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My friends all have BFs, and I feel majorly left out. They talk about how sweet their boyfriends are and how much fun they had on dates.


It makes me want a BF. What can I do to get the guys to notice me?


It’s never fun to be the odd one out, so it’s understandable that it bites for you to see your friends writing love letters in study hall and holding hands with their BFs between classes. Instead of focusing all your attention on snagging a guy of your own, though, take this opportunity to dive into extracurriculars and do all the things you always say you want to do but never quite get around to doing.


Get involved in French club, try out for an a capella group, buy some fabric for the dress you’ve designed, take yoga classes, learn to knit, take up guitar—you get the picture. When you have a full, fun schedule, you’ll see that you don’t need a boy around to have a good time. And when the right dude does come along, you’ll have even more talents and interests to share with him.


TELL US NOW! Need advice ASAP? Click the purple SEND A QUESTION button to ask our very own Lucky for help!

BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/1/2009 7:00:00 AM 144 COMMENTS

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-MOD-MOD-MOD- all my friends have a bf and i dont. all they can talk about is thier bfs. i kinda want one 2 but i dont wanna end up like them. help me!




Hey babe, just try your best to not let them get to you. If there's a guy around that you've got your eye on then use your sitch as a motivation to talk to the guy and get to know him better. If not, just enjoy hanging out with your friends and meeting new people. Talk to them about it, they'll be able to help ya. 
katelin s.

doom305 on 11/3/2009 9:04:47 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD! what shirt would go good with a neon green flare jeans and checkered converse? I am going bowling with my bf and I can't decide what to wear! how should i do my hair? i have really short hair, like just past my ears, and its black with blonde highlights. plz help!




Wear a black shirt. You already have tons of color in the jeans so balance it out with a black shirt. Also you should just straighten your hair and put a cute bright bow clip in it or something. Have fun! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

spazzychick101! on 10/31/2009 9:09:07 PM

TRUST ME! i KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE OR HAD A BF AND iM THE ONLY ONE THAT HASENT HAD ONE YET. i FEEL SO LEFT OUT TO LiKE REALLY. i FEEL LiKE IM NOT WORTH NOTHING. BUT I TRY NOT TO OVER REACKED ABOUT THAT. WELL JUST SO YOU KNOW IM NOT ALONE.=)

-MARiA♥

Maria_bby on 10/28/2009 11:47:38 PM

All my friends have bf's to. But i relly like this guy ive liked him for 3 years, but i keep getting regected. now he is avoding me. What do i do?

laragis000 on 10/27/2009 9:36:14 PM

MOD!! Im obsessed with this guy. i sent him 3 emails and i sent him a ton of text messages. later i always regret doing it! how can i stop my obsession?

 

Hey girl! Try focusing on another guy or yourself. Scope out a cutie or start a project you've been wanting to get done. You'll get over him soon enough!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

zobo on 10/27/2009 7:06:39 PM

don't worry at all about that crap. ur takin ur time & thats totaallly fine! bsides, that leaves you plenty of choices for cuties @ the mall to stare at! if u feel like u would jus be a 3rd wheel, bring a cool guy friend 2 a double date, u can chat about the latest tv shows or something, just have fun!

Bookworm246 on 10/20/2009 10:52:18 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

staR gazer on 10/17/2009 10:01:00 PM

REALLY WORKS TRY IT OUT!
1.Say your name 10x
2.Say your mom's name 5x
3.Say your crushes name 3x
4.then paste in this 4 other places,if you do this your crush will kiss you the nearest friday

holinesj on 10/17/2009 9:53:43 PM

aww baby that's always hard. im not even gonna lie i make my friends feel like that but i know how they feel. be yourself!

swimmerxox on 10/16/2009 7:57:04 PM

i misss my BF
i feel horrible for breaking up with him!

hey girls come check out my profileSmile

mynameislory on 10/16/2009 7:25:49 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

alex15203 on 10/15/2009 8:23:21 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

TangleFire24 on 10/15/2009 8:11:04 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

ksbookgirl14 on 10/15/2009 7:56:19 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

Trisy on 10/15/2009 11:37:55 AM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

princess_madi on 10/14/2009 8:59:30 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY

pluto15912 on 10/14/2009 8:25:00 PM

mod mod mod.
sorry for doing this so much, i just have lots to say anywho...
i have a bf. we barely talk and when we are together he doesnt talk to me so i 'try' to talk to him and then he just looks at me with a "are you retarded" face..
i want to break up but he told all of his guy friends that he really likes me.
and on the plus of all that i feel like such a bad gf because i flirt with other guys...
help! what should i do??" break up with him i mean its not going to make a difference since we dont talk.




Hey babe,

If your relationship isn't working, no matter what he tells his friends, I think you might need to break up. If he really cares about you you're the one he should be telling how much he likes you! 

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

sms11994 on 10/14/2009 5:55:24 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Ladygator33 on 10/13/2009 8:34:37 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Ladygator33 on 10/13/2009 8:31:16 PM

I know how you feel all of my friends have had or has BF's and when they talk I just sit back and do not talk.Look at it this way you don't have to deal with him near you every five min. of the day.My friend had a BF like that and I hated him and he had to be around her every five min. of the day.

TeamEmmett1 on 10/13/2009 5:58:36 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
my boyfriend told me that he would never lie to me but now i just found out that he told 2 different stories. He sent a kid to the hospital in his hockey game and he told me that it was an accident and that he didnt mean to check the kid so hard. But he told my bff that he ment to hit him hard because didnt like him. Should this bug me or should i just brush it off?




Hey girlie,




He might have just been trying to impress your BFF, but if he did check the kid because he didn't like him that's not cool. If it's really bugging you I would say something to him. Especially since guys should know if you say anything to your girl's BFF she's going to find out!







xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

JustaGirl24 on 10/12/2009 9:16:32 PM

say ur name 10 times
say ur moms name 5 times
say ur crushes name 3 times
now post this on 4 other spots
if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday

xodevin on 10/12/2009 4:28:46 PM

Helllo!

If you feel left out, let them know. Maybe they don't know, and didn't mean to. You know when girls, and boys really like eachother, they don't notice anything because they are forcing on eachother's love. &Talk to them, and figure things out... Like make plans with your friends, without any boys, EX: like sleepover. &also make plans when they can hangout with their boyfriends.
Ofcourse your friends care about you, but if they care enough they'll listen to you and do something to make you happy.[=

Be happy they have a boyfriend, and that they found someone that they like. Just hangout with their boyfriends with them, and get to know them, and be nice to them, You don't want to be rude juss because your friends like them.

Trustme, i been through it, and i know how it feels. But let me tell you, everything will be fine. &get to know more guys, and if you like that special guy, take it slowly, and learn more about him, but do not annoy him and if you see him; for a starter, juss say hi, and brings small talk. ask him questions, but not too much, and say nice things like, "i like your shirt."

Never never never change yourself for a guy. Always be yourself, if he doesn't like you for the way you are, then guess what? he is stupid. you want a guy who truely like you for who you are. you also want a guy who treats you right.

Hope this helps.

Shaaa on 10/11/2009 4:54:55 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

kasaundra on 10/11/2009 1:27:30 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday


Pengwinzrule12 on 10/7/2009 8:29:32 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

hervictory on 10/7/2009 8:26:20 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

sugar957 on 10/7/2009 7:53:01 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

ReneeB on 10/7/2009 7:23:34 PM

All my friends say that they really want a BF but I really could care less, I mean if he asks me out then yes, but it's not at the top of my list of needs rignt now.

Daughtryrocks07 on 10/7/2009 7:09:47 PM

I think you should try out for something you like to do. for instance, I play tennis and I haven't even thought about having a bf.try out for a sport or something.

LolliPop:-) on 10/7/2009 4:40:51 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I found these little red bumps on my face!! What do I do?

 

Hey girlie,

 

If the red bumps don't itch, then chances are you've got a couple zits. It's probably time for you to start washing your face in the morning with an acne wash. Try Clean and Clear or Neutrogena.

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

Smileygirl86 on 10/7/2009 3:40:12 PM

i love joe

jewels101 on 10/7/2009 6:44:23 AM

i've been dating my guy for 7 months , but honestly...if you're the only single guy in your group, consider yourself lucky. flirting isfun = )

crazy.cute.jj on 10/7/2009 12:17:32 AM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

lovely♥wishes on 10/6/2009 11:37:24 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

furryanimallover on 10/6/2009 9:47:03 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

alyviathesinger on 10/6/2009 9:02:18 PM

OMG sista i know what u mean!
i've been listening to single ladies to help!
lol<3

SongBird<3 on 10/6/2009 8:52:20 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

frootloop33 on 10/6/2009 8:50:06 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!! This might sound kinda weird but I really thought I liked this guy and I guess I kinda still do but he found out AND now I saw my ex-crush and realized that I still have feelings for them. Thankfully my ex-crush doesn't know but I kind of like my ex-crush better. We talk quite a bit but I can't tell if he's trying to send signals or just be friendly. HELP!!!!

 

Hey girlie! Just play it cool and try to figure out who you like more! You decide to where to go from there!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

reynoldsmk1996 on 10/6/2009 8:29:53 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!

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Dramasistah23 on 10/6/2009 8:05:29 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

iloverupert on 10/6/2009 6:49:35 PM

i have 3 crushes , yeah i know . 3!!
and i want to get one of their attention . but the ones attention i wanna get is kinda a bad boy, sometimes swears in class, and he is friends with a ton of girls , which im surprisingly totally cool with . im just so scared to make a move , so how do you think i should start?? what if he makes fun of me behind my back ? so far, he's pretty nice to me. and i also heard that he has a crush . i just want to get close to him . but how ?? -desperate for 'him' Frown

trendii.musicluvr.16 on 10/6/2009 6:38:23 PM

that sounds a lot like me, only my 2 bffs don't have bf either, but everybody else in our class does

yellowducky2713 on 10/6/2009 4:54:19 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! I am going to Miley Cyrus' concert on Friday and I am sooo excited! I was wondering though, what would be AWESOME outfits for my friend and I? I love her clothing line, but don't have time to buy them! Help!

 

Hey girlie! Go with something cute and comfy. Skinny jeans and a cute tee would be awesome! Curl your hair or wear an adorable headband! Have fun!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

alyviathesinger on 10/6/2009 12:34:34 PM

MODERATOR!
Okay well i like this guy. Im new to my school but i want him to notice me. Im a really friendly person and flirty but not unless i kninda know the person. How could i talk to him? And another question. I think my BGF who lives in florida (where i used to live) likes me. Because we text all the time and hes even told me im pretty. But how do i find out if he really does? Help MOD Help!




Hey babe,




Being the new girl is FUN. I bet he's already noticed you, so my best advice is to do your thing and get to know him by being flirty and fun and friendly. Keep talking to your BGF, but also remember that you just moved away so he's realizing now just how much you meant to him. If I were you I'd go for the new guy without hurting your BGF because the new guy is there. Also, if your BGF does like you I'm sure he's told another mutual friend, so you could try to scoop up that information. 




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

kelsea828 on 10/5/2009 8:24:15 PM

Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod~Mod i just got my hair cut about shoulder length over fall break. like barely any1 nos xept 4 a lot of my closest friends. wen school starts again i totally want 2 look awesome. wat style should i wear my hair??? thnx!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girlie! Try putting a few tiny braids in your 'do and pinning them back. Or sport a seriously cute headband!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

horsegirl20 on 10/5/2009 2:07:15 PM

OMG ALL OF MY FRIENDS HAVE BF AND I MITE BUT I AM TOO SCARED TO ASK MY CRUSH OUT HOW DO I ASK HIM OUT? PLEASE HELP
BFFLOVESmile

bfflove on 10/4/2009 11:04:25 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD I'm sorry, this might come out as a stupid question but... Is it Ok for a 13/14 year old to go out with someone who is 18? Because an 18 year old asked me out and I like him but i thing the age difference is weird... Answer plz. Thanx!

 

Hey girl!  That is a pretty big age difference.  Everyone has a diff opinion, but you should def ask your parents first.  Best, Kristen

Kristen Y.

RachelWazHere on 10/4/2009 8:11:29 PM

hey i have the same problem i dont have a boyfriend but i want one and all my friends do i have a crush i think he likes me cause he always looks at me in health and stuff but i cant tell

Hilo193 on 10/4/2009 8:05:31 PM



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