on my luck Frown




Hey girl! If the ball is this weekend, it's crucial to ask the guy by tomorrow, to give him a couple days advance notice in order to get a tie or a tux (depending how fancy it is)  You could always ask this guy to go with you as your date and as just a friend.  Let him know you want to ask him because you have a lot in common and get along, so it would be fun.  If he says "yes", you have potential to get even closer with this guy!  And maybe you'll learn more about him! and vise versa of course! If he says he can't make it, try asking a friend's brother, or a family friend!  
Megan R.

DebutanteGirlyGirl on 12/29/2009 4:36:29 PM

mod mod!!! i am kind of new to this so i don't know if you'll reply to this or not. there is this guy who came to my school this year. at first he was kind of nice and he paid a lot of attention to me, talking to me on the bus and stuff...and he would ask me about stuff i didn't think he knew about...as if he was eavesdropping on my conversations with my friends...anyway...he started acting like a major jerk, screaming i love you to me all the time and pestering me to go to this party with him and stuff. and i didn't know if he was actually serious or not cos when i asked him what his problem with me was, he said that he thought i was cool etc...(in a serious way) and from now on, he is on and off with me..sometimes he'll act really stupid to me and say things like i love you and other times he'll act nice to me. he also tells me that i am pretty a lot. and i see him staring at me every morning when i go to my locker....i don't know what to say to him...i don't really like him and i think he is a player...why do you think he acts the way he does to me??




Hey girl! I am not sure why he is acting the way he is around you. He might like you...but might not want to make a big deal about it. You could ask him to not be that mean to you because you don't like it. 
Eryn G.

musicmaniac93 on 12/4/2009 12:57:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! I really like this guy and we're friends, but he is madly in love with a girl two years older than him. I'm 1 year younger than him. I really really like him, but he doesn't seem to like me more than a friend, and he said he would never get over this other girl. What should I do?

 

Hey gal, right now it's best that you just be his friend and be there for him when he needs advice. Give him some time to get over the girl and when he does, let him know how you feel and make a move. Remember you don't want to ruin a good friendship, so just wait a while. Smile

Lynae P.

snicolaysen on 11/29/2009 1:52:52 PM

MODMODMOD
kayy theres this guy brandon i like him sooo muchlySmile but we were talking (he doesnt have a phone) and he asked me out! so i said yes and then like two days later he broke up with me.he said it was too akward and didnt feel right but he still liked me. that was like 2 weeks ago yesterday he said he liked me again but we'll br friends that like eachother! idkk i like him more than a friend and he ddoes too help!




Hey babe, it seems like he doesn't have his priorities set just yet so let him know that you're willing to talk about where your relationship is going once he's thought about it and made up his mind. 
katelin s.

brookeyy on 11/26/2009 10:41:46 PM

Hahaha, my brother in college is being textual harassed by a sophomore in high school. (not a joke)

i_luv_devin on 11/25/2009 12:13:27 AM

MOD MOD MOD
i want to get facebook,but i want anouther opinion be4 i ask my mom.If u dont put your real last name,or address do you think its safe?

 

You've gotta use lots of privacy settings, girl. Use your first name and last initial, maybe, and then make sure no one except people in your network can search for you (which means that you have to be logged in to find you). Def don't put your real address. Tell your mom all that--it's safe when you take the right precautions! Best,

Miliana B.

singasolo on 11/22/2009 2:47:22 AM

PLEASE stop with the chain mail. it's stupid and it dosn't work. nd this website is already spamed up enough

ImAStrangeChild on 11/18/2009 6:48:34 PM

♥MOD MOD MOD♥ Okay, my bf just said he really liked me and he wanted to kiss me. Of course I was REALLY happy! But, my mom said I cant kiss boys and boys cant kiss me. I told my bf what she said and he was really disappointed. I told him that if he kissed me as a surprise and I didn't know it was coming maybe my mom wouldn't be so mad. I was thinking that I could kiss him and not tell my mom but I don't really want to do it that way. Help! I really want to kiss him! ♥




Hey girlie,




Tell your mom that you think you are responsible enough to kiss your BF, but you aren't going to take it any further than that. She might be afraid that you are growing up too quickly and is nervous that you won't make responsible choices in the future. Talk to her about her first kiss. If your mom sees that you are open with her instead of going behind her back and kissing your BF anyway she might realize that she can really trust you and your decisions.




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

annabanana21 on 11/16/2009 10:00:10 PM

MOD- this is kinda a long story.... my friend laura was dating this 1 guy joseph who didnt respect girls. then he broke up w/ her (diff story) n she started dating a guy i liked....

 

Hey girl, wheeww that was a long story. If you yourself don't like this boy Joe I wouldn't hang out with him, but you can't stop your friends from chilling with him. Boys like that aren't worth it though...so immature. Good Luck with all your friends I hope everything works out.

 

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

HeartsGetBroken on 11/12/2009 3:24:24 PM

MOD O_o creepy

sans11 on 11/10/2009 9:53:02 PM

wow i like a guy buy wow

jonasfan23 on 11/9/2009 8:03:22 PM

MODS-
There's this guy who I REALLY like, and I THINK he likes me back, we walk home together, we hang around and talk, he always teases my brother about 'us two' behind my back but he's really bad at it. (: But the problem is, he's just MEGA popular and I don't really think he'd like a normal girl like me! I mean, c'mon he's so popular he can get any GIRL he wants!
What do you think? x

 

He may have choices but why wouldn't he pick you? You said so  yourself that he seems to like you. Just go for it! What do you have to lose? best,

Miliana B.

BabyGirlx on 11/8/2009 11:40:37 AM

I hate it when people harrass others. It's rude and harmful.

WaffleAddict on 11/7/2009 4:00:26 PM

MOD MOD MOD
There is this boy that sits in front of me in math class and we talked alot mostly because HE WOULD NOT TURN AROUND for more than a milisecond. i didnt know he liked me and then he just asked me out and i was so nervous because i do not like him so i was just like umm no thanks and then we all left for our next class adn then he keeps asking me out like at least 8 times in that same day and then like 20 times a day and it hasnt stop and my answer hasnt changed WHEN IS HE GOING TO GET THE CLUE! he keeps iming me saying do u like me r u there will u go out with me and i just dont answer because i am to nervous and now in school he almost never talks to my face he always talks to my chest if i asked him what color my eyes were he def woodnt know.........................help when is he going to get that he is annoying me




Hey babe,

Next time he asks you out, be firm and stand your ground. Let him know that you are not interested in him at all and you want him to stop bothering you.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

kristinaxomack on 11/6/2009 6:59:27 PM

MOD!I NEED HELP.I LIKE THIS GUY WHO IS ALWAYS TEASING ME!Hes acting like a jerk because he has a new friend thats rude.I know hes nice but now he being plane rude.I like him lots and i've known him for years, hes nice.
MOD PLZ HELP ME!THANK U




Hey girl, call this guy out for his behavior. Tell him what he says hurts. If he teases you, ignore it. When people find you don't give 'em the reaction they want, they (or at least bullies) tend to change their behavior toward you.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

jadekat98 on 11/4/2009 10:58:42 PM

ok, there is this guy andwe ran xc together.he always compliments me and teases me. and wen we text he always likes to ask me who i like.and at the one party he was being so nice and wen we were eating him and his friends were all whispering and looking at me but idkk. and telling him just to ask her..im not really sure who "her" was... i always catch him glancing my way.. if isay something lik, oh i hate wen people are so lazyy, he'll be like oh i dont do that... or he'll be like i can change.. and im like no be yourself...
one downfall hes kinda into himslef sometimes
sorry so long just confuzzled

lalaworld321 on 11/4/2009 7:35:24 PM

MODERATOR-
In order to win the giveaways, do you have be a girlslife magazine subscriber? I'm just wondering.....




 

Hey girl! You enter online in order to win.

Eryn G.

Stargirlcandy3 on 10/31/2009 3:02:18 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD, ME AND MY BFFFL ARE CRUSHING ON THE SAME GUY,I THINK THE GUY LIKES BOTH OF US BECAUSE HE ALWAYS ASKS US FOR HUGS, BUT IVE ALSO SEEN HIM GETTING KISSES FROM OTHER GIRLS, THAT DONT LIKE HIM, HE ALWAYS KALLS ME AND SOMETIMES HE CALLS THIS RESTURAUNT KALLED THE "BELLA VIA" AND PRETENDS TO ORDER SOMETHING AND SENDS THE FOOD TO MY ADRESS. TO ME I THINK OF THIS AS FLIRTING BUT IS IT REALLY? AND WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT ME AND MY BFF LIKING THE SAME GUY?

 

hey girl! You should never let a guy come in between you and your friends. You should just see what happens, but remeber that its only a guy.

Eryn G.

NJHCHEERLEADER97 on 10/31/2009 2:19:16 PM

****MOD****MOD****MOD*******
So my BFF really likes this guy. The guy doesn't like her, but my BFF won't move on at all. She keeps saying that he should give her a chance, and that he should date her anyway. Me and the guy were sorta friends last year, but since my BFF made me call/text him all the time, he doesn't really like me anymore. I really wanna nicely tell her that she should tell just move on, but she keeps saying that he likes her. Even after I tell her he doesn't. Help!!
-xoxo Ella <3

 

Hey girl! You can offer your friend advice, but she makes the decision, as a friend you should be there for her.

Eryn G.

Heal_The_Wounds1052 on 10/31/2009 1:21:21 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD My friend was txting my bf on my phone and i got it back from her. He said "ok, im going to tell u something but u have to promise not to tell anyone, and promise to delete the message" or something like that. I said "um ok" and he said that he was with his ex and found out she still loves him and he told her he loves her too. I'm not mad or sad that he has feelings for his ex (i mean, everyone does) but it makes me sad that he doesn't trust me with that kind of stuff (he still doesnt kno i kno). I mean, for some reason i can tell what people feel and I knew he always had feelings for his ex, but i mean to tell my best friend and leave me out? It just confuses me and it makes me wonder if he doesn't trust me on a lot. I really wouldn't mind if he broke up with me (i just don't want to do that to him) as long as we can still hang out and text and not be awkward between us, but i just want to know if it may be that he wants to break up or something. thx mod, Smile

 

Hey girl! You should def talk to him and you can certainly tell him you would rather be friends. If he is talking like that with another girl it's not fair to you. Just let him know you would rather be friends and keep your part of the bargain even if he gets a little hurt.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

camel490 on 10/25/2009 11:29:10 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! ok well i've liked this guy for awhile and he liked me bak. but theres always been the prob of his ex gf. he nvr got compltly over her. then out of the blue she told him she loved him and well he ended up liking both of us. now when this happened i wasnt comfortable with it but i really liked him. so yesterday he was bein so nice and complimenting me and sayin all this sweet stuff and then out of the blue he sends me a fb message tht says this: just stop no more liking each other its just not gonna work out and im srry ull find soemone better than me. ok first of all i found tht a bad way 2 say tht but i just wanna no wat it means. idk y he's doin this. im not lookin 2 get bak 2 liking him i just dont understand. HELP BOYS R CONFUSING ME

 

Hey chicky, I'm sure he still likes you, but he just doesn't know what he wants right now. He confused and doesn't know if he wants to be with you or his ex girlfriend. And he's telling you to forget about him so that you won't get hurt and will find somebody else. I think you guys could and should get back together sometime down the road but not right now, because things are too complicated.

Lynae P.

dalejrcutie08 on 10/23/2009 10:58:35 PM

Photochickie,

I am on girlsense, too!! And I met him. He was just being not cool lol

karikaylee on 10/23/2009 9:29:35 PM

MOD!! well my comments never show up but i'll try again haha. there's this guy i have reallyyyy liked for 2 years and known him for 3. we have a lot in common but we go to different schools. he's a nice guy too but when ever he realizes a text is from me or a message on facebook he gives me the cold shoulder. my friends harass him in honesty boxes, he may think its all me! the first 2 years i knew him i was super shy with puffy hair, braces, and hideous clothes. but i got my braces off, i am super confident, i wear form fitting clothes(i look great now, complete turn-around). whenever i see him i always end up looking terrible! how can i prove i've changed? i've tried getting over him but honestly i can't; i think i have to go out with him at least once to know if i could get over him.-sorry this message is so long!

 

A guy is not worth changing your looks for, but I'm glad that you're happier with yourself! Try to be confident in your looks and brains. You are a great girl and if he fails to realize this, then he's not worth your time! There are other guys out there who will treat you with respect and give you the attention you deserve. 

Megan R.

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*clubmusichearts* on 10/23/2009 7:55:05 PM

i'm going out with a guy that i really really like there's nothing wrong but he asked me what i would do if he kissed me. what should i say? <3

shortie56 on 10/22/2009 6:00:34 PM

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do u think its harrasing well i kinda no it is but the guy i like calls me like his rhymes with or and his rhymes with witch does that mean he likes me hes not really like that good boy hes like one of those guys that arent the most polite and appropriate but like i dont no because everyone says he might like me and to like him if i want




Hey girl, sorry to say it, but sounds like this guy really doesn't like you or respect you at all. He's the kind of guy you shouldn't let fool you: he's not nice. Let him go, girlie, because no guy should ever say the stuff he's saying to you. He's not a friend.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

shabalabagal on 10/22/2009 5:49:44 PM

do u think its harrasing well i kinda no it is but the guy i like calls me like his rhymes with or and his rhymes with witch does that mean he likes me hes not really like that good boy hes like one of those guys that arent the most polite and appropriate but like i dont no because everyone says he might like me and to like him if i want

shabalabagal on 10/22/2009 5:42:54 PM

great tips! Smile

KcgPink on 10/20/2009 10:14:01 PM

i agree with u girls sayin the friday thing is fake

jellybean2010 on 10/20/2009 3:12:50 PM

oh amd for the last comment i sended it was a MOD MOD

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 10:19:18 PM

i need help my friend has a new boy friend and he touches her in the private parts and somehow she's okay with it and the guy is so used to it he thinks he can do it to me and my friend doesn't care

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 9:54:48 PM

i eaven tried the whole friday thing and when i pressed f6 nothing happened

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 9:40:32 PM

Girls the Kiss your crush and the if u dont bad luck its all fake..!! No need ot send it please
Kayla

Paramore_247 on 10/18/2009 11:58:32 AM

ok that 'your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday' thing is a bunch of junk idk who even came up with it

me~o~my on 10/16/2009 10:39:15 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

kittylover342 on 10/16/2009 7:27:52 PM

MOD, this helps a little but not really for my situation: this one football player that I used to have a crush on let this other football player have his phone and lead me on through text messages. I was mad, but then a few days ago, it got worse: he was supposedly with friends and they all got his phone and were like "this is really [insert name here]! I've been thinking and you're really cute and nice and very pretty. so what I'm asking is will you go out with me?" I told him that even if it was him I didn't know anymore, and he said to come up to him at school and he'll prove it (I'm out of town right now) then he started asking innapropriate stuff. he later texted me again and wrote "hey that wasn't me it was my stupid friend so yeah". I feel really violated and used. I feel like the laughing stock of the football team (they all know about the first texts; probably the mroe recent ones too now) and as a cheerleader that's awful. I'm scared they might try to grab me or touch me innapropriately or something worse. I don't want to be in cheer uniform around them. I don't know what to do except call them jerks and act like everything's fine when I feel really self-concious. I'm a VERY modest, Christian girl who doens't believe in participating in that kind of innnapropriate behaivor. please help me. -cheerleader2478





Hey girl,





What those guys did to you was very mean and totally inappropriate. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs and not playing into their little prank. Sometimes when guys think a girl is pretty, or out of their league they do stupid stuff like that. If it continues and they start getting more agressive towards you, then you might want to tell a teacher that these guys are harassing you. You shouldn't have to feel violated or unsafe. If it doesn't get worse and they knock it off, then I wouldn't say anything to the teacher. But in the mean time, I might talk to the guy you used to like and tell him his friends freaked you out.

i didn't know who was modding now so i just posted all this again.

I could tell the football coach. He's also an Algebra teacher and when my brother was a football manager as a senior. He was also affected when my brother died. And my brother was just like me; would NOT stand for ANYTHING like what they were doing to me. Coach knows this...my parents said it might be better to go to him than anyone else (the principle already has done nothing for my friend who's getting beaten up on a daily basis.) since he knows that my brother would not let any of this happen if he was still here, and he could talk to the boys personally since he's their coach, my parents and I think it would be best to tell him if they continue. what do you think?

-cheerleader2478

cheerleader2478 on 10/16/2009 2:20:40 PM

MOD, this helps a little but not really for my situation: this one football player that I used to have a crush on let this other football player have his phone and lead me on through text messages. I was mad, but then a few days ago, it got worse: he was supposedly with friends and they all got his phone and were like "this is really [insert name here]! I've been thinking and you're really cute and nice and very pretty. so what I'm asking is will you go out with me?" I told him that even if it was him I didn't know anymore, and he said to come up to him at school and he'll prove it (I'm out of town right now) then he started asking innapropriate stuff. he later texted me again and wrote "hey that wasn't me it was my stupid friend so yeah". I feel really violated and used. I feel like the laughing stock of the football team (they all know about the first texts; probably the mroe recent ones too now) and as a cheerleader that's awful. I'm scared they might try to grab me or touch me innapropriately or something worse. I don't want to be in cheer uniform around them. I don't know what to do except call them jerks and act like everything's fine when I feel really self-concious. I'm a VERY modest, Christian girl who doens't believe in participating in that kind of innnapropriate behaivor. please help me. -cheerleader2478

 

Hey girl,

 

What those guys did to you was very mean and totally inappropriate. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs and not playing into their little prank. Sometimes when guys think a girl is pretty, or out of their league they do stupid stuff like that. If it continues and they start getting more agressive towards you, then you might want to tell a teacher that these guys are harassing you. You shouldn't have to feel violated or unsafe. If it doesn't get worse and they knock it off, then I wouldn't say anything to the teacher. But in the mean time, I might talk to the guy you used to like and tell him his friends freaked you out.

 

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

cheerleader2478 on 10/16/2009 3:34:13 AM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

sportygirl#2 on 10/15/2009 2:41:22 PM

HEY LADIES!!! i was talkin to my bf and he told me the most
beatiful thing ever. He gave me his definition of love and what it
means to him. i thought it was beatiful and wanted to share it with y'all! (he sais this in kinda a 3rd party tone so when he says gf he means me!! arent i lucky?!?)so here it is: i said: so what do u think of when u here the word love? and his response was: well, when i think of love, many things pop into my mind. i think u and ur beautiful eyes. i think of my family and my dad in iraq with our servicemen who love our country. i said: well whats ur defention of love?and he said: umm well love is the feeling you get when youcallyour girlfriend and sit in silence to hear her breathing when you havent seen her in a long time. love is the rush of adrendalin you get when you embrace your gf. love is staying up an extra hour when u have to ge up early in the morning to listen to your gf/bf talk about a rough day. when you fall asleep and you wake up to your gf combing her fingers thru your hair, thats love. when you love someone, you dont care if she shows up 2 hours late looking like a racoon b/c she got in a fight with her parents. when your in love, it doesnt matter how she looks cuz ur just staring into her beautiful eyes.

brittneybball on 10/14/2009 10:49:42 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

tayofan4ever3196 on 10/10/2009 4:05:30 PM

hey mod. i like this guy a lot and we hang out a lot but hes always flirting with my freind. So i kinda thought he might like her but then 2 of his friends said we should go out but idk if their just saying that of if he likes me.

 

Hey girl, before you make a move you want to get that cleared up. Ask them both if they like each other. If they don't, go for it and make a move!

Lynae P.

88lyssa88 on 10/9/2009 11:57:17 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

88lyssa88 on 10/9/2009 11:53:33 PM



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