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Textual Harassment?

 

Between texting, instant messaging, Facebook and MySpace there are tons of chances for you to talk and flirt it up with crushes or BFs. Being so easily connected offers you tons of great opps to chat with the guys you like. But what happens when “just talking” or "flirting" turns into harassing?


Yep, you can feel forced to do stuff outside of your comfort zone even when you're not face-to-face with a super-cute sweetie. According to thatsnotcool.com, a new website and campaign designed to prevent teen dating digital abuse, one in three teens say they have been textually harassed by a romantic partner. What qualifies as a cyberspace creep-out? Asking you for inappropriate pics, constant iming or texting, or having lewd convos with you are some of the most common probs. Even worse, half of teenage girls say pressure from a dude is the reason they send sexy messages or pics.


So, take note techy sistahs! Be aware of what’s going on with your guy virtually. If the sound of your cell getting a text makes you cringe with the thought of what the message is about, it's probably time to stop hitting REPLY. When your inbox is full of inappro messages, it might be the time for you to consider a big de-friend or saving Creepy Colin's number in your cellie as DO NOT RESPOND. Even if the guy may be your perfect Prince Charming, there’s no reason you should feel forced into doing things that'll make you uncomfy. If stuff turns serious and you really feel harassed or threatened, talk to mama, your guidance counselor or head HERE for more resources.


-Taeler Lottino

BLOG IT OUT! What do you say, girlies? Have any of you felt harassed this way? How did you deal?

BY CAITLIN R. ON 9/22/2009 3:06:00 PM 92 COMMENTS

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PLEASE stop with the chain mail. it's stupid and it dosn't work. nd this website is already spamed up enough

ImAStrangeChild on 11/18/2009 6:48:34 PM

♥MOD MOD MOD♥ Okay, my bf just said he really liked me and he wanted to kiss me. Of course I was REALLY happy! But, my mom said I cant kiss boys and boys cant kiss me. I told my bf what she said and he was really disappointed. I told him that if he kissed me as a surprise and I didn't know it was coming maybe my mom wouldn't be so mad. I was thinking that I could kiss him and not tell my mom but I don't really want to do it that way. Help! I really want to kiss him! ♥




Hey girlie,




Tell your mom that you think you are responsible enough to kiss your BF, but you aren't going to take it any further than that. She might be afraid that you are growing up too quickly and is nervous that you won't make responsible choices in the future. Talk to her about her first kiss. If your mom sees that you are open with her instead of going behind her back and kissing your BF anyway she might realize that she can really trust you and your decisions.




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

annabanana21 on 11/16/2009 10:00:10 PM

MOD- this is kinda a long story.... my friend laura was dating this 1 guy joseph who didnt respect girls. then he broke up w/ her (diff story) n she started dating a guy i liked....

 

Hey girl, wheeww that was a long story. If you yourself don't like this boy Joe I wouldn't hang out with him, but you can't stop your friends from chilling with him. Boys like that aren't worth it though...so immature. Good Luck with all your friends I hope everything works out.

 

xoxo Olivia

Olivia A.

HeartsGetBroken on 11/12/2009 3:24:24 PM

MOD O_o creepy

sans11 on 11/10/2009 9:53:02 PM

wow i like a guy buy wow

jonasfan23 on 11/9/2009 8:03:22 PM

MODS-
There's this guy who I REALLY like, and I THINK he likes me back, we walk home together, we hang around and talk, he always teases my brother about 'us two' behind my back but he's really bad at it. (: But the problem is, he's just MEGA popular and I don't really think he'd like a normal girl like me! I mean, c'mon he's so popular he can get any GIRL he wants!
What do you think? x

 

He may have choices but why wouldn't he pick you? You said so  yourself that he seems to like you. Just go for it! What do you have to lose? best,

Miliana B.

BabyGirlx on 11/8/2009 11:40:37 AM

I hate it when people harrass others. It's rude and harmful.

WaffleAddict on 11/7/2009 4:00:26 PM

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There is this boy that sits in front of me in math class and we talked alot mostly because HE WOULD NOT TURN AROUND for more than a milisecond. i didnt know he liked me and then he just asked me out and i was so nervous because i do not like him so i was just like umm no thanks and then we all left for our next class adn then he keeps asking me out like at least 8 times in that same day and then like 20 times a day and it hasnt stop and my answer hasnt changed WHEN IS HE GOING TO GET THE CLUE! he keeps iming me saying do u like me r u there will u go out with me and i just dont answer because i am to nervous and now in school he almost never talks to my face he always talks to my chest if i asked him what color my eyes were he def woodnt know.........................help when is he going to get that he is annoying me




Hey babe,

Next time he asks you out, be firm and stand your ground. Let him know that you are not interested in him at all and you want him to stop bothering you.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

kristinaxomack on 11/6/2009 6:59:27 PM

MOD!I NEED HELP.I LIKE THIS GUY WHO IS ALWAYS TEASING ME!Hes acting like a jerk because he has a new friend thats rude.I know hes nice but now he being plane rude.I like him lots and i've known him for years, hes nice.
MOD PLZ HELP ME!THANK U




Hey girl, call this guy out for his behavior. Tell him what he says hurts. If he teases you, ignore it. When people find you don't give 'em the reaction they want, they (or at least bullies) tend to change their behavior toward you.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

jadekat98 on 11/4/2009 10:58:42 PM

ok, there is this guy andwe ran xc together.he always compliments me and teases me. and wen we text he always likes to ask me who i like.and at the one party he was being so nice and wen we were eating him and his friends were all whispering and looking at me but idkk. and telling him just to ask her..im not really sure who "her" was... i always catch him glancing my way.. if isay something lik, oh i hate wen people are so lazyy, he'll be like oh i dont do that... or he'll be like i can change.. and im like no be yourself...
one downfall hes kinda into himslef sometimes
sorry so long just confuzzled

lalaworld321 on 11/4/2009 7:35:24 PM

MODERATOR-
In order to win the giveaways, do you have be a girlslife magazine subscriber? I'm just wondering.....




 

Hey girl! You enter online in order to win.

Eryn G.

Stargirlcandy3 on 10/31/2009 3:02:18 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD, ME AND MY BFFFL ARE CRUSHING ON THE SAME GUY,I THINK THE GUY LIKES BOTH OF US BECAUSE HE ALWAYS ASKS US FOR HUGS, BUT IVE ALSO SEEN HIM GETTING KISSES FROM OTHER GIRLS, THAT DONT LIKE HIM, HE ALWAYS KALLS ME AND SOMETIMES HE CALLS THIS RESTURAUNT KALLED THE "BELLA VIA" AND PRETENDS TO ORDER SOMETHING AND SENDS THE FOOD TO MY ADRESS. TO ME I THINK OF THIS AS FLIRTING BUT IS IT REALLY? AND WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT ME AND MY BFF LIKING THE SAME GUY?

 

hey girl! You should never let a guy come in between you and your friends. You should just see what happens, but remeber that its only a guy.

Eryn G.

NJHCHEERLEADER97 on 10/31/2009 2:19:16 PM

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So my BFF really likes this guy. The guy doesn't like her, but my BFF won't move on at all. She keeps saying that he should give her a chance, and that he should date her anyway. Me and the guy were sorta friends last year, but since my BFF made me call/text him all the time, he doesn't really like me anymore. I really wanna nicely tell her that she should tell just move on, but she keeps saying that he likes her. Even after I tell her he doesn't. Help!!
-xoxo Ella <3

 

Hey girl! You can offer your friend advice, but she makes the decision, as a friend you should be there for her.

Eryn G.

Heal_The_Wounds1052 on 10/31/2009 1:21:21 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD My friend was txting my bf on my phone and i got it back from her. He said "ok, im going to tell u something but u have to promise not to tell anyone, and promise to delete the message" or something like that. I said "um ok" and he said that he was with his ex and found out she still loves him and he told her he loves her too. I'm not mad or sad that he has feelings for his ex (i mean, everyone does) but it makes me sad that he doesn't trust me with that kind of stuff (he still doesnt kno i kno). I mean, for some reason i can tell what people feel and I knew he always had feelings for his ex, but i mean to tell my best friend and leave me out? It just confuses me and it makes me wonder if he doesn't trust me on a lot. I really wouldn't mind if he broke up with me (i just don't want to do that to him) as long as we can still hang out and text and not be awkward between us, but i just want to know if it may be that he wants to break up or something. thx mod, Smile

 

Hey girl! You should def talk to him and you can certainly tell him you would rather be friends. If he is talking like that with another girl it's not fair to you. Just let him know you would rather be friends and keep your part of the bargain even if he gets a little hurt.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

camel490 on 10/25/2009 11:29:10 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! ok well i've liked this guy for awhile and he liked me bak. but theres always been the prob of his ex gf. he nvr got compltly over her. then out of the blue she told him she loved him and well he ended up liking both of us. now when this happened i wasnt comfortable with it but i really liked him. so yesterday he was bein so nice and complimenting me and sayin all this sweet stuff and then out of the blue he sends me a fb message tht says this: just stop no more liking each other its just not gonna work out and im srry ull find soemone better than me. ok first of all i found tht a bad way 2 say tht but i just wanna no wat it means. idk y he's doin this. im not lookin 2 get bak 2 liking him i just dont understand. HELP BOYS R CONFUSING ME

 

Hey chicky, I'm sure he still likes you, but he just doesn't know what he wants right now. He confused and doesn't know if he wants to be with you or his ex girlfriend. And he's telling you to forget about him so that you won't get hurt and will find somebody else. I think you guys could and should get back together sometime down the road but not right now, because things are too complicated.

Lynae P.

dalejrcutie08 on 10/23/2009 10:58:35 PM

Photochickie,

I am on girlsense, too!! And I met him. He was just being not cool lol

karikaylee on 10/23/2009 9:29:35 PM

MOD!! well my comments never show up but i'll try again haha. there's this guy i have reallyyyy liked for 2 years and known him for 3. we have a lot in common but we go to different schools. he's a nice guy too but when ever he realizes a text is from me or a message on facebook he gives me the cold shoulder. my friends harass him in honesty boxes, he may think its all me! the first 2 years i knew him i was super shy with puffy hair, braces, and hideous clothes. but i got my braces off, i am super confident, i wear form fitting clothes(i look great now, complete turn-around). whenever i see him i always end up looking terrible! how can i prove i've changed? i've tried getting over him but honestly i can't; i think i have to go out with him at least once to know if i could get over him.-sorry this message is so long!

 

A guy is not worth changing your looks for, but I'm glad that you're happier with yourself! Try to be confident in your looks and brains. You are a great girl and if he fails to realize this, then he's not worth your time! There are other guys out there who will treat you with respect and give you the attention you deserve. 

Megan R.

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JuliaWu on 10/23/2009 4:11:40 PM

i'm going out with a guy that i really really like there's nothing wrong but he asked me what i would do if he kissed me. what should i say? <3

shortie56 on 10/22/2009 6:00:34 PM

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do u think its harrasing well i kinda no it is but the guy i like calls me like his rhymes with or and his rhymes with witch does that mean he likes me hes not really like that good boy hes like one of those guys that arent the most polite and appropriate but like i dont no because everyone says he might like me and to like him if i want




Hey girl, sorry to say it, but sounds like this guy really doesn't like you or respect you at all. He's the kind of guy you shouldn't let fool you: he's not nice. Let him go, girlie, because no guy should ever say the stuff he's saying to you. He's not a friend.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

shabalabagal on 10/22/2009 5:49:44 PM

do u think its harrasing well i kinda no it is but the guy i like calls me like his rhymes with or and his rhymes with witch does that mean he likes me hes not really like that good boy hes like one of those guys that arent the most polite and appropriate but like i dont no because everyone says he might like me and to like him if i want

shabalabagal on 10/22/2009 5:42:54 PM

great tips! Smile

KcgPink on 10/20/2009 10:14:01 PM

i agree with u girls sayin the friday thing is fake

jellybean2010 on 10/20/2009 3:12:50 PM

oh amd for the last comment i sended it was a MOD MOD

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 10:19:18 PM

i need help my friend has a new boy friend and he touches her in the private parts and somehow she's okay with it and the guy is so used to it he thinks he can do it to me and my friend doesn't care

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 9:54:48 PM

i eaven tried the whole friday thing and when i pressed f6 nothing happened

*BEAUTY* on 10/18/2009 9:40:32 PM

Girls the Kiss your crush and the if u dont bad luck its all fake..!! No need ot send it please
Kayla

Paramore_247 on 10/18/2009 11:58:32 AM

ok that 'your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday' thing is a bunch of junk idk who even came up with it

me~o~my on 10/16/2009 10:39:15 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

kittylover342 on 10/16/2009 7:27:52 PM

MOD, this helps a little but not really for my situation: this one football player that I used to have a crush on let this other football player have his phone and lead me on through text messages. I was mad, but then a few days ago, it got worse: he was supposedly with friends and they all got his phone and were like "this is really [insert name here]! I've been thinking and you're really cute and nice and very pretty. so what I'm asking is will you go out with me?" I told him that even if it was him I didn't know anymore, and he said to come up to him at school and he'll prove it (I'm out of town right now) then he started asking innapropriate stuff. he later texted me again and wrote "hey that wasn't me it was my stupid friend so yeah". I feel really violated and used. I feel like the laughing stock of the football team (they all know about the first texts; probably the mroe recent ones too now) and as a cheerleader that's awful. I'm scared they might try to grab me or touch me innapropriately or something worse. I don't want to be in cheer uniform around them. I don't know what to do except call them jerks and act like everything's fine when I feel really self-concious. I'm a VERY modest, Christian girl who doens't believe in participating in that kind of innnapropriate behaivor. please help me. -cheerleader2478





Hey girl,





What those guys did to you was very mean and totally inappropriate. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs and not playing into their little prank. Sometimes when guys think a girl is pretty, or out of their league they do stupid stuff like that. If it continues and they start getting more agressive towards you, then you might want to tell a teacher that these guys are harassing you. You shouldn't have to feel violated or unsafe. If it doesn't get worse and they knock it off, then I wouldn't say anything to the teacher. But in the mean time, I might talk to the guy you used to like and tell him his friends freaked you out.

i didn't know who was modding now so i just posted all this again.

I could tell the football coach. He's also an Algebra teacher and when my brother was a football manager as a senior. He was also affected when my brother died. And my brother was just like me; would NOT stand for ANYTHING like what they were doing to me. Coach knows this...my parents said it might be better to go to him than anyone else (the principle already has done nothing for my friend who's getting beaten up on a daily basis.) since he knows that my brother would not let any of this happen if he was still here, and he could talk to the boys personally since he's their coach, my parents and I think it would be best to tell him if they continue. what do you think?

-cheerleader2478

cheerleader2478 on 10/16/2009 2:20:40 PM

MOD, this helps a little but not really for my situation: this one football player that I used to have a crush on let this other football player have his phone and lead me on through text messages. I was mad, but then a few days ago, it got worse: he was supposedly with friends and they all got his phone and were like "this is really [insert name here]! I've been thinking and you're really cute and nice and very pretty. so what I'm asking is will you go out with me?" I told him that even if it was him I didn't know anymore, and he said to come up to him at school and he'll prove it (I'm out of town right now) then he started asking innapropriate stuff. he later texted me again and wrote "hey that wasn't me it was my stupid friend so yeah". I feel really violated and used. I feel like the laughing stock of the football team (they all know about the first texts; probably the mroe recent ones too now) and as a cheerleader that's awful. I'm scared they might try to grab me or touch me innapropriately or something worse. I don't want to be in cheer uniform around them. I don't know what to do except call them jerks and act like everything's fine when I feel really self-concious. I'm a VERY modest, Christian girl who doens't believe in participating in that kind of innnapropriate behaivor. please help me. -cheerleader2478

 

Hey girl,

 

What those guys did to you was very mean and totally inappropriate. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs and not playing into their little prank. Sometimes when guys think a girl is pretty, or out of their league they do stupid stuff like that. If it continues and they start getting more agressive towards you, then you might want to tell a teacher that these guys are harassing you. You shouldn't have to feel violated or unsafe. If it doesn't get worse and they knock it off, then I wouldn't say anything to the teacher. But in the mean time, I might talk to the guy you used to like and tell him his friends freaked you out.

 

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

cheerleader2478 on 10/16/2009 3:34:13 AM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

sportygirl#2 on 10/15/2009 2:41:22 PM

HEY LADIES!!! i was talkin to my bf and he told me the most
beatiful thing ever. He gave me his definition of love and what it
means to him. i thought it was beatiful and wanted to share it with y'all! (he sais this in kinda a 3rd party tone so when he says gf he means me!! arent i lucky?!?)so here it is: i said: so what do u think of when u here the word love? and his response was: well, when i think of love, many things pop into my mind. i think u and ur beautiful eyes. i think of my family and my dad in iraq with our servicemen who love our country. i said: well whats ur defention of love?and he said: umm well love is the feeling you get when youcallyour girlfriend and sit in silence to hear her breathing when you havent seen her in a long time. love is the rush of adrendalin you get when you embrace your gf. love is staying up an extra hour when u have to ge up early in the morning to listen to your gf/bf talk about a rough day. when you fall asleep and you wake up to your gf combing her fingers thru your hair, thats love. when you love someone, you dont care if she shows up 2 hours late looking like a racoon b/c she got in a fight with her parents. when your in love, it doesnt matter how she looks cuz ur just staring into her beautiful eyes.

brittneybball on 10/14/2009 10:49:42 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

tayofan4ever3196 on 10/10/2009 4:05:30 PM

hey mod. i like this guy a lot and we hang out a lot but hes always flirting with my freind. So i kinda thought he might like her but then 2 of his friends said we should go out but idk if their just saying that of if he likes me.

 

Hey girl, before you make a move you want to get that cleared up. Ask them both if they like each other. If they don't, go for it and make a move!

Lynae P.

88lyssa88 on 10/9/2009 11:57:17 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

88lyssa88 on 10/9/2009 11:53:33 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

polkadotz97 on 10/9/2009 5:46:44 PM

Yeah, after I moved, my 'friend' Josh started texting me over and over again if I would send him naked pics or if I wanted to lose my virginity...

kazthespaz on 10/9/2009 10:51:05 AM

woah! kinda freaky! i go on girlsense and there is this guy i met and am friends with now on there........ i think he might b doing this! don't b friends with hawtguy797

Photochickie on 10/8/2009 6:38:13 PM

MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD.. ok is it bad to like another guy while youre dating your bf? <3<3TayTay

 

Hey girl! It's not bad as long as you don't act on it. It's pretty normal to get little crushes on boys around you while you're dating someone else. It could just mean your feelings for your bf are changing a little!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

tmw97 on 10/8/2009 1:03:42 PM

MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD.. Ok ive been asking alot of q`s lately cuz my lifes been really messed up! SO I went out with my bgf we broke up then he started dating this other girl(who btw really hates me)and then i stared dating my bf spencer and my bgf started acting jerkish so i told him and he said i was really important to him so he would change but he never did but I dont wanna be his friend anymore but i think i might still be in love with him and my friend said he might still like me. So idk what to do!! Is there anyway to have him like me again? Or should i just say i dont wanna be his friend anymore bcuz i tried that like 3 times and he said i need u as my friend and even thought he has become a big jerk i feel like i would still be really sad if he wasnt part of my life anymore.(btw we go to dif schools if that helps) Thxs so much <3<3 TayTay =)

 

Hey girl! You can stay friends with him, for sure. But, sounds like there are a few more peeps involved. You should figure out who you like more, him or your bf. Your bgf might still have some feelings for you which is normal considering you guys did date. Just take it day by day and see what happens. There's no need to rush!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

tmw97 on 10/8/2009 10:19:22 AM

MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..
I already told my bgf that hes been acting jerkish and he said he will stop but he never did. But if i tell him that he will get my bff involved and then he knows i have to say yes to her.Any suggestions how to tell him i dont want to be friends with him anymore?
<3<3 TayTay




Hey girl, sometimes silence is the most powerful reply. Distance yourself from him. Don't text him. Make plans with other people during the weekend. While I don't know the full history of this, he'll eventually catch the drift you don't exactly want to be BGFs with him anymore.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

tmw97 on 10/7/2009 9:28:29 PM

MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..
ok so i have a bf named spencer and the day after we started going out he got the flu and then the next week i got the flu and he has my phone number and i dont have his so im sad bcuz i really like him but i havent seen him or talked to him in 2 weeks and noone i know has his number so idk what to do!! Do you have any ideas?
<3<3 Tay tay




Hey babe,

You'll see him when you get better and when you do you can ask him for his number so next time you guys are separated you can keep in touch.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

tmw97 on 10/7/2009 6:08:00 PM

MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..MOD..I Dated my bgf and we broke up we r still bffs but hes a jerk now.I dont want to be his friend anymore but i tried to tell him that but he started crying.What do i do i dont want to be his friend anymore?




Hey babe,

Give him a chance to change his behavior. Tell him what's been bothering you and if he really wants to stay friends he'll change it. Otherwise you might have to ditch him even if it really hurts his feelings.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

tmw97 on 10/7/2009 5:50:56 PM

ok so tell me if this I'm wrong.

My friend dated this guy for about two weeks. she wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend and she got in sooooo much trouble when she got caught (that's why they broke up) She got her phone taken away for all summer her parents now don't trust her and alot of other really bad things and it was all caused by him saying that "they'd be carful" and they wudn't get caught. that was in may. last week the guy decided to pull this crap that he wanted to date my other best friend and he needed permission from his exgf cuz that's how he works. It caused so much drama and our group of friends was almost completley seperated and i blame that on him yet again. if you havn't noticed i think this guy is a total loser. well guess what? now he claims that it was to convice himself he was over the first girl and asked her out again. She asked me for advice i said she shouldn't everyone said she should go out with him. Am i wrong that i don't want my best friend to get hurt again??? idk i'm scared for her.

respond on my profile please i need so much help

swimmerxox on 10/7/2009 10:01:04 AM

am i under weight im 5ft 2 and half in. and i weigh 82

dawnofday on 10/6/2009 8:27:47 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

erin_girl on 10/6/2009 8:00:04 PM

MOD:
why are guys so obsessed with looks? and what so they consider "hot"? and also i have my period but its so unpredictable. when do i know when to wear a pad or anything? and im not that crabby when i have it, it's just out of the blue? and lastly, how do i talk to my crush? i'm not the type of person to just walk up to a cute guy ans start talking. he is in my homeroom and ive talked to him a couple of times.

 

Hey girl! Different guys are attracted to different types of girls. The first year that you have your period, it can be abnormal. You can talk to your crush, like you would talk to any other person, just be yourself.

Eryn G.

bobbert1230 on 10/6/2009 4:43:51 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!  Keltie E.

BuzzBee10 on 10/5/2009 9:22:08 PM



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