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A few weeks ago, my best friend passed away. She was only 13. I miss her so much. When I first heard, I cried all night. At school, some people cared but didn’t take it too seriously.
It seems everyone has forgotten about her death, but I can’t. How can I feel better and move on with my life?
I’m so sorry about your friend. It’s hard to lose someone you are close to. Don’t expect to feel better right away. Be patient. You are allowed to be sad and miss her—no matter what other people are doing. It’s all part of grieving. Remember all the great stuff you loved about her and all the fun you used to have.
Keep busy and do anything that takes your mind off the hurt—rent funny movies, go jogging, start a scrap book. If you are overwhelmed with pain and sadness, or need help sorting out your feelings, don’t hesitate to make an appointment with a school counselor or therapist. Sometimes just talking to someone can make you feel better.
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 10/13/2009 7:00:00 AM 26 COMMENTS
im so sorry. stay strong! shes in a better place now though. try finding a friend to talk about your feelings. im crying now because you were. thats sad if some one laughs or dont care they have no heart.
sam1220 on 12/23/2009 7:43:24 PM
1. Say your name 10 times. 2. Say your mom's name 5 times. 3. Say your crush's name 3 times. 4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS
dancing_cheerleader28 on 11/12/2009 4:08:10 PM
awww... my 2 bffs both just moved aaway but i dont think thaats nearly as bad... i hope u feel better
cookookay on 11/8/2009 8:23:51 PM
i know how u feel my gradma passed away a couple of months ago. Have hope. Check out my profile
Superstar18 on 11/3/2009 7:06:39 PM
Awww, thats so sad
Artemis1212 on 11/2/2009 5:37:33 PM
omg im so sorry! that must be the worst thing ever. we are all here for u here on GL so idk if u wanna talk, we r here.
friends4life on 11/2/2009 3:22:44 PM
OMG! That is soooooosad!.Not to sound rude or anything but,How did your bff die?But see a counsler if you are really really really sad.well u probably are but...You know what I mean
Randafanna2 on 10/30/2009 9:57:11 PM
OMG! How did it happen? Oh I'm sorry! I don't know what to say!
Smileygirl86 on 10/29/2009 4:30:41 PM
:=( You should go see a therapist because this kind of thing will make you extremely depressed, if you aren't already. It will make things better for you. CHECK OUT MY PROFILE AND COMMENT!!!!!
eckogirl567 on 10/22/2009 7:33:38 PM
That is so sad you must be devestated... stay strong .....surround your self with family and your other friends
marelle123 on 10/22/2009 12:01:02 PM
omg that's VERY sad :-( go see a therapist it really helps! i've gone before!
kittykatz000000 on 10/21/2009 9:32:50 PM
Aww I'm really sorry. I hope everything works out.You should talk to a guidance counseler if you need to. : ) Best of Luck, nerdykitty97
nerdykitty97 on 10/16/2009 8:30:17 PM
1. Say your name 10 times. 2. Say your mom's name 5 times. 3. Say your crush's name 3 times. 4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN.
abby777 on 10/16/2009 6:13:46 PM
Aww! I feel so bad for you. This is what your other friends are for. don't be afraid to lean on them and maybe they can help you get through this. good luck with everything!
bluedogn14 on 10/15/2009 7:44:08 PM
I can totally understand how you feel! I guy that i had grown up with who was like my brother died the 3rd of September. He was hit by a car and I had to go through all the sadness and visiting the house and everything. I learned that you should apreciate everyday like its your last, always talk with old friends, and love everybody around you. <3 <3life<3
<3life<3him on 10/15/2009 4:10:41 PM
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fluffy kittenz on 10/15/2009 4:00:07 PM
Just take it a day at a time. It sounds cheesy, but you deserve a round of applause for even getting out of bed in the morning.
exuberant_emily on 10/15/2009 7:22:25 AM
Aww! id go crazy if i evr lost my bff!
cjlizzy on 10/14/2009 7:56:29 PM
That's really sad,and I'm so sorryIf my BFF died I would probably never see daylight again!But try making new friends.They will never replace your BFF,but it can make you happier.And just try to remember all the good times and that it was a blessing to get to know an awesome girl like her. You'll be OK
actress96 on 10/13/2009 8:26:49 PM
omg thats soo sad1 im kinda in a similar sitch. My BFF's mom has cancer and its really bad. im soooo upset cuz her mom is like a second mom to me and i luv her.
alexislulu101 on 10/13/2009 4:56:51 PM
Oh my gosh , I am so sorry. That is SO sad. If one of my bffs died i would be SO depressed.
Maddyrox92 on 10/13/2009 4:54:48 PM
oh and the group of kids that died were boys
laughOUTloud4 on 10/13/2009 4:25:34 PM
I feel so sorry for you. I have no idea what would happen if that happened to me. A somewhat-similar situation happened to a nearby school, where a group of 4 best friends died in a car crash, on the way back from seeing a movie they really wanted to see. I have no idea what I'd do if anyone from my school died. I will be praying for you. Hang in there...
laughOUTloud4 on 10/13/2009 4:25:13 PM
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lasagna on 10/13/2009 4:02:42 PM
Awh wow I feel so bad for you! I can't imagine what I'd do if my BFF died I'd probably go crazy and be sent to a mental hospitol. But yeah go see ur school counselors for support Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!
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