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The uncrushable curse

 


I keep getting crushes on guys I can't date. You know...celebs, significantly older/younger guys, fictional characters.... I do sometimes like guys who I CAN date, but never as much.


How can I get over my impossible crushes when I do like a dateable guy? How do I stop liking these guys? Thanks!
 



~Uncrushables


Hey girlie! We have all been a victim of fallin’ for those impossible and uncrushable fellas. I've definitely had a few out-of-reach crushes—ESPECIALLY when I was younger. My friend’s older brothers, Hollywood actors, even my history teacher! It happens to just about everyone.


You can still dream about star-studded dudes
 

The good news? You don’t have to give up entirely on guys who are out of your league. Hey, they’re fun to daydream about, and decorate the walls of your room with. But, you have to come up with conquests that are within your limits as well. How to find some REAL dateable dudes? Try making a last of boys in your classes who make you blush. This will show you that there ARE fellas out there other than Zac Efron. Once you’ve found some potential hotties, kick yourself into dating mode and see if you can snag yourself a real-life Romeo that you don’t have to see by turning on the TV or going to the movies.


Remember, you don’t have to completely stop having crushes on these celebs, older or younger guys and fictional characters. You just have to draw the line somewhere. So crush away on these untouchable hotties, but they shouldn’t keep you from going after guys you could have a chance with in real life.

 
And if you wanna stay single...

Unfortunately, when it comes to romance, not many boys are exactly like the sweet and sensitive charmers in our fave rom-coms. Having a real-life romance means accepting another individual for who they are, flaws and all. Another thing to consider? Maybe you're just not better for a real relationship, so you keep on crushin' on hotties who you know you have no chance with. If that's the case, no worries. Dream away and someday (when you're ready!) your prince will come. I promise!

 
-Jackie E. 
 

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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/9/2009 7:00:00 AM 132 COMMENTS

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Whenever you feel likes this listen to Taylor Swift's "Superstar" from the Fearless Platinum Edition. This is my favorite part:
You smile that beautiful smile and all the girls in the front row
Scream Your Name
So dim that spotlight
Tell me things like
"I can't take my eyes off of you"
I'm no one special
Just another wide-eye girl
Who's desperately in love with you

kclove on 1/6/2010 5:55:52 PM

**MOD**
I really like my BGF and we dated for 3 months last year, but he broke up with me, for reasons still unknown, but we've been inseparable for so long. He drops hints all the time he still loves me, but I think he's afraid to admit he still loves me. He already knows how I feel, and he's comfortable with it.. but I'm still confused. What do you think?
P.S (Thanks for answering my questions! Helps a lot Smile )




Hey girl! I think the only way to find out is to confront him about it and ask him why he wanted to break up in the first place.  Ask him if he's afraid, and let him know you want more than just a friendship with him, but it'd be nice if he could commit to being more.  If you just want to be friends, you could still tell him that you're confused but happy with where you both stand. If you let him know you're confused, he may be more likely to explain how he feels.  
Megan R.

fosterchy on 11/21/2009 1:19:25 AM

lol has this not happen i mean lets have some examples edward cullen jacob black taylor launther kyo(fb fans know)much much more im the same way all the boys at my school r jerks(exepct jamie*sighs and grabs chocolate bar and yells i hat u jamie*)so i fall so easily for guys in books and tv shows i mean for some reason i have a HUGE crush on beast boy from teen titans.idk y just do *sighs walks to room and kiss poster of him and says your hotter then jamie sees jamie in window crying and shuts blind*yeah im messed up.

animal-lover300 on 11/13/2009 6:19:15 PM

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!! i really really really need help!! ok so i absolutely looooooooooovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeee this guy and he know i like him, but he hasn't said ANYTHING about it. i really really love this guy with all my heart and i have for ten months. i try talking to him but is there anything i can do to make him talk to me, like me, or ask me out?? please help!!!!!




Hey babe,

Unfortunately, if he hasn't said anything I don't think he will. Maybe he just doesn't know you well enough to know what to think. Try to get to know him without being too pushy about it so he can get to know the real you!

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

Ali2468 on 11/13/2009 5:10:37 PM

yeah me 2. i like the manga frank hardy (if u saw him u would agree with me. he is soo cute!) and justin beiber jake t austin and other people. sometimes i compare the guys in my class to them;)

PicturePerfect on 11/9/2009 7:22:31 PM

yep this happends to me all the time..im a 7th grader and i have a major crush on a 10th grader(austin robert meyer)... i had one of my best friends ask him out for me + plus this girl is his friend....he said no cause of the age difference but he said that he would date me if i was in the 9th grade and he said i was cute... man that just makes me so mad cause i absolotly love this kid to death

austinlover214 on 11/6/2009 9:46:47 PM

I know how you feel it happens to all my friends. Ask him if he likes you through text messages, email, aim , myspace. Ask him if you he thinks your cute? Try it! Good luck

dlynnxxcatsxx98 on 11/4/2009 4:23:14 PM

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. The first time i went out with him was in the begging of the school year. My friend liked him at the same time. Then when we broke up beacuse of her and she stoped likeing him. Were going out again and im affraid my friend will betrade me again PLEASE Help me !!!!

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AbbeyCatLuvR on 10/25/2009 5:03:40 PM

MOD-
I've had a crush on all the cute guys in my class before. Now there's no guys let. I only think high schoolers are hot. Preferably seniors! Help me. All my friends think I'm crazy.




Hey girl, you're not crazy; you're just a li'l boy crazy which is totes natural. You'll find as time goes by, you'll find a cutie who will be more than a good-looking guy -- you'll fall for his personality too. IT's perfectly natural right now to see looks, but when you meet the right person, it'll become more than that and when that happens, that isn't just a crush you can take and switch. Hang in there, girlie!

xoxo
Alyssa B.

livvybee365 on 10/21/2009 9:11:37 PM

I TOTALLY know what you are talking about. Undateable crushes have come and gone like a person blinks! Currenlt my celeb. crush is Taylor Lautner. My school crush is a guy on a different team (we have teams in my middle school). And fantasy crush.... don't really have one... Edward Cullen I Guess!

bluebarry26 on 10/21/2009 6:45:55 PM

isnt it illegal to date guys over 18 if your like under 18

Kcfashions on 10/21/2009 5:51:24 PM

Mod-
1.) I don't have an interest in having a bf right now is there something wrong with me? Sure I think a boy or two are cute ,but still I feel nothing for them. I decided this year I was going to date too! Yet I have no interest. Isn't middle school BF, and GF supposed to be for fun? I just don't see the fun in it. I'm just curious....
2.) I'm confused about what I should be for Halloween. I was going to be a princess ,but my friends are coming up with rocking ideas...( they are being...Queen of hearts, little Bo Peep, Pocahontas, little red riding hood and exc.)
-please help, thanks.^^




Hey babe, no there's nothing wrong with you. You'll know when you're ready for a bf when you find the right guy for that! For the costume, a lot of girls on the site here have some great ideas so maybe ask around but I always like to stick with a classic like a witch, cat or ghost but put a fun, modern twist on it. 
katelin s.

i_luv_devin on 10/21/2009 12:14:26 AM

1.say ur name 10x
2.say ur moms name 5x
3.say ur crushes name 3x
4.post this on 4 spots and ur crush will kiss u on the nearest friday

jellybean2010 on 10/20/2009 2:37:36 PM

I need some help. There's this guy . I really like him. The problem is that our chorus classes got switched the other day and im in the all girls class now. wen we were in chorus together, I saw him lookin @ me, & then he would turn away. the other day, he was leavin chorus & I was comin in, I walked past him, & he turned red like he does and I do all the time. My family nos his family, cause his bro and my sis were in preschool together. Whenever im @ my friends locker, hes @ his friends locker next 2 my friends, & then he comes back. we were great friends last year and the begining of this year, but now we r n a weird relationship. Im pretty sure he likes me, and i like him, but he doesnt no that. Wat should i do, do u think he likes me, and HELP A.S.A.P.!!!!
srry it was so long

Gracie401 on 10/20/2009 7:15:19 AM

MOD This is complicated but I told this guy (Jake) that I liked him in a note. I really did like him and my friends told me to write a note to him saying I did and the next day he told me he liked me as a friend and we never talked about it since. Over the years we talked quite a bit but n sixth grade we never talked really but now in sevnth we've been talking a bit on the bus and he teased me playflly this one day and the other day he scremed that one of his friends liked me while I walked by, but anyways do you think he likes me now?

 

Hey girl! The only way to know for sure is to find out from him. Sounds like you should talk to him a little more and try to feel it out! No rush, take it day by day and see what happens!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Bubbles757 on 10/18/2009 9:05:12 PM

MOD MOD MOD!! Well I like this guy a lot and my friend told him but not on purpose and now he is telling every one I keep on calling him a jerk and he doesn't know why and I still like him a whole lot what should I do come clean when everyone asks if im the girl that likes him and say yes or just deny it and walk away or should i do something else instead of those 2? PLZ HELP




I think you should not deny it, cuz thats lying. But if you want people to leave you alone about it just ignore people when they ask and tell them to stop spreading rumors. Also confront the guy and ask him to stop telling people because you dont like how hes telling people. good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:42:20 PM

Well you see I like this guy but he doesn't like me back and now he is telling everyone that I like him but I keep on calling him a jerk but I still really really like him what should I do?

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:35:00 PM

well you see I like this guy but he doesn't like me back and now he is telling everyone that i like him what should I do?

mckenzdun on 10/17/2009 10:32:45 PM

I know how you feel . I know a super hot guy and he is in 8th grade and I am in 5th!He lives next door to one of my bestfriends ! He likes a girl who everyboy at school likes . He smacked her butt ! I also gush over Nick Jonas all the time . There are three guys that like me but the aren't cute to me

Nilee on 10/17/2009 12:44:35 PM

haaaaaaaaa oh my gosh this is tooooo irnic. im obsessed with disney characters.. yes.. like i proposed to mad hatter at disneyland... yes ii know i know o.o you guys are making it sound like its easy.. but i would no its not... not at all.. hmm.

winterlover1 on 10/17/2009 2:35:51 AM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

cherrygirl14 on 10/16/2009 2:14:26 PM



xenagirl on 10/16/2009 9:46:53 PM

LEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

WritingBunny on 10/16/2009 6:56:45 PM

need a bf HELP!!!! Smile

krivera11 on 10/16/2009 6:36:22 PM

******MOD******
okay well theres this guy that i danced with at a dance two weeks ago fer all the slow songs. & i think i like him :/ and i heard he likes me from my friend chelsea and other people! but what happened was the other day my friend was talking to him in art and he said he kinda liked me. and then te othr day my other friends were talking to him about the next dance and he said he wated to dance with me so they asked if he liked me and he turned red! BUT TODAY IN GYM my friend was sitting next to me and we were talking about random stuff and she asked me who i liked and i was like i kinda like the kid whho likes me but i didnt say who and she was like oh is it (lets call him) tim? caause hes staring at u a TON. and i looked over and he was :] BUTTTTTT today in algebra the person who sits next to me wasnt there so he sat next to me ;D omg i flipped! do u think he likes me? and should i like him? cause iddkkk!
pleas e and thanks fer the adviceee <3333333
lindsey




Hey babe,

I think he definitely likes you! It doesn't matter whether you "should" like him or not, only if you actually do. Get to know him better and you'll know for sure.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

xxlindsey44 on 10/16/2009 5:38:28 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

starwarsgirl161 on 10/16/2009 4:58:49 PM

Mod-i was at walmart w/ my mom yesterday and there was a cute cashier there and i got the vibe he was flirting with me-even my mom thought he was being friendly towards me. anyway, im not sure how old he is, he might be 19 but im not sure. right now im 16(going on 17 in january) and i was wondering if i shud try to get to know this guy better or if the difference in age is too large with me being under age.thank u for ur help. Smile

 

Hey girl,

 

It's hard to say if he was flirting with you. But if you are interested in him then it's okay to chat him up next time you go in the store. Because of the big age difference though, I would take things slowly. Just try being friends first : )

 

Megan P.

Megan P.

Jenster on 10/16/2009 1:16:54 AM

its really hard im in love with him

carolinerox97 on 10/15/2009 8:34:12 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

ksbookgirl14 on 10/15/2009 7:57:47 PM

Mod, I'm in need of some help.
I told my best friend who happens to be a guy who I had a crush on. He then told me "I guess I'm not good enough". I can tell what that means and now I'm so confused. I always kinda thought that he liked me but I thought that we we better off as friends. I just don't know what to do.




Hey girl, that bites. Let this poor guy know he still means a lot to you and you think he's great. You're just not interested in him like that. It's rough to be rejected, but let him know you still care and that you really didn't know. It'll even out. Just give him a little time to let that wound heal.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

volleyuup on 10/15/2009 6:30:09 PM

MOD! how do you get someone to like you? i really like this guy and i talk to him in class but he doesn't seem to like me or want to be my friend or anything. i think he thinks i'm weird because i always act really weird around him, but not on purpose i just can't think of exactly what to say so it comes out different? how can i make him see that i'm not some freak and i'm actually maybe worth liking?




Hey girl, just be yourself. Honestly, if this guy has a problem with the true you, he's not worth it. You should never have to change yourself for a guy, girlie, because you're delightful just the way you are!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

bluebananas32 on 10/15/2009 5:13:44 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.

livi23 on 10/15/2009 3:24:25 PM

modmodmodmod! theres this really cute guy in my science and history class i dont know if i like him or if he likes me but hes really playful and he can never be quiet i sit infront of him in science and he always talks to me but my friends say i shouldnt like him. what should i do????? plus im like the smart girl in my classes(except history the stuffs already thought for you haha) and whenever im telling him something thats accually really cool he sortof goes into a trance and like falls asleep!i need help!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl! I would say you can like who you want to! Just take it day by day and see what happens! You don't have to make any decisions in the next few weeks just go with it!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

purplegirl12x2 on 10/15/2009 2:58:54 PM

MOD MOD MOD I need ur help okay ive told previous mods bout my ex bf he broke up with me put me thru hell but i still agreed to b his friend lately he had been in luv with a friend of mine but she HATES him for wut he did to me and well i let him down easy and told him im srry and all tht crap so now hes over her in the past month hes been callng my cell hpone tlkng to me on aim (w/out me tlkng to him first) wantng to kno wut my greetngs r bout puts me in his greetngs and wenevr he tlks to my friend he cant go 5 min without mentioning me yestrday he said ive been callng her but she shuts the phone did i do sumthn? (i received no such calls >.>) What is goin on with him he brok e up with me!! does he miss me? want me bak? im so confused srry for the long message :[

 

Hey girl! He could just be trying to get your attention. Hold your head high and do your own thing! If you're really curious you can try asking him whats up!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

Miuluver789 on 10/15/2009 2:56:02 PM

Mod There is this boy I know and he is so sweet and kind. He likes me and I like him too. This summer we kinda dated, and he was even nicer! during the school year is his barely around though? ( ps. my mom and family don't know) so should I make it offical that where dating cause we still are, so i can be with him or should I just wait? Also I only get to see my bestie once a week and everytime she wants to invite her new friend other I like her new friend but I miss just having time with my bestie. how can I just get my bestie to hangout with me without being rude to my other friend at the same time? ty! sorry for all the questions!

 

Hey girl! Try and see you boy a little more. You don't have to make it official but you can keep talking to him. And, try to set up a lunch for just you and your bestie. You guys can catch up and chat then maybe meet up for a movie with your other friend!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

13Jazz on 10/15/2009 1:30:05 PM

REALLY WORKS! TRY IT OUT!
1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this to 4 other quizs, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck

Trisy on 10/15/2009 11:33:18 AM

MOD* Hi. well i'm not a shy person. Im loud, extrovert, and have a clear sense of who i am. But i am EXTREMELY shy around boys. even the ones that i do not like. they always have to make the initiative, and then i become open, but i can never approach in a friendly way. I think some people can find me intimidating, because i can be very serious and honest. How do i get over my shyness around new people? and how do i approach people who i dont know?

 

Hey girl! As long as you know who you are and when you feel the most shy, you can learn when to switch it off. If you're not comfortable being extroverted in front of boys or new peeps than stick to how you do feel comfortable. You will open up the more you're around them! You can approach new people by striking up a convo with a question or two and play off of that! No worries, you'll get the hang of it soon!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

jc99jc on 10/15/2009 1:33:25 AM

MOD!! Thank you so much for your help on my sitch. It's tough. I told some friends 3 said don't tell, 1 said do tell, but you really helped, thank you.




Anytime, girl. Glad I made a difference! (: xoxo 
Alyssa B.

jayhawk94 on 10/14/2009 10:11:35 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
OK, I have a serious problem. I was talking to this guy and he said he's liked me since 1st grade. Well, I don't like him back, but he likes me. HUGE problem---he has a girlfriend......and she's my friend. Should I tell her that her boyfriend likes me? That would probably hurt her if she really likes him. He wanted to ask me out, but people knew I would say no, so he didn't, then he asked out my friend, so I think he just wants to have a girlfriend.




Hey girl, you shouldn't tell your friend that -- that would be way hurtful. Instead, tell the guy you're not interested period. Give him a chance to stick to your friend. But if he keeps making moves on you? Don't be afraid to report the truth then. Your friend deserves to know what her bf is up to.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

jayhawk94 on 10/14/2009 10:00:26 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! DOES THAT SAY YOUR NAME 10X THING WORK? ITS KINDA BUGGING ME CAUSE I DON'T WANT BAD LUCK... THX. PS. I ALREADY DID IT ONCE.




Hey girl, I don't think any of them really work. Sorry to burst your bubble, but remember, you decide your luck, not some message everyone's putting up. Be confident. (;

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

icestar321 on 10/14/2009 9:11:12 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

princess_madi on 10/14/2009 8:58:57 PM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

princess_madi on 10/14/2009 8:58:52 PM

****MOD****
okay at school theres this guy in my algebra,english,and history class and I think I might like him. At the school dance two weeks ago he asked me to dance and then we danced for every slow song! But while we were dancing he started to lean down to kiss me and i moved :/ well ever since then at school we keep flirting with eachother and he told my friend chelsea about how we danced together and he said he kind of likes me but I dont know if i like him alot or not! like we always talk but he has this friend julie who i think he might like BUT in gym the other day he was dared to ask her out and he said NO WAY but then he was dared to ask me and he turned red :/ idk if he likes me but i keep thinking about him and i hope he does! i cant wait til the next dance so i can dance with him!!! but i dont want anythhing more than that i think because i havent even had my first kiss yet, and its only the beginning of the year and i dont want a boyfriend because i always get distracted and right now im doing really good in school
so WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Soryy this is sooooo LONG! please and thank you fer the advice
<3 lindsey ;D




Hey babe,

If you don't want a boyfriend and aren't sure how you feel, I think it's the right decision not to date this guy yet, but that doesn't mean you can't flirt with him and get to know him, especially if you think you might want to date him later.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

xxlindsey44 on 10/14/2009 7:59:40 PM

MOD please help in spanish there is this guy that i like and he is really cute and funny. he used to sit next to me and we noticed our teacher says right way too many times, the teacher changed everyones seats so i dont sit next to him anymore but he still jokes about it from the back of the class. He also claps when ever i would answer something right huh what do you think is he interested




Hey babe,

I think he might be. Try to talk to him before or after class when you can and get to know him better.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

carrottop50505 on 10/14/2009 6:47:32 PM

1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

i_luv_devin on 10/14/2009 1:33:11 AM

MOD MOD MOD
ok so i really like this guy. he always tries to make me laugh, he always looks at me and talks to me. once he held my hand but i got scared and pulled my hands away and then once he asked me what i was doing onSaturday but then he said that he was just kidding do you think he likes me or not?
Thank you!




Hey babe, sounds like he might like ya,but ya never really know with guys. Get to know him better and hopefully you'll be able to tell if he likes you or not. 
katelin s.

alliecat1010 on 10/14/2009 12:28:45 AM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
today in my drama class my crush had to a scene with me , after the scene he called me a pretty lady! Does this mean anything?, guys can be so strange. lol




Hey babe, he could like ya but you never know with guys. Try to talk to him more and get to know him better and hopefully you'll get a better idea of if he likes you or not. 
katelin s.

purple_stars on 10/13/2009 10:49:01 PM

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I am like in love with this guy. Hes amazing. The thing is, hes taken, and hes like completely in love with this girl. They have been going out for half a year now and it dosent look like they are breaking up any time soon. I dont know what to do. Ive been trying to wait it out, but it looks like my wait is going to be longer then planned. Ugh, i just want him so bad! please help me!!
PS: Why does it take so long for my comments to show up???
Comment on my profile please and thank you! <3




Hey babe, there's not much you can do since he has a gf. You'll just have to wait to see what happens with their relationship. Just enjoy having fun with your friends for now and you'll be ok. 
katelin s.

singingluvr on 10/13/2009 10:01:26 PM

Hey girl I think we all have been in your situation I mean I was like you where I had all kinds of guys all over me, but you know I never liked any of them until i met my high school sweet heart man I went head over heels in love with him. But you know we all fall for someone at any time and we may not know it until we are telling all our friends about it. Than the word gets out. I mean don't freak girl its normal and you will get that all through your life so don't be afraid to take a chance with love. It's looks like you are saying your not read for love or some guy to come along and take your breath or heart away just yet am I right or am I wrong. Don't get me wrong I have been in your shoe and I still am there are guys who range from young to old that want me to be theirs and you know what I don't see them as that I see them as little boys that are grown men that want me. But still act like boys. So don't be afraid to take a chance with love and your new guys that you call what ever you like. I never really saw my guy friends as boys that I wanted to date I just saw them as friends for now and still to this day I consider them as my friends. So don't push your love just start out as friends kay girl. Well you take care and take my advice kay. Peace

LIL_MAMA on 10/13/2009 9:19:10 PM

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

lipsmackers11 on 10/13/2009 8:37:06 PM



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