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softball0709 on 12/9/2009 9:06:00 PM

Hey MOD there's this guy i met almost 2 months now and hes not talking to me anymore for about 1 month and 2 weeks now and one of my friend suggested that maybe he likes me cause hes not talking to me but i'm not sure what sign hes giving (if he likes me or not ) but most times he looks at me and i pretend not to see him but i notice him from the corner of my eyes. So what does all this mean ?

Hey girl! Sounds pretty tricky. But, I would try talking to him. Try saying hi or asking him how he has been. You might be able to read him better if you're talking to him!

-Taeler

hip_hop_hottie on 12/4/2009 9:34:54 PM

MOD***** I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me back I think it's because of how I look or something I don't know!!!! it's so confusing! the only sign is that he picks on me sometimes

Hey babe, maybe his picking on you is just his way of teasing. Guys are confusing like that! Talk to him and be extra flirty and see what happens!

orange_lover09 on 11/19/2009 9:26:51 PM

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i am 14 years old but i have never had a bf or a first kiss. is this abnormal???! i kinda want to, but im not really friends with any guys at school! help!

Hey babe, it's totally normal. Just wait it out and the right guy will come along and you'll be glad you waited!

bllgirl95 on 11/17/2009 9:11:16 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD i have never been kissed or even had a bf but thats not exactly my problem... there was this guy i liked in 6th grade n even though we were young im pretty sure we were flirting. then he went to a differient school. i had a guy friend since 5th grade n we we talked until halfway through last year. the funny thing is about the time he stopped talking to me i realized i liked him. one day last year his friend came up to me AnD my buds on the track and he asked if i liked his friend(the guy i like) because he liked me back. my face turned bright red so i couldnt deny it. i said ya but he dosent like me and that was that. well thats not really that because he probably told everyone. this year my guy from 6th grade came back and hes is georgous!!! i like him again but i only have one class with him. my guy from last year has 2 classes with me and one of them is advisory which is supposed to be an hour of expressing your feelings but its not. the other class is spanish where i occasionally find him looking at me but i look at him too. idk if hes looking at me because his friend told hium i like him of if he likes me but i rly want to talk to him but were not friends anymore. how can i try to talk to him or try to make him start the convo? thx sooooo much and im rly sry its so long. also is it ok that im crushin on 2 boys at the same time or does that mean i dont really like either of them??? thx!!!!!

Hey girlie,

It's totally okay to have a crush on 2 guys at the same time. If you give it a little time and talk to these guys you'll start to figure out who your really like. Try to ask your crushes a question. Then start up a convo. You can also try asking him for help. These make good excuses to go up and talk to a guy you don't knwo very well without seeming weird.

Megan P.

Megan P.

i<3colesprouse on 11/9/2009 3:22:58 PM

MOD ! In My Drama Class, we have this group work and this popular guy is in my group but with is ex who is also a friend of his and my group is filled with 5 people luckily i have one friend so i'm not soooooooooooo quiet but since i'm shy and it looks like this guys ex is trying to become more than friends with him i'm so shy btw its not like i Like this guy i just wanna be his friend and be myself cause i find out that i'm sorta quiet and the guy i want to be friends with is sooo outgoing and i think he like girls that are too cause most of he girlfriends are. But i'm not normally quiet orless i'm shy or uncomfortable around people of don't know them or fear of rejection etc so is there anywhere i could be my normally self and be friends with the guy ? ...I only have one friend in our group.

Hey girl! Just try talking a little more or asking people questions to get a convo going. The more you get to know their personalities, the more comfy you will feel around them. You will start to feel more yourself once you feel that way, too!

-Taeler

hip_hop_hottie on 11/8/2009 9:51:27 PM

i have never been kissed or even had a bf but thats not exactly my problem... there was this guy i liked in 6th grade n even though we were young im pretty sure we were flirting. then he went to a differient school. i had a guy friend since 5th grade n we we talked until halfway through last year. the funny thing is about the time he stopped talking to me i realized i liked him. one day last year his friend came up to me n my buds on the track and he asked if i liked his friend because he liked me back. my face turned bright red so i couldnt deny it. i said ya but he dosent like me and that was that. well thats not really that because he probably told everyone. this year my guy from 6th grade came back and hes is georgous!!! i like him again but i only have one class with him. my guy from last year has 2 classes with me and one of them is advisory which is supposed to be an hour of expressing your feelings but its not. the other class is spanish where i occasionally find him looking at me but i look at him too. idk if hes looking at me because his friend told hium i like him of if he likes me but i rly want to talk to him but were not friends anymore. how can i try to talk to him or try to make him start the convo? thx sooooo much and im rly sry its so long. also is it ok that im crushin on 2 boys at the same time or does that mean i dont really like either of them??? thx!!!!!

i<3colesprouse on 11/8/2009 7:41:18 PM

Okay the true thing about meeting someone special is it takes time. All of my friends had a BF and I was dissappionted and thought something was wrong with me.

Now since ive wated 2 years, I found a sweet guy that calls me "pretty" or "cutie" and I cant help but blush.

I like him sooo much and he likes me sooo much too and now we've been together for 6 months.

ngcflipflop on 11/6/2009 9:58:52 PM

ngcflipflop on 11/6/2009 9:57:15 PM

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Theres this guy in my bus who lately has been getting on my nerves. We all (grade 8ers) talk on the bus like 5-7 of us and since yesterday he just started making fun of the way i laughed and stuff..i didn't really make a huge deal i just stopped talking to him. Then today I was still kind of mad so i didn't give him any of my chips and chocolate and when i got out of the bus showed his middle finger to me and i really don't know what to do but i know that i want him to pay cause i'm really pissed off!

Hey girl, take a deep breath. Sleep on it. This guy is immature, but you should NOT take revenge on him. Instead, be the better person. Let it go and go on. What he did isn't nice, but he won't do it again if you show him it had no effect on you.

xoxo

hip_hop_hottie on 11/5/2009 7:55:29 PM

MOD MOD MOD please help me!!!! i want a BF but i am twelve! My mom won't let me date until i am sixteen! I am homeschooled and i don't meet a lot of guys. Oh, also i am living in Germany and i dont speak german. HOW CAN I FIND A GUY!!!!!!

Hey girl! You can try talking to you mom and maybe you two can come to a compromise! Try picking up a German class for beginners. You might meet a nice English-speaking boy there!

-Taeler

rox_ur_sox on 11/3/2009 3:21:45 PM

mod*hey girls i need help.my bf has just came back from his tour n while talking he told me that he and his friends flirt a little there with other girls.please tell me is it nice that he told me about it.please help me..thanks.

Hey girl! Well, thats up to you and how comfortable you feel with him. A little innocent flirting never hurt anyone as long it doesn't go beyond that!

-Taeler

crazyteen on 10/29/2009 12:11:33 PM

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I'm going crazy over this guy who isn't talking to me i've tried litterally everything yet he doesn't reply my hi's or good jobs. We used to talk well just about 3 days and then he suddenly stopped talking to me i really like him but i just don't get whats up with him...it seems like hes only doing it to me...is something wrong? what do i do!

Hey babe,

Give him some space. After a while ask him what's up and why he stopped talking to you. He might be going through something personal and just doesn't feel like talking to anyone right now. Good luck!

xoxo Keltie

Keltie E.

hip_hop_hottie on 10/26/2009 10:00:09 PM

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So this guy recently found out I like him, and he said he only liked me as a really good friend. My friend was the one who found out the answer though, not me. I found out that today he asked my friend in what to do if a girl likes him, but he doesn't like them back any more than a friend. What does this mean?

Hey girl, sounds like he just may not be into you and needs to figure out how to cope. I know this may be hard, but don't read too much into it. Let him go and stick to your own thing. You will be better off.

xoxo

mkroberts96 on 10/22/2009 7:23:32 PM

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I just got my first boyfriend and i really like him but whenever we hang out it is okward.
And some of my friends think i should kiss him wich would be my first kiss and i dont know what to do. How can i make it less okward and what do i do about the whole kissing thing?
thank you!

Hey girl, I think if you kiss him before you're ready to, it'll only make things more awkward. The key to getting over that weird point, however? Just be you. Joke a bit. Try to break the ice. Don't be pressured to do more than you feel ready to. Go slow, and you'll find in the end, you'll be fine, promise.

xoxo

beachygrace on 10/21/2009 9:04:49 PM

MOD! Recently I had floor hockey, and this guy in my class tried kinda talking to me mid-way through floor hockey and we finally did talk and it was fantastic. Then the school dance came and we did talk-it was really good. But that was the last time we (he) ever talked (to me) and its been 3 days now and i'm really sad cause i really like this guy and i told 3 friends of mine but they did't tell him anything and they don't talk to him and i don't think thats the prob! Sadly we have only one class together-gym and hes in my group and luckily in my class now we changed modules and happily hes in my gym class but i'm the only girl in my class and he still doesn't talk to me...I really like this guy and at the very least i want us to be close friends even if not crushers or etc but this guy is making me sad and i jst can't stop thinking about him. why is he being sooo confusing?is this some kinda boy trick to get girls to think about him? or is he just having a bad day? or what? and how do i act round a group of guys when i'm the only girl (i only know and talk to a few of the guys)do i make friends with the guys?how? do i try to make this guy jealous? Hes making me go crazy how do i handle him....Should i ignore him too? btw i've tried starting a conversation with him but he just replied and that was it!

Hey babe, guys can be really confusing I know! if you're the only girl, just keep it cool and casual. Talk about movies, music and tv shows that you all might like. Just try to get to know the guy better and if he's still giving you a hard time, take some time away from him and maybe he'll come around.

hip_hop_hottie on 10/20/2009 11:08:20 PM

MOD can you plz answer my Question!i need a reply A.S.A.P!

Hey babe, I don't see it. Post it again.

hip_hop_hottie on 10/20/2009 9:19:57 PM

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i think that 2 guys like me and i like them both and hang out with them both. but i don't know which one i should "go after". one guy was really good friends with me all throughout grade school(we're in 8th grade now)and the other guy has been a REALLY good friend since 7th grade. also, how do i flirt with the one i chose???
plz help me

Hey girl! Just decide which one you like more and try talking to him more. Tell him he's cute or really funny and that will help you start flirting!

-Taeler

Sunshine4560 on 10/20/2009 5:35:15 PM

Hey I have a crush on a guy who is in my class. He loves making jokes hes the class clown but can also be serious. I make jokes with him and tease him. He is always surounded by girls and his freinds but none of them have a crush on him. We're great freinds but i dont know how to flirt with him help!!!!!

gabinoonoo on 10/18/2009 9:48:55 PM

can you help me i can talk to guys easily. But i have a crush on this guy ben in my class. He loves to make jokes, and hes always surounded by peoopl in my class, and there mostly girls! But none of them have crushes on him. I make jokes and were good freinds. But how do i start flirting with him? please help and thanks for the advice.

gabinoonoo on 10/18/2009 9:38:51 PM

MOD! ok well i have never had a bf which is bad enough but i dont no why. every1 tells me im drop dead gorgeous even my bffs very critical sister and my friends love my personality im funny and nice but still no guys seem to like me except 4 guys who have never seen me b4 which makes me think if there is something wrong with my personality

Hey girl! Just be yourself and be confident. There's no reason to rush having a bf and you should just concentrate on doing your own thing!

-Taeler

waspl on 10/18/2009 9:35:27 PM

MOD i like my bgf. ive liked him since kindergarden and i was thinking of telling him this year but i dont want it to screw things up with us. i was going to tell him when we go on a boat trip for a field trip. but the problem is i cant date untill im a junior and right now im only in eigth grade. would it be fair to tell him when i cnat date him?

Hey girl! Hmm..I would wait it out. Since you can't date anyway it might be a good idea to just stay close friends. You guys could have a really good relationship in high school.

-Taeler

fired up on 10/18/2009 9:07:35 PM

thx megan r!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

littlestarr22 on 10/18/2009 7:10:10 PM

I'm kind of starting to have a crush on this guy thats a junior. I'm a freshman. Is that too big of an age difference? I'm scared to flirt with him or something, cause I dont want him to think I'm weird. But, he acts like he thinks of me as some little kid. What should I do?

Try chatting with him and seeing if you guys have stuff in common! If you don't, then it may be too big of an age difference.

lovelovelove5 on 10/18/2009 6:44:04 PM

MOD MOD Sometimes I end up liking two guys at once. I have friends dating two guys at the same time and I am not interested in those kinds of relationships even though they are common. But what should I do, I wish I just ended up like one guy at a time? Is it weird that I end up liking two guys?

It's normal to have crushes on more than one person, but it's not normal to date more than one person at the same time! Once you hang out with your crushes, it should be clear who you like more! If you give both a chance, and then see who you have more in common with, that could help! Good luck!

luckykel on 10/18/2009 6:16:56 PM

mod***** can i have some tips on flirting???? i kinda stink at it && have no idea what 2 do

If you smile and are nice that can count as flirting. Try gently touching your crush's arm when you talk with him, or making eye-contact and smiling longer than you normally would!

littlestarr22 on 10/18/2009 6:06:14 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD First of all Thanks for taking down all the chain mails because thoes were driving me crazy..!! Second of all how do you make guys notice you...?? I try to be myslef but nothing works...!! All the best Kayla

Hey girl! No prob! The best way to make a guy notice you is to be yourself! Say what's on your mind and don't be afraid to have your own style!

Paramore_247 on 10/18/2009 4:19:16 PM

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When you send in an Embarssing moment how long will it take to be approved? I sent in 1 on guyville 1 on BFF and I think not sure one on periods period a while ago so just wondering if it will be approved or not? And is there a place you can check to know where you are placing you're comments or Mod's..? Because i send in alot and I forget where I put them..?
Thanks
All the best
Kayla

What happens is the online editors will decide to put some more stories up on a certain section and then go look at the comments posted and pick some of the best ones to answer. So it's kind of a waiting game. Sorry, girlie! Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

Paramore_247 on 10/18/2009 12:03:32 PM

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Hello! It's early.. (:
OKay, I subbmitted a question like.. three weeks ago, and got the answer to talk to this boy over and over.

Well, I don't know what to talk about! See, we are in different... groups in the school community. He is known all throughout the school, loved by all; I barely know anyone compared to him. I try to talk to him, but get so caught up in his blue eyes... and then when we occasionally do talk, I end up saying 'ummhmm..' or '*giggle*yea..' Umm.. so what do I talk about other than the sports and tv? Thank you thank you thank you. (hugs mod)

There's no need to be intimidated, girl! Ask him what's up. Guys like to talk about themselves. What's he into? You'll get to know him AND have a conversation starter. Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

emily13rose on 10/18/2009 2:39:58 AM

***MOD*** I've got this guy friend, who I really like..I really want to tell him, but I don't know how to do so without making things between he and I awkward. Any pointers?

Start flirting (online, texting) and keep it low-key. Compliment him and see how he responds. If he flirts back, you've got your answer and take it from there! I always say, let him be your friend first, boyfriend later! Best, Miliana

Miliana B.

soccerroxursoxoff on 10/18/2009 1:21:13 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLZ HELP & HURRY!!!!!!!!!!
so theres this boy I like & my friends told him I like him he said it would be to "awkward". WHat does that mean?Everyone says that they think that he likes me. Heres my big questions:
1.What does that most likely mean when he says it would be to "awkward"?
2.How should I act with him? Like I did be4 he found out I like him(kinda flirty)? Or normal?
3.WHat could make him like me more?
PLZ PLZ PLZZZZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well....1. he says it would be awkward because he thinks that dating you would be too weird for him. He must just like you as a friend. 2. you should just act normal. Dont flirt or else he'll get freaked out and not want to be around him. 3. Theres nothing you can do to make him like you now. Especially if youre just his friend. Its hard to get out of the just friends category. Sorry girly. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

jello4eve on 10/17/2009 10:19:48 PM

1. Say your crush's name 5x. (FULL NAME!)
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Now copy and paste this to the next 5 articles you read and your wish will come true in 5 days!

jello4eve on 10/17/2009 9:12:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!ANSWER HURRY!!!
1. What r some good ways t make guys like u or think about it? Ur appereance? Personatlity?Etc?
2.Do guys care if ur a girly girl or tom bo?
3.How is a good way to talk to a guy that u said u liked but he said it would be too,"awkward"

1. Personality is very very important. If youre a fun nice girl, then guys will like to be around you and then maybe a certain guy will start to like you. 2. Guys have different preferences, so i suggest you wear whatever you want to wear and be comfortable with yourself. 3. In that situation the best thing to do is to not make it awkward. I know that seems too simple, but thats all you have to do. Act casual and just be normal. Good luck. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

jello4eve on 10/17/2009 9:02:15 PM

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hey so i like this guy you know same old story lol but hes different than all the other guys i've liked. i dont know much about him, well hes blonde his name is paul and hes in my gym class he plays football and hes kinda popular and he does ski club and so do i. but in gym this is the first time hes really actually tried to maybe get me to like him i dont know for sure but im pretty sure he was running next to me on purpose and everything. so do you think he might like me a little? i know i like him and i just gt over my last crush so... is there anything i could do without like actually talking to him? im not so good with words

lol thanks soooo much! sorry its so long!

Hey girl! He might like you a little, but you should just talk to him more and get to know him better.

Eryn G.

livi23 on 10/17/2009 4:52:31 PM

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i have a friend who lives in another state. she doesnt have a lot of money and there is a bk coming out that we both rlly rlly rlly rlly want 2 read. do u think she would kinda think its weird if i bought her the bk and mailed it 2 her???? she's my bff's penpal but we r rlly close.

Hey girl! You could buy it if you wanted to, she would like that.

Eryn G.

horsegirl20 on 10/17/2009 4:05:43 PM

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okay so, i wnat to get into acting and modeling but i haven't really told my family yet and i know i can't juust dream, i have to try! but i don't know how to bring it up with my family that i wanna act and model (with wilhelmina models) maybe even sing, without getting nervous too about it. what if they dont understand? i've tryed throwing little hints but they haven't noticed. know any easier ways to bring it up so they know i'm serious??

Hey girl! Just sit down and talk to your family about your dreams. They will understand and want to support you.

Eryn G.

twilightluvr316 on 10/17/2009 2:14:53 PM

MOD MOD MOD PLZ PLZ HELP AND HURRY !!!!!!! I like Evan but he is best friends with my X I don't know what to do. I asked Evan about me and he wasn't so sure. PLZ PLZ HELP AND HURRY!!!!!

hey girl! It could be kinda awk since Evan's bff is your ex, but if you both end up really liking each other it'll be worth the little bit of awkwardness. Just keep talking to Evan and flirt a bit. Ask him to hang out sometime outside of school and see where things go from there. best of luck, Kristen

Heather4eve on 10/17/2009 11:49:40 AM

MOD MOD MOD PLZ HELP!!!! I really like Evan but his best friend is my X and I am really frushterated and I think I am in love with Evan. Can you plzzzz help me understand whats going on. PLZ PLZ HELP!!!!

Heather4eve on 10/17/2009 11:43:15 AM

MOD MOD MOD PLEASE HELP!!!! I like this guy named Evan about 90% and I like this guy named Grant about 10% but the thing is GRant has broken my heart a few times. I have emailed Evan a few times but he has't emailed me back. I still can't stop thinking about Evan and when I asked him if he liked me it didn't seem like it. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP!!!!!

hey girl! I already answered your q on another post. If you like both guys, then you shouldn't get into a serious relationship right now. If Evan stops talking to you, give yourself time to move on since you like him so much. It's totally normal to think about him all the time. For now, just take a deep breath, relax, and keep talking (or trying) to talk to them. See where things take you. Best of luck, xoxo Kristen

Heather4eve on 10/17/2009 11:31:13 AM

LEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

Heather4eve on 10/17/2009 11:05:16 AM

Mod Mod MOd plz HELP!!!! Hi I like this boy named Evan and I like him 90% and I like this boy named Grant about 10%. Here is the problem Grant likes me but I like his best friend Evan. I asked Evan if he liked me and he didn't seem like it so I have been emailing him but he hasn't emailed me back. But Grant likes me but he has broken my heart a few times and I can't take I can't take it anymore. The thing is I can't get Evan out od my head. PLZ PLZ HELP ME!!!!!

Hey girl! If you like both guys, you don't want to get into a relationship yet. Especially not if Grant and Evan are bffs! For now, just take a deep breath and see where things go. Keep talking to Grant and try talking to Evan. If he doesn't respond though, then give yourself time to move on. You like him a lot, so it's totally understandable that you keep thinking about him. Best wishes, Kristen

Heather4eve on 10/17/2009 11:00:02 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD PLZ HELP HURRY! Okay sorry this is sooo long Theres this boy(B) that I , like a lot like 60% & this other boy

that I like about 40%. A told me early this school year that he liked me but I said no cause all my friends were making fun of me. Then my friend basicly told B that I like him yesterday & he said it would be too awkward, but everyone says they think he likes me & we would look good together.I already know that A likes me, but I can't get B out of my head! Oh & by the way I sit across from both in all my class expect one. & they're really funny, and even if B doesn't like me how do I stay his friend? PLZ HELP & HURRY!

Hey girl! If you aren't set on one guy yet, it's best not to date either...atleast not for now. Just keep talking talking to both and see what happens. Also, don't let your friends affect how you act. If you like someone and they tease you about it, don't give up on him just because of them. Go after what you want! As for B, just keep talking to him. He may think it's kinda awk at first, but if you act toally normal, he'll forget about it. best, Kristen