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Dear Carol

My Dad's Secret Marriage

 

I found out that my dad was married before he married my mom. It upsets me because I found out accidentally. I feel like I'm being lied to.


Should I confront him?


-Sad And Confused

Dear Sad And Confused,


Although this news must have been a shock, I doubt your dad meant to lie to you. He may have kept his past under wraps because he didn't want to upset you or didn't know when to bring it up.


If you have a close relationship with him or your mom, consider asking about the divorce instead of sitting on the secret. Don't accuse them of a cover-up. Tell them that you are feeling sad and confused and listen to what they tell you.


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mod my mom was married with some one velse before my dad and had 4 kids all my brothers and siters are grown up my oldest half sister took me on vacation with her and i told her i knew my dad was married to someone else before my dad and my sister told me "i know i cant belive your mom hid that your dad had 11 kids with his 1st wife"ididdt know tht so i just played off like i did know. should i ask my mom if thats true,but my mom told my sister never to tell me.should i ask my mom







hey girl! 

wow, this is a really big issue. I would suggest that before you say anything to your mom, you talk to your dad about it and make sure that you have all the facts right. If you feel that you can't talk to your dad about this in person then write him a note. With an issue this serious, it's really important that you don't jump to conclusions and go straight to the source: your dad.

Liz R.

liliana82398 on 12/21/2009 10:37:43 AM

I totally know how that girl feels. My dad got a divorce before he mariied my mom and didn't tell me untill a few months ago because he said he was feeling guilty. It really hurt me to know he basically lied and never told me but I unterstand his reasons. His first wife cheated on him and he still has a lot of pain from that and a lot of anger so maybe her dad didn't wan tto bring up hte subject because it was still a painfull memory

tiger4800 on 11/30/2009 11:29:20 PM

i think since it is your first kiss dont french kiss right at the moment it could miss it up just take one step at a time and berfore u know it u ond your bf will b french kissing in no time trust me. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

coolgirl43 on 11/24/2009 9:00:02 PM

please someone help me!!!!!!!! me and my bf are way too shy around each other, and tomorrow we are having a first kiss!!! how the heck do i do it? do i full blown make out or do i do a peck?? help!!!

luvs0ccer13 on 10/25/2009 12:18:15 AM

Girlie, if I have learned anything during my hard times and stress, it's to tell someone your problems. Maybe a school counselor or another responsible athority figure.It really works.
P.S Let it all out!

LolliPop:-) on 10/23/2009 6:23:18 PM

Hey so i really like this guy but the thing is he's going out with this other girl he even kisses her when i saw them this afternoon i just wanted to SCREAM!! what can i do?

kat1165201 on 10/20/2009 4:08:25 PM

REALLY WORKS TRY IT OUT!
1.Say your name 10x
2.Say your mom's name 5x
3.Say your crushes name 3x
4.then paste in this 4 other places,if you do this your crush will kiss you the nearest friday

holinesj on 10/17/2009 9:54:53 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

cutie12 on 10/17/2009 3:49:40 PM

REALLY WORKS TRY IT OUT!
1.Say your name 10x
2.Say your mom's name 5x
3.Say your crushes name 3x
4.then paste in this 4 other places,if you do this your crush will kiss you the nearest friday

Kristin95 on 10/17/2009 3:04:49 PM

Hey mod!!!! thanks so much for the advise!!! It helped a lot!!!

superstar119 on 10/17/2009 10:12:27 AM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

gabinoonoo on 10/17/2009 1:53:44 AM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

mikayla23 on 10/16/2009 9:13:15 PM

mod mod mod hello!! what's up??? last time you gave me some advice when i asked you that my mom was stressed out and what should i do? that really helped me and now mom is not under any kind of stress!Smile but now i have another question. Dad has a girlfriend . she is really really bad . i hate her.now what should i do?? if i tell dad how bad she is he will get mad at me . sodondon't interfere

 

Hey girlie,

 

Glad we could help you! Your opinion of your dad's girlfriend ABSOLUTELY does matter. If you have a problem you need to let your dad know. Just keep in mind that your dad loves this woman, so try to tell him in a way that won't completely hurt his feelings.

 

Thanks for posting!

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

anoushka33 on 10/16/2009 5:15:18 AM

theres a new girl at my school and my homeroom teacher asked me to show her around the school, so i did. she didnt talk a lot at first but now she isnt as shy as she was but she is really annoying. its a big school so she doesnt know her way around the school yet, but i dont wanna keep hanging out with her. what should i do?

dreamqueenwithattitude on 10/15/2009 9:02:21 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

TwilightFan1696 on 10/15/2009 7:20:00 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD i really do not like this girl at school. she acts so braggy about every thing that she does




Hey girl, I know it may be hard but do be polite to her. Be the bigger person and set that right example. You'll be fine.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

selena/demifan on 10/15/2009 6:48:11 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

xokaitlyn17xo on 10/15/2009 6:46:00 PM

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202polk88 on 10/15/2009 5:25:35 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Smileygirl86 on 10/15/2009 5:21:31 PM

**************MODS***********
ok...i have 2 ?s...
1) the last 3 bfs i had all were else players or in LOVE with every girl they see...it really bugs me cause i really liked them...i still wanna be their friends but they wont hardly ever talk to me...wat should i do????
and 2) i get strep throat every year...it kills me...i have ball practice today and really dont feel like going...but my mom makes...i dont wanna go and get every body else sick...what should i do????/
pleze answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Hey girl,  when it comes to ex's, things get funny. My suggestion? Give it some time and then talk to the guy. Start off as 'Hey, it's been a while but I really wanted to know how things were going.' Stay friendly and you'll get through that awkward block. As for Q2, just be sure to bring plenty of tissues and cough drops to practice. Let your mom know you're not feeling your best and you'd really like to take the time out. If she still won't let you stay put, let your coach know you aren't feeling your best so he'll keep let you take it easy. When it comes to illnesses, fevers are what make things super contagious, so if you're heating things up with a temperature 99 or above (depending on what your natural temp is) you should be resting at home.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

VampireChic_12 on 10/15/2009 3:57:24 PM

~~~~~~~~~~MOD~~~~~~~~~~ Ok so i'm homeschooled so i don't have very many close friends. My two best friends live on my street but they DO NOT get along. They both always want to hang out but can't stand each other. Both of thier moms say they can't hang out around each other, but neither of them will let me hang alone for a while with the other without getting mad. Now they're telling me i have to choose who i want to hang with more! I can't choose between my two best friends and ditch the other person!!! At the same time i'm kinda glad they're not aloud to be around each other cause i'm REALLY tired of them arguing... i don't know what to do!! help please!!

 

Hey girl! Tell them you absolutely refuse to choose and they wouldn't be good friends if they make you. Let them know if they can't get along then you're going to have to split your time so they can't get upset. Tricky sitch, but you can handle it. Let them know how important their friendships are, too!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

superstar119 on 10/15/2009 2:28:49 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

hollistercrazy1 on 10/15/2009 10:28:44 AM

mod mod mod!!
this also happened to me! i found out a couple months ago that my father was engaged to somebody else before my mother, but then he stepped out on the other girl. my mom gets really mad everytime we discuss it, and I was sorry that I even asked about it. my parents are fine now, but i'm still curious. should I ask more?




Hey girl, now may not be the right time. Wait until you're a bit older and ask. Your 'rents aren't ready to talk about it now but they will be someday. Give them time.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

pup797 on 10/14/2009 11:25:05 PM

hey whats up????? All girls are amazing am i right or what???? check out my profile and i love justin bieber

coolio11 on 10/14/2009 10:33:32 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Pinkdramaqueen<3 on 10/14/2009 10:15:56 PM

MODD MODD
heyy girl!! i was just wondering how long it took to answer the comments sent to MOD...?? i left a rlly long question a while ago. but im just wondering if it even came through bc my computer doesnt always send in my questionsSmile




Hey girl, depending on the time, we can have them done in as little as five minutes from when you posted your question. I just answered a bunch of mod Q's, so check for your longer one. If you can't find it, feel free to resubmit and I'll look at it.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

softball babe!!~ on 10/14/2009 10:03:24 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.




















1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

ElleJellyBelly on 10/14/2009 9:23:32 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY

ohsokwisty on 10/14/2009 9:21:32 PM

MOD MOD MOD
ok well i normally go to bed around 10 or 11 but tonight i am just really tired at its only like 7 o clock. my period just ended so is this normal i am confused. thanks




Hey babe,

It's normal for your period to make you feel a little more tired than usual but you also might be under a lot of stress or have had a tough day or something.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

gymnast22 on 10/14/2009 6:55:49 PM

TO WHOM THIS MAY CONCERN. (EVERYONE WHO CHOOSES TO COMMENT ON MY PROFILE, IF YOU COULD PLEASE READ THIS STATEMENT)



ok, so no one really voted on my election. but in all, mccain won. i guess it wasn't fair for you obama fovorers because most of you thought i was a bigot, and chose to stay away from my profile.

i will try to keep bigotry away from my profile. i can not tell people what to believe, or even how to believe it. i respect your decisions.



















so please, if you could please leave biased comments away from my profile, i will comment you back. i will talk to you and give you advice if you need it. but i am not going to comment back if you choose to disrespect my gesture.



thank you

riel5 on 10/14/2009 3:45:48 PM

mod mod mod
i know this is wired but i have a question for my mom....ok so my mom wants to be supergirl this year and she works at a school and me and my mom are so pitete that she would have to get a jouniors costume if she went to party city....only prob those costumes arnt apropreate to go to work at an elementary school in...so she wants to use some items around the house to make her costume...how could she make it and what she could she use?




Hey girl! Your mom could buy the costume and make it school appropriate. The outfit probably comes with a skirt and while that's way too short to wear by itself, she could put on a pair of red or blue leggings underneath. She could make sure her skin is covered by putting on a long sleeved t in blue or red. Just be creative. What a fun idea!

XOXO

Liz 
Liz L.

sassykinz on 10/14/2009 12:03:49 PM

mod mod mod!!!!!!!!
i get sick very easily...acctually thats why im home right now! lol! so i need to know were a cheap place to get LONG sleeved shirts...im punk and unique and very very pickey!
thanks,
erika




Hey girl! Hmmm... I'm not sure exactly what kind of long sleeved shirt you're looking for, but Pac Sun makes some pretty cool henley t's, I know Hot Topic has some long sleeved band T's and department stores usually have a wide range of colors for basic long T's.

XOXO

Liz 
Liz L.

sassykinz on 10/14/2009 10:26:15 AM

mod !!
ok so my bf's dad kind of abuses him. i dont think absolutly severally, i dont really know all of the details, but he does yell at him alot and calls him very horrible names and hits him sometimess. he calls me crying sometimes, and says hes scared of his dad. he doesnt wanna tell ne one , and doesnt want me to tell ne one. idk what to do. im scared. plz help.




Hey babe, it's great that he's reaching out and telling you at least. Sometimes dads can just be hard on their kids, and other times it really does border on abuse. Encourage your bf to talk to him mom or other relative about it first. If he's not comfortable doing that, suggest the guidance counselor. Hopefully there will be someone he can open up to so something can be done to stop it and he doesn't have to live like that much longer. 
katelin s.

xofe-feox on 10/13/2009 9:13:59 PM

mod~mod~mod~mod~mod~mod~mod~mod~mod~mod
plz hurry bfore i have 2 take a shower
i wanna have a cute hair style 4 2morrow. i have short (almost shoulder length)hair, and its thick curled, dark brown, and kinda frizzy. wat do i do?????




Hey babe, with short hair I like to hair fun with headbands and clips. If you don't have any, see if you can braid the front pieces back, kinda like Lauren Conrad does. 
katelin s.

horsegirl20 on 10/13/2009 9:11:43 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other articles, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday!!!!!

frootloop33 on 10/13/2009 8:37:45 PM

mod modMODMODmodnod ok i really want to datebut my mom says im too young well dating in my skool is holdin hands sittin by each other flirtin and maybe a hug!how can i convince her and my dad 2 let me?ty and maybe wen u answer could u use lizzy instead of chica?

 

Hey girl! You should try just sitting your 'rents down and explaining your sitch. Tell them your feelings about the prob and maybe you guys can come to a compromise!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

lizzyd12 on 10/13/2009 8:32:54 PM

My dad was married before my mom too

paranormal_state on 10/13/2009 8:27:24 PM

*MOD MOD MOD MOD* Ok I like this guy, how do I start a convo with him? There's like nothing to talk about, I only see him once a day, in L.A. and there's just nothing to say and I would feel weird just saying hi or how are you. Please help!

 

Hey girl! Ask him about class, school, or teachers. Try for questions that require more than a yes or no answer!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

paranormal_state on 10/13/2009 8:17:46 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Ladygator33 on 10/13/2009 8:16:08 PM

MOD MOD MOD My parents told me they were getting a divorce in December (of last year). I found out my dad had already started sneaking out dating other girls a few days later, and about 3 months after he moved out he introduced his girlfriend to my brother and I. My parents aren't even fully divorced yet. Plus, now my mom and Sue, my dad's girlfriend, keep sucking up to each other then talking about each other to me behind each others backs. My parents act like teenagers. Plus it doesn't help that my dad has anger problems, and is always showing off to Sue. I've thought about cutting myself alot and am literally forcing myself not to. I can't confront my parents about this, so what should I do?

 

Hey girl! You should def not physically harm yourself. You should talk to a conselor or a doc if you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents.

-Taeler

Taeler L.

sakura on 10/13/2009 8:07:36 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS


10_Person_Club on 10/13/2009 8:06:49 PM

You should definatley confront him. It would be the right thing to do. Just ask to speak to him alone and maybe he can help. Also, you could go to a school counselor (preferably a girl, I bet.) they could also help you.

almightysneakers on 10/13/2009 6:23:51 PM

Wow....that's way too heavy to find out randomly all at once. I sorryz. Frown

gladiator*girl on 10/13/2009 6:12:41 PM

dont worry girl it's ok same exact thing happened to me.....just ask ur dad if its true and he will probably tell u the story thats wat happened with me!

sassykinz on 10/13/2009 5:34:09 PM

mod mod mod ok i know this is sorta...really wired but this is a question for my mom she never really got to dress up for halloween because me and my mom is so petite(spelled wrong maybe)that she can only fit in the joniors costumes and those can be kida inapropreate and she works at a school and she wants to be supergirl any ideas on how to be supergirl for halloween thats apropreatefor a a school thanks

 

Hey girl! Tell her to try making one at home!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

sassykinz on 10/13/2009 5:32:55 PM

Hey girl! Thanks so much for the heads up! GL will take care of it!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

spazzychick101! on 10/13/2009 10:47:10 AM

!!!MOD MOD
keltie.............lol it is very EASY tofall for a friend..ive had my share of it. idk with her though, its kinda weird bc she says he'll flirt and talk to her SMOEDAYS and others its like he barely ntices who she is. like not talking to her at all and then she feels offened and gets even more scared about talking to him bc she thinks she's done something wrong(btw she gets all jealous when that happens cuz he talks to this one girl everyday and they say their just friends but she flips about it)

softball babe!!~ on 10/13/2009 1:06:26 AM

!!!MODD MOD
hey chichkies!! while im up i have one more question....is it possible that a friend likes you(as a friend) so much that they're nervous around you so sometimes they dont say much to you??? me and my friend are trying to figer that out bc she's practically in love wit her BGF.




Hey babe,




It's definitely easy for a friend to fall for a friend. Or just to admire a friend so much that they don't know how to act around them. But if your friend is in love with her BGF, I'm not surprised she's not talking to him very much!




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

softball babe!!~ on 10/13/2009 12:45:42 AM

Mhm. There's only one logical explanation - He doesn't want to stress your mother out just coming out bluntly : "Oh yeah! I had another wife before you and I don't want to piss you off so I'm hiding everything from you so you won't detest me later for it Laughing" Yup.. Laughing

[xganzxalleinx] on 10/12/2009 11:55:34 PM

Mod mod mod!!!!!
I get sick very easily!!! So my mom keeps nagging me to get long-sleeved shirts. She will only get me shirts if it's under 10$!!!! I'm really pickey and I'm punk and unique!! Plz post pics. And wear 2 get them.... Thanks yous soooomuch!!!!!




Hey babe,




Check out Hot Topic or Forever 21. They have cool tops and usually have good deals. You could also just go for simple black long sleeve shirts and wear them under t-shirts. 




xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

Sassykinz on 10/12/2009 11:26:25 PM



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